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I would like to loss weight before our first formal dance and I know the best way to loss weight is to eat right and to excersize often, but what are some ways(tips or tricks) to speed up the process? ? ? Thanx! (link)
hmm..i lost weight fast by using the clorie crunch diet!..bascially.you stomach is used to eating a certain amount of clories on a certain time..soo if you have a big breakfast and a little lunch and no dinner..eat nothing for breakfast and a big lunch and a little dinner...this helps it becuase your stomach gets confused and need a certain amount of calroies based on what youve been eating for the past few days!..soo if you confuse it..it wll eat of the extra fat you have in the morning becasue its expectin a big breakfast etc..if you dont understand ill let you know again fullyy:D...please let me know if ive helped or even if i didnt!...thanks n keep askin me questions..x


Well, I am in high school, and have never had a boyfriend. I feel really weired sometimes because all my friends have had one. It isn't like i never talk to guys, because i have like a million guy friends. I don't see why guys don't like me for a girlfriend. I am not like a total geek im really pretty popular and a cheerleader, and all but, why are all the guys always friends, and none of them interested im me as more than a friend. I don't think im ugly but im starting to wonder. So any advise or things to help me. I just feel like im going to be single for the rest of my life! I really do not want to not be able to go to my homecoming this year. I don't think it is becuse I am fat or anything but I don't know Im 5'4" and about 110 pounds. Sorry this is a little weired! Thanks in advance! (link)
mayb your one of them girls they see has your best freind becuase your really sweet and that...a lot boys sey that to metoo!..that your like a lil sister!!...DATS DA WORSE..!..lol..but try to b a little flirtyy wit sum of dem...or your new guy freinds??...touhc them in a way thas let them know you wann b much more..hug them in a different way...wen ur hangin out n your leaving sey summik like "annit you guna gimme me akiss on the cheek"...that way theyll know your gf materail..and wont assciate you in best freind or sister material..:D..please let me kno if i helped..or even if i didnt!..n keep askin me question xX


15/f

my one friend is having a sweet 16 party, like in october. and i mean, i really wanna go, because me and her were really good friends. but like, i dont know any of her friends. and i feel weird. because i dont wanna like follow her around, yano? i guess its pretty big, and alot of people are gonna be there. but its no one i know.

what should i do? (link)
hmm..well if shes your freindshes going to be a bit upset if you dont turn up...soo go their n dress urself up babe and meet the bday gurl...and ee if you know anyone f you dont the saty for a bit!..but if you meet sumone and start talkin stay longer...but make sure you go...because she might get upset...you can leave wen ever you want to so keep that in your mind!...please tell me if i helped or even if i diidnt...thanks n keep askin me questions..xxx


ummm k so yestaday i qot high widd this kid and then we hooked up and shit and he was fingerrin me but i was reallly high i think he might have put his dick in me but like it ddint hurt or nuttin and it was for like 3 seconds i dont kno if it was his fingers or whatt im scared i dont wann be fuckin pregnantttttt wouldnt i bleed or sumthin?

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if it your first tym then you should bleed?...soo if hes onli fingered you ...you k!..for the tym being!..because wne you have sex for the first tym the lining breaks and every girl bleeds!..but jus in case im wrong take a pregancy test!...an then see...btw im not your mom or nayfink buh neva link up wit a guy especailly wen ur high always do it a freind...please let me know if helped or even if i didnt..xXx..keep askin


okay well i have to do this little "fun facts sheet" with diffrent fun facts about like how much things cost a really long time ago and things like that, except i cant find one onlinee.

can anyone find a link to a page of them..
or any ideass?

that would be rlly greatt. thankss. (link)
google...old artefacts!!..please let me know if i helped..xx


since like june
my legs have been crazzyy itchy.
like at night when im sleeping they itch like mad!
like mad mad.
i wake up around 2 times a night to put more cream on so they wont itch
it works for a while
then fails.
what should i do?
:S (link)
hmm..well have you started shaving recently?..becuase that happened to me!...or it might just be that you have itchy skin and i advice you to see a doctor so he can giv you a cream..or after you have a shower ensure you put baby oil on!...please let me know if i helped?..thanks..x keep askin me question..xx


So homecomming is in a few weeks and i need a date :D

i like this boy alot and i want to go with him.

I think he likes me , but i am not sure.

how can i make it so he will ask me to homcomming?

just tell one of my friends to tell him to ask me?

thanks. (link)
you could tell your freinds but ensure you trust them!...soo they dont blab their mouth!..oryou could talk to him let him get to know you and lethim mke his own decison about how he feels about you...because if he dosnt theirs no point waiitn for a a one way relationship!...that jus means that its on from one perosn the othr perosn doesnt feel anything fr you..which might notb a bad thing beaucse ther might b sumone else waitin for you...:D:D...soo jus giv him a smile!...or talk to him..aot boys r very shy soo girls have mke the first move!...gud luck...n please tell if i helped or even if i didnt!...n keep askin me questions..:D:D


Everyone is saying that I'm too thin. My family members, my friends, etc. I understand people are concerned, but if I needed help I would ask for it. I've been on a diet for awhile now & I feel that I have it pretty much under control. I'm 5'7-5'9 & weigh anywhere from 117-120 lbs. My BMI is not really under yet, only slightly low. Does anyone have any advice/opinions for me?? I want to stay around the 120 range. Is this not enough?? I do think I'm thin, but I don't think I am "too thin". Everyone at school is talking about it & I'm not quite sure what to do or say about it. Everyone thinks I should see a doctor, but I feel that I can handle it myself. Any suggestions?? Thanks!! (link)
hmm...defend urself...but ask a gurl who has a sista as a doctor!...shes alwys told me that you should b alwys above ur BMI!..soo i think you should get off ur diet!...n eat whatever you please but remmeber to excerise!...i was like peole kept tellin me im too thin so i took their avie ad i feel great..jus try it theres no harm and if you feel...no well go bakc to your routnie because at the end of the day its your body and you know how you feel inside and how you loook...beacue you see yourself every day!...soo dont listen to what people sey but do give it a tr because it worked it for me...try it you dont have to stick to it!!...please let me know if my adivce helped or even if it didint!..x...n keep aksin me questions!


I live down at my beach house over the summer adn i met this guy a month or 2 ago but we only became friends about 3 weeks ago i had to leave today to go home for school but i am sooo upset, i think i have fallen for him adn i dont know how i am going to get over him because i wont see him for 10 months til next summer. I am friends with his friend who also owns a house in my beach so i may run into his friends but not him. I have his number and he has mine but hes really shy so i know he wont call or anything. What should i do?! (link)
hmm...well..u couldjust ring him up or leave a text n sey "hi been a long time thought id jus see how you r?"...and see if he replys and jus start talkin over the phone or textin eachother...n the out of the blue one day jus ask we should get togther one day...summer was realli gudd!!...waddya think?...and wait fo his reply...and that way hell get to know you better and youll get to know him..remeber babe..this is not a ne night thing this is guna take some time!!...but get to know him better and slowly jus whisk in there lollol...please let me know if i helpedor even if i didnt thanks x..n keep askin me questions..x


has anyone installed Zango when they try to watch a video on peekvid.com? is it harmful? (link)
dnt do it...TRUST ME!!!...it ruins your computer!!..gives it viruses n goes really slow!..if you want to watch films try:
www.mydigitalshare.com..please let me know if i helped or even if i didnt!..x...n keep askin me questions..love ta help!


15/f
alright so my boyfriend and i have bee going out for over a year, anyways we've thought about having sex awhile. i love him and he loves me so dont give me you're too young crap. we were both virgins till today. haha anyways he went inside my vag, and it hurt ALOT. he stuck it in more then half way but not fully, then took it out. the condem had a bit of blood at the tip, but not alot. now, does that mean my cherry popped fully?, or whatt is there suppose to be alot of blood? thankss for readingg :) (link)
hmm..15??...totally agree wit "cherry pop blow"...ur definetly too young to have sex!!!!...but uve done it know so theres no truning bakc..but this is a big decion and u mght end up breaking up wit this guy..and than regrettin losing virginty to him..!..but make sure ur protcected evrytym!..yh your not a virgin anymore because evryones different certain people have a lot of blood others have a little its exctly like girls and their periods!..let me kn0e if i helped or diidnt x


I have been told that if a guys sucks on ur nipple or play with your breasts, then your breasts will get bigger. Is this true or just a myth? (link)
its a myth babe!...trust me!..not sayin i know like that but if it were certain people i know would have boobs from london to austrilia...n dont believev evryfink you hear!..hope i helped let me know..xx


I'm 13/f, and I have an overprotective mom. She can't leave me home alone for 15 minutes. I was going to my friend's house. I told my mom that my friend's babysitter was going to be there, which was true, and my mom didn't believe me. She followed me to my friend's door and STUCK her head into the house, and looked around. I was SO embarrassed. She could have at least asked my friend if her mom was home or something. And I'm going to my friend's house soon and I'm so scared that my mom will follow me to the door again. My mom never used to be so overprotective. HELP!! How do I get to calm her nerves down? I live in a town where nothing bad has ever happened. (link)
so..ur 13yrs old?..well your mums going to be worried becuase in her eyes she stills sees you as her baby girl!..the little girl whos growing up way too fast...she may be trying to hold onto you as you grow..your mother must realise that she has to let you grow on your own..however, you must alos realise that your mum has good intentions..and she woories becuase she loves you..soo dont be upset or cause an arguemnt when she does she loves you and cares for you thats why she does these things. mayb you should try and take a smaller step..instead of sepnding a day with jus you and a freind..spend it with take her shopping with..i know you might think tahts gay cause you dont want your mum hanging around with you but jus try theres no harm!...then hit at the bigger steps!..soo first take your mum with you and then slowly..try on ur own...you have to gain her trust!!..please let me know if i heloped or even if i didint x


i was wondering how you actually smoke a cigarette, like do you enhale it or something?
all i know is that you don't swallow the smoke. (link)
wel..bascilly..you enhlae the cigratte from your mouth and then..sum take it in but most people tend to smoke it back out..soo..poof it out..so you were right u enhale..hope ur thinkin of smokin?..:S...but hope my adivce helped please let me know if it didint or even if it did..thanks x


What are the best and most natural ways to have clear and radiant skin? By natural I mean do you have any home remedies and tricks? I'm very into using natural things for the body and I love uding at home things. I also buy different stuff for my skin so tell me about the best product(s) you know of (besides Proactive please) Thanks so much! (link)
hmm...well the best thing thats helped me..is an indian remedy....bsacilly..you get grain flour...place it in a bowl and add curd!..eat will be a hard face mask and apply it for 1/2hr..it getz hard buh easily gets off..leves your skin feelin fresh and radiant..please tell me if i ahve helped you or even if i havent..x


15/f

im 5'6 and im like 117ish pounds. i really want to lose some weight but everytime i try i just end up eating more. does anyone have like a specific meal diet plan to follow that i dont have to pay for?

thanks (link)
you oun perfect weight..but if you feel you want..then jus eat hea;thy n excerise!..back in the day...i was muhc smaller in hight and weighed wah you doo now...i looked like a living plum!..but i used weightwacthers...or jus mke ur own diet i did...it consit of two meals...and i healthy snck...soo..n ecersie..used 2 jog 5.00am in the morning and 3.00pm...and then 9.00pm..also tke measurments of you thigh n stomach etc..soo in a wekks time you cna visbly see the improvmemnt!..please let me know if i helped or ven if i ddint!..x


hi, im a 15 year old female. i really want a date to homecoming this year. last year i didn't get asked, but i went with my friends (who all had dates), so it was me and 5 couples. It was really akward, but it was still fun. my mom says taht if i don't get a date this year, then i have to go with a group of girl "dateless" friends or not at all (which in my mind, isn't really a choice). here's the problem...ALL of my girl friends already have dates. I don't want to not go, so i guess what im asking is....how do i let guys know that i'm available without looking desperate or "easy", and how do i flirt (i guess i never took the course of flirting 101)

thanks!!♥ (link)
sum boys lyk itwen the gir takes the first ste..soo b nice wit the biys and talk for a few days and then just ask do you ave anyone for homecoming..n if they sey yes..take it a step further but if they sey no...jus smile dnt show dem your dissponitmnet...it shows ur weakness!...jus b lyk ok..datz fine...n contuine talkin..if worst cumz to worst n you dnt get a date atleast youll mke more freinds!..lol..but im sure you will get one!..good luck...n let me know if i helped or even if i diidnt.x


Ok, I'm 5'3 and 113 pounds and I'm in high school and I have a relatively nice figure except I only where a 34A in bras. Is there any way I can make them look a little bigger/better without stuffing them? I don't think my mom will buy me padded bras either. Thanks! (link)
hey...will firstly you dnt need to stuff because you shouldnt chnage your self because of the perceptions hat society has set for girls/women. dont chnage yourself to what you belivev boys in igh scholl might find attractive...they hould find you attrcaive yourself!..if you feel that ur body is not attrcative...you can do may excerises to make it better...u can build a bum?...or evn ll bit of muscles or have a six pack?...i was excatly da same as you...but as life went o i realised dat people will onli accept you for who you really are if walk head high and accept yourself...but o feel confident about my self...i workd out a excerise program nd went to the gym for 6 mnths n i feel great!...please let me know if i helped or even if i diidnt..X


Lately I've been gotting really bad anxiety attacks and I don't know what's been causing them. I want to know what I need to do, either to make them stop, or ease down a little. I get really really shakey and I feel like I have to puke, and sometimes my legs even collapse. Is there a pill or soemthing I could take, or a perscription I need or something like that to make them go away? (link)
well...i havent personally ever been throug this but i know freinds who have!..soo ha they do is place thier mind on something else..but one of me mates went to counselling..were they helped..him..he went to groups were similar ppeople talked about their problems...and ways to overcome..its a social..place!..or you can see your doctor n get a pill..because they do have pills..but after a while they stop working anyway..soo you should just try n attend this group..but of course its up to you...jus giving you ideas..please let me know if my advice helped n even if it didnt..!..X


Ok my little sister needs to start shaving her legs, but she refuses because she's afraid of the razor cutting her and stuff. Is there anything I can say to her that will convince her to start shaving? She won't wax or use nair either. Thanks for any help you can give, I'd really appreciate it. (link)
shave with her!..buh why dnt you ty a hair removal cream!..my cousin was exactly the same..soo i taught her to use the hair removval cream..you jus apply it on then tke it of after a certain amount of time using one of them spatula things lol..im in london soo...we get sumfink called veet ahi removal cream..look around n see what you get were you live?...please lt me know if my advice has helped..n keep askin!..X




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