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I have a huge problem.
Last night, I went over my boyfriend's house.
While I was there .. I ended up giving him a hickie.
His parents saw it but they dont care. But how can I make it so noone else notices it?
How long does it take for them to go away? (link)
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A trick i know is to put a metal spoon in the freezer....take it out after about an hour and hold it over the hickey. If your bf doesnt care, you could also put coverup over it. ♥ caitie
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hii! well today for the first time i tried putting a tampon in..i think its tampax pearl or something like that..and im not sure if i should like wear pads still to school or try to keep using tampons..because it took me awhile to get it in..since it was my first time..but then im scared that i wont be able to put it in again in school..but tampons are sooo much nicer! also the only scary thing is my period is SOOO heavy..its unbelieveable and i cant use the super absorbant ones because my mom only bought the regular ones and then since i just started using then i dont wanna start withh the super ones..i wanna try and get use to them! i think it would be easier on me for gym class..rather than using a pad im just scared that it will leak..since its super heavy and im using a regular tampax..and that if i have to change it during school..i willbe late to class and i wont be able to get it in..what do u think i should do?? because i like tampons alot..its like you dont even have your period! ahh im soo confused..any help?? suggestions?? what would u do?..thanks!! (link)
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Sorry it took so long for me to get back to you....first off i know exactly what you mean..tampons are WAYY better lol! Well since you just started you dont want to use supers yet...first get used to tampons...alot of girls have trouble the first few times...but dont worry..for me i had no trouble at all so try putting one in again nd you'll get the hang of it. You could be having problems beacause of the position your in. The easiest way for me to put one in is to take my pants all the way down and then stand with my legs way apart....some girls do it sitting down but I find standing the easiest. Also make sure you push it in until your fingers are touching you...because the first few times when i put tmapons in i didnt realize i wasnt putting them in far enough and I would start feeling really uncomfortable down there. Now the issue of leaking...since you dont wanna use supers yet...wear regulars but also wear a thin panty liner...they're way better than pads...and thats what i use if I'm worried. Once you get used to tampons...try buying tampons that are made for juniors....they have all the sizes but they make the applicators a little skinnier...they're especially made for girls who have just started. You wanna get a skinnier tampon because your still very tight down there...but if you wanna go straight for the normal supers go for it...you might have trouble pushing in the tampon the 1st time though, but take your time and relax and it will go in...and once you get it in the first time..you wont have any problems in the future! Well good luck! ♥ caitie
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what is the difference between jail and prison? (link)
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Jail is for a short term stay, for ex. a criminal gets arrested and is waiting for his/her court hearing or when somegets arrested for a small offense and have to sepnd the night in jail.Wjile prison is for long term staya have a criminal has been sentenced. Hope I helped! ♥ caitie
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I have this pimple like bump on my vagina. But it's not a pimple it's hard. And I have never had sex, so I have no idea what it could be. It just showed up like five minutes ago. Anyone know what it could be? (link)
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Well if you shave than it's most likely razor burn which is harmless. It could also be a sweta bump, from it being hot or you've been active lately. If it doesn't go away within a few days you should definitly get it checked out, but I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Theres this guy I've had my eye on for awhile and we hungout this weekend . My friends say that he likes me because of the way he acts when hes around me, but hes been known to be a "player" (That hes gotten with alot of girls, not that he cheats or anything) Well, I cant stop thinking about him. I really want to go out with him but he wont make the first move and neither will I. My friend says he could make him ask me out, but if we did go out I would only see him every other weekend since his parents are divorced and he lives in a different town. I dont know wether to wait untill the chance is right and ask him out, wait for him to do something or to not even bother since it'd be a distant relationship (sorrta) Any advice from either gender would be great, thanks. f/14 (link)
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Well next time you hang out you should be like hey do you wanna go to the movies tomorrow or somehting lke that...and be like ok well heres my number call me...that way he'll have your number and you guys can start talking ont he phone. It's a good ay to get to know someone, trust me. Then see what happens from there. Good luck!! ♥ caitie
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my bf and i have always got along and always had fun well today he told me he hated me and walked away nd i asked him if he was breaking up with me he said no B*tch i was uhh i am soo confused was he showing off for some reason and then i called him he was like hello whos this i was like your gf he was like oh and it was silent i was like well why are you being mean to me he hung up soo I IMED him and he blocks me but i got on my old name and the thing in his info still says my name and now it says Ill love you forever and always babe you mean the world erg im soo confused
sorry its long =[
ill rate 5's !!! =] (link)
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Hey, wow I'm sorry but he should not be treating you like that at all! Write him a note in school that way he cant block you or hang up on you..or curse you out. Tell him how you feel and make it clear you dont understand why he is treating you like that! Maybe this his way of telling you he doesnt want a relationship anymore, but i dont know...all I know is if my bf talked to me like that I would slap him lol! Good luck! I hope everything works out! ♥ caitie
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I'm planning a party for my friends- guys and girls- and there's going to be dancing. Like you would dance at an actual school dance. Could anyone give me some really good slow and fast songs? That would be great. I need a ton. Thanks in advance. ♥
Jess (link)
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Well i dont know what type of music you listen to, btu I'll give a bunch of different songs.
1. Sadie Hawkin's Dance-Relient K
2. Shake That Laffy Taffy-D4L
3. Slow Jam- Usher
4. Back To One- Brian McKnight
5. Cha-Cha Slide- DJ Casper (i think)
6. Rompe- Daddy Yankee
7. Mix tape- Jacks Mannequin
8.Bedroom Boom- Avant, Ying Yang Twins
9.Yo- Chris Brown
10. Run It- Chris Brown
11. Da Dip= Freak Nasty
12. If It's Love That You Want- Rihanna
13. Jump- Triple J
14. Check Up On It- Beyonce
15. The Whistle Song- Juels Santana
16. Kryptonite- Purple Ribbon Allstars
17. Bring out The Freak In You- Lil' Rob
Well there's alot..I hope you like them!!
♥ caitie
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ohkay, so i just finished watching the movie Saw. The ending, all after the part where Adam listens to the tape player in the psyco guy's pocket .. the gguy that worked at the hospital(not the doctor)..it doesn't make sense. Would anyone mind explaing that to me? (link)
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The guy that worked at the hospital also got a tape recorder telling him what he had to do if he wanted to live..the physco told him to kidnap the doctors wife and children..and then kill them...so basically he was using the guy from the hospiatl as an accomplice by threatening him. I hope you get it now! ♥ caitie
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there is this girl at school that i really like. i want to ask her out but i don't know her that much.
what advice could you give me?
thanks (link)
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Well instead of just asking her out you should get to know her...either talk to her in person or right her a note saying...you think she's pretty (not hot, cuz pretty sound so much sweeter) and you'd really like to get to know her better. See what she said..if she does want to get to know you..invite her to the movies with some friends...so it's not really a date jsut hangin out. Good luck!! ♥ caitie
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i have a jelly belly and I wear baby-t's (the really tight shirts) and i wear tight hip huggers. my fat hangs out everywhere and the shirts are so tight you can just see all my rolls. i use to think i looked hot until all the popular girls and hot boys started teasing me,
calling me names like jelly rolls and chunky. im so upset about this! what should i do? i love wearing these clothes but i dont want to get made fun of. should i still wear these kinds of clothes or no? (link)
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I know what you're talking about because girls at my school dress like that..and 1st impression is...w0w why do they dress like that...no offense to you! Just telling you how it looks from another point of view...you cna still wear cute clothes that cover up your skin...honestly even when thin girls show their bellies it looks trashy...just get long shirts...or layer your clothes with long camis...you can find alot of those at Hollister. Also wear higher pants so your fat doesnt hang over....and if you wear longer shirts you wont have to worry about people knowing you're wearin high pants! Good luck! ♥ caitie
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is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old? (link)
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Definitly not..don't worry it's only a two year age difference...i mean it's not lik he's 25..then that might be a problem lol! Go for it and good luck!! ♥ caitie
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okay theres this bed thing & i meant to sit on the matress, missed and sat on this bar thing in the..wrong area. i was in so much pain i dont even know. ima girl but i totally missed & landed & it hurt so bad. i don't know if like..idk!! id feel stupid going to the gyno. er something its so embarrasing!! i was in so much pain though because i like hopped on it to juss sit down & do hw & totally missed!! what should i do??
thanks!! (link)
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Well it's sounds similar to what my friend did, except a surf board hit her there...what she did was apllied ice to it, and didnt walk around, pretty much just rested. Tell your mom what happend, and just keep ice on it..if the pain doesnt die down by tommorow go see a doctor because you could have damaged something. Oh I really hope everything is all good...and the pain goes away soon!! Good luck! ♥
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Hii! WeLl i just got my period like yesterday afternoon..and i was just wondering is it normal to feel like really fat? i mean like i know its called feeling bloaded but its not that i feel bloaded its that i feel fatter than usual and like im always hungry! but i like try and hold back because i feel so fat..and like i shouldnt eat! sorry if this is a stupid question.. (link)
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No it's not stupid question lol. It's normal..it's your hormones, all girls feel that way..why do you think super skinny girls are always like "OMG I am so effin fat!!" Dont worry..and you're always gonna have cravings to eat when you're on or near getting your period...it's ok to fall for some of them but try not to eat too much or you will gain weight. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Theres a new girl at my school; Lizzie.
She seemed really sweet and over the past 2 weeks we've become [ or so i thought ] great friends.
The first day she got here, she asked me like who are good people to hang around, who to trust/not trust, who the populars are, who would get you in trouble, and what our school is like.
I told her in my school you can't trust anyone. I told her about a girl on our Team that is so stuck up and self-concieted and thinks she popular [ and shes deff. not ]And I told her my opionion about other people too. Well Lizzie ran off and told all those people what I had said about them and how not to trust me. This made me mad cause she specificly asked about these people then stabbed me in the back by telling them my opionion about them.
I don't wanna confront her about it though; I'd feel so embarressed. What should I do? (link)
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Even though you don't want ot confront her, you should. Try writing her a note saying that you were just trying to help her adjust and going off telling people what was suppose to stay between you too..is not the way to make friends. Tell her you know it's gotta be hard switching to a new school but making enemies isn't going to make it easier. Be the mature one and she'll be put in her place. Who knows maybe she was just confused and didnt mean anything by it...and is still trying to make freinds...if she's not a total bitch to you..try being friendly. Good luck! ♥
caitie
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Okay see i have pretty brown eyes right, but then at the same time i want to wear make up...but not too much..and i want to wear make up but i don't want to look like a goth...I mean what should i wear?? (link)
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I recommend "Bring Out The Brown" by Almay...it's a set of eyeshsadow, eyeliner, and mascara..i have blue eyes and i use bring out the blue and it works great. hope this helps! ♥ caitie
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all girls at my school have this really cool hairstyle its like wavy andit looks like its hard. (the hair looks hard i mean) but ehir hair isnt wavy! how do i make that style with the wavy crispy hair lol. sorry if i'm confusing! (link)
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It's called scrunching. It's pretty easy a slong as your hair isn't too long or thick. When you get out of the shower..towel dry your hair..then take curling meusee...or gel..or hairspray or all of the above nd put it in your hair. Take your hair into your hand nd grip it tightly (aka scrunch your hair in your hands) hold it for about 15 secs. then move onto another section of hair. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help. (link)
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it's called discharge..and it's perfectly normal. It means you started puberty...it's basically your vagina cleaning itself out. Ya sounds pretty nasty lol...but you'll get used to it! ♥ caitie
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idk if this goes here, but ive been getting discharge for about 3/4ths of a year and i havent gotten my period yet. i understand that period times are variable but everyone says that when u get discharge you should get your period soon, but yeah i just need some opinions. (link)
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Well, it really depends. Discharge just means you started puberty..like your gonna start having growth spurts...you may or may not get your period soon. Take it from me..I started getting discharge the summer after 3rd grade..and I didn't get my period until the summer after 6th grade. But some of my friends got their period's like 6 months after discharge started...so sorry but I can't say whether you're going to get it soon. But good luck for when it does come!!! ♥ caitie
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I missed this past episode of The O.C.
Does it rerun any time? If so what day and what time?
Thanks so much! (link)
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The only time episodes replay is when the show is on a break...but I'll give you a link to the site where you can read a detailed recap..that's what I do when I miss an episode!
http://www.fox.com/oc/recaps/
Hope that helps!! ♥ caitie
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How old Should a child be when they start dating? (link)
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Well, there is no right age. It's all abotu the child's maturity level. I see nothing wrong with letting a child date in elementarty, because it's purely just fun...in middle school it gets a littly more serious, but telling the child not to date, is not going to stop them. So I think the parent should be open with the child about dating, and not judgemental. Hope this helps! ♥ caitie
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