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I waxed my eyebrows and took some skin off instead. What can I put on it so it will stop burning?
I waxed them yesterday and now it's starting to hurt.

How long will it take to heal? (link)
why the hell would you wax your eyebrows?


http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=443468 was my last question talking about this topic.

Anyways, today, Jeff acted like he liked me. Like, he sat by me at lunch again, and complimented me on my new a-ar shirt. Then, some girl said something and I hit her in the butt with my agenda and then he was like "ooo hittt me laurie!" and of course we all laughed and stuff. Then, during science class, this kid took my glasses and I was like "STEVEN GIVE THEM BACK!" and jeff was like "o0o Laurie looks SEXYYY without her glasses on," smiling and all, and the other guys at the table nodded their heads haha. idk. it just seems like he gives me mixed signals.
and then, I talked to Ginger about it, and she said she didn't mind at all, because just today she started going out with this other guy.

So, NOW what do you think about him liking me?
=] Thanks. (link)
umm i think he likes you but
dosen't know how to say it.

or

he just likes making fun of you.


What's your name?? (link)
holly why.


what is some good cardio that you can do to lose a few pounds, that you can do every day. besides swimming because i dont have a pool and i can't run long distances,i hate it. i ride my bike about a mile some days, but that's getting boring. thanks xo (link)
do things you and your friends can do together
like roller skating
soccer
tag
squirt gun fight.

bikeing
dancing
just being activly silly.


im not so sure how to talk to a guy. im gonna be a sophmore this year and im switching schools. there was no problem at my old school because i knew everybody since Pre-K. but im prob gonna see a guy i like and wanna go talk to him but wont be so sure how to. no scratch all of that. how do i talk to anyone i dont know. im afraid im not gonna have friends too. im not a shy person on friends but i dont know how like the girls are. mean snobs or whatever. i really dont have any prob with girls just guys. at my old school everybody pretty much liked everybody wasnt really any mean person. just like the same. i would like to make new friends though. am i just supposed to go up and say hi and talk to him and be like im new here and what if he is a jerk or something and like does somethin mean or whatever. now at my other school i would just do it but then again i knew him and like what he liked or whatever. i just dont know how to handle new ones. it would be nice if i could like learn how to get him to like walk me to class or sit with me at lunch but... any ways please give me good answers. most of the time they arent that great. thank you to anyone who helps. by the way i start next week. (link)
well about guys
guys like girls who are confident and cool
girls they can chill around.
if you see a guy you wana talk to
but don't know what to say and new kid stuff.
like were's the office or can you help me find
my locker

or hey do you know where mrs. blablabla's class is.

you know new kid stuff.


Does nicotine effect body development. I think I'm too short for my age and my doctor said that i should wait till I'm 20 before I start working out because it slows down your growth. I'm wondering if smoking also slows down my growth. Please respond with any imformation. Thank You! (link)
smoking slowes growth and
turned your skin eye balls and teeth yellow.
makes you smell.
makes you really wrinkily
rotten teeth
bad liver black lungs.
bad heart.
and mane cause of early death in america.


Well, I'll just let you know what's going on, then I'll tell you the story:
I just started going to a new school last week and met some people. Two of my best friends at that school are named Ginger and Jeff. They used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but aren't anymore. Ginger still kinda likes him, and Jeff told me that he kinda likes Ginger. I like Jeff, but no ones know.

Well,
At lunch today, Jeff came & sat down by me, & we started talking. Then, this kid named Ralfie comes up & loudly yells "LAURIE [me], DO YOU LIKE JEFF?" & of course, I was like "No..." & Jeff was just sitting there, laughing a bit to himself. Ralfie yells again, "LAURIE!!! DO YOU LIKE JEFF???" & I was like "NOOO!!!" & as he was walking away, he yelled over his shoulder, "YALL SHOULD GO OUT!" I turned back around to Jeff, & he was just sitting there, kinda smiling. & All I said was, "That Ralfie kid is weird." & continued eating my lunch. I turn to where Ralphie & his friends are sitting, & hear "Jeff was probably like 'HELL NO' hahaha".
Then, this girl named Tiffany [who really likes jeff] calls me over to her side of the table & loudly asks "Do you like Jeff?? You can tell me!!" & I look over to Jeff, & he was looking directly at me - hearing the question. & Of course I said "No!!!." I went back over & sat with Jeff. We didn't say anything the rest of the lunch period.
Now, today [when all this happened] Ginger was absent, so she doesn't know about this. If me & Jeff were EVER to go out, I'm not sure how she would take it. So I have a few questions:

1. Does Jeff like me?
2. What did those boys mean by "Jeff was probably like 'HELL NO' "
3. What about Ginger? =[

help (link)
well

hmmm. 1. i think he kinda likes you but sence you thold ralf no he thinks your a nogo.
but he would proly go with you if you wanted him to.

2.those boys were just making fun of you.

3.ginger will proly be laughing at you.
of corse she dosn't know you like jeff.
but if you to dated i think she would be miffed at frist but then go along but still feel bad inside.


There is this one kid from my school who is going to the same high school as I am and I want to give him a chance there but we kind of had a rough end to our 8th grade year and he really hurt me. I still kind of like him, do you think a relationship in hs is worth it or should i move on? (link)
dear crazy love struck teen.

ok you need help
if you date a guy that is going to hurt or has
hurt you.

it's just self inflictid pain
but if you really want to i think slaping
your arm will sufice.


i have my first gyno visit in a few days..can someone tell me anything about it and is it painful cuz im sorta nervous (link)
well i'm not shure what a gyno is
but if it's your period
it isn't to bad you may get stomach ackes
and a bad mood and be really self conshuse.
but it isn't really as bad as people say.


14,f, my ex boyfriend, who i still kind of have a thing for, basically told me that he still loves me on AIM. and i was really flattered and all, but he has a girlfriend that he's been going out with for 2 weeks. and a while ago he told me he had a major crush on her, and then one day he asked her out and turns out she liked him too. so now i feel really bad that he's kind of, well, trying to cheat on his girlfriend or whatever by telling me he loves me, well actually i dont know what hes doing by telling me this, and i wouldnt want him to do that to me with some other girl. i really dont know what to say to him and when he wrote me that on aim i just told him i had to go and signed off. havent talked to him since. i really like him but still i would hate him if he told another girl he loved her if he was with me. so i'm basically asking if i should like him or not -- i mean, i really do..i think about him more than anyone and he was always faithful to me when we were together and he was just the perfect boyfriend..but then i broke it off because i wasnt ready to have a steady realtionsip back then but now i am. help??? (link)
you want to know what i would do.

be like awawawa i love you to.
you'r like family to me.

or

i love you to

call me when she dumps you.


both are garented to eather confuse him
or make him mad and embarrassed


Before I go to school I wash my hair, face, apply deoderant, and brush my teeth. However, when I got home today my hair was oily, my face looked disgustingly greasy, my teeth were yellow (I just got braces, it totally makes them look gross now) and my deoderant was wearing off.

What should I do, I looked horrible, and my make up was all gone! I don't have much time inbetween classes (1-2 minutes) So I can't run to the bathroom and wash up. Thanks so much! (link)
take a shower after gym class?


Well, i have a problem that not even my friends can help me with without everyone thinkin im sorta slutty but here it is. ive liked these two guys for 3 years now, but the problem is their best friends.. i think one of them might like me and the other one im pretty sure does but i have no clue which one to lean towards more.. its probally hard for anyone to help but if you can please do
- confused (link)
well that's an easy one.
except for the best friend part.

ask you'rself these questions and the one who gets more gets you.

1.who is nicer

2.who is funnyer

3. who is more into sports

4.who can throw you over his shoulder and run around like an idot. with out being embarrased
later.

5. who can you out run.

6 who will run to catch you.

7 who is single.


If you're wearin a condom and you cum and it goes into the woman is it possible to get pregnet? (link)
i wouldn't know

but i hope not
cause if it is what is there purpose
other than blowing them up like balloons and
hitting people with em,


My 50-something year-old boyfriend lives in a household with his 80+-year old mother and a brother, also in his 50's. Last year his 50+ year old sister moved in with her daughter (his niece) and the daughter's 3 year-old son. (The niece has four other children who reside elsewhere.)

Recently, the niece moved out to live with a man but did not take the child. Now the family is in an uproar, claiming they don't want to take care of the 3 year old left behind by his mom.

I don't plan to get personally involved because these are dysfunctional, toxic people with bad attitudes. He keeps asking me for advice on what to do with the child, and he's angry that the niece (who obviously has problems) has left them with her responsibility. He also doesn't want his sickly 80 year old mother involved in the day-to-day care of a 3 year old child.

I am worried about the long-term psychological effects on a child who's being rejected by both his mother, grandmother, his uncles, just because they are angry with the mother. What confusion that child must be feeling, with all the hostility around him and an absent mother (his father is in jail)! This is how criminals and serial killers are made...

I say the kid gets abused if they force the mother to take him, gets abused if he's forced into foster care by the state, gets abused if the family is forced to keep him when they don't want to.

Do I sit and watch this horror unfold, walk away from them all and/or secretly call the authorities? I just can't seem to turn my back on this child.... (link)
well i'm 13 so i don't really know about the kid.
but i think you should keep him or her little kids are adorable.

and a 50 year old man living with his mom still.
hahahahahahahahahaha

sorry but that's histaricle.


The guy I like said the song "The Adventure" by Angels and Airwaves reminds him of me. What does that mean? (link)
well all i can tell you is
that you need to listen to the song


So, my boyfriends b-day is coming up. He'll be turning 19. We've been dating for 3 mo. I'm 16. I have 60 bucks and no idea what to get him. I want to do something special...not just some random gift. My boyfriend loves music & plays guitar. He also used to do martial arts. Advice would be very much appreciated. :] (link)
i think you should get him a swank note book if
he writes his own songs.

or better yet hook him up with a gig.
at like a concert hall or a coffe house.

if you pay to get him a gig
don't offer all your money at once like at
first offer 30 than offer 60.
it'll work better that way.


I'm going on a date with this guy and I don't know what to do at the end of the date. You know nothing kiss on cheek, lips etc etc. Im 13 (link)
i'm 13 to hey small world
anyway if the date goes really well and your going out again i think a peack on the cheak
will suffice.
if you didn't like the date leave him cold.

kiss on the lips after the 3rd date.


ok so one of my best friends told me the other day that she is not returning to our school in september because she going to a new school. I was devastated and haven't stopped crying. I know we'll still be friends but its just going to be so weird not having her there in school and i'm going to miss her soo much. I thought i was handling it well but i realized im not. I hate her family and blame them for her switch of schools and i can't help but want her to be miserable at her new school. Is that too selfish of me? I just don't know how to handle it. I've been so emotional for the past week or two and i just don't know what to do. please help! (link)
i think your going to start your period.

as for the friend thing get email and phone all
the time.

and next year you'll make loads of new friends.


What's a good skin care ritual? Like what are some of your suggestions for products to use, when to use them and how to use them to prevent and treat acne without drying out your skin too much? Thanks in advance!!! (link)
i use this papia skin stuff that i got
in the health eyle of krogers.
it works for me.


Can anyone please tell me a bit about this disease. My ten year old daughter has just been diagnosed with it. She also has nocturnal epilepsy. Is there anything that I can do to help her? (link)
i got this from google.

Well I have been dealing with an impulse control disorder called Trichillomania. For those of you who don't know what that is, it's a disorder in which you have impulses to pull out your own hair. Well about a year ago I started pulling out my eyebrows, I have pulled them all out and they have been this way for that amount of time. I keep plucking them out every time a new one grows in. Well now I am in therapy for this and taking anti-depressant medication(Zoloft) which has helped the intensity go away to pull. Now my eyebrows are starting to grow back. It has taken them a week to finally start growing back without me touching them. I was wondering how long do you think it will take for them to be fully grown back in, and is there anything I can do to make them grow faster? Rogaine? I heard it works, but not so sure.






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