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I know there's probably a ton of questions out there like this, but i'm gonna ask it anyway. I love this guy to death and he's my friend. He just broke up with his g/f whom he was obsessed with. I don't really know how to get things going. He's absolutely amazing, and i'd do almost anything to be with him. Any advice? (link)
Yes...Don't rush it becuz it'll seem like you wanted them to break up and you're being unsupportive. Take it slow and start to flirt with him a little bit more than you used to becuz of his gf. Maybe see if you could go to the movies sometime or go to the mall. Act casual when you say this tho cuz well...I woudn't wanna act all nervous when i asked.
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i have been on and off with this boy lets call him bob 4 da past 3 or 4 years, and over the years we have fallen inlove. we used to not go to the same school and we had a great relationship until i moved away. wen i moved back i started going to his school and once again we started dating. there has been alot of drama and we have broken up alot of times but we are still inlove. we have both dated defferent people but we still always go back to eachother. i just started dating this new guy lets call him billy. well billy an i dated once b 4 but i dumped him to get back with bob. well just a few nights ago bob tryed 2 get with me but i said no, even though i like billy i love bob, but i just donr want to do thid 2 billy again. last time billy's sister(1 of my best friends) got really mad at me and we didnt talk 4 almost a month! so i dont know what to do...some one please help! i know this is long but i promis i will rate! (link)
If you are only dating Billy becuz of his sis then don't keep doing that..it's just running on false emotions which isn't good. If you really love Bob then i say go with bob. If you love both of them then you are going to have to see what qualities each guy has and pick the one with the better qualities. Even if it means choosing one guy over the other..that's realy the only way to go down to it. But pleez don't date billy just becuz of his sister. thats not a good thing to do. So just find the better guy with the better qualities and i really hope it works out for u.
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I am having a sleepover next weekend and i was going to invite one of my best friends but she has been really mean to me.She has been telling me to shut up and to leave her alone.Should i invite her to my party or not be friends with her? (link)
If she keeps it up with the name callin and tellin you to shut up..then i wouldnt invite her to your party. Maybe she's going through something but if it's making you feel bad then i woudn't put up with it. Tell her how you feel about her right now and maybe she'll stop. But if she doesnt' then i don't think you should invite her..i know i wouldnt.
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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!! (link)
You can hang pictures of celebrities on your walls and put beads on your door. She could put the horse models away so you don't have to see them. you could put posters of something cool on your wall also..seeing as it's not paint.
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what are some good fonts for aim?? i have book antiqua now, but its getting boring (link)
I like Century Gothic...it's pretty cool. Then again I like Arial too.
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Ok, I have a b/f and I luv him very much, but I dont know if he luvs me. One day he says he does, but hen the next...He says that he hates me. He breaks up with me and gets mad at me for no reason, but he has anger problems like his mom and older brother. Every time he breaks up with me, I take him back! Every time he breaks up with me, i try to tell myself not to go back out with him, but i always do. We *r* goin out now but should I break up with him? I just dont wanna get hurt.
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If you keep finding yourself getting hurt becuz of this guy...then i don't really know if he's right for you. Maybe he could go see somebody to help him with his anget issues,but right now..i don't know if it's the right time for you guys to be going out.And you probably will want to ask him if he feels the same way about you that you feel about him, becuz if he doesn't love you..then there's really no point in him going out with you. If your bf says he hates you every other day..then well..yea i don't really think that he's right for you. If you could ask him to go see somebody like your skool counselor or a physicologist,then things might get better. But until then you might want to cut him off. I'm sorry if this isn't exactly what you wanted but i really really did try.
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I am CRAZY for someone who does not like me because im to brunnet for him! Can u believe that all u brunnets out there?! It drives me CRAZY! I just need to kno wat to do i mean do i die my hair BLONDE or wat. I would do that but brown is my color!
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lovely brunnet (link)
If brown is your color then stick with it. Don't just go dye your hair for a guy. What if you really don't look good with blond hair? If brown is your true color don't change it for some guy. He's not worth you!!!! looks shouldn't even be part of it!!! and no matter how harsh the blond jokes get i know that they're not true..seeing as i'm blonde. You can't be too blonde or too brunnette..it's just impossible, and no i cant believe that jerk would say that.He might be a realy sweet guy but saying that you're too brunette is just stupid. Don't go and dye your hair for him please. By then he'll probably say you're too blonde so..yea. Be yourself.
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well i like this girl and she said she likes me to but she said she also likes 3 other guys at the same time but she wants 2 go out with me. should i wait until she just likes me or ask her out now?
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If you date her right now then she is still going to be thinking about 3 other guys while she's with you. Her feelings for you aren't 100% so if she fully likes u and only you...then i guess it would be ok but i'd make sure that she still doesnt like those 3 other guys first.
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ok how do i put music on my site and a new background cuz mine sucks!!! thanks (link)
The way you put music on it is by going to www.starlightmks.com and go to the thing that says music and then pick a song that u want. The backgrounds...there is a link on the side of the editing page and it says page backgrounds..just clik on it and it'll give u a lot of backgrounds.
.::*hope i helped*::.

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I feel like I'm missing out on LIfE. I am 199 lbs and I'm in the sixth grade, like you. I feel left out to all the other girls who are toothpicks, and i am just a breadstick. Sure, I'm awesome at chess and stuff, but no one will play me because of my armpits. Which leads me to my next topic. I have horrible B.O. and i can't move out of the house to get deoderant. And plus, they're hairy beasts. I named them, fuzzy and Bob. But you didn't need to know that but anyway, is there a way to improve my hygiene and lose the chunks?
Signed,
Obese B. Smelly (link)
Ok..this is hard but i'll do my best. Seeing as youre 199 pounds...you might want to cut off the junk food and try to eat healthier foods such as a salad or some fruit to go with a healthy lunch or dinner. And you could also excercise by running a little bit everyday and do some crunches or sit ups daily that would really help. That's awesome that you're good at chess...but you should try to get in something active too. And the BO thing...umm...you don't need to move out of the house to get deodorent.just ask your mom if she can go pick up a couple of sticks when she does her grocery shopping. And you could just as well ask her for a razor to shave your armpits or something becuz well sorry...but naming your armpits probably isn't the best thing to reveal to the world.[[lol]]
.::*hope i helped*::.

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well theres this girl that i have gone out with before and she broke up with me and now she likes me again but she has brokin my heart more than once should i ask her out?
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Ok..If you really feel something special towards this girl then i think you should go for it. But if you are just going to ask her out becuz u need a girlfriend..well..that's another story. Maybe she just needed some time to see if you were the guy she wants and perhaps you are..and she really needs you now. But maybe she is desperate and is planning to walk all over u like a doormat. She could be fooling you into it just so she can have a bf. But if you really feel something with this girl and you might wanna ask her if she is really wanting to go out with you...then i say...go for it.
.::*hope i helped*::.

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what is an aviator? or the aviator? something of the sort... someone said it and i feel like an idiot (link)
It's somebody that flys a plane. And there is a movie by Leonardo DiCaprio and it's called the Aviator. He flys a plane in the movie...so basically the pilot.

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My friend and I are going to dress up as a nerd/geek for twin day at our school. We can't decide what to wear. So far we have black glasses with tape, and suspenders that have Ninja Turtles on them and another one has Spider man on them. What else should we wear. We are girls so not "guy" type of stuff. (link)
Ok..those are some good ideas to dress up..some other ideas are put a pony tail on the side of your head. or put it in pig tails really really high on your head. Some shoes you should wear are the ones with velcro and they look really old. wear pants with no flare and that have a really ugly color. and when you do your hair try to put it in a straightener to make it looked frizzed. Some shirts are the ones with cats and dogs on them that look like they were made for a two year old but they acually fit you, you kno?
.::*hope i helped*::.

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i cry all the time. and im sick of it. i wish i could stop but i cant, i dont know what to do. i want it to be so that i dont cry at all. or not every day atleast. i feel so weak and helpless when i do. is there any way for me to stop or am i just stuck with it forever? i know this is a stupid question to ask but i really need help with this... (link)
Ok..this is kind of hard but i'll do my best. When you cry..there is usually a reason. So you might wanna talk to somebody about it like the school counselor or a physcologist or something like that. but if there isn't any reason...then it maybe u just need to get something out of your system...so crying is good sometimes just cry to cry. i've done that before but i dont do it all the time. So you might wanna talk to somebody about it like the ones i mentioned earlier.
.::*hope i helped*::.

XoO Sammie Xo


What are some cool stuff to do on the weekends? me and my friends need more cool things to do.
thanks in advance. (link)
Omg there is a ton of stuff to do on the weekend!!! Ok...you can have some friends spend the night at your house and have a sleepover. Or you can just have one or two friends come over and chill. You and your friends could go see a movie together or chill at the mall[[who doesn't like the mall???]] Or you guys could go to a high school baseball or football gameat your local high school. It's really fun if you've never been to one. Or you could go over to a friend's house that lives in your neighborhood and wave at the cars that pass by!! [[that's alwasy fun!!!]] Another thing you could do is like go rollerblading or bowling or something like that.[[bowling is always fun]] So....
.::*I hope I helped you out*::.

XoO Sammie Xo




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