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So my moms is being ridiculous and not letting me wear eyeliner to school. I'm gunna be a sophmore ;'( and i do not even put hardly any on! she makes me so mad like i cant even have a discussion with her about it. She took it away out thin air. Like suddenly "u cant wear eyeliner" so my question is how can i make my eyes look good with out eyeliner. My style is kinda Vintage with a rock twist. WHICH IS WHY I LIKE A LITTLE EYELINER. shes so stupid. anyway my eyes are green and blond hair i would really appreciate it. plus "eyeliner" doesnt count as some black under the eye so if you could give me some tips on that. And i really like golds and warm colors THANKS A BILLION (link)
i wouldnt try and hide the eyeliner, if she finds it, you could be in alot more trouble, for hiding something from her, and for lying.

this is a nice one:
http://img.youtube.com/vi/5j9knw7PzlA/0.jpg

thing's you'll need:
-primer(optional)
-gold eye shadow, brown eye shadow, orange eye shadow, and grey.
-a black mascara.
-lash curler(optional)
-eye shadow brushes.
-blending brush.
( i'm 99% positive you can buy these at places like walgreens and walmart, if you don't already have them).


if you like, start off with a primer. put a little under your lower lash line as well. and go all the way up into your crease and brow bone. start off with the gold(yellow) eye shadow. apply it all over the lid, and a little into the crease, also apply it in the corner of your lower lash line, all the way to where the colored part of your eye ends. second, use the brown. use it on the outer corner and blend half way into the top part of the yellow. connect the brown from the outer corner, to the end of the yellow shadow on your lower lashline. after that, take the orange, and put it above the yellow in the inner corner of your eye, and above the brown on your outter corner. then take your blending brush, and GENTLY blend the colors together, so there arent any harsh lines.

you're just going to have to experiment with colors and different looks. i hope i helped.


This girl that goes to my school put videos up of me on YouTube under my full name, and it honestly freaks me out a lot. I want them down, but she won't take them down. They're not scandalous or anything; I just don't want videos of me online under my full name.

Please tell me there's someone I can contact to get them off? (link)
under the video, there should be a little red flag button. if you click on that, you can report the videos. it should ask for a paragraph explaining why you're reporting them.


http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4007/4574477602_c8b787b894.jpg

how do you do this updo? it looks like a bun with 3 mini buns lol (link)
i think she just put her hair up in a bun, haha.
you can try putting your hair up in a bun, and then using a comb to take certain strands out, and then putting the ends of those under the hair tie. alot of it depends on how long your hair is too.


How do you find a good job? Do you work anywhere? How much do you work during the school year? I can't figure it out =( (link)
you just have to look around, and ask around. look in the newspaper. if you're inexperienced, you're not going to get THAT good of a paying job as your first one, you can mostly get something like a cashier, waitress, cook at a fast food restaurant, hostess, carhop, those kinds of things. some of it depends on your age too. if you're under 21, obviously you wont be able to serve alcohol.


So, i'm having a sweet 16 -- there will be a LOT of dancing with a DJ. i know some people aren't the dancing type, so what are some other things to do? I'll have food & tables, but i feel like thats not enough at all, you know?

I'm considering a pinata, but not full of candy only cause.. well, we're spending a lot on food. Maybe prizes, btu like what? I really don't have a lot of money, but yeah, any suggestions are appreciated! (link)
are you having it at your house? if you are you can hook up video games, or guitar hero or something. maybe set up a badmitten net? if you're not having it at your house, try and have alot of seats, for people who dont dance. maybe you can get fireworks, there are still some on sale from the fourth,


I'm 5'3, female, 175 pounds and my bra size is DD, I want to lose weight but i've heard a lot of people say that the first thing you'll lose is your boobs. I have a very curvy figure (I have big hips + small waist) but I want a flat stomach and smaller legs. How can I do this? How often will I need to swim in order to actually lose weight? Running in place? I love dancing. My friend told me if I swerve my hips like a belly dancer I can lose weight? Is there any dance videos I can watch? I'm kinda desperate to lose weight in the least amount of time as possible. Thanks in advance :) (link)
dont really try and lose weight, just try and get toned, sit ups, pushed ups, crunches


i'm inlove with this girl named sarah.
but she has a boyfriend his name is able.
I don't like anybody else but her!
i'm like obsessed she's all i think about, she's all I dream about, she's everything to me.
I told her I was inlove with her many of times.
I talk to her on the phone everynight, and she even comes over on special occasions like birthdays and stuff like that! I want her to like me too, I want to be her boyfriend What do you think I should do?
I don't wanna date anyone else except her.
she's a year older then me!
i'm 18 she 19.
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i think all you can do is tell her how you feel, and hope for the best.


I am from the philippines. What's the best way to present the song closer you and i in duet? (link)
you can look online and find kereoke music.


So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 months. He has a tendency to call other girls "his love". Now isn't that rude? I think it's disrespectful and selfish for him to call other girls that, knowing that he has a girlfriend. he calls them that on facebook and while he texts. And on fb i can't help to get embarrassed because other people are reading that and it's like i'm his gf and he should know not to say stuff like that, especially on facebook. what do you think i should do? (link)
you need to talk to him and tell him it's rude. honestly, it sounds like he isnt serious about you guys, and is just looking to play around, and wants every girl to himself.


Although I'll get rude answers from this, I'm extremely worried and concerned to the point where my stress has gotten me sick and maybe delayed my period. So, as I said, I was naked while he wore boxers and basketball shorts. I am on birth control and have been for 2 months, I'm only the last week in my packet and I'm going to be taking a white, sugar pill, my third one actually. I've been having cramping but no blood flow, I took my pills on the night of the incidents (it's only happened twice.) What has gotten me so upset is thinking that it could of gotten through, although HE DID NOT EJACULATE. I should be getting my period any day but all I've gotten is a lot of white fluids. (link)
it's almost impossible to get pregnant while on the pill, AND having dry sex, while he had clothes on, AND didnt ejaculate. if he didnt finish, you have nothing to worry about. stress can cause a delay in your period. you're just paranoid. but, you DO need to remember, if he does finish, and either of you are wearing clothes, you CAN get pregnant. sperm is small enough to travel through the fibers in clothing. the only 100% way to NOT get pregnant, is to not have sex. if you two do have sex, use a condom. you're smart being on birth control.


Hi i am 13 nd im a gurl um i want 2 noe wat iz mini-sex bcuz i think i hav done it wit my last boyfriend i dnt noe wat itz rly p.s. srry 4 da grammar i am on da interent on ma fone (link)
i've never heard of mini sex. you could probably be talking about just certain kinds..like oral.


what is cum used for (link)
i've heard it's good for your skin. it's rich in vitamin e, which is used in anti aging. that's just what i've heard though.


Does baby oil help you tan (link)
It will help you tan but only temp. your skin has to be moisturized to tan but baby oil contains mineral oils and alcohol which in no time will dry your skin and leave your tan blotchy and flaky.i dont recommend it. baby oil can also break your skin out. you can try getting a tanning lotion, with bronzer in it. i do that, and it works really well. but i think it depends on how well you tan, and how fast too.


my boyfriend and i were having sex for about thirty minutes and i got tired and just had to finish him off oral-ly. even after i did that, it took another hour-hour and a half for him to finish. A) why is he taking so freaking long? B) how can he NOT take so long? any ideas?

this fact is keeping me from wanting to sleep with him that much, and its taking a toll on our relationship. (link)
i don't mean to sound rude, but the sex might just be boring for him. so it's hard for him to finish. you need to ask him what turns him on, or what he likes during sex.


I'm a 14 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 weeks. We were making out and he started taking off my shirt and bra i didn't mind that much so i let him continue and we made out for like 2-3 minutes with my clothes off. I feel like I'm a slut for going that far. He says I'm not but I know he would say that because he wants it to happen again. Am i a slut? (link)
he's your boyfriend. it doesnt make you a slut. you being a slut means you'd be sleeping around and doing that stuff with TONS of guys.


I have a bad fear of butterflies. I think they are very pretty creatures, especially for insects, but I am terrified of them. I will actually try to dodge them when they fly around me so that they don't touch me or land on me. I know they're not going to hurt me but I don't know what about them makes me so scared.

I have had friends laugh at me and think I'm just being stupid but I'm seriously afraid of butterflies. I have met one other girl who said she was afraid of butterflies too but I didn't get to talk to her about it so I don't know if she was maybe lying to me in the end.

Is it normal to be afraid of butterflies? Is it OK to be afraid of butterflies? (link)
I'm pretty afraid of butterflies too. It's totally normal, people are scared of worse things than butterflies.


my boyfriend and i broke up and i slept with my ex. when we got back together i told him about it, now he's so insecure that he's a jerk. its like if one of his friends sleep over he'll be mad and give me the cold shoulder the whole time and the next morning! even after they leave. and when i ask him about it he'll say "how do i know what you did after i fell asleep" i tell him he's being hurtful by saying these things and he says he's not trying to hurt me but this is how he feels. what should i do? i want him to trust me because im not doing anything wrong and i never cheated on him but he insists otherwise. (link)
you didn't cheat on him, so, you didn't do anything wrong. how long were you two split up? i can understand why your boyfriend would be mad, if you two were split up for a short time, it could of felt like cheating, cause it hurt him. you need to talk to him and tell him you didn't do anything wrong, and you're sorry it hurt him, but you two werent together. if he keeps holding this jealousy, it can ruin the relationship.


Hello! 14 f


Okay well to start off, I'm the shy type I don't ujust well to new things..when I first started middle school..I was terrified and I couldnt handle it to well. Now I will be a freshmen and I'm freaking out..I'm stressing and worrying..:/ My boyfriend has been in the high school for a few years now, he told me I'll get use to it and I'll be fine. He said I shouldn't worry because he'll be there for me. :x Well Still..can someone give me an insight? How was your peoples freshmen year? How did you get use to it! Thanks for all the advice you share! Thanks! (link)
I'm about to go into my junior year this year, and honestly, freshman year was the greatest year for me. it was soo much fun! alot of great things happened for me that year. i was suuuper nervous that first day, you're in a new building, and there are ALOT of people, depending on the school, in the building. i was mostly worried about upperclassman, and my classes. but my first day was a breeze! and the year was great. i got to know alot of the people at the school really well, so i easily got used to it. you're freshman year will be great. :)


So I'm on birth control, have been for the past three years. The reason I'm on it is to regulate my period and reduce cramps. Also, I've been sexually active as well so that's the reason I'm still on it.

Well not to gross anyone out, but ever since I got put on birth control my discharge has been super thick, and according to my boyfriend, tastes sour. So I want to do a little experiment and see if this all goes away if I stop taking my birth control. I won't be seeing my boyfriend all summer, so I don't see why not.

First of all, is it okay to just suddenly stop taking your pills? I'm only three pills into my new pack.

Also, once I see my boyfriend again, I will have to go back on birth control, and I'm thinking of using a different one, that doesn't give me this weird discharge. Does anyone have any personal experience with this, and can recommend a birth control (and I understand that ultimately my doctor will decide which one is best for me, but maybe I can run one of yall's suggestion by her)

Thanks!

F/19 (link)
i'm pretty sure it's okay if your discharge changes. the pills make your hormones go crazy. i'm sure it's normal.
as for all of a sudden stop taking them, i'd talk to your doctor, i've only been on the pill for almost 2 months, so i'm not very experienced and i don't know a whole lot about them.


My bestfriend never talks to me anymore. Like i'll go up to her and ask her if she wants to sit by me she'll just snuff me all the time. I'm almost 16 and I'm a female. If someone could please give me advice that would be nice.
Thx (link)
you might have just did something to upset her, and she's a little mad. i'm sure she'll get over it.




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