hi. i'm 28 years old. my friend is married but i know that he's having an affair. i dunt want him and his wife to break up so what should i do? i really want to tell them.
well you should try and tell your friend that it is not right for him to have an affair while he has a wife. threaten him that you will tell his wife if he doesn't stop. and if he doesn't then you should try and talk to the other girl and tell her that he is married and find her another guy so she will leave your friend.
i tried :)
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hi i have a boyfriend and i really really love him. but the thing is i'm beginning to suspect that he's cheating on me. what should i do?
well then you should go up to him and tell him that you realli love him and that you don't want to lose him. try to get his soft side. i'm sure that if he loves you back then he will dump the other girl and stay with you.
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hi i have a best friend named jaime. we used to be really good friends until this one girl came along and jaime and her became great friends. jaime is beginning to ignore me completly now and i dunt want our friendship to break. please help me. wat should i do. i don't want to lose my best friend.
well you should go to your friend and tell her how you feel. remind her of all the good times you had before this girl came along and tell her that you really want to keep your friendship strong.
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hi i'm 13 years old and in 8th grade. i'm considered a looser in school and a lot of people make fun of me which really really makes me feel bad. i feel depressed all the time and i hate everything in life. i'm always getting bullied by this one person named jessica. she really picks on me and makes me feel down. please help me. i need some advice.
well you shouldn't stand for it. what you should do is talk to your principal or your parents about it. jessica and every1 else can't treat you like that. to keep your depressions low, you should see a psychiatrist. he or she will help you. you should stand up for yourself and be independent.
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i've had the same hair style for a really long time it's short and brown. the back of my hair is a little longer than the front and i have a long side swept fringe. i really want to cut and spike my hair (not too short!) i also want maybe dye it dark brown or black. i have looked all over the internet and can't find any good pictures of hair like that to show my stylist. can anyone send me some links with picture(s) to match my description??? i have a round face, high cheekbones, hazel/green eyes, almond shaped eyes. and a light olive skin tone... (and a bit of a big head).... if that helps at all. i'm a good girl on the outside but i want the dirt in me to come out.
you don't need a picture. you can tell the stylist exactly what you want and she will do it for you.just like you described it here, you can describe it to her and she will do it exactly as you asked. but make sure to go to a stylist that understands english well. lolz
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i gave someone head and i recently got sick, fever sore throat and now i have swollen glands and gums and my tounge is sore and the top of my mouth too.. theres nothing involving head in that right, my mother told me its called fever blisters.
plus my boyfriend has never done anything with anyone else besides me , and i havent with annyone else , his family has no history ..
no i doubt it's becuase of the head. it's probably just a bad fever that's all. there's no need to worry
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hi. i'm 13 years old and i think that my breasts are too small for my age. can you help me figure out a way to enlarge them. thnx.
there is no way to enlarge your breasts unless you stuff ur bra with tissue paper or get padded bras. i dun think you should worry about your breasts being too small. you are just a late bloomer that's all. don't worry about it.
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okay so theres this guy. were bothlo 13 by the way. But anyways im not sure if he likes me. like he talkes to me on myspace alot and says things like "yes u can trust me. you always can" and we were going to see a scary movie and i told him i was going to hide behind his sholder and if it was okay and hes like " yeah its okay" and said he can always trust me. thats my first question, do you think he likes me? and the second question is, since hes going to a dfferent school next year but the year after that the same highschool, should i even risk it? were good friends but i dont know what to do =( thanks in advance!
well i think that if you really like him then take a chance to see if he likes you. confront him.it doesn't matter if you are in da same school or not. there are plenty of ways of communication. and ur gonna see him in high school anywaiiz...if you think that he is a trustworthy and honest guy then go for it!
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My best guy friend from camp is supposed to come back today.I'm 13/f btw. He stayed for 2 extra weeks than me. Actually, we were sorta kinda more than friends because he liked me and I really liked him back. Everyone thought we were going out because we cuddled so much and we spent a lot of time together. He would always kiss me on the cheek and say "I love you". The thing is, he pormised me that he would call me as soon as got home...but I haven't gotten a call yet. I don't think I should call him because I would feel too clingy. I've already sent him like 3 letters. My friends all tell me it isn't worth it because...
- they think its just a summer romance
-he lives 2 towns away (but my mom works in his town)
But i love him... and miss him like crazy!
well i think that you should call him. i'm sure if he loves you then he will be glad for the call. maybe he isn't calling you for the same reason you aren't calling him so break the silence between you two and call him. it's the best way to resolve it.
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Alright, I've once already asked advice about this situation ( me and my two best friends hang out and whenever this other girl hangs with us, I always sorta get the boot and feel left out and what not ) and everyone told me to just give her another shot and i've been trying but nothing's happened. S, I'e sort of just not talked to her much and just let everything be. I mean, if she does talk to me, of course I talk back, but I don't try to start any huge conversations with her. But, my friends still invite me into chats with all of us and her and they have us all and her get on the phone together and everything, and I'm pretty quiet on the phone unless I'm talking to either one of my two friends. Now, I don't get how they don't notice and I'm afraid to tell them, because I know my one friend'll probably go and tell her and I don't want to start any drama. What shuld I do? Shuld I just keep doing what I am doing and not really make huge conversation and let it be>
well she is in your possy and stuff but since she is not going through the trouble to get to know you then you should just let it be. just hang out with the rest of your friends as if nothing has changed. you shouldn't let her get to you. don't be afraid to say anything..be your normal self. or another thing is just get to know her more and b her friend.
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I have this friend, me her and 2 other friends had a possy. Then she got a boyfriend and started acting different. She got mean and I got to the point where I didnt even like to look at her. Me and my friends made inside jokes about her. But, the thing is, she still thinks im her best friend, and I don't know how to tell her im not.
13/F
well one thing you should do is go up to her and tell her how you really feel. i mean tell her that you feel she has changed a lot and that you should just be far away friends..not best friends.
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My ex boyfriend broke up with me and I know he still likes me but it is a sticky situation. Long story short his ex wont go away and he does some stupid stuff that hurt me.
1st question - how can I not give in so easy. He did something that hurt me bad but when i saw him i couldnt help but love him and want him and he kissed me which he hasnt kissed me sense we broke up! but ive only seen him twice sense we broke up. I dont want him to think he can walk all over me i want him to kno its me or nothing and that when he makes plans he has to keep them
2nd question - I dont have much money but i want to dress and do my makeup (not to much makeup) and hair a little more sexiier / prettyer. I just want him to be like WOW when he sees me and i also want to feel better about myself so i am more confident around him. what sorta things can i do with my look to make him begggg for me backk?
3rd - what can i say to him to make plans with just me and want to come and have him come to me so i dont take the risk of getting ditched.
please help i rate high!
well you should lay it straight to the point. go up to him and say that if he wants you then he has to stick with you or else he can't have you. you just have to show him that you are strong and independent. and you WILL NOT let someone walk all over you.
well one thing you can do is go to the salon and ask them what they reccomend...they usually do make up and hairstyles for cheap and they also reccommend good things to make you look out-of-the-way pretty. and you can always look at magazines or online to see which styles are unique and in. i'm sure he'll be crawling back to you in no time.
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I have an 8 year old son who will be going into 3rd grade.
He played little league baseball this year and loved it.
He had his first football practice yesterday and he wasn't as thrilled about it. Today when it was time for practice he said he didn't want to go. Then when we got there, 1 hour into it he came off the field complaining that he felt like he was gonna throw up. I was concerned about the heat, it's really unusually hot here in upstate NY. But he looked ok, face color normal and he wasn't showing signs of heat exhaustion so I gave him a drink and made him go back out. Not even 5 minutes passed and he was complaining again. This time he refused to go back out and started crying.
So I took him home early and now he is just fine. I KNOW that he was faking it because he didn't want to play anymore.
My problem is, what should I do?
I don't want to push him into playing football if he really doesn't wanna play. But at the same time, he has only been to 2 practices and I feel like he should give it a fair chance before I let him quit. Plus we paid over $100 for him to be on this team.
Should I force him to play, for at least 2 weeks before letting him quit? Or should I just let him quit now?
Thanks for your help
well i believe that is wrong to force someone into doing something. it only makes things worse. and he's been to two practices which i believe is enough to make a choice. if your son is the changing type than you should suggest that he play another 2 weeks but if he is quick to the point and makes decisions fast than you should ask him what he wants to do. although i reccommend that you do not push him into playing if he doesn't want to.
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14/f
My really good friend "kayley" has an older brother named "kyle". He's 17. yeah. Sure, 3 years won't be that much difference in the future... & i know that it probably wont happen for us now. What i'm really interested in hearing is, whether he's "into" me or not. He acts like it (from what i can tell) but the thing is, i'm so dense, that my friends laugh at me for it! We have a lot of fun together, just recently we had a light saber fight from star wars. haha. we gave each other massive welts from hitting so hard with the fake plastic light sabers. & sometimes we flirt.(
well let's just see it this way...all signs point to him liking you but that doesn't neccisarrily mean that he does like you. maybe that's just his way of being friendly. but if you want..you can go out of your way to ask him.
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Okay, my older brother and little brother are really into break dancing and hip hop dancing. Because both of them are kinda...mean about it, i want to prove that i can dance to...the only problem is, i can't.
So, i was wondering, if there are any really good, but kinda cheap hip hop dvd's or vhs videos that i can buy that can teach me the basics of dancing. I understand that its really hard to learn, and i wont be able to learn alot from a movie, but i really want to at least get down the basics, so if my bro teaches me, i wont feel like a fool...
I know its stupid to try to learn somthing, just because people arn't to nice to you about it, but i really do want to learn!
So please help me!
heh, sorry its so long...
well i know a website where you can learn the basics and more
http://www.learntodance.com/online-dance-lessons.htm
have fun learning
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I really need some advise. Anything would be good. Please help me. I'm 16 years and I dated this guy about a year ago. Me and him were together for a long time. He was my most longest and serious relationship ever. Things got really rough in my family and just over all and I just didnt want a boyfriend at the time so i broke things off with him. It's been a year now and he is with another girl and I have never been more in love with him. I hate myself for breaking up with him and I wish I never did that. I told him how i felt but all he could say was that i hurt him way too much and that he is happy with his current girlfriend. I cry all the time, i miss him so much. I would do anything to be with him again. He is so mean to me. I think he hates me, even though he says he doesn't. It's been a year now that i have been going through this pain and i just cant take it anymore. How do i get over him. I've waited a year now for him. He just doesn't want me back. It hurts so much and I dont know what to do. Someone please help me!
well what you should do is get a new boyfriend...move on. forget about him and begin to check out new guyz. there has got to be some other guy you like. just remember relationships can't go on forever and think of it this way, if your old b-f really is good for you then he would understand your problem. but since he doesn't he's not good enough for you. and he never will be so you need to get over him and focus on the life ahead of you. and focus on a new boyfriend. and once you get one, don't get too obsessive over him...you never know when a boy might break your heart.
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14/f. okay so i've been seeing all of these people suggesting people to use proactiv and that it really works. well i've always considered it and my mom said that if all else fails she'll order it for me. but if i use proactiv and it works, then won't i just have to keep ording it for years and years? because if i stop using it won't my acne come back? i've never had REALLY bad acne, but its enough to be annoying and noticable.
is proactiv worth it?
if i stop using it will my acne come back?
and how long do i have to use it until i can safely stop?
i use proactiv and it works. but u dun need to use it forever. once the acne is cleared up all you need to do is wash your face with warm water and soap twice a day to prevent acne from coming back. and once in a while get a facial too.
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i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/
well i think you should take the time to think which one of the two is most loyal and trustworthy to you. and if you want to dump your boyfriend...the easiest way would be to tell him you just want to be friends and that you are not ready for dating. if he's true and loves you like he says, he will understand.
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