IM simply me despite being young i know most struggles there are in life ... except child birth but i can relate ... im easy going ,honest , loving respectful and WISE
im a debater ! um ima song writer and poet feel free to question me im doing a double major of law and physcology watch out america lol
dont underestimate me i can do ny thing
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alrigtht so i dont have an older sibling or anything like that and im having my graduation party like half way through june and i really need some ideas for it such as:
food
decorations
center pieces...my moms idea
just the basics i guess
any help would be great
ps..i have a big back yard and im getting a big tent to put tables and stuff under (link)
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well details where do you live , what personality type are you ?
are you a boy or girl?
where you live all deends on prices and themes becouse on the cost its easyer to make a boat party then in the middle of texas !!!!
why dont you have a safari ?
or a canial theme ? your having a tent lol
well it all depends on the themes ?
remember you want your food to be exoticaly edible
you decoration must match the theme
and you can alway brows online to see if you notice any thing
ooo your having a tent do a roman toga thing with scroles as invites and colums as center pices that you can find in home gradin stores.. and get giant fake palm trees , and dark plated from dollor tree .... well um you can contact me for more this is hard you need a theme
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Hey everyone!
im 14 btw. (a girl)
its summrtime and wow its boiling out! 80 degrees and it just gets hotter! and im outside with my friends a lot.
and i was wondering what are your favorite summr styles to keep you cool?
and also, where can i find white tshirts (without a lot of writing) that arent see through. at all because with an undershirt its too hot!
and whats the cutest was to wear youur hair and keep cool?
(sorry for all the questions im re-doing my wardrobe!)
what are some cute bottoms, not to short (about mid-thigh)? shorts or skirts or dresses.
links or stores would be amazing. thank you so much!!! (link)
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good thing you said you were 14 this gives me and idea of what you may like!!! so first of im sending you on an adeventure to www. wetseal.com
click on the my boutice link on the top or my closet .. you may have to crate a acount but its free and what ou can do is crate your own outfits i recomend looking at the tees they have very cuite tops and they have long stylish hippie skirts .... if you want you can look at mine i was fooling aound a bit but more of my stuff is not bad its metal_beauty_4_life right now capries and colored tees are real cuite and cagro pocket shorts you han also wear sun dreeses with little shorts under them a grate grils store is limited-too and Rave girl their is a store called Melrose that sells solid colored tees for about 5 buck ... witch wll be grate becouse they are not see through .... this summer long flowy skits and bohimian sandles ,screen tees and summer dresses will be hot and cool !!!!
and for hair im thinking a low side pony tail or a side bun and flower clip like the ones you get at clares buy scarfs in solid colors and tie them like a head band giving you a more unique tough also bangles and wooden jewlry can match almost any thing you can find those almost any where dont be shy even stop by Ross or tj max they have a varity of clothing and your parents will be happy to save the money .....
.... my fav summer style is a light cotton dress and my bohimian leather wooden sandles , matching bandles and sunshaids and big hobo purse ...
or you can go online and google diffrent styles to get an idea where can you find what !!! good luck feel free to contact me .. pluss loook at papaya and gap
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nothing has gone right since dec of 07... i broke up with my bf for my ex who ended up hurting me more than he had in the beginning. i got back with the bf i broke up with jason and it was all good. then he left to iowa and then to basic. he got home from basic and all we did was fight he headed back to iowa for a while well the other day we got into a huge fight and broke up. i havent stopped thinkin of him and today he sent me a text saying sorry so i apologized back then he was like no im sorry i found a girl that i kinda like she is really cool. now there is nothign i can do about it... i love him so much and tried to tell him how this made me feel...but tears just fell too heavily and i just hung up. wat do i do (link)
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if you are reading this then you most likly woke up in the morinig and you are reading this out of hope ,that is your first sign that you are not going to hell just mearly holding on to your past... people are very Influential ,we as human live and thrive on one another ... so what your going threw is natural becouse you spent so much emidiate time with this guy. But on the other hand the emotional pain is damageing your mental health .... your still young , you have plenty of time to heal those wonds ... i know it sucks when the person you love vanishes , but you cant hold on it will only make you a bitter person . you have to open your heart and mind . the simplest thing like volentering at a soup kitcken or childrens shelter , will boost your confidence and warm your soul .... if you help other people and put some positivity back into your life style you too will feel better .. or maby go pamper your self with a little popcorn and movie ... se when he texed you he ment to say .. well good-bye im not leading you on any more ... atleast he cared enough to tell you he was sorry
im not too sure what to tell you becouse my current boyfriend had a girl friend from out of sate that became his ex and she called him like a pshyco all the time and she would be mean and hate-ful towards me .... now he gose back and forth hiding that they still talk and he dosent care how it makes me feel ...jst think of all the partys involved and if you belive in God you should know things happen for a reason things wont always be bad just dont give up on your life ...
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A few months ago there were these moccasins that were really popular from Target. I can't find them anywhere anymore because Target no longer sells them and I want some so bad!
Does anyone know where you can get some? (link)
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did you cheack online? you can google them and find where carries them http://www.themoccasinshop.com/?gclid=CNPV1LPLsZMCFQcmIgod_33BoQ
http://www.target.com/gp/search/602-4650237-0044658?field-keywords=moccasins&afid=google&CPNG=Target&LNM=moccasins&LID=1243458&ref=tgt_adv_XSGT0431 >>> hope u can order online~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i know what ap classes are, but what is ib? ap in other countries in high school when you are foreign exchange student-ing? (link)
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no not even close AP in america as far as this goses is ADVANCED- PLACEMENT its for the gifted and tallented kids and for the ones who like a challange you get more projects and many more test the the avrage student .. IB is International Bachleret witch is for the way too smart kid that dose collage level work and tons of out of school work .. .both courses at the end of school years take exams that will count towards collage hours/credit and silly why didnt you just ask your high school councler or a teacher or any sort
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I am now on my period (it's day 5), and usually by this time in my cycle, bleeding is practically done, and all I have is minor spotting/old blood. But this time, my flow is pretty irregular for me, and I am still bleeding (almost medium flow). This is not normal for me, I should be practically done by now. I think that stress is probably a factor, but I am also concerned about one other thing... I started using a menstrual cup (bell shaped, collects blood), called Diva Cup. It was my first cycle using it, and insertion was annoying to say the least, I have been trying to get used to it (it beats pads and tampons by a lot), and I am not sure whether constant inserting/removing could have caused some irregularity in my cycle...
For any ladies out there: is bleeding this far out in my cycle a potential cause of concern, given I'm usually practically done by the 5th day? And also, could the use of the menstrual cup have had anything to do with this (or am I getting worked up over nothing)?? Thanks! (link)
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rate your strees levil on a scale of 1-5 five beaing the worse .... if stress is high it could be affecting your body ... another thing is if you have been sexualy active constantly or recently befor your mentral your body may have been trying to prepair its self for possible pregnacy ... while your at a medium flow on day five this is the worriesome part. is the blood a deep red or almost black ? are you clotting ?
and as horrible as pads are they are the most safest thing in a time of igerrgular menstration
you can get TSP witch is the toxin syndrom that develops from traped bactirea in the vaginal area ... if you are changing divas more thrn once every hour to 30 mins please go to the emergency room you may have pelvic inflamation or inflamatin in the utterus
ill pray for you ... their is so only so much advise some one younger then you can give you
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Okay, I have a few questions regarding something I will be making. I'm going to be making a no sew tutu, it explains how here:
http://current.com/items/86384461_how_to_make_a_no_sew_tutu
http://www.cutoutandkeep.net/projects/how_to_make_a_tutu
I have a few questions about this.
1. I'm a chubby girl. Not obese, and borderline overweight but I'm quite chubby. So obviously I'm going to have to use extra material than most people. The girl in the second one said she used 6 yards of material, but there's a small gap. So I was thinking of 9 yards (8 metres) of material to make mine (Remember you cut it up to make it poofy) Do you think I should do this? It's obviously hard to estimate not seeing a picture of me, so I understand if this question is too hard to answer.
2. Today I went to the material shop. The woman reccomended I use nylon instead of tulle, because nylon is more tutuish, and cheaper and tulle is more for 'evening wear' should I use Nylon or stick with Tulle? I haven't seen a Nylon result, but I really like how the tulle result turns out.
Um, that's all I can think of at the moment :) Thanks in advance. (link)
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CHuBBy pshhhh alll girls should have the right to make a tu-tu ! i think nine yards will be wounderful with a little left over ! quesiton whos wearing the tu-tu ??? hmmm you are!!! so if your heart desiers the tulle then by all means buy it! and you so can wear a TULLE tu-tu as evening wear ! all you have to do is get a grate pair of skinny jeans ( witch the any one in the world can wear) and some cute skimmers or pumps
and a tee or button up and layered tank and your bella glam!!!
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15/f (freshman)
I go to a secondary school and i have been there since 7th grade. I am fed up with it and i decided i want to go to a catholic high school. What is it like? Please give me the details. The school I am going to is brand new so the cliques aren't established yet. Also, there is only going to be a 9th grade and 10th grade. (they are gonna add on a year as everybody gets older) Please be as detailed as you can! Thanks :) (link)
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well lets hope you like uniforms !_! and lets hope you are catholic by faith ..... and know your hail Marys! catholic schools are pretty easy going as long as your not a (BAD) child ... personaly i think and know becouse im about to go to Our Lady of Of the Lake University and its a Catolic establishment you get to wear a plane jain outfit that you can space up with ribbions and converse or heals .... youll attend church masses and come closer to the trinity ... click wise just be your self lol and since no one will know you be the alter ego you just dont deney your self ! well u can reach me for more or you can grab my insite/ advise and be off !!!!
stability is important in building a future and eduacations your key to succes to got to Catholic school it will be new
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So today my friends and I went to Acen up in Rosemont, Illinois and we loved it. So we decided that we wanted to do another over the summer, and I of course was stuck with looking. After three Google pages and one unhelpful Ask, I'm lost.
So, for anyone at all with previous knowledge and some links, is there going to be any upcoming Anime Conventions in Northern Illinois this summer? Like by Chicago?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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http://www.sa.niu.edu/anime/
http://www.niacc.org/modules.php/www.niacc.org/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=238
http://theanimeblog.com/anime-conventions/convention-schedules/anime-conventions-julyaugust-2007/
ok thats all i can do 4 u !!! !_____! keep the animation alive~~~~
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soo.. uhm...
whats "pwned" mean? (link)
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PWNED is more of a video game lingo its used most often in Halo a X-box video game pwning is the action of being blowing up by a rocket or frag gernade its also a dis > as making fun ,or making less of a gamers charitor ect is a leetspeak slang term, derived from the word "own",[1][2][3] that implies domination or humiliation of a rival, used primarily in the Internet gaming culture to taunt an opponent who has just been soundly defeated. Past tense is sometimes spelled pwnt (pronounced with a t sound), pwned, pwnd, pwn3d, or powned (with the standard d sound). Examples include "pwnage" or "you just got pwned".
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how do i do proper breathing for mysinging voise?
any tips and advice? THanks so much im preparing to sing in a talent show with NO` experience at all (link)
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i'll state the obviouse and just breath its a good idea to stand tall and sing from your diaphram
the more room you have spaced out from your rib cage and diaphram the better lission to the song and note where the breths are taking place thats way your breathig will syinc with the lyrics its inportat to practice projecting and throwing your voice thats way you inhance your vocal range !!!!
all out fails i bet you have a chior teacher lieing arounds at skool or church
best wishes in your talent show !_!
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This might be a silly question, but I just want your opinions.
When is the age that you should (well, not 'should'... you know what I mean) start dating. Like really be looking for a long-term relationships and even potentially a future husband? I've never really dated seriously before, and I would just like to know what a good age/stage in life would be to start looking for a potential husband.
I'm 17 and a half, and I would to get married at 21-22. (I'll be done with college when I'm 21, and I want to have a kid before 24... LOL I know I'm weird).
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if your 17 and one half how old is the guy you wish to marry becouse most men around this age will not be egar to wed .... a good time to start long term relation ships would be around age 19-20 and its not wise to marry any one befor dateing them for 1 or more years ..... to look for a potental husband would be age 20 and thas the youngest i will tell you becouse the college life setting is far more potent then any one imagins and befor you can marry all your finances need to be stable and i bet by the time you or any 24 year old has kids your not quite stable finatualy ... but if you have your life paln id say 18-19 start looking
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So, hopefully someone on here knows something about law. I have a half-sister that lives with my dad. I am out on my own and have been trying to see her as much as I can given my work and school schedule, but my father is making it very hard to see her, telling her she can't go out with me when I have time to see her etc. I was wondering if there is such a thing as a right to see your siblings. I cannot simply go over there and see her because of a conflict between my father and I, so what I can do? (link)
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first off how old are you ?
are you under the age of 18 ?
where legaly instated on your own? have you read your parents divorce decree?
do u have an childrens lawer?
becouse there are no physical laws
deniying you visitation rights with your sister
you can be escorted by a police men to avoid any acusations or conflict but your best bet is to seek profecinal advise
maby its better to see her with yourfather present becouse that is the only was he will permit visitations a little is better then nothing
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so people say i'm emo. even though i'm not. but on the other hand i have nothing against them. i just dont liketo lable myself. so yeah my hair is dark and i have a fringe, and like black eyeliner and wear green/blue/red/purple skinnys.
what is so bad about that? i mean everyone hates me, just because i'm not a hip hopper and dont drink&smoke. everyone else does but so what? i just dont want to be like them. i just dont understand why people hate me just because i'm different. no matter how nice i am, they just hate me.
i have no friends at all. i guess i was just unlucky with this school.
but what should i do?
i wont change though. (link)
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its true that people or peer wont except whats diffrent its nt so much as the hate you they were never thought how to except others who where diffrent .. while right now in life your undergoing social isolation it wont always be that way there will alway be people you can relate to .. you can always find people in diffrent settings like even if its online ...
the great thing about being unique is that you already know who you are!!! hey i wear skinny jeans and random eye shadow tooo !!!! but i have not a single style ! look remind them tat emo comes from emotonal and all humans have emotional and as long as your not cutting your self your not typical emo ! people dont hate you they dont know how to except you becouse they dont know how its ignorance on thier behalf the most imporant thing is to stay true to who u are try hanging out with the at clubsor drama clu or debate they tend to be more open .... i bet you can find some where to fit in , IN you only need a few good friends not a whole universe ....
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I am dealing with a huge weigh on my shoulders. Last year I went through the hardest time of my life. I had been with my ex-boyfriend on and off for almost a year and a half. He moved away for school but we hook up when he would come home. I ended up pregnant and he made me feel like there was no way to keep the baby. I was in a horrible state with my hormones running wild and all the added stress of school. I was 2 months away from receiving degree. But I knew it was going against everything I believe in.
I feel totally depressed. Its been a year and I still have the pregnancy weight, I feel totally guilty for what I did. It kills me inside to think about what I did. I have no one to talk to because its such a sensitive issue. My friends haven't been through this and I dont want to dwell my issues on them. I lost all my confidence i feel fat and ugly because of what I did. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel totally alone :*( (link)
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fortunaly your not lone ... many young girls go threw the same thing have u looked for local support groups ... yes you will go threw a lot of emotional pain and stress abortions are not natural and they take time to heal .. but what you can do in the mean times is atempt to eat more foods with anti -oxidents to filter out bad toxins , drikng green tea and eat more fruit .. baby weight wont go away ,but with the littlest exersise as walking daily will help .. the reason behind the slow weight loss is due to depresion .. have you tryed takiing to a doctor a hormone imballence might be the problem .. as for the internal pain thats a scare .. yes time heals all wonds the worse thing you can do is isolate your self ... remember humans come in all shapes and sizes in Gods eyes your still beautyful
i can asure you must have atleast five tallents
take some personal time to write them down
you need to start buliding confidence
its going to be hard .. you have to gain the streinths to look your self in the eye
begin in the mirror every night and every morining stare at your helf repeating " i am a worthy Human , kind, loving , deserving and will ing to find my self i am a child of God and my parents I love me for me I love me for me " you have to slowly buld up confidence and that takes time .. as long as your on earth youll never be alone!!!!! well u an im me @ metal_beauty_4_life@yahoo.com i have more if i have helped you any
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