hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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Im 16 years old and a female, and i can't get a boyfriend. Ive been on a few dates and such, but ive never had a real boyfriend an i really want one. Im not ugly, i have long stragit blond hair, really big blue eyes, big, dark lips, i have a nice body, im skinny and i have c cup boobs. I dont have any preticular style (preppy, goth emo ect.), it changes, but im always trendy and never out of style. What am i doing wrong and what can i do to get a guy? (link)
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hey... i know how you feel! im in the same boat you are at the moment and i know it sucks. you think because no guy likes you that must mean 'your' doing something wrong but your not going anything wrong.
i know you dont want to hear the whole "you just havent found someone yet, stop looking and have fun and they'll come to you" cos that never really helps.
i think you just need to go out and meet new people because theres oviously no one that you currently know that you like so this is probably the best way to find a guy. just remember to be yourself and if there worth it they will love you.
partys are the best place to meet people but there are other ways to like joining an out of school activity like a youth club or sport, or maybe find some places that teens hang out and go there with your friends. hope this helps xxsally
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17/F
tonight me and my boyfriend french kissed for the first time. and first time for me ever. we're the type of couple that can laugh about intimate things and the whole time he was doing it i was trying really really hard not to laugh because i knew i wasn't doing it right. Or i was and i just thought it was funny. I know that probably makes me sound really immature right now but i couldn't help it.
So what are you supposed to do?? Because the whole time he just had his tongue in my mouth and there wasn't any room left in there for me to do anything. haha.
help me. (link)
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well at least it wasnt as bad as my first time!!
my boyfriend at the time tried to eat my mouth he opened it that wide! diasterrrrr!
it sounds like you were going good apart from the laughing haha. all you need to do is when he puts his tongue in your mouth you move your tongue around his. like your playing tonsil hokey thats wat people call it. haha.
if you want to suprise him next time you go to kiss put ice in your mouth and when you kiss him use your tongue to push it into his mouth... and it will be nice and cold for him=] haha. or you can use something sweet instead like a lollie or something. thats always fun!
it will actually give you something to laugh about!
hope i helped you =] xxx sally
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im in 4-H, and its a really neat thing to do. But my best friend in 4-H, me, and two other guys and my sister want to hangout as a group. theres ages of 16,15,14,12(almost 13) 3 girls, and a guy, maybe two guys going. And we want to hangout...but we dont know what to do! We get kinda bored of bowling and movies...laser quest might be too expensive, any ideas? And my one friend cant ice or roller skate..so think of some FUN stuff for us to do! We're all pretty close, so...we need something fun to do! (and not too expensive please) thanks =D (link)
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hey... why dont you get lots of movies-old, funny, scarey ones, whatever you want. get lots of junk food or pizza and have a movie night. or if you have a wii gaming console get lots of games for that to play.
i do that with my friends its heap of fun and we stay up all night watching movies and in the morning we watch the sunrise=]
you can also get water bombs and have a water bomb fight maybe the next day or something.
we play games with the water balloons like:
-my fright stands infront of the garage door and moves one end to the other like a moving target with her back to me and i throw a water bomb at her thats fun
-throwing a water bomb around a circle; throwing them really high and seeing who it pops on is another fun game to.
-you can make up your own too.
i hope this is something fun for you guys to do it will be a change from what you usually do thats for sure=] have fun! hope i helped! xx sally
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okay. well every qirl has her 'insecurities.'
butt mine makes me SOOOO self concious. [sp?]
butt my boobs are completly different sizes.
my right one like a full B.
&&my left on is like a full A or a small B.
1; will it eventually even out? or will it always be like that?
2; how noticacle is it to others?
3; are there any ways to make me stop carinq SOMUCH?
please&&thankyou. (link)
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hey this is normal for lots of girls so just relax.
my boobs are different sizes and two of my friends have exactly problem, so your not alone.
its nothing to worry about your boobs are probably just growing at different rates and they will catch up eventually.
dont worry you cant tell when you are wearing a bra and no one will notice unless your topless infront of them and point it out.
to stop caring so much you need to just relax and tell yourself its fine and that lots of girls have this problem, and most importanlty that its normal for them to be that way.
hope i helped=] xxx sally
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okk.
This guy (lets call him seff) Seff likes mee.
And i like him too.
And so my friend asked him out for mee.
He said noo because he didnt know mee.
And i need questions to get to know himm..
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ask him things about: what he likes to do,does he have any hobbys, what he did on the weekend,
talk to him about thingd that happen at school or things that you have done in class.
be random guys like that so just talk to him about anything and let him get to kno the real you because thats what he likes about you so go for it. dont be afraid to be yourself =]
goodluck xXxsallii
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I go to this camp & I'm in close contact with this one guy who I have a little crush on. From his body language I can tell that he's kind of into me but he's never talked to me. I smile at him but he's too shy to make conversation. Camp ends soon, how can I get this guy out of his shell?! (link)
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i think your gunna have to make the first move, if hes shy then he will probably be waitning for you to talk to him first.
so i think you should just go up and talk to him... once he knows you he probably wont be as shy.
hope i helped xxsal
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is there a way to change my eye color (like a product or something) that I can buy with no permission and under 18????????? (link)
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no but you can buy coloured contact lenses all my friends are into that, just be careful that your hands are clean cos you could get conjunctive itis.
you might have ti be 16 to get them but im not sure.
xxsalxx
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I have a bf and i cant tell if he really likes me or not. can u please help me? (link)
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hey you should talk to him about it... because in the end all you can do is trust him when he tells you he loves you. if you cant trust him then your relationship wont work.
relationships are based on trust and thats how both ppl in the relationship stay faithful to each other because they trust each other.
you need to trust him. so talk to him.
hope i helped xoxosal
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i heard it on the radio a few days ago and i dont know what its called
i can only remember the chorus(at least i think its the chorus
and i dont want the world to see me
cause i dont think that they'd understand
when everything's meant to be broken
i just want you to know who i am
and thats all i can remember thanks (link)
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hey i think it might be
-Don't Want The World To See Me by the Goo Goo Dolls
i googled it and this also came up:
- I Don't Want The World To See Me by Project Wyze
not sure tho. you'll know if it is the one your looking for when you hear it.
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My boyfriend and I have only been going out for a week or two. We're pretty good friends, though. He's straight edge. I, however, am not; I drink casually and smoke from time to time. He doesn't know this. I'm pretty sure he'd be mad at me if he ever knew I had tried it. I really enjoy his company and talking to him, so I don't want to break up over something like this, but I don't want to start off our relationships with secrets. What should I do? (link)
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hey just tell him about it. if he really likes you then he will understand. tell him you dont want to keep any secrets in your relationship so he understands. =]sal
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what kind of healthy diet can i go on that will help me lose weight fast? (link)
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hey i dont recomend going on a diet they never really work so the best thing to do is to start eating healthy like fruit and veg and stay away from bad foods like chips, lollys, fizzy drink and take out ect.
its ok to treat yourself every once and a while so you dont miss out but not all the time.
also do a little bit of excercise everyday like walking the dog or walking with a friend, running, bike riding or even palates. just 20 mins a day will help you so do something you enjoy.
try not to think of it as a diet but more as a lifestyle choice that you enjoy.
goodluck xxsalxx
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How can i stop masterbrating????? (link)
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hey whenever you get the feeling or the urge try and destract yourself and occupy yourself to stop you from dong this. also try being around other people and not alone that will help too.
it is perfectly normal to masterbate so you shouldnt feel ashamed or anything.
hope i helped xoxoxsal
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i love to sing
i sing i front of my music teacher every friday with a cd and he wants me to sing with out the cd and i dont know how with out the insturmental of the music. even if i did i dont think i can do it i front of my music teacher can u help (link)
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hey try it out at home first if your not sure about it. why dont you get sing star that will help you lots.
besides its ok to be scared to try new things and trust me it will get easier and you'll become more confident as time goes on and you do it more.
hope i helped xxxsal
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I don't know what to ask. What do i do?
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ask a question... anything thats on your mind, your not sure about or a problem your having... and you'll get an answer pretty much straight away.
you must be bored... try and find something to do... this site is good when your bored:
www.bored.com
its filled with so much radom stuff for when your bored.
or why dont you draw, paint, take up a sport, hang out with friends more, bike ride, take up cooking thats a good one cos everyone needs to know how to cook.
well hope i helped. xxxsal
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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. I'm very happy and so far our realtionship has been practically perfect. The only problem isn't really a problem between us but between my friends and I, particularly my best friend. My best friend, I'll call her Lexi, isn't really as into guys as my other friends and I are. For a while we were both single and together constantly which is why we got to be best friends but now I have a bf and I think she's getting mad at me for wanting to be with him and talk to him a lot. I know that boys come and go but friends are forever but I love hanging out with my boyfriend becuase we don't see each other very often. What should I do? (link)
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hey you just need to balance the time you spend with your bf and the time you spend with your friends equally so neither of them feel left out.
tell her how you feel. talking about the problem between you both will help a lot.
besides if you dont spend much time with your bf then you should have time to spend with your friends and your friend should understand that you dont see him very much.
you both just need to talk to each other and both need to listen to how eacj other feels and youz should be right.
hope i helped. xxsal
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Im 16 straight and I have a problem with my best friend.
She is a little older than me. She is like my sister and I her brother. but what I need help with,is that she loves me more than that, she wants the relationship to go further. Im ready for that yet and I don't feel the same towards her.
I've never had a girl friend before and she has been with guys that have tried to have sex with her or have sexually harassed her. She says that Im the her knight in shining armor.
I don't want her getting hurt again.
Please help me with this. =( (link)
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you need to talk to her. tell her how you feel, that you dont have feelings for her and that you dont want to hurt her.
you need to clear the air before she takes it to heart and tries to go futher with you.
besides you cant make someone love you if they dont. it doesnt work that way and she needs to understand that.
hope i helped xxx sally=]
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I have liked my good guy friend romantically for a good 2 years now, but the problem is, his parents are super strict and have actually arranged a marriage for him. I think he might like me back, but is there really any point in pursuing him? I don't want to get my heart broken...
What should we do? (link)
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hey... i think the best thing to do is to tell him how you feel and talk to him about it because if you dont you will regret it. do you know the saying...
'hearts are broken from words left unspoken'
if you dont tell him your heart may still get broken but then if you do tell him it could still get broken.
you need to decide if you love him enough to take a chance, he may like you, but you never know unless you try.
It doesnt matter if his parents are strict because in the end he will do what is right for him, he will make up his own mind because no one can do it for him.
but first you need to make up your mind, dont leave it too late.
hope i helped xxsal
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Okay, I'm so annoyed with my supposed "bff's". I have two of them Josh and Katie. We are all attatched to the hip as most people would say, but latley I've got the sense of otherwise! You see Josh is my cousin, and Katie is just my bff, but since the begging of the year weve been all three friends. But now it's like I'm invisable. They'de rather be together then with me. I feel so depresed, I wanna be with them too! I know that Katie likes Josh but I've got feelings too! I don't know what I Should say or do. HELP! (link)
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hey im thinking that your cousin might like katie too so that might be one of the reasons that they are leaving you out. just talk to them and tell them you want to hang out more cos there leaving you out. there your bffs they'll understand. its better to wort it out sooner then later.
hope i helped xoxo
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Okay so I have 2 bffs, Kenzie and Bri. Bri and I have been friends since 4th grade, Im in 6th now. All of us are. Kenzie & I just met this year.. but anyway
well we all had this major fight for a really stupid reason and it really effected our relationship, even after words. Kenzie and Bri were never mad at eachother, so their relationship didnt suffer, just the one with me. They were all ganging up on me and stuff, and it was really annoying.
Well now they ALWAYS have plans together, and I feel left out.. It is really upsetting me and Ive tried telling them how I felt, but they just say "Well maybe you should make plans FIRST" But that is hard to do, considering they always have plans. And then on the bus they use MY phone to call and make plans for themselves, not even asking if I want to be part of it. It is really upsetting me. Ill ask "Hey can I spend the night tonight?" And shell say "No I want Bri to" and It just makes me want to cry. Today Im going to Alex's (youve heard about him, lol) birthday party with Kenzie. Its fine when kenzie and I are by ourselves, and its the same way with Bri and I. Bri always says we used to be like this *crosses her fingers* But now we are like this *sticks thumb and pinky finger out, all others down* and it makes me sad. They take it as a joke or get mad at me when I try to talk to them, and I dont want parents involved.
Thanx in Advance!
ALSO. Bri gets mad at me for stupid things like rolling my eyes. I dont know if that helps *laughs*, but w/e
P.s. I know this is off topic, but what should I give Alex for his birthday considering I have no money, at ALL.
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hey i know girls can get a little bitchy but you need to talk to them about it, one on one so they dont have each other to hang up on you. then they might really listen.
try a different approach like instead of asking if you can hang out with them and what they have planed, make plans and invite both of them like "im going to the movie you guys wanna come, we can go back to mine after" see if that works.
you could write them letters.
tell bri that you two have always been like this *cross fingers* she just didnt know it everytime she does that and it will soon change her mind.
you could make your alex a mix cd of his fave songs or fave band...
hope i helped xoxo
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Well me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago and its been 8 months. And we were soo happy and we never fought once. I love him soo much and he told me he loves me and he'll never forget about me and im an amazing girl and any guys would be lucky to have me and so on.so we hung out for a couple of hours and it was the hardest thing ever. but we didnt break up because we cheated, or fought too much, or anything like that. we still love eachother very much, and have these strong feelings for eachother. its just we went to fast. and im thinking, like is it too late to fix. we can start from the start and go slow.He tells me he tries so hard to keep me off his mind, and when we see eachother and look in eachother's eyes, we get emotional. i just need to know, is it over? does he just want space, and then he'll realise what he did? do i move on? i'm so hurt here, i love him soo much, and he told me he loves me and he always will. And he wants s to be friends and still talk when we can?. but Will he realise his mistake? (link)
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its never to late to fix things.
if you still love him and you dont want to lose him tell him about it. talk to him. talking about things is the best way to sort this out. because you might regret it later on.
besides you both still love each other.
he might need space but at least talk to him and find out what he wants and what you want to see if you both want the same thing.
if you leave it to long and he realises that he misses you, you might have already moved on or he might have moved on when you realise you miss him.
hope i helped. xoxox
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