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I really like songs that have deep lyrics, and can relate to my mood. :] Right now, I am annoyed, and infuriated... So are there any songs that talk about posers, or fakeeee people? Like for example, I really want good songs that have stuff in there like stfu, stop acting and be real for once, stop copying others, get a life, get your OWN life, don't even start with your fake crap, how you're really lame for doing all those things, some people aren't real stop with your fakeness, get your own identity and ideas, not MINE, so stop trying to steal my identity and trying to be like me (I like that idea), stop copying my style, you only like and do certain things because of me, etc... you know? Things that are similiar to those things? I would like songs that kind of have that "HAH! In your face! grrr stop being a poser!" feeling. x] I prefer rock songs... I like bands like Paramore, My Chemical Romance, Fall Out Boy, Simple Plan, Good Charlotte, Evanescence, Green Day, etc. Songs that are those bands' would be great. I'd love you to death if you had some great suggestions!!! lol xD I'll accept anything, but no rap or country please. Thank youuuu so much!
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ok. you need to broaden your horizon, music wise atleast.
- mac lethal ( it's rap but then again its not and it def. is not all about sex or whatever. it's got amazing lyrics)
- the honorary title (underground but awesome)
- linkin park. ( always gets the job done)
i know the list is short but you seem to have a pretty good idea of what you want. btw- there's more then one variety of music and listening to a mixture helps with conceited moodswings.
and in this day and age, no one's original. no matter what you say or do, there's so many people on the planet that someone somewhere had the idea first. sorry to burst your bubble.
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okay well, i have a boyfriend and he told me he loves me, we have only have been dateing for like 3 weeks and he loves me?? it werid, but anyway then there is this boy elvis who i like, we went out and then we had to break up, cuz he was going to brooklyn for the summer,i was hurt and he said that we would get back together wen he gets back, now he is back n when i saw him all my feelings went back to him, dont get me wrong i really like ly bf, but i dont like how fast he is going, and just so u no, i have never had this happen to me, never in my life have i had a boy tell me this, im 14 and it like werid, so what do i choose the one i love or the one that loves me?? (link)
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Seriously? You're asking to choose between someone who's already got your heart and someone who just wants your heart? Really?
Obviously, if you cannot see how insanely easy this answer is, you're not ready to be in a relationship. And I'm sorry if that offends you but c'mon, it's not rocket science.
When you have a chance and opportunity to be with someone that YOU love, you take it. If you don't then it's not really love.
You're 14, so for your current boyfriend to tell you he loves you .. I'm not surprised. Every 14 year old boy loves his girlfriend. You've got a developing body and they're overly horny. Boys his age would tell a tree he loves them. So don't get all freaked out about it.
Take my advice, just be with Elvis if he's the one always on your mind when your mind should be elsewhere.
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i've been with my boyfriend for over three years. i love him and he loves me, but we're past the "infatuation phase". sometimes he takes me for granted and doesn't always show how much he loves me, but he's never been the romantic type, so i can understand. plus i'm his first "real" girlfriend, so he isn't as experienced with romance as other guys i dated in the past have been, and what i was used to back then (now i've grown comfortable with the way my current boyfriend is and all that, though).
my question is, is it terrible that i flirt and am most likely going to hangout with one of his friends that has gone away for college? the friend has admitted to having feelings for me, and i can't help but wonder what it'd be like if i dated him. and when some of his other guy friends tell me they wouldn't mind hooking up with me, i wonder about things like that too.
i am totally happy with my relationship, and i love my boyfriend with all my heart. is it bad that i think about the possibility of being with someone else, (even though i know they could never bring me the happiness my boyfriend does)? (link)
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the truth is: no one was ever with a person and didn't ever wonder what it'd be like to be with someone else, even if just for a second. and for anyone who denies they've ever though this, you're a liar.
it's completely natural to fall out of sync when in a committed relationship for so long. yet you have to wonder, three years is a long time and you've no doubt changed yourself which is totally normal, but are you ready to try a different relationship? if you can't imagine being happy like you are now with anyone else then your boyfriend then i suggest first talking to him. now he's a guy so he may not want to hear it or may shrug it off but subtly suggest something different to do. a change of pace to put a little spice back into the relationship.
you've both grown used to each other and no longer have the desire to impress on every occasion.
i'm sure all will be fine when discussed with your bo. goodluck ;)
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i'm making a miniscrapbook for each of my friends because we're going to college this year..does anyone have a favorite friendship quote? please don't give me links to websites because they rarely work on my computer..thanks a lot! (link)
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my best friend and i go to different colleges
and the best quote we have is on a picture frame
that we both bought for our dorm rooms.
" your college friends know who you are, but your highschool friends know why."
this signifies that it's ok to make new friends at college but that the ones you left know your roots and will always know you. no matter how much you'll change.
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whats a leave in conditioner and where can i buy one at the drugstore, good brand pls (link)
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a leave in conditioner is exactly what it sounds like. it's a conditioner that once you've stepped out of the shower you put on your hair and then continue to style as you choose.
now i've dyed my hair every which color it can be so leave in conditioner is a must for me.
i use : biolage' leave in conditioner cream
because it doesn't make my hair greasy or anything like that.
i also use beyond the zone leave in conditioner for when i'm straightening my hair.
both smell absolutely delicious and your hair won't frizz or anything with either product.
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practically all my friends are sexually active and im not, ive never had sex. but i dont feel like i really fit in, unless i change my mind set to their perverted minds. like i have to act and talk like them to fit in. but im against that kind of stuff with my beliefs and stuff. so what do i do, continue being friends with those kind of people or make friends who are a little more pg? but its only adultry that im against and almost everyone in highschool talks about who they did, and im just a virgin :/ (link)
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Quick Question- are you the same person as your friend or friends? no.
sex is not something you do because everyone around you is doing it. sex is a personal choice you make. now you do NOT have to act and talk like them to fit in. you choose to because you feel like they won't accept you.
which is a crock of bull because your friends probably don't care that you're not having sex. you can keep those friends and it's also ok to make new ones who do share your beliefs.
and highschool is full of pervs. girls and guys. take pride in being a virgin, because it shows that you stick to your moral values and don't cave into today's cracked out views about sex and society.
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hi,
my best friend dated a guy on and off for about six months. he's going away to college in the fall and he was away the whole summer so he kind of broke it off in june. then they started talking again a couple of weeks ago and decided they were both ready for sex. so they had sex this afternoon, and she came over tonight and was clearly upset that he's leaving.
i don't know what to say to her, because she's emotionally attached to him and he's leaving for college. he says he wants to see her when he's home from college for breaks, but she's been crying over his leaving and i don't know what to do.
any help?
thank you so much! (link)
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i'm not the kind of advice columnist to beat around the bush, ok?
i'm in college myself and i can tell you that he isn't going to be coming home that often for visits. and when he's at college he's going to be with other girls.
now they had sex and she's attached to him because of that. girls have sex out of emotional necessity. guys have sex because it feels good. that's just life.
the best thing for you to do is to take your friend out and help her get over this guy otherwise everytime he actually does come home from college it'll be to have her as his bed buddy and she'll never get a relationship out of it.
just trust me on this.
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i recently asked a question.. i had some unprotected sex.. although he didnt *** in me or anything well i took the morning after pil..
today im experiencing stomach aches and cramps but i dont know if this is my period i went to the bathroom and there was a little bit of blood there but its not what my usual period looks like it was a little bit more gooey.. i know gross but i dont know why.. and i wiped and it was veryyyy light and i put a pad on to see later on if its my period but i checked and theres really not anymore blood coming out... what was that was it my period or just some random blood? and when iw ent to go pee some blood just pours out but yet again when i wipe theres nothing there ...wtfff im so scared
this isnt implantation bleeding is it !?!? im so scared i usually get my period the 21st (link)
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ok, calm down.
observe everything you just wrote out.
you had unprotected sex. ok, trust me on this - if you had unprotected sex and he wasnt fully hard and there wasn't alot of lubrication then you're going to feel uncomfortable for a bit. he might have been a little rougher and without a condom on for a softer feel the inner walls of your vagina are basically chafed and have been rubbed raw. there's your bleeding problem answered.
now, you took the morning after pill. once again i'm an expert at the morning after pill and all of its questions, you're going to feel sick for a little while because that little magic wonder of a pill is flushing everything out of your system. it makes you temportarily sick. ie) stomach cramps, headaches, nausea, etc.
bottom line, you're fine. you're just freaking out because of all the horror stories people have told.
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