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this girl likes me. my friend asked her out for me. but she doesnt believe that i do want to go out with her.what should i do. (link)
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Simple. Ask her yourself.
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how else would my hymen break if i
DONT play sports
and ive NEVER worn a tampon. (link)
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If you finger yourself that could do it. Also using a dildo or obviously, sex
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I've been dating my boyfriend for 9 months, and last month we kinda swapped rings (we're both metal heads, so it's not like he's walking around with a heart ring :P) so I have one of his, which I know means a lot to him, and he has mine, which also means a lot to me. So we each have the others one of most valued possessions.
When my friends found out some of them said ''wtf..that's gay''
but others thought it was sweet and stuff.
So I'm wondering what do most of you think?
And we are intending to be together for a long time, I love him a lot! 15/f
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Personally, I think it's sweet. and if you do, then does it really matter what anyone else thinks anyway?
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Well I hooked up with this guy and found out he has a girlfriend the next day so what should I do, what should I say to him? does this make me a slut I feel disguisted with myself that I affilated myself with him. (link)
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Your not a slut. you didn't know he had a girlfriend and it's his fault for going out with you when he was already dating. You have nothing to be disgusted about with ourself but now that you know he has another girlfriend, I think you should dump him.
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im writing my bf a poem about how much i love him and i will miss him when i move and that i wont forget him but i CANT figure out how to start it!! there is so much i want to say but i cant get it to go nicely when i try and write it out please help me!! (link)
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I write poetry all the time. I wrote this one for a guy I really love and he thought it was so sweet. You can use it if you want.
My love for you is like a rose, beautiful and sweet but with one difference, roses bloom and die, fading from the world. My love for you is everlasting it grows brighter and brighter everyday and never fades away.
Yes, it's cheesy but he really loved it. Maybe it'll work for you to if you want to use it.
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So i like this kid; and its pretty obvious he likes me too and we talk practically everyday.
But latley hes been calling me and saying hes "bored"
I'd be like" Oh hey" and he would be like " hey . yeah i just got bored..."
-_- am i his entertainment?
boy... dont i feel speciall...
idk what does that sound like? (link)
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He's probably calling you because he likes you but isn't sure what to say. Not all guys can come out and tell a girl how they feel.
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I've always been the girl who is friends with the guys. JUST friends. And I need help on what I should do to flirt with them. I've had bfs before, but I can be kind of quiet. What can I do? (link)
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Same here. I'm quiet too and used to have the same issue. Now, sounds to me you haven't met the right guy. There's one guy that I have VERY strong feelings for and I can flirt with him. Any other guy, I can't seem to. My advice, don't be in such a hurry. When the time is right, it will happen on it's own. You just need to find the right person.
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I think I might be a lesbian, but I'm not sure. I'm 17/f, and I find myself thinking about girls and how they would look naked. I find myslf looking at the girls in the locker rooms. I find myself wanting to have like sex with girls and kiss girls and make out with girls. Are there any websites for girls like me? (link)
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Honestly, I don't think your a lesbian. I had the same issue. It's not called being a lesbian. It's called bi-curious. It hits us all at some point most people just don't admit it. As for websites, try google but I don't think you need websites if you wanna know the truth. Hope this helped
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Okay, so i am in a bit of a situation. There is a guy that i am dating and its been like a month and a half and he is so prude. He hugged me like 5 times and held my hand twice. And i like never make the first move...i dont know why i just dont. And i am torn do i break up with him or do i just keep the relationship going? But he is like a really nice guy and everything, its just i dont know. Help me?!?!? (link)
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alright, well, if I were you, i'd talk to him first. Maybe the problem is that he's a nice guy. Usually nice guys are shy. I dated a really nice guy and he wouldn't even hug me or hold my hand at first because he was so shy and, like you, I don't make the first move. So, after hoping he would get comfortable enough and waiting forever, I just hugged him and it went from there. Give him a few hints and push him in the right direction. I don't think being shy is any reason to get rid of him. Talk to him. Hope I helped.
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do guys need sex? or to at least masturbate? cause i read that it hurts guys not to have sex it was about some guy who used to do it a lot now he never does and it said that it hurt him literally not to?
soo do guys need to either have sex or masturbate?
and are guys almost always horny?
and why do guys get turned on if a girl tells them shes masturbating? Thanks so much! :] (link)
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They don't need sex and not all guys need to masterbate. I'm saying this b/c a certain person I'm really close to who is a guy, doesn't masterbate and isn't obsessed with porn or sex or anything. Most tho, do need to masterbate. It's different for every one. As for being horny, once again, it depends on the guy. Guys get turned on if a girl says shes masturbating b/c it gives them a chance to used their imagination. They get to use it to invision what the girl is doing to herself. Hope I helped
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my bf and i had dry sex and made out for like an hour and he has nice tan skin but his cheeks were red like he was blushing. can anyone tell me why? (link)
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It's just cuz he was turned on. Everyone gets that.
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Ok well, I recently had sex and I got my period the next day. But ever since I got my period, my vagina has been hurting REALLY bad (inside of it). And it burns when I pee. I'm REALLY scared! Anyone have an idea of what it might be? (link)
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I used to get that problem after masterbating. It's nothing to worry about it's just irritated that's all. If it doesn't go away soon tho, Id see a doctor.
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how do you get rid of KILLER cramps? like so bad you can't even function? and my boyfrend always asks what he can do to help. any suggestions i can tell him? (link)
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get him 2 run your stomach or give u a massage or something. Midol or a heating pad also works oh and, while most people don't use it, having sex during your period relieves cramps as well.
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is it true that if you masterbate using the bath tub focet its bad for you? (link)
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No. it's fine. Just don't use soap or something and your good.
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I seem to hate it so much whenever people use msn slang, double letters like ''radd &&fabb'' and also &&.
I know I'm 14...but everyone else uses msn slang ALL the time.
Is there something wrong with me because I hate it so much? I find it easier to type normally.
I understand things like w.e lol stfu etc.
bt wen thy typ lik ths it pisses the sht out of m.
Also I find people who use excessive emoticons for like words and so on.
I'm wondering whether I have a problem..?
sorry it was long. (link)
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No you don't have a problem. I used to be the same way. You'll either grow out of it or you won't. No big deal
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i ve been masterburting for 3yrs now does it ve any effect on my life, and what is the best way to stop ?? (link)
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there's nothing wrong with masterbating. It's natural. everyone does it, even if they won't admit it. And no, it doesn't have any affect on your life. As for stopping, can't help with that, just if u get the urge, ignore it.
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can you get pregnant if you havn't "popped your cherry"? (link)
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yep even if it's your first time and he enters you you can.
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I went to the doctors yesterday, im 5'6 and weigh 210 lbs(f) I know it's wicked bad. I know what i have to do and i am doing it. Im just really self conscious. I dont even look that heavy, cus im really muscular. Im just worried that a boy will never like me. Will they? please help (link)
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yes they will like you! Just keep one thing in mind, guys hate if if you seem too desperate, clingy or needy and DON'T try too hard they hate that avoid this and they will. It just might take a bit and who knows maybe a guy is into you and just too shy to say anything.
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ive known this guy for about 5 years and hes my best friend. i never used to think i had feelings for him until now. but things are getting confusing now, when we hang out he'll do things like put his arm around me or cuddle and i dont know what to think. im starting to feel things for him but i have no idea what he feels about me. i dont know if i should ignore these feelings because i dont want to ruin the friendship we have. any advice would be helpful. (link)
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Chances are he does like you, as for the second part I can tell you what to do but the final decision is up to you.If I were you I would talk to him, just don't lay it on too heavy.
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I don't understand what I DON'T have that guys (in middleschool) would want! They are always going out with girls that are completely outgoing! I'm not COMPLETELY outgoing, but I am a little crazy sometimes. I wouldn't say I'm ugly or anything. I mean even my friends who are ugly get really cute and nice guys. I have a few guy friends, but I don't really know them even THAT well. They only open up to the outgoing crazy girls! WHAT IS WRONG WITH IMMATURE GUYS IN MIDDLE SCHOOL?!?! (link)
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If you are trying to hard then they will ignore you. They hate it if you try too much.
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