Hi. :) I'm Sara. My friends call me "Sharpie". So call me whichever you please. I'm a 17 year old female and I live in Hamilton Ontario. I attend CHS and I'm Grade 11. I'm a hockey playing cheerleader there. :) Soon to be a Delta Red Raider. (H) I may seem young but I've been told I give great advice. I'm a kickass writer and want to somehow use that in the future. (IF!)When I go to university I plan on minoring in history and Majoring in Drama, and becoming a Drama teacher in a High School setting. Haha, because I'm a drama nerd that is in love with english. I have morals and do believe that everyone deserves a fair chance. I love debates. Man oh man how I wish my school had a debate team. Haha. I do have a sense of humour, as well as a very serious, emotional side. I tend to open up like a book, so if you ask me what's wrong you'll most likely regret it. I'm currently single, as if it matters. hardy har har. My friends are my life, as if it mattered to you people.
Well, that's a bit of my life story.. want more message me. I love mail. I'll answer back, scouts honour.
Or.. add my msn! i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Bye Folks
E-mail: i_dont_know-the.answer@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: My Mom :) haha. Hamilton Ontario Canada
Occupation: student
Age: 17
Member Since: November 4, 2006
Answers: 59
Last Update: September 26, 2007
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14/f
who i am seen as: major prep, stuck up, popular, loves cheerleading, loves anything pink, loves chanel & so on
WHO I WANT TO BE/wat i realy like: lip rings, pac sun, hot topic. stuff like that
don't get me wrong, i like girlie stuff, but i like that other stuff too. i dont know wat to do. theres NOWAY I can tell my friends. thed think im weird.
i dont kno if its just a phase though. what if.. i just want 2 kno wat it 'taste' like? (link)
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Be Yourself. I know everyones saying it but its the truth, if you're friends are only your friends because you're a cheerleader and you're popular then that means that they're using you.
Just try it out, if you dont like it then go back to the pink loving cheerleader.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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This is really really iffy. My family obviously thinks that: homosexuals are a disgrace and they're ruining the world and that they should die before they spread their "diseas" to other people and I know that's complete bs. I'm in 9th grade and my friends who I'm going to talk about are in 9th and 10th grade. I'm bi and I have about 10 bi friends and 3 gay friends. I can't tell my family the truth about all my friends because they'll say "You are not to associate with them in any way shape or form..stay away from them" etc and I won't be able to hang out with them anymore. My best friend who is gay and I are really close along with my other gay friend. I can't go over to their houses at all alon ebecause my mom thinks they'll stone me and rape me. And I can't say that they're gay and so either way I can't hang out with my gay guy friends. I like this girl at school and I want to ask her out but that's complicated because I have some friends at school that know and will tell my sister if they found out about my orientation. So I really don't know what to do. I can't talk about it with my family because they'll just get mad at me and yell at me for being a heretic from the family...and I'm just frustrated with this situation because I'm so tied down...what do I do?!?! (link)
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My advice is to follow your heart. With time your parents will get used to the idea and have no choice but suck it up. It's the truth, there's nothing wrong with being bi, its how you want to live your life it shouldnt be up to anyone else.
Hope I Helped:]
Keep Me Posted and I'm Here With Any Further Questions Of Yours!:]
Sara
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Ohkay.. I need to know this song
it's on the Naked Mile [[american pie 4]]
while their running the mile it comes on and goes something like..
"today i changed" it's kind of alternitavish..
if you have any idea what this song is called or who it's by plz tell me!
thanks! appriciated (link)
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ha ha. i asked this exact same question. it's a really good song!!
its Stuck In America - Sugarcult :)
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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I love music, but I'm sort of getting sick of the same old bands. I like pretty much anything, but I like emo, screamo, acoustic, and like softrock or powerpop you knowww. But I'll listen to anything. Does anyone know of some really good bands/songs ? THANKS!!!! (link)
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Armour for Sleep
Alexisonfire
Billy Talent
Taking Back Sunday
Angels and Airwaves
Atreyu
August Burns Red
Bandcamp
Bullet For My Valentine
City & Colour
CKY
Coheed and Cambria
Cute Is What We Aim For
Drop Dead, Gorgeous
Fall Out Boy
Funeral For A Friend
Hedley
Hawthorne Heights
Head Automatica
Hello Kelly
Hellogoodbye
Making April
Mariana's Trench
My Chemical Romance
Nivana
Panic! At The Disco
Plus 44
The Red Jumpsuit Aparatus
The Red Hot Chilli Peppers
Saosin
Secondhand Serenade
Silverstein
The All-American Rejects
The Fray
The Used
Three Days Grace
Thursday
Trapt
Underoath
this is the music i "dig" ;) haha
hope i helped :)
Sara
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This is going to sound completely crazy maybe, and I'm only 15/Female, and I dont plan on having sex until I'm married. But it hurts for me to wear tampons even, and even if I get the petite size, it doesnt go in all the way and like an inch of it sticks out. Its embarssing because does that mean sex will hurt really bad? I know its supposed to hurt either way. But i think my youknow.. is just .. small? i dont know it this makes anysense at all. (link)
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this happened to a friend of mine(and me:S), she was a virgin and it hurt her a lot too. and then she and her boyfriend had sex and now it doesnt hurt.
my only suggestion is that since you're waiting til marriage(i totally respect it:)) would be to maybe masturbate a little? to get yourself a bit looser, it may help.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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I have crash on this guy for a while. I asked him out the first time, he said yes, but cancelled on me on the day we suppose to go out. And second time, he asked me out, but cancelled out again. Now he appolized and said let's go out next week. Am I going to say yes?
I don't want to show how easy I am that he can just cancel on me all the time without considering my feeling, but in the same time, I do want to go out with him.... What should I do? (link)
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I think you should just tell him the truth, say
"Yes I want to go but I don't want to say yes and then you cancel on me again. If I say yes, will you cancel again."
and if he says no then say yes and go but if he says I Dont Know then it's up to you if you want to have him cancel again or not.
Hope I Helped.
Keep Me Posted!:)
Sara
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What is your opinion on brown hair?Do you think it is ugly? (link)
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well I have brownish black hair.. and when I was a blond(no offence to anyone!!!!!) I was told I looked ugly. It couldve just been me or the hair. idk. But then I went to brown hair and the compliments started pouring in. Brown is def. a sexy colour. It could never be ugly!! Also.. No Blond Jokes;]
hope I helped.
Sara
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I want to only have 4 pictures on my myspace
but have 4 more as the captions for those four
[i see it all the time]
i uploaded them to my photobucket, and put ALL of the codes in the caption box
and it didn't work
can anyone help? (link)
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you could go to www.tinypic.com and just upload the picture and its free you dont need an account or anything and you copy the "tag" code and paste it in the caption spot.
Hope I Helped.
Sara
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hey..does anyone know the diet Beyonce went on to lose weight for her move "dream girls"...i remember her saying it on a variety of talkshows but i cant remembre the specific name
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starvation? ha ha.
just a guess.
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i know it didnt, but i hope i helped.
merry christmas.
Sara
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this isn't a question, it's a request-but please don't delete it.
Can people please stop finishing every answer with "hope i helped" obviously you hope you helped, and whether you say that or not doesn't change whether you actually DID help. please, for everyones sake just answer the question! (link)
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its to show respect.. well thats my outlook on it. its not like we're saying it all the time in out like(just an example) "i think you should tell the police, that would really help. they really should be notified, i hope that helps. believe me things will be better if you tell them. Hope i helped." all as we're trying to do is show that person that we're hoping that the negative of what they want wont happen. if you dont like it then either leave the site or dont read the damn answers. rate me a 1 dont rate me at all. i could really careless.
HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!HOPE I HELPED!
bye.
Sara.
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last night i was raped by my ex boyfriend, we were at a party and i was upstairs talking to my friend, then she left, he came up and pinned me down on the bed, split my legs open, and dug deep inside my pussy and raped me. the thing is, when we were together and fucked, i never really enjoyed it or had an orgasm. but last night, even though i didn't want to fuck him, it felt soo good, i had four orgasms in a row, literally, i'm notkidding, this is a true story, i haven't told anyone, cuz even though it was wrong for him to do it, i liked it. what should i do?
p.s. he's really hot (link)
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whether he's your ex or not or even the fact that you enjoyed it.. you have to tell someone. if you live in canada then call kids help phone. you can talk to them about anything and they'll offer help without needing your name. i know you dont wanna but you have to.
hope i helped
and merry christmas :)
Sara
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I see a lot of questions on this site about SEX. I think the weirdest part for me is that the age of the girls asking is like 12 and 13! Im 15 and I havent thought about sex yet..Im just not ready. I think Im MORE mature for it. I dont do it because I dont want to become pregnant. But Im also scared of it, am I immature or more mature than these 12 year olds having sex? Someone just explain to me how they can have sex without any second thoughts. When I was 12 I was like playing with barbies...Im really confused. (link)
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i comepletely agree!!
i'm 15 going on 16 and i've already had sex.. and believe me.. it was a huge mistake. i have no idea why girls this young who probably havent even hit puberty yet are having sex. When i was 12 i still thought boys had cooties. when i was 13 i was just hitting like grade 7 or 8 and i was experimenting with new friends. society has a lot of problems nowadays. its the media i tell yah. girls are getting ideas into their heads about them having to be pin thin and non virgins by the time they're 13. you're are making an amazing decision and you are more mature then you think you are. i'd be jealous if i was your friend :) ha ha.
hope i helped.
happy holidays.
Sara
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do you know where i can download free photoshop?
thank you (link)
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if you download a program called Azureus (http://azureus.sourceforge.net/download.php) and then go to either www.torrentbox.com or www.torrentspy.com and type in what you're looking for. it works not just for software but movies and music and just about everything under the sun.
hope i helped:) tell me how it goes.
happy holidays.
Sara
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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like. (link)
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for me i love it when a guy makes me laugh. and eye contact is good but sometimes a little creepy. ha ha:) but i feel when a guy is constantly around me and only wants to be around me even though there are prettie girls around.. i have a feeling he's into me. or you could just come flat out and tell her? he he. just yes dont come onto strong. it's freaky.
hope i helped and tell me how it goes.
happy holidays.
Sara
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ok i kno christmas is tomorrow but im a major procrastinator. i have no money, and my dad wont let me borrow money because i already owe him money and i need a gift for my mom. any ideas of something i can make her using thigns from home? she doesnt wear jewelry tho. (link)
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Make a card and give her a big hug and kiss :)
it's cheap and effective :) she'll love it.
hope i helped :)
happy holidays.
Sara
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Okay, I told you guys how I had this thing for one of my friends. Well, one of my other friends, Laura, who lives down the street from me, tells me today while I'm talking to her on Instant Messenger that she likes me. So I'm over at my house freaking out because I was trying to plan out what I was gonna say to Ashley, the girl I like.
So I tell Laura that I sorta like her a little.
And I could tell she was struggling with her words. This is what we both said:
Laura:Okay... would you ever consider going out?
me: with who?
me: you?
Laura: yes
me: i guess so.. Why?
me: well, that was awkward..
laura: Uh... Meredith
me: uh, meredith what?
Laura: Meredith's helping me with what to say, but, would you go out with me?
Laura: (Sorry, clicked enter too soon..)
me: omg.. I.. I guess.
So, did I do the right thing?
I mean, Laura's been my best friend for a long long LONG time, and our moms are friends, too. I didn't want to make her mad at me, so I said yes. I really do like her, but I'm just not sure if I like her enough to go out with her.
So I have been going out with her for about an hour now. It's 8:50 here in Georgia, so you do the math.
I just want to know if I did the right thing or if I should break up with her and go for Ashley? (link)
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follow your heart. but do not and i mean DO NOT!! dump one girl for another. i didnt read your other question but do you even know if ashley likes you? i dont mean to sound rude.
i hope i helped at least a bit :)
happy holidays and tell me how it goes
Sara
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Does anyone know any good bands I can download. Specific songs that are really good by these bands would be excellent! But you can just give me band names.
Heres the kind of music I like. Its kind of a mix of indie/emo/soft rock? ha.
John Mayer
Dashboard Confessional
Death Cab for cutie.
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Armour for Sleep
Alexisonfire
Billy Talent
Taking Back Sunday
Angels and Airwaves
Atreyu
August Burns Red
Bandcamp
Bullet For My Valentine
City & Colour
CKY
Coheed and Cambria
Cute Is What We Aim For
Drop Dead, Gorgeous
Fall Out Boy
Funeral For A Friend
Hedley
Hawthorne Heights
Head Automatica
Hello Kelly
Hellogoodbye
Making April
Mariana's Trench
My Chemical Romance
Nivana
Panic! At The Disco
Plus 44
The Red Jumpsuit Aparatus
The Red Hot Chilli Peppers
Saosin
Secondhand Serenade
Silverstein
The All-American Rejects
The Fray
The Used
Three Days Grace
Thursday
Trapt
Underoath
this is the music i "dig" ;) haha
hope i helped :)
Sara
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female/13
I like this guy named Raul and i have flirted with him and even told him i like him. when we get back to school i want to impress him. He has already seen my thong on accident and he told him friend that he liked what he saw but i dont know. What can i wear or say to impress him. Thanks.
*Christie* (link)
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Dear Christie..
What I would do is just be yourself.. I know its what everyone says but it's the truth. Would you like someone if they were just putting on a show for you and then you guys starting dating and you found out he was the exact opposite of what you thought?
Don't dress differently or act differently for a guy. If he likes what he sees already then maybe he's already into you. I say just give it time and things will happen if they're supposed to.
Good Luck, Happy Holidays and Tell me how it goes :)
Sara
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ok im not tryin to b a bitch.... but i was reading some of your "advice" and i really dont think you kno what your talking about. your right sex is about loving someone and you shouldnt just go fuckin anyone, but sex is also about having fun. i mean people have sex cuz they r horny most of the time not because they wanna show each other how much they care, even though that does happen you cant tell me that you have never had sex just because you needed it. you would have 50 million different positions if it wasnt about fun and variety! (link)
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ok it is "advice" im trying to be logical here.. not a slut. if you dont like it then dont read it. it has nothing to do with you unless you are the person that asked. Sure sex is fun.. if you seriously have no one to love and never will love someone. also.. i dont know you so im obviously not going to share my sex life. thanks for your "concern" but just for a little tip.. its my own advice and my own opinion. suck it up because i dont care.
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Okay, so today we had this big talent show and Im sort of interested in this girl named Rachel and has been liking her since the beggining of the year and all and we were great friends. Now she met this guy named Philip and well just left me basically and doesn't want to talk to me and all that so I got her several presents for our secret santa and she rejected all of them because I gave them to her in front of her friends so she was mad about that. And to tell you the truth I was pretty angry at her because I thought she was still my friend and won't be embarassed if I give her a present. So then this other cute girl named Emily didn't have a secrete santa so I gave her the mini green teddy bear I got for Rachel, a card, and her favorite earings and she took them and hugged me and said thanks. So as for the talent show Emily was the clossing act and sang with her best bud, and let me tell you their was no cd playing only her and a gituar and her friend singing like Kelly Clarkson or Aly and AJ combined all in one. I mean never once have I heard that kind of voice! It was amazing so I just had to go on and on to my best buds about this and they still thought I liked Rachel so they started rumors about me and Emily that I liked her since Rachel didn't have the same feelings that I had for her and I just don't want emily to know well.. at least not now. So I don't want her to think I have a crush on her but how to stop this mean rumors befores she hears them. and gossip and rumours travel fast! PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
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sorry to break it to yah.. but thats teenage years.
there a bitch, might as well get used to it now.
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