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*sigh* boys... [kinda long, but please help.]


Question Posted Monday August 7 2006, 5:00 pm

Well, I'll just let you know what's going on, then I'll tell you the story:
I just started going to a new school last week and met some people. Two of my best friends at that school are named Ginger and Jeff. They used to be boyfriend and girlfriend, but aren't anymore. Ginger still kinda likes him, and Jeff told me that he kinda likes Ginger. I like Jeff, but no ones know.

Well,
At lunch today, Jeff came & sat down by me, & we started talking. Then, this kid named Ralfie comes up & loudly yells "LAURIE [me], DO YOU LIKE JEFF?" & of course, I was like "No..." & Jeff was just sitting there, laughing a bit to himself. Ralfie yells again, "LAURIE!!! DO YOU LIKE JEFF???" & I was like "NOOO!!!" & as he was walking away, he yelled over his shoulder, "YALL SHOULD GO OUT!" I turned back around to Jeff, & he was just sitting there, kinda smiling. & All I said was, "That Ralfie kid is weird." & continued eating my lunch. I turn to where Ralphie & his friends are sitting, & hear "Jeff was probably like 'HELL NO' hahaha".
Then, this girl named Tiffany [who really likes jeff] calls me over to her side of the table & loudly asks "Do you like Jeff?? You can tell me!!" & I look over to Jeff, & he was looking directly at me - hearing the question. & Of course I said "No!!!." I went back over & sat with Jeff. We didn't say anything the rest of the lunch period.
Now, today [when all this happened] Ginger was absent, so she doesn't know about this. If me & Jeff were EVER to go out, I'm not sure how she would take it. So I have a few questions:

1. Does Jeff like me?
2. What did those boys mean by "Jeff was probably like 'HELL NO' "
3. What about Ginger? =[

help


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wally answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 3:28 am:
well

hmmm. 1. i think he kinda likes you but sence you thold ralf no he thinks your a nogo.
but he would proly go with you if you wanted him to.

2.those boys were just making fun of you.

3.ginger will proly be laughing at you.
of corse she dosn't know you like jeff.
but if you to dated i think she would be miffed at frist but then go along but still feel bad inside.

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Brittanyxo answered Tuesday August 8 2006, 12:23 am:
ok so this sounds pretty much the typical love story haa..

jeff could possibly be interested in you but you did say that he used to like ginger.. hes probally confused..

as for the boys saying that..boys will be boys
its possible that they were talking about something else. '

and as for ginger if she is your bestfriend she will understand that you like him and should be happy that you guys are going out...
hope i helped <3

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uisforukelele answered Monday August 7 2006, 9:10 pm:
1. i think jeff does like you. because he was smiling and not throwing a fit about the whole thing, it seems like he didn't disagree with what ralfie was saying (before the 'hell no' part)
2. i think that ralfie and his friends were talking either about if jeff likes you or if he would go out with you. ralfie and his friends seem like morons though, so don't pay attention to them.
3. if jeff likes ginger, then jeff likes ginger. but if he likes you and y'all go out with each other, then i think it would be polite to ask if it's ok with ginger. but right now, you don't really know what's going on so i'd wait it out if i were you. you might even want to try to talk to jeff about it, but if you don't then i'd wait it out and see what happens. usually, other people can tell who likes who... so i wouldn't be surprised if jeff likes you. anyway, i'd really just wait and see what happens. good luck and it sounds like jeff likes you :)

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royalprincess answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:08 pm:
um let me see as for jeff he might like you, you didn't say much to know if he really does like you or has a thing for you.

as for his friends sayin hell no that means that he proppally was sayin thatt cause i guess they think you are ugly and he don't like you

for ginger um if she still like him than she would obviusely get really mad or upset and if her and jeff still like each other than why de hell don't they get back together something wrong with them lol.

what color is this boy and what does he look like

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lilteacup answered Monday August 7 2006, 7:39 pm:
By the information you have provided, it is kind of difficult to decipher the entire situation.

I don't know if Jeff likes you, but his looking at you when you were asked if you liked him, shows his interest (but then again who wouldn't want to find out someone likes them).

The boys that you overheard, could have been talking about anything, you may have heard in the middle of something else they were saying. So that's hard to say.

As for your friend Ginger, in all fairness she did tell you she liked Jeff first, so I guess you'd have to see if anyone goes on between them. If Jeff does have feelings for you and he admits it to you, you need to make sure that you let Ginger know. She should be the first to find out everything, well if anything happens, you owe it to her.

For now, all I can say is wait it out...see what happens.

Good Luck,
Teacup

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Alwayshereforyou54 answered Monday August 7 2006, 6:49 pm:
then you should tell her you like him your friendship is more vauble then one guy

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