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ok, so im 14 and i really want a boyfriend but im not sure if im ready. i feel totally ready but then when i see guys in person and talk to them, i can't imagine kissing them because i feel nervous and sort of not ready. it's like an easier said than done thing, you know? so, am i ready or what's up with me? (link)
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Well maybe you aren't ready to kiss someone yet? You could hang out with guys get to know them and have fun! When you find someone you like and get comfortable with them, then you might feel ready to kiss someone. Don't push yourself to do anything you aren't sure about yet. I know there is a lot of pressure as a 14 yr old to start dating and getting physical but it really is o.k. not to.
Basically take your time, have fun, and find someone you trust and like before you worry about kissing. The time will come soon enough.
Good luck!
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I'm 17 and I got this lady in town to let me babysit her daughter. The girl is 11 years old and I will be babysitting her this weekend. The lady said I could take her to my house if I'm more comfortable with that but that I need to have her home and in bed by 9 so she can get to sleep shortly after.
Well, I have only babysat like 5 year olds and I don't want to make this 11 year old feel like I'm treating her like a baby or something. What are some good things to do while babysitting an 11 year old? Games to play maybe or what? I figure I can't just pop a movie in and let her entertain herself with it like some of the little kids I babysat wanted to do. I want to be a good babysitter... (link)
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if you aren't afraid to make a little bit of a mess get some corn starch and water. then mix it in a big bowl and let the kid dip their hands in it and play around. The corn starch and water makes a solid and a liquid. Kids love it and you probably will too! And it is educational i suppose if you look up the facts about it. Good luck!
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HI...
Im only a 11 year old girl , and i have'nt gotten my first period yet. I have been getting brown discharge...its not blood i could tell,its like gewwy and brown. I get scared cuz people on websites say that i have an effection, but maybe im different because i have'nt gotten my first period yet.( I have told my mom but she siad that its my period)may you please Help me cuz i bet you know alot more about this kind of stuff than i do.
THanXxX
-take care
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It's hard for me to say because I don't know what it looks like but sometimes period blood can look brown. I recommend looking at this site. kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/ It can answer any questions you have about vaginal health and puberty. If all else fails I would see a dr. Good luck!
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i have white discharge like a day after sex usually. is it just my dudes cum or could i have an infection? (link)
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It could be a yeast infection, or it could be normal, or something worse. I would say go to a dr and get checked out. Depending upon your area I would check out planned parenthood. Good luck!
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Hey 18/F
Me and my boyfriend have been dating a while and lately have been talking bout exploring things more sexually. We have been taking it slow but think it's time. My question is if he fingers me or something will he be freaked out about how wet I am? He turns me on a lot and I really can't help it but I get really really wet and want to know if that will freak him out or be a turn off since we are both very inexperienced and it would be our first time with anything like this. Thanks!! (link)
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I recommend you get this book. It is called I HEART female orgasms. You two can read it together and try out things. It has great information about any questions the both of you might have, physically or emotionally.
If you are really worried about him freaking out about how wet you are talk to him about it. Communication is a very big part of good intercourse. As always use protection and have fun!
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Okayy so i am going to be a 7th grader.. I had a few dischargez, cramps...... Is that the sign of me getting my period. When will i get my period?!!!?!?!?!?!!?!?!!!?!?!?!?!?>:( (link)
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It varies from woman to woman, I am a little confused by you saying you have had a few discharges? Do you mean blood? or a different kind of discharge? There are many good teen health websites out there that can probably answer any question you have! I recommend kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/
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I am 20 years old. Never missed a period since i've gotten it. There is a great possibility i could be pregnant, I haven't had my period since march 27th 2010, but last week i was bleeding very lightly, i have taken 5 pregnancy tests and they are all negative, i haven't been able to go to the doctors yet due to not having insurance .. ahhhhhh! what could it be? (link)
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Hello! I am not a Dr. but here are some things that can cause this.
1.Stress
2.illness
3.Overweight
4.Underweight
5.Change in schedule
6.peri-menopause
7.menopause
8.miscalculation
9.change in medication
10.pregnancy
I hope this helps, depending upon where you live I would also check out planned parenthood. They will work with you even if you do not have insurance. In some locations you can even get free dr. visits and birth control and what not. Hope everything works out!
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My boyfriend and me have been dating for over 10 months now and everything has been great. Granted, there has been our ups and downs, as all good relationships do, but recently it seems as though he's been ignoring me. He won't answer my texts or calls. When we do talk its because I call him for the third time. I ask if I did something to upset him or if something is wrong and he says no and that everything is ok. He's been acting strange; when we talk he doesn't say much and it seems he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I'm very lost in what's going on with him. Please I need some serious advice (a guys opinion would be very helpful as well). Please answer soon. Thank you. We love each other and I want to make it work. I am 16 and he is 17. I know we are young and some people think people our age can't be in love but in this case we very much do, so please if you answer this let it be about our problem not based on just our age. Thank you (link)
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Normally when a guy shows a lack of interest it is just that, they are not interested anymore. This is not aged based because people of all ages do this but you might want to read up on something called "love addiction" here is a section from an article.
Love addiction is a human behavior in which people become addicted to the feeling of love. Love addicts can take on many different behaviors.
i could be completely wrong but I would google love addict and they have quizzes you can take to see if you are and go from there. Good luck, hope everything turns out ok!
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I'm white, he's black. Is it wrong? My mom does NOT approve at all. She actually doesn't know I am dating him because of her beliefs. I don't tell many people because I'm scared of what they will say or do. I'm scared that they will disown me. There are so many racists out there, including most of the teachers in my school. When I'm with him in school, there is always fuss. Black teachers yell at us, as well as white teachers. That's just when we are holding hands. It gets really discouraging for me, and it makes me sad. I don't see him for his color, I see him for his personality. And yes, I do love him. There are some bad things about him that not many people would approve of, but he treats me good. He doesn't beat me (like a lot of white people think black people do to their girlfriends) he doesn't force sex on me or any kind of sexual act, he is just as good as any regular guy. What I am scared of, though, is that he is in a gang. He gets arrested a lot and tells me he's always fighting. He knows how I feel about his fighting and jail time. He said he wishes he didn't join the gang because he can't get out now. If I tell my mom that, she will send me off to some kind of all white boarding school. He says he loves me, too. Sometimes I want to break up with him because he is bad, but he is a really sweet, caring guy and that's what keeps me hanging on. I really don't want to break up with him. Its like, the people around me are PRESSURING me to end the relationship. Advice? (link)
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Maybe people are not starring because he is black, but they are scared that you might get hurt. Even if he is not a bad person, if he is around bad people he can drag you along. I dated a guy who was an awesome guy but he hung out with not the best people. Sadly he ended up getting murdered and I had to go to my boyfriends funeral. Its a very tragic thing, and sometimes I wonder what would of happened if I had gone with him that day. I could be dead too. You should probably ask yourself as well what kind of person and life you deserve. Is this guy really good enough for you? Now if your only issue as to why you might be thinking about breaking up with him was that others were looking down on you two, I would stay with him. I have a multi cultural family and I love it. Race is not a reason to break up with someone, but someone making not so great choices and ending up in prison might be. Hope everything works out!
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1. Going out every night, getting completely wasted and coming home around midnight.
OR
2. Smoking weed everyday, by yourself, when your mom's not home.
I guess I want to see what other people think? My friend keeps pushing on what I'm doing is so much worse that what she is, though I don't think so. Opinionnnns! :) oh both of use are 16 and females. (link)
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Sorry I would say both, an addict is an addict no matter what it is.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months the problem is he never wants to be around my family i always have to be with him and his family but his family only speaks spanish and i dont? What do i do? (link)
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Maybe try talking to your boyfriend and explain to him how it is important for you to see your family as well? Try making a compromise of switching what house you guys hang out at? And maybe he could also teach you Spanish? Hope things work out!
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what is all the reasons to skip your peoride (link)
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Im not sure all of the reasons but here are a few,
1.pregnant
2.extreme stress
3.underweight
4.illness
5.overweight
6.change in schedule
7.change in medication
8.peri-menopause
9.menopause
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16/f
Lately I noticed I am low on self-esteem often.Like,the smallest thing can make me insecure.I am usually very confident,because I'm really good-looking and smart.I am afraid when this happens,because I set an example for a lot of my friends out there and if they saw me get all insecure and scared they'd be lost,they always say that seeing me all so confident and bold helps them go through the hard things in their lives.I think it may be related to my bf.I'm always afraid he won't like me once we get to bed,even though he always says I'm gorgeous and that he loves how I look.I wanna get rid of this stupid feeling I get.What can I do to stop this from happening? I've had enough of it for a lifetime. (link)
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I think the feeling you have may be a teenage thing, I felt that way when I was younger and the more I got to know myself, figure out who I was, and became secure with myself I no longer cared what other people thought because when it came down to it, I liked myself. I'd say read up on some self discovery and self esteem books, it seems odd but it might be the root of your problem. Books like that are also just good for healthy mental development. You might also try making a list of things you like about yourself. Good Luck!
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Ok so like iv been hangin out with this guy a lot latly he told me he loves me but he don’t treat me like he does he talks to all these girls we are not dating so he tells everyone we are just f** buddys I already told him I want to be more he said the reason why he hasn’t asked me out is because of all the guys I use to be with but I stoped talking to all of them I don’t know what to do I really want him but sometimes I don’t think he wants me just cuz all the girls he talks to and he is very controlling to me. (link)
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This guy does not deserve you, I don't know if you listen to love line at all or know who Dr. Drew is but I recommend checking him out. He has excellent relationship advice. Hope all goes well!
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