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I got a Sony Cybershot DSC-T100 camera for Christmas, and I am looking for a case for it. Is there a place where I could get something cuter than your typical standard canvas zipper case? Thanks. (link)
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Any camera store should have cute cases. also best buy and circuit city might. or, the next time youre shopping in a mall or area like that, vendors usually sell things like that.
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Ok so this question might be hard because I forgot all the details...;(
my uncle was watching BET on tv and I saw a music video and it was a guy singing. It wasn't like a hip-hop or fast beated song. It was more slow-dance type and I have no clue what the lyrics were or who sang it or the title. I remember something about a guy and girl (yeah i know... most videos are about a guy and a girl)
So I understand if nobody answers this because its really hard and it's been on my mind since I saw it (2 days ago).
THANK YOU TO ANYONE WHO FINDS IT!!!! (link)
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search google for "music videos on BET, 1-3-08, guy singer"
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15/F
so some of my friends ive had a while,some not as long but ive resently been though a disaster which i think has made me see things not differently-just more clearly-things that have always been there just i haven't noticed until resently.I have noticed that they are extremly self-centered.some more qualitys and such but ive noticed that to be a major one in all of them.i seem to be getting more than im recieving.Dont get me wrong i dont mind im a pretty giving person but i can only take to an extent.bottom line i just dont think they are very good friends.But one of them are younger(but seem older and pretty mature) and very influental.Shes pretty much a follower and will do anything to fit in,and im afraid i might have led her down the wrong path-and am pretty worried about her-im sure she would do what she is even if she never met me-but i just feel its my fault anyway and really wanna help her but dont think she will listen she is pretty 2 faced.
anyway i dont know whether to dump these bad friends that can be really fun but in the long run arent really good friends-or keep them and take it
and how to help my more influential friend
please help?
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maybe you should stop giving so much. and, before finding new and better friends, you should confront your current 'friends'.
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okay,
my ex comes back into my life and makes my feelings toward him comlicated. i mean we broke up because i felt he wasn't like the best like i could do better. like he's had a record.. soo after that we just never talked again and i kind of disliked him alot. Now he comes back into my life and we go to a party together right when he got in a girl starts flirting with him. i'm like okay w.e and not even an hour yet they start holding hands hugging they couldn't be torn apart. After an hour they make-out i'm like what the hell. why is he so desspret to date someone he doesn't even know. Then i kept staring at them then me and his eyes met quite a few times. i don't know but i'm so happy for them but then again the girls my best friend and she could have asked. I don't know if it was an urge for revenge or jelousy but i keep thinkings they aren't ment to be and that they should breakup! what should i do? do i like him? do i hate her? (link)
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make sure your friend didnt do that on purpose. you need to confront your ex and tell him how you feel, and tell your friend how you feel about it too. and tell her it wasnt right. you shouldnt hate anybody, but its okay to dislike them for a little.
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well my birthdays January 12th,
and i want this guy but im not sure if ill get him
he knows i want someone but i dont know if he knows its him or not.
so how do i get him to know its him i want with out telling him?
i talk to him everyday and we like eachtoher but today he said he didnt know if he wanted a girlfriend cuz his last one left him for another guy and she treated him like s**t and when i told him that when they were goin out he didnt believe me so i dont know what to do.
he also told me he had the best gift for me then one of his friends said he gunna try to get in my pants again.
but i am sexualy active and i have had sex with him before.
so how do i get him to either know its him i want or how do i get him to ask me out and let him know that i dont just want sex?!?!
HELPPP!
14/f (link)
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tell him little things, like "i cant wait for my birthday", to get him in the topic of your birthday. when he asks what you want, tell him you want HIM for your birthday. or, hint that you want him, and tease him by saying things like "i want this one special thing.." and finally just say "I want YOU."
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13/f and he's 14 [15 on the 24]/m
My boyfriend [off and on for 5 months now].Well scince we're back on it's been a week tomorrow and I left my msn on and away to go to sleep last night and I woke up this morning and he left a message said I just sent you a message to say I love you , If you can't see this you can see it in the morning.OMG he is so sweet.
So I want something sweet to say back to him when he comes on soon.
xoxo
Stephii (link)
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you could say so many sweet things.
like, "i love you too"
"i dreamed about you last night :)"
"i miss you! even though i just saw you"
etc.
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if you could say just one thing to that one guy you've though about for years, who meant alot but you meant nothing to what would it be.just one short sentence (link)
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"here's the facts: i love you"
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i'm 15, my bf is 14.
my boyfriend is always flirting with other girls.
i tried to ignore it for a while, but i just couldn't ignore it anymore.
so i told him that it annoyed me when he flirted with other girls, and especially in front of me. he said that he doesn't really think he is flirting with them, he just thinks he is being nice, or friendly or something.
i said that's ok but just don't go too far, you know.
the other day he told me he used to have crush on one of my friends.
she is pretty and popular and really nice. everyone else thinks this too, and i don't like that he used to like her.
this is because he still flirts with her, even when i am around.
he says that he doesn't like her anymore, but i just can't think that.
i think that because he always flirts with everyone else, that he doesn't really like me. he says that i am beautiful and that he loves me so much, but it doesn't feel like that....
i love him too, but sometimes it's just so frustrating...
can someone please help me how to deal with this (link)
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show your bf what he's missing. like, be really flirty with him, etc. kiss him, hug him, love him. he can't resist you after that. and he'll respect you more.
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okay, so since july, i've been binging nonstop.
i've gained 10lbs back that took me two months too loose.
well, anyway, i'm trying to loose that 10lbs again.
i'm taking it one step at a time. so i've been eating a lot of oranges and such lately.
is that healthy? or should i replace it with other foods. if so, what? (link)
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too many oranges aren't too good for you. oranges are really acidy. eating healthy is the key, but also you just need to cut back on your amounts in general. don't necessarily ONLY eat fruits. stay away from junk food and unhealthy desserts. the biggest meals should be breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and in between those meals, have little snacks, like cheese and crackers, pretzels, nuts, fruits (including oranges) and vegetables.
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theres this kid that i think is so cutee, and he usually ends up infront of me on the lunch line. anyway, i asked my friend tommy to find out his name and he ended up going up to him and saying " this girls in love with you and keeps asking me for youre name to find out youre name so what is it" and hes like oh im chris. and i dont know now i feel so awkward because he probably thinks im a stalker or something. do you have any ideas on what i can do to make this situation better? (link)
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smile at him in the hallway.
and when youre next to him in the lunchline, if youre both going to get the same food or something, make a remark towards the food. like, "these cookies are so gooood" or something like that. if he has brains, he will answer, even if it's a laugh or a smile. or one day, just sit at his table with some of your friends, and be like "hey guys, can we sit here?" and introduce yourselves, and start a convo maybe.
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They say if you stop looking for love, it will find you. How do you do this? I currently like this guy that I know i will never be with. Therefore, I want to stop liking him/looking for love. What do I do? By purposely avoiding looking for love am I doing something wrong? (link)
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Just don't look for a boyfriend, and don't look for anyone to like/love. when you walk around school or wherever, act like a whole bunch of guys like you, but you don't like them back. and just focus on having fun with friends.
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i'm fourteen, female.
so i hooked up with my best friend who i had liked for a good five months last weekend. and he made the first move and it was a lovely experience. but now it's realllly awkward when we talk and he told me he already likes this other girl and asked me for advice on how to get her.
i don't even need a relationship with him, i just miss him physically. i'm hanging out with him and his best friend and my best friend [the two best friends are semidating, so they'll be hooking up] and i want to hook up with him then...any ideas on how to make him make a move? and to get him to realize i don't want a boyfriend, but that i just want to hookup?
and any real-life tips to make him want to kiss me again? and again and again(: (link)
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you could watch a movie, and then if the 2 best friends are kissing, then maybe get a little closer to him. or just in general, get close to him...put your head on his shoulder and stuff.
or whatever all of you are doing, just snuggle with him, get close to him, and show him you want to kiss. look in his eyes, be a little flirty, be suggestive, hold his hand, etc.
also, if the 2 other people are making out, then just look at him, in the eyes, and be like "well thiiis is awkward....." or just say something that has to do with the other people kissing, and look in his eyes. it will make him make a move, and you looking in his eyes tells a lot.
hope i helped
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k i'm having a party after christmas but before new years and i already have 105 songs picked out but the dj says he needs more, does anyone have a site or any ideas of some songs i can put on there, like songs people will dance to.
also, some ideas of other things we can do at the party besides dance.
anything will help.
thanks. (link)
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rap and hip-hop songs are the best for parties.
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my boyfriend forgot my birthday. i expected not to get anything, i told him i didn't want anything. but i at least expected him to tell me "happy birthday." i really do love him, but i don't know what to do. this really hurt.
i'm definately going to confront him about it, but how harsh should i be? very harsh? just barely letting it go? should i give him another chance?
thanks in advance. (: (link)
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i don't blame you for being upset. maybe when youre talking to him, slightly bring it up ... like when he asks how you are or whats up, say "nothing much .... just writing thank you notes for my birthday gifts." or be like "nothing, just opening birthday gifts." ya know? don't be too harsh towards him. hey, who knows, he could be planning a surprise for you!
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do you know a sms/text message i can send my boyfiend at night that is flirty, cute, suggestive ...u know to keep him thinking at night or put a smile in his face
thanks (link)
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goodnight babe
goodnight, see you in my dreams
goodnight, can't wait to see you tomorrow ;)
pretty much, to keep him thinking about you, just say sweet names like babe and hun. and, use a winking face
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this is long, just a warning. it has many questions also, but please help :D
14.f.freshman
ok so at the beginning of the school year in august i dies my hair dark brown on top so it'd be my natural hair color again and blonde on the bottom. i loved it, because my hair was orangey before. then after a few weeks it faded and faded and now i'm stuck with messed up hair. the blonde stayed byt the brown turned orangey except for my little bit of roots. so, i want to dye my hair all brown to get my natural color back. does anyone know of any really good hair dye and how to keep it from fading? and possibly why it keeps fading?
another question: i straighten my hair a lot. it's damaged and i hate it. i have hair protection spray but how do some people straighten it daily and still have silky, pretty hair? i've seen people that do. also what is a good shampoo/conditioner for damaged hair that's not super expensive?
one more: my hair like won't grow. it's been the same length foreverrrr! is there any way i can get it to grow a little faster? or even grow at all?
thank you so much, even if you only answer one question =]
i neeeeeeeeeeed advice (link)
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1. if you're willing to spend the money, strip your hair of all the hair dye. or, go to a really good hair salon and dye it.
2. at night, you could blow dry your hair instead of straightening it. blow drying makes it straight too, and it definately won't damage your hair. also, if you straighten it, don't wash your hair that day/night. you can wash your body, just not your hair. then, your hair will still be straight for the next day and you didn't even have to straighten it.
3. if you trim your hair every so often, it grows quicker.
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i go to an all girls hs... i cant take all girls all the time!
how do i meet guys?
im not 'hot' by standard terms so i cant do it through like facebook or whatever (link)
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if you have friends outside of your all girls high school, maybe have them invite some of their guy friends to her house, and invite you as well. or do you have a youth group for your church? that's a good way to meet people too. online relationships aren't the way to go though. but maybe you and your friends should just have an all girls outing one night, and look for guys? hope i helped.
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i didnt get my period last month, and so far not this month either ive had my period for like a year (the summer will be 2) but i had a lot of discharge last month. should i be worried, i know its normal to miss and the cycle to be messed up but ive never had anything like that happen to me its always been normal (link)
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if you just started your period a few months ago, it's normal. sometimes it takes time for your second ovary to 'start working'.
also, if you exercise a lot, like sports, then it's definately normal.
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I have acne all over my back.
Are there any creams or scrubs that are really good and can cure the acne quick?
Thanks. (link)
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(So i hear) If you wash all the soap, shampoo and conditioner off your back fully, and then dry your back with a towel, after some time it should be reduced.
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13/f
okay so 3 people r in my problem.
me,w, and c
k.
me and w go to the same school but dont have n e classes together. last year she was new, i was her first friend. i only c her in the halls.
last year we were best friends this year we r struggling. me and c have always been good friends but not best friends. all of a sudden w and c start being best friends. then we all 3 r best friends. c doesn't go to our school n e more.
but lately w and c have been hanging out with each other a lot.
some times with me, mostly not.
yesterday i saw w in the hall way and asked her if she wanted to do sumthing tonight/weekend.
she said idk.
she said she would call me.
she didn't call.
i had to call her.
she still didn't know.
i asked her she had talked to c and she said yes, i said well what happened. she said that c was gonna spend the night. [now she didn't even ask if i cud come over]]
i asked if i cud come over and she said she didn\'t want me to.
she just came out and said it just like that.
is it just me or is that really mean??
she made me cry for 20 minutes which resulted to a few scratches on my arms.
(dont educate me on that^)
i mean i asked her first if she wanted to hang this weekend! not c!
i really need help cuz im bawling.
kthanksbye.
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she isn't a good friend. she mightve used you since she was new to the school at first. and she moved on. so, give her and the other girl some time, and make new and better friends. hope i helped
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