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Bad Friend Blues
15/F
so some of my friends ive had a while,some not as long but ive resently been though a disaster which i think has made me see things not differently-just more clearly-things that have always been there just i haven't noticed until resently.I have noticed that they are extremly self-centered.some more qualitys and such but ive noticed that to be a major one in all of them.i seem to be getting more than im recieving.Dont get me wrong i dont mind im a pretty giving person but i can only take to an extent.bottom line i just dont think they are very good friends.But one of them are younger(but seem older and pretty mature) and very influental.Shes pretty much a follower and will do anything to fit in,and im afraid i might have led her down the wrong path-and am pretty worried about her-im sure she would do what she is even if she never met me-but i just feel its my fault anyway and really wanna help her but dont think she will listen she is pretty 2 faced.
anyway i dont know whether to dump these bad friends that can be really fun but in the long run arent really good friends-or keep them and take it
and how to help my more influential friend
please help?
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maybe you should stop giving so much. and, before finding new and better friends, you should confront your current 'friends'.
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