Member Since: June 20, 2010
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Last Update: November 2, 2010
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I love sleeping, I sleep ALOT. At least I need to sleep 12 hours a day and sometimes i sleep more.
I never wake up because of a nightmare or such. I am also a very heavy sleeper.
But its been more than a week, I havnt been able to sleep well. Like I sleep but i'd wake up 7 or more times in my bed because of different nightmares i am having.
no light and not any noise, my room is perfect for sleeping.
Why is that happening to me? I love sleeping and the nightmares suck. Like 7 different dreams, and its been going on for more than a week.
HELP!! (link)
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Well in my experience its probably because you have something on your mind. Clear your thoughts or talk to someone about it.
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im 18 and jewish. not religeous but i went to a jewish school and i want a tattoo on my but (dont judge)
no one that i dont want wud see it- it wud be for me but im scared my mom will find out
like if she takes me to the doctor or something
shud i get it? (link)
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First tell your mom that you want a tatoo really bad. If your mom completely disagrees then explain why. But you are 18 so it's your body.
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Okay so it all started about a year and a half ago! I had just gotten suspended from school for the rest of the year because of fighting. My friend Mariah had ran from her group home and I joined her. After our first night on the run, we were introduced to a couple people, one of them being the boy I would fall in love with, Jason! I can replay the first moment I seen him with perfection, as if it just happened. Here came this loud, adorable boy in his dickies! It was an instant attraction! That night me and mariah stayed at his house and me and him stayed up all night.(justkissing) Did I mention we were EXTREMELY drunk?! Well the next day when I woke up laying next to him, I pretended like that night never happened, even though I had major hickies. He tried so many times to talk to me and until I was again drunk that night I blew him off! Then once I was drunk we were more 2gether, it was crazy! THEN this guy we call "blackboy" came and I found him extremely attractive, and considering how drunk I was I was completely open about that feeling! That night I had sex with him in jasons room! Long story short:: next day Jason was pissed at me but then we talked ALOT and made up and I had sex with him that night, and the next day I left and didnt see him again for a while!!!!! ......About A Month Later..... So i was no longer on the run and my birthday was coming up. And without saying I wanted to see him I was determined to make sure I spent my birthday with him, and I did. That night is the best mmemory of my life, and the night I fell in love!(July10th2009♥). We did not have sex that night but we went on a super long walk together, and spent an AMAZING night 2gether>>WITHOUT SEX!! ..The next day i went home!! .....2WeeksLater.... So I was going to hang out with my friend mario and his homeboys and we were gonna drink! well I got drunk and had sex with 2boys that night! they were cousins, and Jasons good friends, and he showed up the next day. He freaked out on me then left, and about an hour later came back and wanted 2 "talk" and spend the day with me.We had sex that night. If i went on in detail about it would take me a century to write about it BUT our relationship mainly consisted of me sleeping with his friend, him cheating on girlfriends with me, fighting, sex, alot of great memories, and in the end him hating me!!
Now here's my dilema! I put myself in rehab for three months FOR HIM! I cant deal with him hating me. We havent talked in almost 4months. Ive been working so hard to turn my life around for him. AND today I find out he's going to be doing 6 to 8 years jail time for being a look out for a shooting. I LOVE HIM!! My anxiety litterally is hurting me! Please dont give me advice on how, "I dont know what love is" or "What we had wasnt love" or "how to get over him" I NEED advice on how I can work things out with him if i write him or I need to know hotline numbers to talk to someone about this kind of thing.
When you give me advice just consider that i am an EXTREMELY determined girl who is in love and not even slightly considering giving up!!!
YES our relationship was unhealthy BUT there was real feeling there I felt it! and i know he felt it too, because he was so good at showing it!
I love this Boy and I refuse to give up!!
so please Ive heard enough negativity about this from other people! Im looking to people on this website to help me!! I know it sounds wierd and may make know sense but all the times I messed up WERE things that happened when i was drunk and i know thats no excuse at all! but as hard as it is to believe, at the begining of each of those days my plans were based on him! hoping if I hung out with his friends he would show up and I would see him! But I am a very complicated and strive for emotianal attention, and so when all those guys went for it with me it was extremely hard for me to say no, so I just give in!! I have made alot of mistakes in my life! but losing him is the one I regret most! (link)
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Well If you say it was true love then that's all there is. But if you wanna make it work then tell him the truth and tell him you love him. Fight for him if your willing 2.
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People say it is bad, why is that? (link)
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People say it is bad because your friend will probably want space for her other friends and she might think your getting in the way. Which it could lead to her avoiding you.
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im 13 & Me & my friends go to a place called the rattlesnake saloon & there is a guy there thats around my age & he sings a couple songs. I went twice & he kept staring at me & smiling to his self. the 3rd time i went my friend came & now shes in to him to. me & my friend walked on top of the cave & after a min. he came up ther too. on our way down we had to pass him and he kept turin his head to look at us & my friend kept saying that he was lookn at her but im not sure & i really like him & i want him to pick me over her. i think he likes me because wen i was alone he always had his eyes on me!! what do i do to get him? (link)
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Try just being yourself. But maybe try to go up and talk to him. If you saw him first then go for it. But u don't wanna battle over him and u guys end up not being friends over it. Maybe change up your style to impress him.
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Okay so this may sound really shallow but i dont really care. I'm always embarrassed when i go skiing because i look dumb. I don't know where all the girls i see get their clothes but i can't find cute things anywhere. I want some form fitting pants to wear and a jacket that matches my skis and boots. Is that too much to ask for? I'm really thin and dont like looking all bulky and whatnot. Also i'd like it to be semi practical so like if its snowing a little i wont get all wet. My boots are yellow and my skis are light blue and yellow. Links and stuff are appreciated. Oh and not ridiculously expensive. thanksss (link)
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Try to mix 'n match to save on money. But if you have absoutley nothing than here are lists of items that you can buy really cheap. Jackets,mittens, warm pants and and comfortable boots. But u can ask other skiiers where they buy there clothes.
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I love my boyfriend a lot. However, he has many hobbies that prevent him from hanging out with me or talking to me all the time and those times when we aren't hanging out or talking, I just feel so lonely and bored. Like I don't even feel complete unless I'm at least talking to him. So I was thinking maybe if I found a new hobby I could distract myself when he's not around. The problem is I can't really ever seem to find a hobby that I can consistantly enjoy...I've tried drawing, guitar, piano, craft stuff, all kinds of sports...it just seems like no matter what I start enjoying, it gets boring in a couple of weeks. Can anyone help me find a time consuming hobby or maybe just offer tips to stick with it? I really don't want to waste this summer being bored...Thanks! (link)
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Well try hanging out with other friends. Or go shopping. Maybe try cooking or invite friends over for a party or sleepover. Possibly hang out with family.
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i've heard it's normal to be obsessed with something as a teenager (14 girl).
i am sort of obsessed with ashley greene, not weirdly because im not a lesbian or anything lol. but i just think she is pretty and i absolutely love her acting! i look her up on the internet often and look at interviews, facts, questions etc. about her. i look up where she buys her clothes and even what she eats and stuff. then i want to buy that stuff. im not like gonna stalk her or anything phsycho like that but is this normal or am i weird?! (link)
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It's normal with teens to be obsessed with people. But if it goes to far then it can become unhealthy.
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