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Best friend help
Im 16 straight and I have a problem with my best friend.
She is a little older than me. She is like my sister and I her brother. but what I need help with,is that she loves me more than that, she wants the relationship to go further. Im ready for that yet and I don't feel the same towards her.
I've never had a girl friend before and she has been with guys that have tried to have sex with her or have sexually harassed her. She says that Im the her knight in shining armor.
I don't want her getting hurt again.
Please help me with this. =(
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you need to talk to her. tell her how you feel, that you dont have feelings for her and that you dont want to hurt her.
you need to clear the air before she takes it to heart and tries to go futher with you.
besides you cant make someone love you if they dont. it doesnt work that way and she needs to understand that.
hope i helped xxx sally=]
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There is nothing wrong with telling someone you are not ready for dating, I wish more young people would just admit that. You don't have to go into any more detail then that, just simply tell her as you did us, "I'm not ready for dating yet" and leave it at that.
If she can't respect that, then she can't respect you, or your decisions and that should tell you something.
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ok i think i understand .
ok so tell her that you just want to be friends
with her that she beatiful but that you only
see her as a big sister and that you love her but not in the same way that she dose . and hope that she understands that your not trying to hurt her bu that your only telling her because you dont want her to get hurt.
[ hope ive helpp. ]
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