Well, my name is Tina, and I'm 13. I live in New York, and have been through so much and have been able to pull through. All my friends come to me for help when they have a problem, and my advice always seems to work. I hope I can help!
E-mail: Ricanatina@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Rochester
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
AIM: MiKiSsEsRsWeEt
Yahoo: Ricanatina
Member Since: January 1, 2005
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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!! (link)
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Hunnie slow your roll. You're only 13, and this will not last forever. And, seeing as how this is a long distance relationship, it won't work out since you don't see him everyday. Who knows what he could be up to? I think you should find someone in your area who you like, not someone long distance, because most long distance relationships, don't work out. Besides, you're only 13. Take your time, and don't do long distance. Also, your 13, you don't know what love is yet.
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i wrote a question earlier today picking in between parties. i picked to stay home with my boyfriend. he came over, and he was drunk. he's always a little mean when he's drunk. we got into this huge fight about nothing and we broke up. i started bawling and he said i was overreacting. i haven't stopped crying since 11:30 and i can't stop. i feel worthless and stuff because everytime we fight, it's my fault. what can i do to get over him because i won't stop having feelings for him? and what can i do to stop this feeling of worthlessness? please help me. i can't stop crying (link)
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Awww hunnie don't cry! He was drunk, and half the things people say when the're drunk, they don't mean. When he's sober, talk to him about it, and see what he has to say. Eventually, he'll realized he made a mistake. Hunnie, don't put this on your shoulders, because this is not your fault. You should've made it clear in the beginning, if he wanted to keep you, he needed to stop drinking. If he didn't make the promise, he obviously wasn't good enough for you. I hope I helped!
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i have a huge zit in between my eyes....is there anything i can do or put on it to make it go away really quick?!?!...like in a day?!?!...thanks so much!!! (link)
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Hey. There are a lot of zit creams that will take it away fast. But you need to make sure you're not allergic to it, or things will get ugly! When I have a sit, I put pressure on it, and it makes it smaller, and go away faster. Try that! Maybe it'll work. Anyways, I hope I helped.
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I don't have any guts when it comes to dumping a guy. Well.. OK I must admit this is my first time and we never went out on a date. I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. So, do you think it is ok to write a note to the guy I want to dump and say I don't want to be in a relationship? Or, does anyone know another way where I don't have to talk to him face-to-face. Or, do I have to talk to him like that! PLease help! (link)
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Awww hunnie. I've been in this position plenty of times. It seems you're not ready for a commitment, which is understandable. Tell him face-to-face. It's better, and writing notes will make him think you were too shy. Which you are, but it's better to be face-to-face because it shows you were strong. Tell him that you're not ready for a commitment, and you want to try again some other time. I hope I helped!
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theres a guy, and he keeps on lying to me!! i really want to confront him w/o being mean, but it needs to stop!! I'll rate HIGH for good answers!! (link)
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Awww, this position is awkward and bad. I've been in it before, and it was hard. If I was you, I would say "Please stop lying to me, because it hurts, and doesn't make me want to be your friend." And, if he doesn't understand, he's obviously not worthy of friendship, or your time. I hope I helped.
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How do you get over a hangover? (link)
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There are special pills you take before you drink, or before you go to bed, and it prevents hangovers in the morning. I'm not sure what it's called, but I think it's called "Chaser" or something like that. I hope I helped some.
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me and my girl are realy close but lately about 3 other girls have been hitten on me. including like my best friend. i dont know how 2 let them down couse ive told them i have a girl
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I think you should tell your friend, and the other girls to step down. I mean, I know you don't want to be rude to a girl, or anything, but they're hitting on you, and you want it to stop. Explain to them that it cannot continue because you're doing just fine with your girlfriend, and it needs to end, because you have someone you're happy with. Hope I helped.
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Well, I got into a fight with my friend , shes been my friend since 1st grade. and i'm in 9th grade now. I got into a fight with her because she gave my purse to someone without asking me, and she wouldn't tell the person to give it back. so i said until she gives it back im not talking to you. she started flipping out swearing, calling me fat and ugly and i couldn't get a boyfriend. THEN, i was going to forgive her until she told my other ex-friend marie that i talk about her all the time, and told her everything i said about her (which was true), but i don't think she should do that, i can't trust her or anything . i don't think i can forgive her.. what would u do?! (link)
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Well sweetie. Your "dear" friend, is a two-faced witch. 1. She took your purse, and gave it to another person without asking. 2. Told another girl, every little thing you said about her that was bad. 3. Called you ugly, fat, and swore at you. If you ask me, she's a pretty bad friend, and I would tell her the friendship is off, because from what I can see...You can obviously do better in the friends category. Besides, people who do that, are not your friends. You can talk to her about it, but she's still really two-faced. I wouldn't be her friend after that. I hope I helped.
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I am a 15/female and am redoing my bedroom (besides my furniture.) The furniture I currently have is like a beige color. My carpet is also beige and my walls are bare and white. My room is fairly large. Right now the design is like roses, but not cute ones, like old lady roses. I want to make the room more teenagerish, less my parents designing it when I was in second grade. Please, any ideas for my room or if you are a teenage girl, could you tell me what your room is like. All advice would be enjoyed! Thank you!! (link)
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Hey hun! My room is purple, and it's got hardwood flooring, and a little rug over certain spots. I have a daybed, and a desk. You should get posters, or make your room another color, because color definitely makes a room more you! You should also get more things like a teddy bear or 2, or other little cute things like that. Or, you could look at your friend's rooms, and ask them, maybe they know and can help! I hope I helped.
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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!! (link)
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Oh my gosh. Hunnie! Of course you girls are still virgins. A virgin is a person who has never experienced sexual intercourse before. You're a lesbian.
Hope I helped.
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I need a way to dump this guy im going out with but like not, its not you, its me thing cuz thats soooo old, anyway..just plz ill rate high if you give me a way to dump him and i just wanna it to be the way it was were we were good friends..but i odnt want it to change when i dump him and i dont want him to hate me!
Thanx in advance
xoxo
-confused (link)
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Awww hunnie. I've been through this before, and yeah it's really tough to tell someone you just want to be friends, without hurting their feelings. I suggest, just saying "I want to be friends because a relationship of something more feels weird, and I liked it better when we were friends." And, if he's the friend you think he is, he'll understand. If not, he wasn't a very good friend after all. Hope I helped!
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