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feelings..
okay,
my ex comes back into my life and makes my feelings toward him comlicated. i mean we broke up because i felt he wasn't like the best like i could do better. like he's had a record.. soo after that we just never talked again and i kind of disliked him alot. Now he comes back into my life and we go to a party together right when he got in a girl starts flirting with him. i'm like okay w.e and not even an hour yet they start holding hands hugging they couldn't be torn apart. After an hour they make-out i'm like what the hell. why is he so desspret to date someone he doesn't even know. Then i kept staring at them then me and his eyes met quite a few times. i don't know but i'm so happy for them but then again the girls my best friend and she could have asked. I don't know if it was an urge for revenge or jelousy but i keep thinkings they aren't ment to be and that they should breakup! what should i do? do i like him? do i hate her?
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I hate to be blunt but do yourself a favor and distance yourself from him. You KNOW that he is wrong for you and has a criminal record from what you stated. You have absolutely NO claim to him anymore.
You broke up long ago and he moved on to the next person. Unfortunately, that person is your best-friend. This doesn't need to be complicated.
Accept the fact they both knew your relationship was long over and started dating. That's their right and you shouldn't be jealous or pissed off about it. Be happy for her but know that she will likely discover what you did that he's bad news/bad match.
It's normal to feel attachment to someone you had a past with but you need to move on. He has. It's unhealthy otherwise. Do not voice your feelings to her that it's not meant to be and they should break up. That's for her to learn and after all who are you to tell anyone who to date? You don't get a say here.
Your friend didn't have to ask you anything or tell you she planned to date this guy. It would be a courtesy or nice gesture if she had but your feelings aren't relevant to who she chooses to date to be honest.
Why hate her? It's not her fault that she likes the guy and he likes her. It's nature taking its course. It would be wrong for her to have to suppress her feelings because of your old relationship. You don't need revenge or have the right to be vengeful here.
You're treating this guy like property you own when you have no legitimate claim to him anymore. Should you be friends with him? No, you don't have to be. But do be cordial when he's around with her.
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make sure your friend didnt do that on purpose. you need to confront your ex and tell him how you feel, and tell your friend how you feel about it too. and tell her it wasnt right. you shouldnt hate anybody, but its okay to dislike them for a little.
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