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Q: I know this is going to sound random but w/e.
How do I go about asking my boyfriend if we can have sex without asking him straight up?
Any tips are appreciated.♥
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Q: My boyfriend kinda over-does it when it comes to complimenting me. I really appreciate him being sweet and all, but he takes it too far sometimes. When we were at dinner the other night, I asked him to pass the salad and he responded saying "I'd love to pass the salad to my most awesomest girlfriend in the world that I love more then she loves salad"

.. Yeah weird, but the problem is, he does that in EVERY conversation so its not just once-in-a-while. It becomes more annoying then flattering. How do I get him to take it down a notch but still making sure that he knows I appreciate his efforts? He hasn't caught on to my hints to getting him to stop.
It sounds like something that was really cute and funny the first time, but he's overused it. Tell him you appreciate it but that sometime you just wish he'd shut up and pass the damn salad.

Of course, find a slightly more subtle way to do it. Let him know he doesn't have to try and be overly creative. Sometimes the really simple ways of letting someone know you care are the best.

Q: AAHHH. okay, so in english class, we had to write sonnets. And they had to be written to a person. well, a guy friend wrote to me, and he likes me. I don't like him that way, though. I don't really have a problem with him writing it to me, but part of the project is that we read them out loud and give them to the person we write to (the latter is opitional). i can live with him reading it out loud as long as he doesn't say my name, but i really really really don't want him to give it to me... way awkward. my best plan is to avoid him. which won't be too difficult, but..... still sucks. i need a better plan. HELPPP!
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Q: I stumbled across this site by accident. I seriously doubt many of you have the qualifications to give real people proper advice. After reading some of your responses to people's inquiries i was quite astonished as to how teenagers find they are able to give quality advice and information to real people in need with such little life experience. If you ask me you are not in a place to give your "personal opinion" when people truly believe you are giving them the right answer simply because you claim "people think i give really good advice". (eg. i am still at a loss as to how a 17 year old girl thinks she can give advice to someone regarding conceiving a child) I know you try to come across as a "godsend" to poeple who are in some sort of personal crisis and need a fast easy answer but the truth is, in the cases where it really counts, there rarely is one; at least not from you.
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Q: ok so i need a new aim sn. and i have no imaginationn =]]

a little aboutt me:
my name is sam/sammy/ect.
i dont mind x's or o's.
my fav. color is pink.
no: chick, girl, star, gurl.ect.
do: songs [[ lyrics ]], X3
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Q: Hello, first I would like to say that I am a 16/m and I started smoking weed every weekend and some weekdays since August. I went off to go hotbox my friends truck tonight and we did, and we had a blast. I was out from about 4-9, and we didn't smoke til about 6. Anyways, when I came home about 30 mins ago I said hello to my mom and then I started eating. My mom was like "What's wrong with your eyes... oh my gosh.. what have you been doing?" And I said "What!? Nothing! What do you think I've been doing? I stayed up really late last night watching a movie and then I woke up early and then I drank an energy drink so I'm really tired!" well then my mom was like "then go look in the bathroom mirror." and Oh my God. My eyes weren't TOO bad, but they were still hella glossy and a bit red, and wow were my pupils dialated. I simply said Mom, I DONT do drugs. I'm really tired... that's all... and she was like "whatever. take out the dishes." What I'm wondering is how do I deal with this? My mom will probably think that I have smoked before and then she will get mad, even though she used to smoke weed when she was my age. Thanks for any input, sorry for the long story :P
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Q: should i wait for my boyfriend to come and talk to me or should i go make the first move and talk to him.
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Q: theres this guy i really really like. like his smile and laugh brightens my day and he has the best personality ever. you cant really say we're friends but its not like the "he doesnt even know i exist" crush cause if you said my first name he'd know who i am and say yeah he knows me. but my main problem is i'll catch him looking at me out of the corner of my eye and when i turn around to look back he'll quickly look the other way. does anyone know what this means? what are the chances of him liking me? and how can i get him to like me ? i don't know any advice with help im so confused.

HELP PLEASE.
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Q: well okaii there is this boy in school that had asked me out right and i said yes....but then that same night i was thinking to my self did i make the right choice or not ....the reason i asked my self this question is beacuse idk if im ready to have another boyfriend again beacuse of wat had happend to me in the past....my past 2 boyfriends had cheated on me and my first boyfriend waited 2 months to tell and and we were going out for about 1 yr and 5 months and i wouldnt not give him another chance...my 2nd boyfriend waited 2 to 3 days to tell me after he did wat he did and we were going out for about 2 months and right know its hard for me to trust another guys..........but i really like this guys but idk wat to do either to give him a chance but i scarred that it might happen to me again and i dont want it to happend to me again wat should i doo?>??
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Q: i am very shy sometimes and i dont ever get hit on! but all my friends do when they are around me! now over xmas vacation i plan on changing my image! not because i want to get hit on or anything like that but because changing your image also gives you self confidence and that is something i definatly lack so should i go through with it? keep in mind im changing my image not my personality!
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Q: i need help. ok so i have had this boyfriend for a while now. so i am a really jelous person and he knows that. he goes to school with my best friend. she keeps an eye on him for me. haha.so recently he called me and told me to forgive him becasue he had done something stupid. i asked him what was wrong and he made me promise i wouldnt be mad. he told me that he loves me and he regrets doing this.he kissed a girl. he said that she kissed him and that he was so surprised that he didnt say anything. he told me that my bestfridn was there and that she saw thw whole thing. so i asked her and she told me that it was just in the cheeck almost in the mouth but not really. so whats going on? why did he lie to me and tell me it was in the mouth when it really wasn't? i am so confused?. he said sorry and that he loves me for something he never did. do u think he even loves me at all? please help thanks in advance
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Q: What is everyone's favorite songs?
I need to add more songs to my ipod, since it was stolen. List about 5 of your favorite songs, with teh artist. please? Thanks!
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Q: does any one have any good rock songs they can give me.. im in desperate need fof sum good music lol sum bands i like r afi, fob, patd

thxxx Amanda
These generic sounding band acronyms might be nice. I at least recognize AFI.

However, would you like true, honest good music? I can help there. Rock if rock is your flavor of preference and can't find anything that suits your taste buds from today's era, look back in time, maybe to the 90's, a decade not far gone.

Third Eye Blind - Third Eye Blind (self-titled debut)
Practically a collection of hits.

Weezer - The Blue Album (actually a self-titled debut, too)
Some of the catchiest melodies you will ever hear.

This might be a stretch for rock, but...
Ben Folds Five - any of their three albums, really.
Piano rock. It's hard to describe, but absolutely worth a listen.

90's music had to have been influenced by something, right? If you get curious, look into these albums, which are amongst the best ever created.

The Beach Boys - Pet Sounds
Some think of it as the masterpiece of popular music. It actually directly influenced the creation of Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Heart's Club Band by the Beatles (Look into that one, too)

The Who - Tommy
The first real rock opera. An example of a concept album, where someone puts the album as a whole over the importance of a single. No one as attempted anything like this in a long, long time.

All this is just a small snippet of things that I like. The best way to find great music is to ask people you know what they're listening to. All different kinds of people too. Hope I helped.

Q: Lady Macbeth: My hands are of your color, but I shame To where a heart so white. I hear a knocking at the South entry, Retire we to our chamber.
^ can anyone explain to me what that mean in the Play Macbeth??? Thanks!
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Q: Whats the best website to download free music on mp3 player
If you don't mind downloading a client, limewire.com and bearshare.com are, in my limited experience, the best options.

A torrent website is you best bet if you don't want to download a program.

But really, the best thing you can do is download a few songs from the bands that you're looking into and go buy their album. Not only is it morally righteous, but you support the artist, and get MUCH better sound quality than downloaded 128kbps mp3s.

Q: Okay, so after my past relationship. I'm really not expecting anything good or long lasting right now.

So I liked this girl. (I'm a girl too)
She's nice, we have things in common and she's easy to talk to about things. Whenever I'm AROUND her.. I know i like her and I want to kiss her.

But whenever she's not here (we don't go to the same school yet) I feel unattached. Is that bad? I wouldn't cheat, I just have little crushes.

I'm starting to like this guy. (Don't say, you think I'm not bi anymore) He gives me butterflies and he's also nice too.
I'm not sure what to do though.

I have feelings for my girlfriend but then I don't.

We haven't been going out for long. Maybe like a week and I don't think I want to break up with her. I don't want to hurt her. I want her to HURT me. :[ Doesn't that sound weird?

I doubt anything could happen with this guy.. I'm not sure what to do with my girlfriend though.
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Q: Ive been going out with this guy thats liked me for A LONG Time and we were like REALLY good friends for a long time and then i liked him but he didn't like me, well finally he like loves me and things are going good for about 6 days but he said "we should slow down" and then i said what do you mean and he said like no more making out, its not FUn its BORING! What is THAT supposed to mean! SINCE when is MKAING OUT BORING!! He says thats all we do but thats not true! IS making out REALLY that boring or is there some other reason to this?
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Q: Okay well i got a mp3 player a while ago and i never really found out how to download new songs on it. i tried limewire but it wont download on my computer..do you guys now any free sites i can download songs for it!! thanks so much :]]
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Q: Hey guys.

I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months, and i care about him alot.

I want to get him something really cute
that doesn't cost alot.

Does anyone have any ideas?

He is 17 years old if that helps.
Don't get him a gimicky shirt. That was some of the worst advice I have ever read. Does he like coffee? Get him a starbucks gift card and take go out to eat with him. He mention any bands lately? See if you can grab a cd from one of his favorite bands that he doesn't have. Get him something you know he's going to like, and don't be afraid to ask if there is anything specific he'd like.

Q: Theres this song
and I only know like a few words from it
and i wanna know who it is

it says
" your my bestfriend and i love you"
its a guy.
But I dont know who sings it
thanks!
My Best Friend by Weezer, from the album Make Believe.

Weezer has a slew of great stuff. I highly suggest their self-titled debut (Also known as the blue album) and Pinkerton.

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