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ok theres this boy who lykes me but has a girlfriend. . . . . ? yeah lmfao i really lyke him too but yeah i dont wanna lyke slipt them up soo what nowwwwwww? (link)
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just split them up if he likes u and u like him go for it
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ok im 14 and i weigh 140 i feel so huge but evryone tells me im skinny i am 5'6 1/2 why cant my friends just tell me " im fat" it would make me feel better lol (link)
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ur not fat it seems like a norlmal weight because your pretty tall
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ok.... i met this guy in a diff state n now we talk all the time n he ses im a diff from all the gurls n ther is no 1 like me how do i kno if hes 4 real or if hes jz sayin all this shit so he knoz 4 sure hes gettin sum next year... (link)
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maybe he does think ur cool but it kinda sounds like hes just trynna get down ur pants.. maybe im wrong tho
xOx* kandiie
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Ok the thing is that whenevr my question is answered I give the answerer full five points but people rarely ever rate me!!Is my advicing so bad??
By the way my advice column is butterfly004.
*~~Kariena~~* (link)
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i always give a 5 to people who answer my ?'s and no one ever rates me either =[
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My boyfriend has been smoking pot for a few years now.. and we just hooked up a lil over a month ago. I have already talked to him about it.. and he lied to me and said he quit. Then one night I was with him and he was hittin pot again.
Is there any way I can talk to him or convince him to quit or even lay off of it a lil bit without him getting mad at me? (link)
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if he is really addicted he might get mad if u talk to him about it.. i had a friend who smoked all the time b/c he was unhappy but i talked to him about it and i told him how much i cared about him and that if he keeps smoking he has higher chances of dying young.. and he quit. tell your boyfriend ur worried about him and that u dont want anything happeneing to him since u care about him. good luck!!
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CaNdAcE* okay i have 2 questions for you!!
#1. if you have a itch do you itch it or sratch it or itch it.
#2. you kno if you chinese its chink.. but if you japenese is it called a jink ?
lol LoVe aLwAyS yOuR bEsT fRiEnD KrIpPlE kIm =] (link)
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lmfao Kim.. u SCRATCH UR ITCH!! n ur #2 ?.. kim you should know..!! haha
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CANDACE IS A HOTTIE! (link)
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thanx!
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r u wearin any like shorts or sumthin in that picture (link)
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haha yea i am u just cant see them
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hey i need some advice on becoming frendz with n old frend again u c she was the first person i meet wen i moved here and now we barley even talk i miss her alot but i dont kno how we could u kno like become frendz again so ne advice would help thnx (link)
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maybe u can tell her how u feel and ask her why u guys drifted apart. tell her u miss all the old times u had with her and u really wanna b friends with her again. im sure she'll listen to u and take it into consideration. good luck i hope u guys become friends again!!
xOx* kandiie
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Ok well i dont really know where to start... Well as a kid me n my father seemed to get along ok he took me places ocasionally here n there, normal father things, but as i grew up it seemed everything changed he grew yo have such anger towards me. He tells me im worthless, i dont deserve the things he pasy for, and he has hit me and my sister... I do talk back and i do raise my voice at him when he "jokingly" annoys me with his little things like he yells out stuff and he like "play" hits me n the head when im trying to do stuff. But i dont feel that gives him the right to treat me the way he does. He tells me i have no respect... like he has ne respect for me at all. I just dont get it. My mom doesnt even love him... i know it. He does to her what he does to me, except he would nvr hit her. Maybe you could help me out n give me advice on wut to do, Cuz these 14yrs of my life wont b messed with by that asshole whos only my father gentically... Nvr a father in heart. (link)
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well.. maybe you your sister and ur mom could all get together and talk about going to family counseling and find out why ur father grew to have so much anger. its not right that he is hurting you and your family, and if it gets really bad, u need to tell the police cuz no person has the right to do that to u or anyone else. ill keep thinking of ways to help u and feel free to ask me anything anytime
xOx* kandiie
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Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.
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2 of my friends were raped..one of them told a counsler and she is doing much better now. something so tradgic as that can scar u for life. try telling someone in ur family or a neighbor even a friend. and then u take him to court because what he did wasnt right at all. if u want to have sex with ur bf go right ahead.. but tell someone about what happened.. hope i helped hunny!
xOx* kandiie
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HELP! Can you delete a picturetrail album??? I dont wanna delete the whole thing.. just one album of it!! please help!!! FAST!!! (link)
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go to the album options and it should say delete
xOx* kandiie
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My mom is an alchoholic(or however you spell it) and she left my father a few years ago. She has been an alchoholic for as long as I cant remember and she has wrecked about 5 of our cars. She used to make me lie for her so my father wouldnt find out she had been drinking. I never told on my mother, because she convinced me that it was my father who was the problem. Whenever he found out about my mothers drinking, she would blame it on me and call me a bitch. I never blamed her, saying that it was the alchohol, and not her talking. She has been to jail twice, and also AA, which did nothing. After she left my father she took half of the money with her and ruined my chances for a good college.She still blamed my father. After that she got both a dog and a cat for me but was "keeping them for me" at her apartment. She lost both of them. She dated about 100 guys who she scraped up from the under belly of satan. (They were all the "one")she finally married one of the grungiest, who smelled of pot( she did drugs to.)then she skipped town after not showing up to court after a drug bust.We havent heard from her or her husband since. All of this almost killed me. She went from loving mother to a pot addict between jobs and under house arrest in a hotel. Its hard going day after day not knowing if your mother ids still alive, so please if anyone out there knows or knew a woman named Judy M. Flint ( maiden name Judith M. Daniel) please let me know? And if anyone has gone through something similar it would be great to talk to you. Thanks (link)
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i havent heard about your mom but i am very sorry. if i hear anything ill be sure to tell u. good luck!!
xOx* kandiie
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Okay well im 13 years old i am going to be turning 14 in aug. and i'm having a birthday party at my house w/ guys and girls and i have no idea what to do at the party does any one have any ideas? i have no swimming pool so can't swim please help thank you so much :) (link)
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im turning 14 in august too!! well.. at parties i go to, put on some music and people love to dance! expecially Juke!! turn the lights real low, or off, blast some music n people will do their own thing..
xOx* kandiie
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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~ (link)
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maybe u should try talking to him about the long distance thing and get his input on it. if he wants to then go for it! n yes it does really work with some couples. you just have to trust each other enough to stay faithful. who knows.. maybe u guys can visit each other!
xOx* kandiie
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ok, im a 12 year old girk and ive neva officially gone out with some1. well, this nice guy, whoz a grade older than me asked me out. well, i had known him 4 awhile and i thot he seemed like a great guy. well, i said yes, partly becauz i just wanted a boyfriend. now im not sure if i shud continue goin out with him. i mean, and i goin out with him 4 the wrong reasons. i just dont no. i think i shud continue goin out with him but wont other people in my grade think im weird if im goin out with an 8th grader? well, i dunno if i shud break up with him or just give it a try.... HELP!!! he also always acts shy around me, i try 2 get him 2 loosen up but he still acts weird. THANZ I RATE!!! *****:) (link)
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If you have feelings for this boy then you should continue going out with him. Just because he is a grade higher doesn't mean anything. If people make comments to you of your boyfriend because of your age difference they are probably just jealous. If you don't have feeling for this guy, and you are just going out with him to have a boyfriend, I think you should break up, or at least give him a try and get to know him . Let him know that you are there for him, and maybe he won't act so shy. I hope I helped you!
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