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Q: haha, this might seem dumb, but does your page automatically go to mulitple pages or do you have to set it so that it adds more....?

it has them already

Q: theres this boy n hes mi bestfrnd (13) n hes been mi bestfrnd since like 2 years ago ever since middle school...n ive talked to him about hookin up n he don care..he would hook up wit me..but if id hook up wit him tht would mean riskin our relationship as bestfrnds n i don wanna loose tht...but i wanna hook up wit him cuz i llike him a lil bit..but im holdin bak cuz he went out wit mi frnd n ever since they broke up all she talks about now is how much she misses him n how much she still likes him n i don wanna bring up tht we mite hook up..wut should i do..im 13

Okay this is what i think, i think that you sould be friends because i went out with my best friend and when we broke up now we dont even talk anymore. now is that something you want to happen to yall's relationship. plus your risking loosing 2 friends instead of one. if i were you then i wouldnt go out with him. hope i helped. i know thats probably not the answer you were looking for. but thats what i think. hope i helped. tell me how it goes. *tink*

Q: dumb question... tomorrow is the first day of skool and i dont no what to wear lol. im going into 9th grade. should i wear a skirt, should i wear capris, should i wear jeans? uh help! srry its so dumb but going into high skool ive been stressing out soooooo much. just give me ur opinion

i think you should wear what ever makes you comfy. i mean if you like wearing skirts wear a skirt that is usually what i wear on the first day of skool but if you dont feel comfy in a skirt then wear something different.

Q: I have been talking to this kid Rob online for a while now and we like eachother.. and were both from the same state and... my cousins friend Jack who is also my sorta friend i have been around him alot is Robs best friend.. and thats how we started talking.. wehave never met but we want to sometime... should i meet him.. i mean i know were the same age.. and i know hes safe since hes Jacks best friend....

what do I do..

and do u think its bad that i sent him a pic of me?

I think if you have someone you can get information about him from like jack or something and you know alot about him and its not just what he told you then i think its great that yall like each other. i think you should go for it.

Q: hi just ran across your sight. if its not to personal i was wondering if you shave down there. and do you think girls should. let me know. its important. thanks. bye.

sometimes i shave down there somethimes i dont feel like shaving but i trim with sissors. i think a girl should do what she is comfortable doing. if you want to shave thats your business but if you dont its good to trim.

Q: whats a wigger?

a wigger is a white person that acts black and wants to be black. dont get me wrong i am not pregedest that is just what it is.

Q: for some reason guys always take me as a whore..is there anyway i can make them stop thinking that?! i realli need help! i'm so depressed n crying! i'll rate!

you tell guys your not a whore and you dont sleep around and your not a slut contrary to what everyone believes. and tell them you are not easy and if a guy wants to sleep with you tell him that if he is after you for one thing to get to stepin. you dont need someone like that.

Q: What does 69 mean?? and what does it mean to be 'wet'?

69 is when you are giving a guy head and he is eating you out at the same time. when you are wet you are horney and its like pre cum and cum for a girl.

Q: I know this is going to be long, so sorry. But I will rate you high even if you answer!!

Well, I have a feeling that I could be a lesbian. And it's really difficult and I know that I'm going to have to wait and see if I actually am. The thing is I feel so much more comfortable around girls, and I actually have my eye on this one girl from my school. But the thought of getting married to a girl and not a guy makes me feel sick. And I just get this feeling when I'm around guys like Wow i'm so embarassed/nervous, But then I get this feeling like ohh YAY i'm so glad im here when I'm with girls. It's just everytime I like a guy, I only like him for like a week. Is there a chance I could be lesbian, or do you think it's just a phase? Please help!!

you could be but the again it might be a thing your going through to determine your sexuality. you might not be a lesbian you might be bisexual.but think you should explore a little and soon enough you will figure it out. i hope i helped. **Tink**

Q: hey i want to get my tongue pierced but i was just wondering how much it hurts to get it done. either way i am going to pierce it i just wanted to no ahead of time......

thanks

i got mine done about a year ago and it didnt hurt to me. at all. im getting a tatoo in a week so pain doesnt bother me but my tounge didnt hurt at all. hope i helped **tink**

Q: My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her.

i think you should express to her if she does prefer to have sex she needs to use protection. it doesnt matter how long they have been together. becasue just becasue they have been together for so long doesnt mean he doesnt have an std or doesnt mean that she wont get pregnate and the pull out method is not that effective.

Q: Me n my bfz 1 year iz in october but so iz his birthday so im tryna start to save up sum money to get him sumtin but i dont only wanna get him sumtin i wanna like make him sumtin really nice and cute n e ideas?!?!?!?!??!

hmmm....

maybe a romantic candle lit dinner with rose pedals sprinkled all around the table and then rent a few movies yall will both enjoy and cuddle and whatch him. or if you really want to make it romantic then make a picnic under the stars. or something like that. hope i helped. tell me how it goes **tink**

Q: what do you do when you REALLI like someone but they don't see the true side of you cause all they are worried about is getting "some"..my ex b/f is like that and i don't know..it just feels like they are the only kinda guys i attract! what can i do to help let guys see my inner side?! i realli need help! thanks! i'll rate! =)

you know i used to have the same problem,but i started telling a guy up frount that there was more to me than sex, and they needed to see the real side of me. And the first guy i told that too me and him were together for 6 months and had an awsome relationship. he seemed to be a better person towards me after i told him that.

Q: OK im 18 years old, and ive never had a girl friend before. Is there something wrong with me that girls wouldn't approach me or is it something that i have to do. My pics are at www.faceparty.com/dozzer check it out and tell me what you think please. It really sucks being alone.

hey i don't think there is anything wrong with you. alot of times girls like to be the approached not the approachee. we ususally sit back and wait on a guy to come to us. but i think you are really cute there is nothing wrong with you.

Q: Hi! Well I'm new to my high school and there's this girl (Anna) and she was so sweet. She's been new before so she knows how it feels! But anyways, she came up and talked to me in 1st period and was like r u in journalism w/ me? and so she striked up a convo. Then the next day she asked me to go walk around w/ her before class so I wasn't in class all my myself. Then after that we started writting notes back and forth a lot! She even hooked me up w/ this guy I like a lot! I feel really close to her, we talk about stuff that normally I wouldn't feel comfy sharing and I think its the same w/ her! She has lots and lots of other friends but I'm not sure about 1 thing! I know she's my best friend but am I her's and how do I know if I am!?!?!

It sounds like you may be her best friend, but the best way to tell if you are her true best friend is ask her. Just tell her how you feel, tell her that she is your best friend and you wanna know if you are hers. tell me how it goes **Tink**

Q: Hey ok the new school year starts this monday and im scared bout making new friends cuz last year i told people i was christian (im not afraid 2 share my faith) so they all thought i was weird and stuff...and i dont cuss so instead of saying a bad word id say like crap or freak or whatever and they'd make fun of me..i still want ppl to know im christian this year but im scared i wont have friends! i know what i did wrong last year id tell people that Jesus loves them jokingly and they got scared so yea not gonna do that but even if i tell them that im a christian they might reject me..so what do i do?

Well sweety im a christian too, and sometimes it is hard to show our faith without being rejected, but if you have true friends then they will understand your faith, even if theirs is different. let me know how it goes.

Q: my boyfriend after 4 years of dating...that the whole thing was a bet to see how long he could play me!!! wtf is up with that?!?!?!

It soundz to me like this guy is a total asshole. He took four years of your life and all. I say he doesnt deserve anyone!!!

Q: okay so i really like this guy and hes going out with this one girl...it seems like this guys likes me i mean he calls me almost everynight and we talk for hours and when where together he always wants me to do stuff with him (like kiss and stuff) but hes going out with his girlfiend so why would he be going out with his girlfriend if hes making it seem like he likes me...

okay this may not seem logical, but i had this happen to me. maybe he is insecure and he needs to explore his options. he may like you, but he is not sure if thats what he wants yet.

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Hi my name is Sasha Amber LeAnn Lawrence. I am 18 years old. I will try to give the best advice possible. I dont know everything in the world, but i will give the best advice i possibly can. I am going to be upfront with you and tell you what i really think im not going to candy coat it and tell you what you want to hear just because that is what you want to hear.