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I am a 17 year old girl, and ever since I was 14, I felt like I have been falling down a hill. It seems like it gets worse month by month. I feel bad about myself a lot, but I randomly feel better. But then a week later I am back where I started. I have no warning about when I will feel bad again. I want to know if so much pain is normal for a teenager.

I used to cut when I was 15, but I do it extremely rarely now. Starting this past March, I wasn't eating properly because I was trying to lose weight. I got down to eating between 500 and 1200 calories a day, depending on the day. When I was 16, I almost killed myself, and once this year I tried alcohol for the first time.

It just seems like I am falling and being so much worse than I ever was. I just want to know if feeling like this is normal (even if what I did isn't normal) or if I should get this checked out. (If that is the option, do you have any idea what might be wrong with me?)

Thank you for all your help in advance, and I look forward to reading your input.

hey girl :]
well it really depends, maybe your just depressed, did something happen that hurt you emotionly? and if its not normal maybe you have a bipolar problem.

like im 14, and i used to cut myself, and ive been really depressed, and its wierd like that too, one day i'll be crying and just wanna die, and the next i'll be laughing and being normal.

so it could be one of thoese two, sorry thou, i dont like when people are sad or hurt! i hope i helped and that you feel better soon, just keep your head up high :]]


- Maitte
(14/female)

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im in foster care and my my real mum dies only last week i have councelling and professionsal help but i feel my life is going so wrong i was in hospital over an overdose im not feeling sorry for myself and please dont tell me its going to get better i want advice on how to die ??!

Hey, im sorry life isnt so great for you right now, but you really shouldnt try to kill yourself. You still have your whole life ahead of you, and im sure you mom wouldnt want you to do that. Yeah life may suck bad right now, but always remember, time heals the pain. Just chill out for a while, try to get your mind off all the bad things and try to have a lil fun maybe. But dont do anything you KNOW you'll regret later. Keep your head up !! But pleaseeeeeee dont do that to yourself! I hope i helped. I reallly do! Xoxoxoxo sassynena. ALWAYS HAVE FAITH

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I always change my profile to different quotes about my boyfriend who is amazing..

But now basically I have run out of quotes, I have looked at wittyprofiles.com and xanga. For example right now my profile says


people always say that you only fall in love once,
but everytime I talk to you I fall in love all over again.

Any other websites, love quotes, specific xanga pages with good quotes?

thanks a tonn

Well, i usually use xanga, and what i also do is, when im gonna type 'quotes' on the search thing when you click on the blog thingy, (sorry i dont really remember all the exact words) ... Well instead of just writing it once write it like : 'quotes quotes quotes' (: oh and a quote i love is: i love you today, more then yesterday, but its nothing compared to tomarrow! i reallly hope i helped!! (:

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ok so i am 16 and i am not a virgin but i have been talking to this kid for about 8 months now and like he tells me he likes me sometimes and then he changed his mind and said im like his sister and then now after he broke up with his last girlfriend he seems to be talking to me again, and like its not just talking talking its sexual shit and it gets kinda aggravating and to be honest the second time i had sex i didnt want to, and now that he is saying this and i asked him to stop he doesnt really listen.


but im not sure if he really likes me or not
so can someone help me here!?!

i think you should ask him.

but if he onlyyy talks about sex and is always trying to get in your pants, i think thats all he wants.

and if thats the case dont give it to him;; make him work for it.

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i wanna take it to he next level but i dont know how.i have tickled him and he tickes me and to end this we usaully end it by just sitting there ,him holding me and me snuggling him. how could i do this?i think he wants to move to the next level ,but i think he wants me to make the next move.i am all confused.

heyy :]
well, if you and him havent kissed then you should move on to that one by simply when you two are hugging or snugling together, just kiss him (:

and if you have reached that level and want to go further, just as you two kiss maybe tease him a little and put your hands in his shirt, and maybe wisper something cute in his ear letting him know you feel confortable with him and would like to go on to the next level.


hope i helped!

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i lost my virginity last night, but it hurt and it was reallllly hard for him to fit. he's pretty huge.. so i guess it's understandable.. but is this normal? im afraid that im just too small now. do you think this is perfectly normal? did other people go through the same thing? thanks

yes thats normal.
it just means your really tight, but you were a virgin before that so its all good.

Same thing happend to me. lol.

i hope it went well.

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mostly do girl go on top or bottom?
wat do guys like best?

well guys like it when girls ride them;; hahahaaaaa but, yeah, ive been told that by many guys.

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Lately ive been getting urges to look at naked girls. Like Vanessa Anne Hudgens, nude. I like a guy, but i wanna know if im a lesbien. I like looking at myself naked, and lesbien porn, and fingering myself. Its just happened like this week. Im 14/f. Thanks so much!

i think that maybe your bi, or maybe that your curious. and you shouldnt worry to much, its not much of a big deal :]

hope i helped.

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my boyfriend (m/16) and i (f/16) have been going out for almost 6 monthes. we have not had sex yet, but i've given him head before.
we got into a conversation one time about how guys think it's weird to eat a girl out.
he sad that he'd eat me out any day because it would only be fair considering i've given him head before. that's probably going to be the next step in our relationship.
i'm a little nervous about the whole idea though, not uncomfortable about it, just uncertain i guess.
how should i prepare for that?
some guys think it tastes nasty, but i heard somewhere that eating fruit beforehand makes it taste better....?
i know that i have to wash down there everyday and all... but is there anything else i should know?
thanks ~

im a girl, and ive been told from many guys that they do in deed like to do it to girls.

well, my advice to you is make sure that you shave, and be very clean. you shouldnt be nervous though, you dont have to do much, just recieve pleasure, lol. but everything should be fine :]

unless he sucks at it, then you should tell him how you want it. :D

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okay, well. i met this guy. well, i knew him. well like.. i don't know i guess you could say i always knew of him but really knew him. but i just started getting to know him at like the VERY end of february if not beginning of march. but, hes a really really really nice guy, and he makes me soo happy when i talk to him and he like. i don't know hes just an all around great guy, and i kind of have a feeling that he likes me too. but the thing is, im 5"4 and hes like... up to my boobs. :p i know, i know. :p but anyways, he gets like really excited when he sees me, not like... in the pants.. like just a big smile and all jumpy and entergentic and i guess you could say i get like that too when i see him, but hes always like hugging me and like.. i don't know he just makes me really happy and i dont know what to do. i don't want to make the first move, so im not going to do that. so dont tell me to do that. but, like... i don't know hes really short and i think people would like... make fun of us and i know i shouldnt care about that but i do.. and, also. my BEST, BEST, BEST guy friend is jealous weve started talking and were becoming good friends and lately ive had to like remind him that hes my bestfriend and everything all the time, at least tiwce a night and im being totally patient with him, i havet gotten mad but its starting to aggrivate me.
HELP?!

omg, well you and me(cumaholic: im using my friends thing)have the same problem. like i've know this guy for a while but i never really tlaked to him that much and like during the begining of march we started talking and like we bboth really really like each other but im scared cause i know for a fact that hes shorter than me and i dont like to date short guys. and when i see him i know that my feelings for him change just because hes short. but my advice for both of us is just to forget about it and just go for it. give it a chance i mean he could get taller as the months go by. and like you said you guys like each other so just forget what people think and follow your heart. do whats best for you and not what best for others!(:

hope it helps.
-cumaholic.

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if guys think a girl is really hott, and like whatever. would they care if a girl was a bad kisser.?

yeah, i think he will.
like me if i kiss a guy and hes a bad kisser i wouldnt wanna see him anymore. even if hes extreamly sexy.
thats my opinion.

hope it helps, try kissing your hand. or any guy friend in which you feel really comfortable with and who is willing to help you out.

(:
-sassynena & cumaholic

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when you give a hickey like how do you do it. i mean like do you suck on the person or like just kiss it over and over again. like howw...?

to give a hickey you must suck hard on it. and kiss it if you like. but in order to give one you have to suck it. lol, that sounds kinda funny but its true.(:

-sassynena & cumaholic

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ok so im 16 and i kinda like this guy that likes me back and he's been asking me to hang out and stuff but i have just been really busy lately but im not like blowing him off i think he knows that i am interested. but should i ask him to hang out this weekend or just wait and see if he asks me again?

okay, well i think you should let him know that you've been busy and would definatly like to hang out this weekend! because if you keep waiting hes gonna think your not interested in him and he'll probably go away and your gonna regreat it. so yeep;;

you should do it!

Good luck! :]
-sassynena & cumaholic

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