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I really don't know where else to turn right now but here. Okay, I know that I really shouldn't cut myself, but It's addicting. The teachers, my parents, they can't help! They don't get it. My parents say 'Pray'. I am Christian, but what do you do when Faith isn't enough? My teachers tell me I just need to want to stop. HELLO! I've wanted to stop! I can't! Someone please, If you know how to get unaddicted to the pain, please help me!

okayy well i'm not sure if this will help but since you said you don't know how to get unaddicted to the pain, why don't you try something else that will give you pain. now i don't mean like something dangerous to yourself but maybe buy a punching bag & use it, or start running even just working outt.. they all give you physicall pain but none that will be dangerous to your own life. i hope this helped you!

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this girl is in my 6th period. i'm trying to talk to her but its really hard when its the most beautiful girl u have ever seen.PLEASE HELP ME.this could be the most important thing to ever happen to me. i'm 13 and i'm a guy.

hmm have you ever talked to her before? if so how muchh? first off i'd try talking to her regularly, it may be hard just work up the confidence to talk to her more. even if its on IM or through textingg, just don't be excessive. also, one thing not to do is act like your all that. i know sometimes you feel like you need to impress her but girls can see right through that, they may see you as someone your not. so don't try to impress her by being all that or obnoxious. if you need anymore help with his or any help with what to do after you've talked to her just message me ! i hope i've helpedd =] good luckk

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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused.

haha i agree with you completely! i'm the same wayy. i'm 16 and my first real boyfriend was end of my sophomore year & i'm a junior in highschool now with the same boyfriend, i haven't had sex either. basically kids are just growing up way too fast. if they say they are mature enough to have sex at age 12 or 13 chances are they're really not. they don't have any second thoughts yet because they aren't mature enough to realize how serious the consequences can be. don't you worry about yourself not thinking about it yet, it's not something you should be, you should be enjoying your life at the age you are and acting the age you are. why waste your virginity at such a young age when you could find the person you love to share it with. i hope i helped! if you need any more help i'm here! =]

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this kid called me pretty & called me twice today & said how he missed me, we dated a couple months ago

does he like me again?

its a definite possibility. he may be realizing that he does miss you and may want you back.. if i were you i'd talk to him about and see if he's serious. if thats the case and you like him back, hang out with him to see if the chemistry is still there. hope it goes well!

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how can i convert my music from limewire to AAC files on itunes?? all i can find is "Convert ID3 Tags..." whatever that means!?

you can just click on the song from limewire and drag it to you library tab on itunes... or if you wanted you could make a separate limewire playlist & click and drag the songs to the limwire playlist tab
thats the way i do it =]
i hope it works out okayy!

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there are a couple of girls i want to ask out, i have fun hang out with all of them, the problem is i don't know withc one i should ask out?

ask yourself which on you feel more comfortable and which one you would love to be with.. also which one do you think about most?

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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like.

compliment her, but don't be too excessive. when you think she looks pretty tell her. girls love when guys give them compliments because it makes them feel good. also, if you are good friends with her tell her you like her, but if she doesn't like you more, you dont want it to be awkward. which it won't be unless you or she makes it awkward. also, if she is going through a tough time or is just in need for someone to talk to, be there. girls love when they have someone they can talk to and be comfortable around. hope this helpss!

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I always am thinking about food, even if i'm not the leastbit hungry. I always want to be eating. CAn you please tell me some good ways to keep food off my mind.

if you are thinking about eating.. make sure its healthyy. also you should try getting into activities, whether its a sport or a club get involved because it'll keep your focus away from food. if you are thinking about eating even if your not hungry try drinking a glass of water.. because sometimes your thirsty not hungryy.. =]

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I think hes feeling "down" or having second thoughts about us.I need to start a spark!!HELP!!plz if u have any advice comment!

THAKZ!!

okay well first off you should talk to him about it. ask him whats up and if everything is okay between you two. also you should tell him that you love him and just do cute things for him that show that you care for him. do something that he likes .. lke if he's into sports watch the game on tv.. stuff like that, it will show him that you are interested in what he is. also, just make him know that you are there whenever he needs you. hope this helpss!

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how can i get toned fast and drop weight at the same timee. i want to be a 3 or 5 im in between a 9 and 7 now. pleassse help!!1

running is a great way to drop weightt and get tonedd.. if thats not for you then i would do cardio.. try jillian michaels dvds (you can buy them at walmart) they are really good! i used them over the summerr. she has a bunch of different dvds that target certain body zones. also if you wanna tone you can start lifting light weights .. make sure you eating healthy and don't skip out on breakfast! hope this helpedd =]

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