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to much, to many
okay well, i have a boyfriend and he told me he loves me, we have only have been dateing for like 3 weeks and he loves me?? it werid, but anyway then there is this boy elvis who i like, we went out and then we had to break up, cuz he was going to brooklyn for the summer,i was hurt and he said that we would get back together wen he gets back, now he is back n when i saw him all my feelings went back to him, dont get me wrong i really like ly bf, but i dont like how fast he is going, and just so u no, i have never had this happen to me, never in my life have i had a boy tell me this, im 14 and it like werid, so what do i choose the one i love or the one that loves me??
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I agree with sammxox. grab the chance to be with the one you adore more, obviously elvis. But make sure elvis can make you as happy as your current bf. DOes he make you feel good? feel special? No matter what happens, I hope you choose the guy that treats you the best. Best wishes!
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Seriously? You're asking to choose between someone who's already got your heart and someone who just wants your heart? Really?
Obviously, if you cannot see how insanely easy this answer is, you're not ready to be in a relationship. And I'm sorry if that offends you but c'mon, it's not rocket science.
When you have a chance and opportunity to be with someone that YOU love, you take it. If you don't then it's not really love.
You're 14, so for your current boyfriend to tell you he loves you .. I'm not surprised. Every 14 year old boy loves his girlfriend. You've got a developing body and they're overly horny. Boys his age would tell a tree he loves them. So don't get all freaked out about it.
Take my advice, just be with Elvis if he's the one always on your mind when your mind should be elsewhere.
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Go at your own pace and do what you want to. There are no rules except to live by your own standards and be honest about who you are and what you want. You don't need to be committing yourself to a guy just because he wants to, and you don't owe him a detailed explanation. At your very young age you should not be having a serious or physical relationship past kissing or holding hands anyway. A dating relationship needs to be casual and fun. A lot of guys will tell you they love you and other crap just to get in your pants, so until you are much older and ready, make sure to let them know you are not stupid.
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