Hi, Im Sarah and Im 24 and Im married to a wonderful man! Together we have 3 kids together the first one was an "accident" as I was still in high school when I was 17. But she is now 7 and her name is Ashley Marie. Then I have a little boy who is 11 months and his name is Corey Logan. Then I am expecting the third in about a month!!! She is suppost to be a girl so her name will be Kelsey Anne. I graduated college from The University of Tennasee. I am a gymnastics coach and own 3 gyms. Then as a side job I train horses for all events. I got married on May 21, 2007!!! If you ever need help I can answer most any question... I am a been there done that type of person! I've learned from alot of mistakes too.
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15/f
ok well does it?i have morals and plan on saving myself until im married :D. i have had guys flirt with me and then see the ring on my finger and will be like oh? so do purity rings turn guys off? (link)
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To some guys yes it may turn them off, but those aren't the guys you want around. I'm very glad to hear that you have morals and don't wan't to have sex until after you are married! Some guys will turn away, but some guys have morrals too there not all bad lol but when there is a guy in your life that truely cares about you and loves you he will respect your wishes and dont give in try and keep you morals!!!
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I'd really appreciate answers from people who have actually BEEN pregnant, or are a nurse or something along those lines.
I'm not trying to say that other people don't know what they're talking about. I just need a REAL straightfoward answer, that isn't a bunch of myths.
Okay, I don't want to hear 'OMG YOUR SO STUPID!' Or any kind of lecturing. I know what I did was stupid, and irresposible. But, my and my boyfriend of 3 years recently had sex, it wasn't out first time together but it was our first time without a condom, and I'm scared I may have gotten pregnant. What I'm asking is simple:
What are the first signs of pregnancy, and when do they start? I can't rely on my period as one of them, bc that's irregular as it is. (link)
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Hey, the signs can be different for everyone.... I think I had one that was the same between all 3 of my kids. With all of them I started noticing things like my eating habbits changing and having headaches, about 2 and a half 3 weeks. I had morning sickness with 2 of them, different cravings for food with them, but I did have cravings with all. My mood started to change and I could be in a great mood then on the drop of a pin I would be being nasty to anyone in sight with my first. I started feeling more tired especially with the last two.... Most of this was in the first few months. Hope this helps, if you need anything feel free!
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What's a good cell phone service provider? I'm looking at ones like Sprint, AT&T, T-Mobile, Verizon or other major ones.
I share a T-Mobile family plan with my sister but I'm going to get my own once the contract ends, so I'll need a good service that's affordable. I wanted to get Metro PCS but the problem is that the coverage area is SO limited. It doesn't work in certain cities.
What are you experiences with these providers? Good/Bad?
Another thing, I owe a pretty big bill to my cell phone company. After my contract is up, I still owe them money, right? But the account isn't even in my name, it's in my sisters lol, so does that mean it screws with her credit? (link)
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DO NOT GET SPRINT!!! I HATE IT!!! I cant wait for my contract to end and that goes for nextel as well sense they are a combined company, the ones I like are Alltell Im not sure if thats how you spell it sorry, and also Verizon has good service and resonable prices..... Also with sprint they will have many hidden fees, and verizon dosent, but when you go to pick out your plan make sure it matches what you want like with how many minutes you are allowed and texts and stuff like that because if you dont watch out for that and you go over the plan limit then you will have one expensive bill lol.
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i just got my first real babysitting job.. i have babysat family and stuff but i have never gotten paid.
I have to watch two kids.. a one year old boy and four year old girl. and i was wondering what anyone who babysits gets paid. i just want to know if I am getting paid well or if i am getting screwed.
soo if any babysitters want to tell me how much they get paid, or what parents pay that would be great. thanks in advanced! (link)
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I have 3 kids, and I pay my babysitter 8 an hour then if it is past 8:30 which is my two youngest's bedtime then it goes up to 13 an hour.
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my mom told me that when she had first had sex it didnt hurt her cause a woman need to be pleasured before
well Im a virgin and I have done almost everything except of course intercourse...been eating out or fingered
well if you can tone me in ladys on a scale one-ten what was the pain like for you 10 being really painful like cant bare it get off of me pain to five being I can deal with it w.e and 1 being no pain at all
I have a feeling Im going to start having sex soon and I really would like to prepare myself for it even though I know that its different for everyone (link)
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It is different for everyone, and for me it hurt a little but it wasnt bad, I think it was because I was scared lol, but after you relax it gets better, dont be tense, the pain was like a 4 probally. Dont worry about it though after the pain its fun ;p but remember to be careful!
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Okay, so I’ve kinda lied about my sexual experience. Not just to one person, but to everyone I know. When I was 14, some of my friends started losing their virginity. And I didn’t want to be the odd one out, so there was this guy that they knew I liked, and he was moving. So I told them (untruthfully) that I had sex with him the night before he left. They didn’t have his number or anything so I knew they wouldn’t ask him. Anyway, so all my friends thought I wasn’t a virgin anymore. And whenever people would ask me I’d always say I wasn’t, usually because I was with my friends.
Now I’m 17 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve just never had a boyfriend that I was serious enough with to have sex with him. Well now, I’m really serious with my boyfriend and I’m totally into him, and given the chance I would definitely have sex with him. We’ve come very close a couple times, but I was drunk so he wouldn’t go through with it. The problem is he thinks I’m not a virgin, but I am.
I’m afraid that I’m not gonna know what to do when the time comes that we actually do have sex. I mean, if he knew it was my first time, I wouldn’t be so worried, but he’s probably gonna expect that I know what I’m doing, and he’s not a virgin so he’s gonna know.
I don’t want him or anyone else to know that I lied about it, so I need to find a way to make it work so that he doesn’t know I’m a virgin. I know I might bleed and that’ll give it away, but if he says anything about that then I know I’ll just say something like he’s bigger than the last guy I had sex with. So anyway my questions are: (they may be dumb but bear with me)
1. What should I do with my hands while he’s actually thrusting? Like what’s gonna be the hottest for him?
2. Should I kiss him during?
3. Should I give him a blowjob first?
4. How do I subtly let him know that I want him to lead? (most important) Because if he’s leading, that’ll probably take the pressure off me a little bit.
5. I’ve heard that sometimes the guy doesn’t fit…how do I make sure that doesn’t happen to me?
Please don’t give me any of that lecture “if you’re not ready…” stuff. I’ve been ready for a long time I just haven’t had the right guy.
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I really think the best thing for you to do would be to tell him the truth, but I cant make that decision for you. You can always run your fingers through his hair, and run them up and down his back slowly, and yes you usually do kiss a guy during sex. I know some guys like them first and use them as a type of foreplay and others want them last... depends on the guy and what they like. You can always tell him that you love it when a guy takes control they usually love that and that is a way to let him know to lead. Im pretty sure you dont have to worry about not fitting.... that would be very rare, but make sure you are relawxed when he goes in and not tense, I dont know if you do or not but you may want to try masterbating with a vibrator, or a bananna, or cucumber, or something of that shape, it will help stretch you out so it wont hurt as bad the first time, and will help you not to bleed as much.. and may make you not bleed at all depending on how big he is. But good luck , and remember to be safe ;)
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So I have a best friend. We are both 17, going to be seniors in highschool this august, graduating '09. I plan on moving away to florida - we currently live in michigan. Whenever I talk to her about my decision, she seems to act like she doesn't 'care'. And I know she does, but she doesn't like to think about it, because she's afraid whats going to happen to "her" - she's admitted to being selfish about the subject, because I make friends so easily, it doesn't matter where I go. She on the other hand does not, and I guess you could call her... socially awkward?
I just .. I dont want this to sound mean. But I will not stay home after I graduate just because she doesn't want me to go. Is that horrible? I'm not happy here at all. It would make me miserable to have to stay here any longer than I need to. I know she'll have to understand that. But am I a bad person for wanting to do this for me? Should I be staying here with her?
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You are not being selfish at all!!!! You cannot stay in one place because of one person! Dont let her hold you back on your dreams if you belong in Florida she will have to get over it and once you graduate then pack up and go to Florida, there is no reason for you to stay back just because of her. You might want to tell her that she can come and visit you once you move and you can come up and visit her when you go to see family sense Im pretty sure you will go back and visit for someone.... Dont let her mess up your future. You could possibly sit down with her and help her come up with a plan of what she can do after you graduate, so maybe she dosent feel as lost without you, she needs to step out of her bubble with you and talk to more people, she will meet new people and make friends at her future job..... If she dosent have you around once you leave then she will be forced to meet and talk to mroe people.... In a way I kind of think that she is being sheltered by you if that makes any sense.... hope this helps, but please dont let other people get in the way of your dreams!
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okay this is may sound confusing.
my friend and i were best friends all last year. i started to like him, we were open about it. he understood i didnt want to like him that way..and we put it to the side and didnt make of a big deal about it. last august, i realized i became in love with him.. again i was open to him about it, and he helped me and i felt comfortable about it. late november, he started dating this girl, he liked for the longest time. all was well.. the 2 of us, we had a rocky friendship and realized we needed space, we weren't friends really from mid-late feb till the 1st of june, though for 2 1/2 weeks in march we became friends and then went back to not being friends.. we still stood by each other, helped each other at school functions and i cheered him up on his birthday when he was sick, and his gf was on a cruise..i couldnt just ignore the fact that he was sick when he is never sick..and just happened to be on his birthday. anyways, we have been friends for 3 weeks now..and everything is great, just friends..no best friends no serious talks no nothing..just having fun getting to know each other. last week, his girlfriend broke up with him, and he fell into this depression, i could tell he was truly inlove with her from the start, he has never been so happy in the year ive known him...anyways, he was suppose to come over last tuesday as friends to hang out, yet didnt because he wanted to be left alone, i understood that part so i accepted it didnt take it personally.
he lives a little over a mile and half away. when i found they broke up, i thought to myself "i should find some sort of card, not sign it and mail it to him"..friday my friend and i had an hour to kill after a movie, so we went and searched for the perfect card, then on the way home i asked my father to take a detour past his house to double check the house number.. then i realized thats just a waste i should just drop it off right then and there.. i wrote his name on the envelope..and then realized he knows my hand writing, so my friends wrote it out "you love purple, we love you. smile because we care"...sealed it and i stuck it in his mailbox. the next day he said thanks for the card, it really made me laugh. i asked him how he knew i had something to do with it, he said he just knew. then he said it was the hand writing..and im like envelope or the card? he said both..and i told him i only wrote the envelope. anyways, i couldnt help but to smile for 2 hours after he told me it made him laugh. im trying to find other ways to get him to laugh and feel better, though i know he doesnt want to go and etc..any ideas on what i could do? (link)
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Well he is going to be sad for a while, you cant really help, that but he does need to get out and do some things. The more he gets out and socializes then the faster he will get over it because he wont have his mind on it all the time. You might ask him if he wants to go catch a movie thats a comedy, and make sure its in a group so he dosent feel like your trying to hook up with him, Im not really sure what to do to make him laugh but just little things that will make him smile will help, and maybe if the girl really still likes him they will get back together and that would be great for him, but I dont know why they broke up so I cant say if that is even a possibility. But At first he is most likly going to turn down all invites to go out but if you keep asking him he most likely will come to do something, and that will be good on him just to get out once then he will realize that it does no good sitting at home doing nothing. I hope this helps a little bit but good luck with helping him get over things!!!
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last night i had sex with my boyfriend and for the first time in like three weeks. I'm almost positive that he wouldn't cheat on me but i guess i don't know i'm really confused and kinda scared. Sorry for graphicness but i was pleasuring him orally and i felt these weird little things on him.. and i was just like what ever which was stupid but yeah. Now i have them on the opening around my holes and they burn... they look kinda like little taste buds or something.. is this an std or what? (link)
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Go to the doctor ASAP!!! The faster you get to the doctor the better!! I dont know how long you have been together but he may have or may not have slept with someone else, he could have gotten them from another girl before you two were together, and they could just now be showing up for him or they could have been there and gone away and are comming back now for him but just because you just noticed it dosent mean that he cheated on you either but he might have cant answer that question. But I really hope its not a STD the best of luck to you!
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basically i dont know what to get... people say choose the thing you need. i dont need any of them but there so cool!!
right basically my choice is
an ipod touch
valo eb1 skates
or a quad core proccessor for my computor (q6600)
any opinions or advice on what i should get? feel free thanks very much will rate (link)
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I would get the ipod touch personally but get whatever you think would best benifit you. I personally LOVE my ipod touch! Or I know this isnt any fun but maybe consider saving that money and keep saving then you could get something more expensive that you would like more or could put towards something more benificial.
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13/f
this might be in the wrong category, but 4give me if it is.
so i had my first period like a month ago or something like that. and i know, your supposed to get a period every month. but itsz like 30-40 days now and i still didnt get it. well ive been feeling rather horny after mii first period and started to masturbate like everyday. but nothing else. is my period just irregular or could it be something else? any advice would be very much appreciated. thankx! (link)
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Theres nothing wrong with you! Its just that you have only had one and its not regular. Mine was always all over the place until I was put on birth control but you dont need that yet. It could be a couple months before you get your next one.
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when do you use the refill pads for eyelash curlers? (link)
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I usually change mine about ever 3 months or so I guess usually when the bottum one starts to get a crease line in it from the top part of the curler.... Hope that helped a little.
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okay so im 15....
and
pregnant! i just found out...
yes i know i am very young to be pregnant.
i will be 16 in 2 months.
so please dont write about how im too young and blah blah blah...i already know....dont need to hear it more. thank you.
anyways....today i was on the laptop and my dad was next to me and i was looking at abortion pictures and saying how horrible it was. and my dad was like so if you got pregnant you would keep it? and i said YES I COULD NEVER KILL A BABY! and then we had this whole argument on how its not a baby at a certain amount of weeks and whatever...so i showed him an article on how they get nerves at 4 weeks so they do feel it and he was like I DONT CARE ID DRAG YOU DOWN TO THE CLINC AND MAKE YOU GET ONE! i just kept saying you cant make me..
REMEMBER....HE DOES NOT KNOW IM PREGNANT!
also when he found out my mom was pregnant with my little brother he yelled and screamed at her and dropped her off at the clinc..she sat there for HOURS crying...finally went in but they said she was too far along to get one...thank god.
so my dad is capable of having the heart to leave me at a clinc.
how do i tell him im pregnant without going through that? im keeping the baby, im still with the father and he is staying with me so i have help.
when i tell my dad should i immediately tell him abortion is out of the question?
can he really force me into an abortion? thats my right though isnt it? its not like since im under 18 he could make it get it by law right?
either way i need to tell him soon because i want this baby to be healthy so regular checkups to the OBGYN and getting put on healthy stuff is needed asap.
i live in florida if that helps?
thank you. (link)
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Hey there sweetie I know its hard right now. You have got to talk to someone in your family, I would go to your mom first you dad does not sound like the kind of person I would want to tell right off the bat. Maybe once you tell your mom if you are really close to her and trust her then maybe she can sit down with you and yall can tell him together. If you are not close enough for that maybe you should consider telling him with the baby's dad's parents they might be willing to help you. You need to put it out there that you are refusing to have an abortion that you want to keep it. Im sorry but teenagers can raise kids on their own sure its rough on them and sure it makes you grow up faster but those kids are still yours and they will still love you. Every parent makes mistakes we all know that but you can grown and learn with your baby. The father may stay around.... he may not he may be there for a while then not want to be with you then go and still see the baby. Then also he may leave you never know..... but chances are if hes here for you now he will be for you later too because right now and up till you have the baby will be the hardest part to get through because once you have your child then people get to hold it and see how adorable it is. I have a story for you I want you to read I would type it up for you on here but I am short on time I have to get to work but there is a short version of it on my column page.... its in where it talks about me under the picture. read it for me please... then if you wanna talk come talk feel free!!! Good luck! Sarah
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have you ever got your cartilige pierced,
does it hurt bad. (link)
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Yes, and no it does not hurt very bad at all. It stings for a little bit but I wouldnt consider it a major pain.
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So me and this guy have been really good friends for two years now but I don't know whether he likes me or not. He talks to me constantly online and sometimes waits for me to go online all day too but whenever we plan to hang out he ends up canceling. He compliments me a lot like saying how any guy would be lucky to have me but then he doesn't answer my phone calls most of the time and avoids seeing me in person. He use to go to my school for a year and everyone thought we were dating. He also looks at me a lot when I'm not looking and we hug too. I told him I liked him once but he said he didn't want to ruin our friendship. I'm really confused! I don't know if he likes me just as a friend or if he likes me more. I know he doesn't like dating his friends because he tried it once and she ended up hating him after hey broke up. I just really need to know what you guys think. Girl are welcome to answer to if they've ever been in this situation. Thanks! (link)
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Sorry that I am not a guy but I was once in this situation. Back in high school I always liked my best guy friend, he always was very outgoing and talked to a lot of girls. When I would start dateing other guys he would get very jelous of the other guy. When he would be with other girls I was the one getting jelous. We talked to each other from about 6:30 in the morning till we went to bed. We talked online on the phone and everything. We rarely hung out after school though. I think it might just be awkward for guys to hang out with their friends that are girls because people will and do get the impression that you might be more than just friends. Maybe try going out places in a big group of friends. Sense he is avoiding seeing you in person he might have feelings for you that he is trying to hide or not show or even try and forget about. Give it time something may come out of it. Like my best guy friend and I we ended up dating our junior year and now were married! We broke up after about 4 months and we didnt talk for a while but after a while we started talking again... then we started dating our senior year and we stayed together. Something may come out of it.... I dont know this probally dosent really help much but maybe it will give you a little faith. Just give it time and something may happen. I dont know how old you are either but that might have something to do with it too. In a couple months he may start to realize the feelings he has for you and maybe his feelings are mixed because he cant decide if he likes you as a girl friend type person or a best friend.
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Hey!
I'm designing a dress for an event I'm going to be attending in May and I'm really in needed of really nice formal(evening) dress styles. Please and thankyou (link)
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There many styles of dresses that you can choose from. Depending on you body frame could help you decide what you want to get. If you are more of a curvy person you could go for an A-line thats like right above the knee or how ever long you need it to be. If you are really skinny you could look into dresses that are more straight down and they will help you look fuller. If you have small set shoulders you might want to look into designing a dress that is a halter type dress or over one sholder, if you have larger shoulders strapless and 2 straps look nice. Sense you are desining your own dress you might look into going and trying on a ton of different dresses at like Macy's or somewhere to help you decide which shape of a dress looks best on you or what color. Hope this helps! Good Luck!
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Does anybody have any recommendations or know of any good pre-med schools in New England or close to New England (New York maybe?).
thanks :) (link)
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There are several good schools for pre-med. I know that Ohio State University has a really good one. But it is in Ohio. That is kind of close. I looked online for the school in New York and the one that stood out to me there was Utica. I dont really know anything about it though. Also maybe look into University of Conneticut, Delaware State University, Husson University, Massachusetts college of Pharmacy & health science, Boston University, Becker College. If none of these look good to you, you might want to talk to a guidence counsler they will have some in your area. Also you could do some re-search online. Hope this helps :)
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like everyone in my skool has a "Regular Carhartt® Quilted Flannel Lined Sandstone Active Jacket" i love how the jacket fits adn looks on me but im not a fan of the price its like $80-$100 is there any off brands that look like a carharrt jacket but with a cheaper price?!? (link)
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Well all coats like that are going to be more. Honestly thats not bad for a coat! You could try ebay. Also you could look at you local TSC or other "farm" type of store or anyone who carries carhartts, dickies might have something similar not sure though. I also think that maybe Sears sells somthing like that. Look around online for something you like unless you want to go for a hunt. You might also wait until after Christmas because then you might get one on sale!
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I've been with my boyfriend since Oct. 23rd 05'.
I cheated on him when we were going out around this time of year last year. about 6x. btw: i'm 16 he's 18. He lives with me and we argue quite alot. I stopped having feelings for him about 4 weeks ago, Currently he has met a new friend named J, and j's a hottie. I want to meet new people, i don't know why. I don't know if this is a bad or good thing. My boyfriend has really bad anger problems and when i tell him i don't love him or like him; he doesn't take it seriously. I just don't know what to do, can anyone help me on this one? thanks x100.
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Well since he is living with you that makes it harder, but still is very possible. Approch it at a very easy way especially if he has anger problems. If I were you I would probally tell him that I thought that it was time if we explored our options and that we needed to be friends only and that you do not want to be with some one that has anger problumes. When you break up with him make sure though that you are somewhere where there are other people around! Since he is living with you you also need to consider in making sure that you do not just throw him out on the street either give him a certain amount of time to help him pack and get him out. If he is still refusing or does not get it then I really do think that getting the cops involved would be a good idea. Just make sure that you do not call them until that form of help is needed. I hope this helped a little... good luck and if you have any more questions or need help feel free to ask me.
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Last night I tripped over my computer chord and fell forward into hard wood floor, I didn't get a chance to brace myself so I basically just hit the floor hard.
My chord was plugged into an outlet (And my computer) and it was pulled really tight since the chord is short. My computer was sitting on top of a box which was relatively high. I had hopped over the chord to get something, and I went to turn back, but instead of going OVER the chord, I ran into it. Like I said, I fell forward, and took my computer with me. Meaning it fell to the floor just like I did.
I got the wind knocked out of pretty badly, but lately it's been hard for me to breathe. I have anxiety so honestly that might be all it is. I know that none of you are doctors, but is it possible for me to puncture a lung or something just by falling like that? Please just help me, thanks. (link)
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Well, I would say that you might have just bruised a lung or something. You might have possibly broken a rib, depending on how you fell. Does you back hurt at all when you breath? Give it a few days and if it dosent get better than you might want to consider going to your doctor. It might be anxiety but I kinda doubt it. I hope this helps a little. Hope you feel better soon.
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