I love my boyfriend a lot. However, he has many hobbies that prevent him from hanging out with me or talking to me all the time and those times when we aren't hanging out or talking, I just feel so lonely and bored. Like I don't even feel complete unless I'm at least talking to him. So I was thinking maybe if I found a new hobby I could distract myself when he's not around. The problem is I can't really ever seem to find a hobby that I can consistantly enjoy...I've tried drawing, guitar, piano, craft stuff, all kinds of sports...it just seems like no matter what I start enjoying, it gets boring in a couple of weeks. Can anyone help me find a time consuming hobby or maybe just offer tips to stick with it? I really don't want to waste this summer being bored...Thanks!
katiekat answered Friday June 11 2010, 10:13 am: Try building something, that's time consuming, take up something new, join a yoga or kickboxing class at the Y or some other gym. Start a new video game. Hang out with some friends, all girls need some time without boys around. Rearrange rooms, Clean!
Ok, really, you're only going to stick with something that you truly enjoy and, genuinely interests you. If there's absolutely nothing, make a list of things and when you get bored of one, just move on to the next. I have a long distance relationship so I find myself trying to keep occupied, and often failing, a lot. ANyways, hope this helps, if you find something super entertaining, let me know! :) [ katiekat's advice column | Ask katiekat A Question ]
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