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i am afraid my dad no longer loves my mother. he is nice to her, but it never seemed to me like he loved her that much, excepting that he buys her almost anything she wants. today i heard him apologizing to a woman for saying something at a party. i thought it was about politics, which he is very into. then i heard him say 'i dont know if it was that u looked pretty, or the dance moves, i dont know.' and asked the woman not to tell my mother. my dad tells my mom everything. this also reminds me of when, two years ago, i was looking through the favorites list on my family computer. i saw my dad had babe-of-the-week saved, as well as other sites of the same topic. when i asked him about it, he got really mad, yelled at me, and told me i wasnt alowed on that computer. what does this all mean?? (link)
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i don't think it's that he doesn't love your mother i think he's a tad bored and wants to fool around with someone for the fun of it..
i hope i helped....
any more questions just ask
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There's a guy who kind of like, and we had a thing in the past, and now it's just completely fucked up.
But that's not the point.
I always feel so alone, and this feeling bothers me so much.
I'm with friends a lot, so I'm not a loner, but it's more like the company of a boyfriend.
How can I ease this feeling? It's getting me down :( (link)
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i cannot tell you how much we are in the same situation! the same thing happend to me...but after i realized that he obviously didnt give a damn about me i got over him...and i think you might not completley be over him and if you are i think the problem is that maybe you just miss him or something like that...so maybe you should flirt with other guys hang out with other people and basically just do anything you can to forget him because mine did, he dosent even care he broke my heart so why should i care?
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I love to sing, but frankly, my singing's just not the best. It's not like i have the time or money , or even PLANS to get a singing coach, I'd just like to improve my voice for my own enjoyment.
SO.... that being said... can anyone help me? Techniques, anything like that? For example, I read up on it a lot, but I don't know how to sing or breathe using my diaphragm, or rather, I don't quite know if I'm doing it (right). And when I sing, I feel like my voice is... not strained... just kind of... small? I need to open up my windpipe more or something... Anyway, I'm not looking to hit Mariah Carey notes or something, I'd just like to improve myself a bit.
Anyway, I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell me something like, "Oh, that shoudn't matter, just sing with your heart, sing for fun" and all that good stuff. I already do, but I want to sound better for MY OWN PERSONAL ENJOYMENT.:)
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You must have heard people saying "Sing from your diaphragm", but what exactly do they mean? How can your diaphragm sing? What they actually mean is to use your diaphragm to control your singing breath.
Well, you must actually practice with good vocal exercises to perfect your singing breath. Singing from the diaphragm is a complex muscle/breath co-ordination that many singing teachers find it difficult to their students in words effectively. That is why there is so much confusion on this topic.
Just to give you an idea of how your diaphragm works when you are breathing, try this breathing exercise. Stand up straight with a relaxed posture, and then take a big yawn - Ahhhhhh! While you are taking that big yawn, notice how your tummy expands outwards? That is the diaphragm at work, pushing out your tummy so that your lungs can drop lower so that you can take in more air.
try this exercise-Now put your palms lightly on your tummy. Take in a deep long breath. As you are breathing in, extend your tummy outward and sideways as the air comes in. When you breathe out, pursed your lips together to release a controlled stream of air and at the same time, with your tummy becoming smaller and back to its natural state as air is being released. Now this is how you will feel when you are singing from the diaphragm.
i hope i helped anything else you wanna knnow dont hesitate to ask
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My boyfriend and I have been together over three years. We love each other more than anything and still make each other so happy. We're both 18, but he's about to be 19. Some things to keep in mind are that we don't have sex, he is a little on the shy side, and he has only had one other girlfriend besides me (but she barely even counts- it was middle school).
The thing is, I'm constantly second guessing how he feels about me. For instance, sometimes I see other couples constantly pulling out all the stops to make the other happy, and comparing our relationship to theirs. The excitment of being in a new relationship is long past, and when I see these other couples, I automatically think "Well, if he still feels the same, then he should be doing that.." or whatever, when in the back of my mind I know it's silly. And when I say something that I think should provoke a cuter/sweeter response than what his was, I get bothered by it.
I KNOW that he loves me, and I'm tired of asking him to show me more often, because I know it's not his fault that I feel/think like this. Anyone have any advice on how I can get past comparing our relationship to others, and just accept that we're unique and he shows his love differently than other guys? (link)
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humm well you could hang out more talk more....and when you see antoher couple just turn your head and count to 5 or somthing
yes i believes he still loves you but if you dont do anything soon he will always love you but he might forget....
i know this is short any questions just ask
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the past month i've been talking to this boy who i really do like but everyone says hes no good for me. i can see where their all coming from because all he does all day is smoke weed and hang out in the streets. i dont know if i should just let him go and stop talking to him. i would feel so bad if i did that though because he is faithful to me unlike all the other past relationships i've been in. i have talked to him about it before but he just doesn't want to stop smoking. (link)
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i know how you feel and what your going through....
i to have been in the same situation....and even if this isnt the answer your looking for i really should tell you....well i to loved my boyfriend who did weed....and i always told him its stupid and you really need to stop but he never listend, i got so sad for him and me because i didnt wanna lose him but i had to think of myself...
and even though it wasnt me doing this it was hurting me emotionally so..i had to tell him...i love you more than anything in the world and i hope you know that already but....we cant be together if your gonna continue this....im sorry.
we both cried but i knew that if he really loved me and wanted to prove hes better than that he would have stopped and he didnt....it was one of the harddest things i've ever had to do but im okay know and as the saying goes there are other fish in the sea....
i know its hard right now and i know you like him but think of everything that can happen to you and to him if your with him......
i really hope i helped please just take my advice you dont have to listen but i do care because i went through it.
-ally
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what is masturbation?
some one please tell me
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okay wow...well in scientifical terms.....
masterbation is the rubbing of the female/male genitals...hahaha
or in dirty teen terms....
marsterbating is when a guy takes his penis and gets it slippery with lotion anything...and puts his hand around it and goes up and down until whit stuff called skeet (or sientifically seman) comes out...and a girl
she can do alot she can take about two fingers or more and stick them up her pussy(or vagina) and goes in an up and down motion or can rub with her hands a place right above the outside of her pussy until she has an orgasm where whitestuff ( called cum) comes out!!!
HAHAHA!!!!!okay then i dont know how old you are but your gonna find out sooner or later so there it is!!!!
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Hello :] well im not usually the shy type of girl.
AT ALL actually. Its just that im better talking to guys in person rather than on the phone.
and well i think guys seem to think im boring because im going to admit it i am pretty boring on the phone.so i think they dont want to go out with me if our first like big talk was on the phone [do u get what im saying?]
but thats only because idk but it just seems easier for me in person. so like what should i talk about on the phone with a guy [please dont say talk about what you would talk about in person] because i just FREEZE on the phone.
so if you could give me like a list or something that would be awesome...PLEASE AND THANK YOU!!! (link)
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well its always helpful to know your age, but im thinking your somewhere between 13-15....okay??
well this guy he goes to school with you.....then talk about that..
talk about things you wouldnt normally talk about with anyone else just take a deep breath and say something anything...you most guys think its cute when you say the wrong thing or something totally wierd....whatever you do dont make their be complete scilence....be like omgosh today in school.....blah blah blah.....then say something giving him the idea that hes special......like the other day i was talking to a guy on the phone and i said," i'm done with guys!!!" and he ask why and i say,"some are just so immature and seem like theyll never grow up!" and he finally goes." are you tired of me??" and i say no actually your diffrent....and he say how andi tell him......so i made him feel im portant and special to me....
and guys like that!!!!
umm a list okay......
1.if he calls you then say something to make him want you like...i just got out of the shower im dripping wet....haha i know but it works i've done it!!! it makes them think...
2. if you call him then say hey like your eager to talk to him.....but when he calls you do the same...
3.okay the hard part... your gonna actually have a conversation...well if he asks wat are you doing be like..
i just got done playing soccer or whatever sport he likes or you like so that if he's in to sprots or music...you can be like to you like to play soccer..or..do you listen to (band(???
4.try to make him laugh...think of something funny smart witty to say or make something up like oh no! theirs this creepy guy again trying to kill me.....but make this funny or watever....(sorry if you dont think thats funny)
5.as your beginning your convo...dont expect things to get deep...in other words like a deep conection this might take a while..and depending on your chemistry it could take later in that fone call...
6.around the end of your conversation...and he says well im going to sleep goodnite say it back..and if he says it back giggle and say it back...its cute its like a little game....
7.okay you might wanna call him around 9:00 at night....cuz thats when he mite be laying down and watching t.v. and its not to late but its not to early and if you think he likes you then call him first guys like that...but anyways..i called this guy once at 9:00 one time and our conversation lasted almost 5 hours..i was tired but it was worth it!!
okay so i hoped i helped if i didnt i tried.....but try to put your own spin on these tips and dont call him all the time hell get annoyed....
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alright. i like my best friend tom. but tom likes my girl best friend lizzie. he liked lizzie for a while like a few mounths. but lizzie likes tom just a little. my friend jacob asked tom if he would ever go out with me. and tom said no because we are best friends. but i dint think he knows i like him, because i was inlove with this boy josh, not anymore. cuz hes in highschool. so how to i get tom to like me? and we got a real lot in common.. please help!!! i really like tom (link)
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this is tough...
okay since you guys have alot in common you should hag out and do that......example...if you guys like soccer(or any other contact sport) then play somewhere together and flirt with him!!
first little then when you thinkits okay alot....but not to dramatic....
as for lizzie you need to let him see that you can be much much funner!!!
try to hold his hand if thats okay....maybe try to go see a scary movie and that will give you an excuse to get "close"!
guys like to talk....believe it or not they have stuff on their minds just like us girls....since you're best friends it should be easy for him to open up to you...so let him tell you what on his mind....boys love it when girls will listen instead of talking about them selves!!
okay now most improtant....if you rreally like him and wanna be more than bffs!! your gonna have to tell him..if he dosent feel the same way than thats okay.......but dont just tell him right now wait until you think he can already guess that you do.
hope i helped..
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Hey! There’s a little problem that I have that I probably have put off for too long. Here goes…. So there’s this guy at school who is (or at least in my opinion) a great guy. He’s cute, super smart (and I should know- he’s one of the smartest person in our AP classes), really nice and really athletic (basketball, soccer, Frisbee, you name it).Anyway, he’s really nice to everyone, so I wasn’t sure if he was just being affable or if he might actually like me. So here’s a bit of a stuff that might be influential. I was wondering if anyone could make heads or tails of it.
We had an Arthurian Tales project earlier this year in Literature and he was in my group (we had four people total). Because the other two people were less eager to work, we were the only two who answered the questions. Later, we had to work on a larger project together as a whole group dealing with the Arthurian Tales so I offered to do the drawing for all three of them (because I’m better at art than they are), and two of them consented. The guy refused, and so we did our parts for the project separately. Later, the day before the due date, he had me how much I had done and I said I did the other two people’s parts already, but very little of mine. I assured him that I would be able to finish it in time, but he still ended up teasing me about it. Then, in Latin class, we had a huge project about ancient Roman architecture still standing today in Europe. Because my project dealt with building an architectural building out of food, I didn’t work on it at school, but rather did it at home. However, the rest of the class spent time during class to work on theirs, including the guy. I went over to talk with him and his partner and helped them build their bridge. I laughed saying that it was a bit flimsy and teased them about the model. Both laughed and ended up putting aside my comments. Another day, I was really happy because I found out that we got a really good grade on our Arthurian project so I told him. We were the first of our group to know. I did my whole ‘I’m-really-happy’ clap and he ended up teasing me by copying the clap sarcastically.
Later in the year, we had a Poetry Anthology assignment in Literature worth a hundred points. About a week before it was due, as we were walking back to our lockers (they are close together since we both have the same first period class), he asked me if I had finished by anthology yet. We talked a bit about it until we reached our lockers, both admitting that we had not done much work on it yet. When we finally turned our anthologies in, we had to display them to the class. We each put our anthologies on our desks with a piece of paper for others to write comments on it. So, we went around and I kept looking over at my desk as I read others’ anthologies. I saw him walking around in the general area and finally sat down. But before long, the period was over and we had to turn everything in to be graded. However, when I got the comments sheet back, his comment was the last one. It said, "I really liked how you wrote about quests and stories. They were really interesting." When I questioned him later, he said that he never really got to read them because by the time he got to my anthology, the period was over.
At another time, I had a huge math exam and because I did not understand a question, I asked a good friend of mine. She’s extremely brilliant, and like the guy, was in an AP math class that was one level ahead of the norm. The guy overheard, and since he didn’t understand either, referred me to another person. He was really trying to be helpful, and the next day, asked me if I had figured out the answer yet. Also, several times, while my friends and I were just sitting around and talking during Free Period, he would come over from across the room to join in, joking and laughing with us.
On the last two days of school, our Literature class (or at least half of us) pitched in together to complete a 1,000 piece puzzle of all the most important people of the century. I had asked if I could join and he said "sure." I’m not the greatest at puzzles, so whenever I got a piece right, I was extremely ecstatic. He (and several others) kept teasing me saying things like, "Yay, you finally got a piece!" in a really sarcastic tone. He also teased me using a comment I had said earlier (which was, "Hey, I’m not bad at all puzzles; I can do 10 piece ones really well!). Finally, I felt that I really couldn’t help any longer and after constant reminders that I was horrid at puzzles, I got into a fit and left. Whilst I was standing and watching everyone else work on the puzzles, someone came up to me and asked why I wasn’t helping. Indignantly, I retorted that "They told me not to work," to which he replied "We didn’t!" in an irritated manner. The next day (or last day of school), when I first got into the room, it was already utterly chaotic. A guy in our class had brought in a small, rubber, bouncy ball and accidentally threw it at the puzzle workers. It hit him on the back slightly the first time, and a few minutes later, squarely hit the puzzle and broke pieces off. He was really mad so he took the ball and wouldn’t give it back to the other guy. I told him "Just give it back to them," to which he replied, "Why should I? Why would you care?" A while later, I got back into the group and sat down next to him. I was wearing my graduation dress, and for the first time that morning, he noticed it. "Wow," he said with a glance in my direction, and then he went back to work.
The last few bits of things that I can still remember is something that deals with yearbooks. I had nothing to do in Latin class one day in the last week of school, so I asked to ‘sign’ his yearbook. I had already written a little message earlier with something along the lines of "Have a great summer," but now I wanted to decorate an entire page. Everyone in our classes knew what an ‘artaholic’ (as they put it) I am and how I would decorate and doodle all over anything I can get my hands onto. They also found out during yearbook-time that I LOVED writing and drawing in yearbooks. Some of them actually tried taking up a lot of room in MY yearbook just because I did that in theirs, and it was a way that they could irritate me. After a bit of pleading, he finally relented, but warned me only to take up ONE page, and that was all. So, I used my Sharpies and doodled all over and around messages. When I finally returned it to him, the page was nothing but a swirl of colors. He thanked me and then went back to his seat. I caught him surveying the book thoughtfully and even pointed something out to his friend, but since I wasn’t in hearing distance, I couldn’t tell what he said. Later, he had asked me to decorate another page because someone (we both know) who has really bad spelling and stuff wrote in his book that he thought would ‘ruin his yearbook’ (excuse?). I did so, and he thanked me yet again. I had also asked him to sign my yearbook and this is exactly what it says, "___, Thanks for making all of the really cool designs in my yearbook. I’ll (which was later scribbled out). Yours is the coolest "signature" I have. It has been fun being in Latin class and Literature with you! Have an awesome summer. See you next year!" He then signed his name in block letters. Because I had specifically asked everyone in my yearbook to decorate it, he drew (around the borders of the message) pictures of people we knew. He also drew the King of France, Sir Gawain, Gawain’s "horse/camel/dino" and "Me [meaning him], the artist… a long time from now." He labeled all of the pictures and wrote at the top, "My attempt at decoration." Finally, when school let out for the summer, I told him over my shoulder to "Have fun in N.Y." He paused for a moment and then said, "Huh? Oh, yeah. New York. Yeah, thanks."
Well, that’s the end of it. I know that it was really long, so I’m sorry! But please help me out! Is he just being friendly or might this be something more?
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well judging form the above......i think he like maybe has a crush....or mybe just being freindly...its very hard to tell.
maybe hes just being shy. maybe he wants to get closer.
the best way to know is to ask him.
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So I decided that I want to get a different hairstyle. Right now I have long golden/brown hair with golden blonde highlights (but it looks natural) and in the front its layered, but in the back it's one length. I was thinking of getting it a certain style in the back, where your hair ends in two different lenghts (someone told me its called razored or it's another form of layering). A lot of blondes have this hairstyle, and the only celebrity who I saw that kind of resembles what I'm talking about is Mariah Carey in her one video Shake It Off. So my question is what type of hairstyle is it called in that video between 1:11- 1:43? (1:42 is the example of what I'm talking about for the back of her hair) And do you think it would look good on me, or weird because my hair is highlighted, would it look weird because my hair would end on two different lengths?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=_eLy9p14ntc
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well ya see her hair is angled and it looks all smooth o the ends, meaning everything is like the same length....
so i mean if you want it to look exactly like hers in that video and you say it look kinda like hers i dont see why it would look bad!!
i think you should get it
but the only way to know is is you try so
so i hope i helped!
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Are there any other moods on myspace that are green, besides "froggy" ? (link)
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theres indescribable it looks kinda like an alien!!!
its green tho..
i hope i helped!
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in ur own words what is an epiphany? (link)
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well the first person is right just to let you know!!!
its when you just suddenly realize something....like have you ever been talking and you just cant say the word but you know it and then it just comes out its kinda like that
hope i cleared it up for ya!!
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Hi, I have a question. You see, I love this girl that I have known for so long and we been together for so very long too, I know that whenever I thinks of her my heart began to pound really hard and fast. I had met her once before we dated. The more I got to know her, the more I’m in love with her and yes we are so close, it’s like her and I are the same with our taste of food, our favorites, our thoughts and even how we feels for each other.. I can say that there no other girls out there that would understand me like how she does. So like what I was saying, I met her once already and I want to see her again and this time is with her even online too. She said she’s going to come and be with me soon, but I wish that "soon" would be like the next day because I really honestly missed her every day when she’s not around me. I can say that I’m so in love with her and she’s in love with me. We are meant to be together; just I want to know how long it will take before I will see her again. Do I have to go there and be with her or should I let her have space a bit more before she come to be with me herself? What should I do? (link)
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okay well how old are you?
but anyways ummm its hard to tell i think you should just wait and see dont rush things with a woman espacially if you have only seen her once or twice before....it sounds like she likes you, but how she likes you is a different story....she could think your a nice person and just want to be friends or really falling for you but its a little to early to tell just give ti sometime...
but watever you do dont tell her you love her unless you think she feels the same way because other wise you could freak her out....and she might lose total intrest and i you wanna see her really bad then make a time thats good for both of you and then just hang and talk more to see if she reallly feels a connection!
hope i helped you out
ally/16
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ok im gunna be straight forward..when i put a tampon in i have really bad pains in my stomach n side..y do i have these pains? it really hurts! please help (link)
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maybe you're using the wrong size but other than that i really dont know what could be the problem maybe you should try a diffrent size and if the pains dont stop you should think about going to see your docter
hope i helped
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thz is going to sound really weird but bare with me in the fourth grade i found out about masterbating ive bin doing it ever sinse and when ever i see naked wemon i have an urge to masterbate is it possible to be addickted to orgasums
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dude that happend to me to except like two years before yours but naw i wouldnt call it and addiction your just liking it alot thats all i know a guy who masterbates like 35 times a day!!!
so its nomal just dont do it to hard!!
:D
hope i helped!!!
ally/15
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OMG. i had a dream the other night about messaging my crush on facebook & i remembered that every message ended with a question & a question mark. and so i messaged my crush yesterday & it's EXACLTY like what happened in my dream!! my dream was that.. i messaged him & i remember everything he said and i remember asking him to hang out at my house. do you think i'm going crazy & getting my hopes up too high? i've experienced an innumerable number of "deja vu" s and many of my dreams have come true! I'M SO EXICTED. (link)
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okay i know exactly what you mean cause it happens to me all the time!!!
but im not sure if i am or not!!!!
but i get deja vu to and its really creepy sometimes so if its nothing to out of the ordinary i dont hinkyou should be worried it happens to my mom to and its never caused her any torble i guess some people are just born with it! and no, i dont think your going crazy!!!! and your hopes are no to high i know how it feels when your like goo goo ga ga over a guy!!!
:D
so i hope that helped
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ok so iwent out with this guy and we were happy for like a aweek then i broke up with him like 4 weeks ago and we use to be best friends and whenwe broke up he was saying how heart broken he was. well even now he will email me saying how he screwed up. he obsesses over stuff and im really tired of it. and i dont want to hurt him more than i already did. hes to where he is asking my friends to ask about me and stuff. and he like never leaves me alone. its kinda creepy. i mean sometimes i think he might hurt himself.. and he said he thinks he loves me (link)
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okay wow your right that is really creepy....
i think you should just tell him to stop hes obviously to the point where its like stalker mode!!
yikes!!!!!
so just tell him to stop and if he dosent ignore him by not talking ot him and that includes email phone calls anyhting and if that doesnt work you should talk to your parents if he gets really really scary to you!
i hope i helped and if you do this i hope it works
much love
andy
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ok so i met this guy his name is travis hes 22 and me and him have been friends for a few weeks
well we know we like each other and stuff but theres the problem of him living in a different county from me and i know my parents won't let me date him because hes 22 and im just 16 but my problem is my foster sister jaymie found out i was talking to him and she just blew up about it and started bitching me and him out calling him on his cellphone and stuff which wasn't to good so me and him taled online and stuff and we decided we shouldn't talk because i didn't think it was right what they did . the problem is i really miss him hes the one person i could talk to about anything . the worse thing about this is my real sister casey was threatening to tell our parents if i didn't tell her everything he said about he because she really liked him once and wanted to date him but he didn't like her. i just really miss him and now jaymie aka my foster sister sometimes checks up on me to see if ive talked to him since that happened which i happened and i really miss him .me and him were going to hang out and see how we felt about each other and then see if we wanted to date . i want to know what i should do because i seriously miss him . also if u think i shold talk to him and lie about it i can't lie i think its just wrong and i can't do it so please help . :( thanks in advance . (link)
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okay so he older than you...duh!
but he coul get in troble i hope you know that and i always go into chat rooms and talk to guys that are really nice and everthing and i know that only reason i tell them things i normally wouldnt is cause i dont know them!!!
so i know what your feeeling but honsetly the guy might just be telling you what you wanna hear so dont believe it you dont wanna end up dead or raped cause you wanted to meet someone you think you know!
trust me dont think of it to much cause in the end he might just wanna mess with you and thats it
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okayy. there is this girl and she has been my best friend since she was born. but she is stating to become very bitchy. she doesnt get her period and she is only in 6th grade.
but she was a big copier.
last year she copied me none stop.
now she isnt, but ever since she had these new 'friends' [i think they are using her] she has been not talking to me like i'm her friend.
she makes me feel like crap sometimes.
but its not like i can just ditch her.
our parents have been bff's since 7th grade!
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i have had very similar problems like this and the best thing to do is just talk to her about it and if she dosent wanna listen then really you should consider finding a new bff!!!!!
cuz that type of person is not worth crying or giving a crap about!!!!!!!
trust me on this its so much better to let her know!
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Okay so I used to be like best friends with this one guy and he told me he liked me and we just completly stopped being friends. We talk occationally but not like we used to. I miss my friend. I want to be closer to him. How should I fix it? (link)
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well ive been in this to...
okay all you have to do if tell him!
tell him sincerily that you want to be friends agian and that the whole liking part is not even that bad but that you really want him back as a friend and that i dont want things to be this way.....and if you like him back tell him
but if you say all this and he still dosent go back to the way things were then hes prolly not worth it
just give it sometime tho cuz i could be wrong with this so dont be mean to his reply
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