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Q: Our school has banned Abercrombie from our school. They say that the shirts are too sexual and distract the "learning environment." Today a friend of mine was wearing and Abercrombie shirt that said "Will work forehand jobs" and was given a saturday detention and they made him take it off. The same thing happened to a guy wearing a shirt that had a video game controler and said "wanna play?" Yes I get that those shirts can get you in trouble but what's wronge with regular Abercrombie shirts that don't have anything to do with sex? And not to mention pants. Well, us students want to get them to let us wear Abercrombie to school again becasue not ALL their shirts are like that. WE have no idea wear to start. Any ideas?

okay.. this is a little risky, but if ur like this, then just hav all ur friends (and i mean ALL) wear abercrombie on one day (i mean the appropriet kind) and just act like nothing's wrong. the teachers can't get mad at all of you, rite? good luck, and i hope you don't get in trouble!
x3 steph

Q: hey i saw how you said in a question to do 200 crunches a night.. how long do u have to do it before you start seeing good results like how long does it take? thanks

not long at all. do it for a few days, and u'll feel stronger, then do it 4 a few more days, and u'll look stronger!

Q: how do i get a chatter box?

luv sarah

ps i got that mouse we had trouble with

just like go 2 sum1's xanga w/ a chatter box, and click "get your own" or sumthin, and copy n paste the code into your look and feel page! on the bottom 1 where i tried 2 put ur cursor that didn't work! and good job w/ that!

Q: I like this girl, I mean like I REALLY love her. But, she only likes me as a friend. I recently sent her an email asking her out, but I think she's at sleepaway camp or something. I want her to love me so bad, how can I do that? Don't tell me that there are other fish in the sea, because I can feel that she's the one. How can I make her love me? Wiseasses get reported. Thanks!

if u feel she's "the one" then she must feel the same way. flirt a little, and just hang out and be herself. that way she can become more comfortable around you, and maybe she'll start to like you. if she has had a boyfriend that she really liked, then (i no this sounds really bad, but i don't mean it like that) try to be his friend, and maybe she'll get to see a new side to you, and like you!

best wishes! *stephanie*

Q: Steph, i dont know who i should like,

Yale

Zack

Some one else.

who do you think?

luv

sarah

Yale's so hott!!! he's nice 2.. i guess. zach pokes ppl, and that's completely not nice.. so i'd go w/ yale! *lick pinky touch 2 butt* sizzle!

Q: Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!!

okay.. i'll try to help. i think she should say yes, because she know you like her. if you ask her, and she says no, then she's not worth it, promise. you seem like a really great guy that doesn't deserve rejection. i know that if a guy asked me to go bowling, i would totally go! it's so fun, and u get alot of time to spend with eachother, more than a movie or something like that. here's another plus... bowling's cheap! so good luck with that! hope she says yes, and you guys have a good time on your date! best wishes!

x0 stephanie 0x

Q: right this may sound very VERY stupid but what is xanga?!?!?!?!? people talk about it all the time and i have no idea whatsoever what it is... could someone please give me any idea of what it is/or does. thnx lucee xxx

if you go to xanga.com, then you can find out, and even make your own! i love xangas, and i think i'm pretty good @ making it! all it is, is an online journal that people can read. you can put a picture of yourself (totally optional) and some of your hobbies. you can include music, and awesome backgrounds! if you want to see mine to get an idea of what one is, than go to www.xanga.com/sweetstephi265 i haven't updated it in a while, but it should still be pretty good. you can write another question once you get into getting a layout with it! i'm always up to help! and the best thing of all about xangas is that it's totally free! hav fun with it! and i hope i helped!!

Q: I have this friend and she hangs out with me all the time and stuff but shes kinda mean to me and sometimes it gets to the point where im so sad that i cry . what should i do?

i think the best thing to do in this situation is to just tell her that she's being a little too harsh, or maybe you can tell another friend to tell her for you! if she's really your friend, she'll stop, and if she doesn't, then she doesn't even deserve to hang out with you. try to stay friends, cause you never know what can happen if you you become enemies.
hope i helped, and good luck with that!!!

Q: 15/f if that helps..
The other day I was changing because I had just gotten out of the shower. My best friend (a guy) was coming over. I was just in my bra & underwear when he got to my house. My mom let him go to my room, because there hasn't been anything going on with us in the past, so she's not concerned. Well, he opened the door and saw me in just my undergarments. It's really not a big deal. but he's acting all weird about it like "hehehe i saw your underwear" and won't let it go. he didn't even apologize when he saw me he just like stared for a minute. SO how can I get him back to acting normal?!?!?! He is being such a jerk and won't cut it out.
If anybody has any advice as to get him to stop acting to stupid please, do tell!!!
thanks

i think you should just give him a little time. it will blow over soon enough, and if it doesn't, then just tell him to drop it. he should listen, so it's not a big deal. mayb he likes you or something, and it was just weird for him. i hope it works out!
good luck

Q: i sometimes have a hard time concentrating and now all my friends think im annoying. how can i tell if i have ADD or not?

if i were you, i would go to a doctor, because you can never be too sure. i'm not saying that you do or anything, but it would be nice to be sure.

good luck!

Q: ok so there's this guy who i really like & we're friends & everything & i know he doesn't have a girlfriend [& like me has never had one, except in my case a boyfriend] & i want to tell him how i feel, but i'm too nervous because i'm scared he doesn't like me back. i once talked to him online for 3 hours straight, which i never did with anyone. he's really great to talk to & the sweetest guy i ever met. but is there a way i can figure out if he likes me or not? or to have him find out i like him, without having to tell him or having it get rumored or told by a friend? please help me if you can. i will rate you if you want.

i think the easiest way to deal with a problem like this is have your friend that wouldn't say anything wrong tell him how u feel. u never know, he might even ask you out! good luck

Q: i have brown with blonde highlights hair. it is about 2 inches longer then my neck line. and i have bangs that are right down to my chin and an oval face. should i get angles or layers starting down low and in the back put layers in? or if not what are some great hairstyles that dont make my hair short because i am growing it ot

i think the best thing you could do with your hair is while it's still wet, blowdry it with a round brush to make it sleek. hope it works!

good luck

Q: what is the best way to clean a toilet bowl?

i think the best way is to just use those new handy-dandy flush away scrubbing bubble things. u just swoosh it around, and flush it down! haha that rhymed!

hav fun n good luck!