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hey! I am girly (as you can see) and I love acting. i am a bookworm and I enjoy hanging out with my friends.

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Ryt wel i am seeing this lad and i really like him i have been with him for about a month now and i dont want to hurt him but my ex..who i still love.. wel we have just bin kinda flirtin with each otha and he has asked me to go to the pictures with him and i said yes. I have made sure were not going alone yano so nothing wil happen becausei dont want to cheat. but the thing is i really like my ex and he said that if i wasnt with someone, he would ask me out. The only problem is he has played me before and he has really hurt me..but he apologised for al that said he was realy sorry. i really dont know what to do..so i stay with my bf or what ? please help! x

okay, answer these questions:
do you love your boyfriend?
do you completely trust your ex?
if the first is yes and the second is no, then you shouldn't dump your boyfriend. I think you should stay with the guy who is serious and trustworthy, otherwise, you may go paranoid on him.

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Okay I like this boy but I don't think he has any interest in me. He might because I catch him staring at me. And then he looks over at me at times too. But thats it. All the rest of the girls flirt with him and I get real jealous when they talk. I don't know whats wrong all I want is to be with him or at least get him to notice me. I mean he knows who I am but I don't think he likes me in the way I do. What do I do?

talk to him, he may not know you know you if you are too scared to talk to him. don't become to best friend though becuz that would be awkward. if you're jealous about the other girls, be different from them. don't flock and try too hard. act like you don't care so so much, which you shouldn't. ask him out or with a few other friends for a movie or something. if you don't make a move he may gi with another girl.

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ok soo, this is my first month starting birth control.. and me and my boyfriend have sex quite frequently.. without a condom.. but he still pulls out. i know it isn't smart but anyways is the birth control affective the first month? bc im already having signs of sore breast and cramps and i spotted a little bit, and i hope its not pregnancy, and just the start of the birth control?

PLEASE HELP.

Talk to your mom now! you may be pregnant! See a doctor, don't delay talking to your mom or a female relative that is an adult. see your doctor.

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i lik this guy but we havent talked in a long time i used to lik him alot but then he left me hangin for my best friend for the longest time wat should i do

he left u 4 your best friend and barely gave you the time of day? i don't think he deserves you!

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ok so i've been dating this guy for a while and my mom and his dad (both single parents) met and they just told us that they are going to get married! i really love this kid and my mom is completely disregarding my feelings. what can i do? do i have to stop dating him?

talk 2 your boyfriend. then 2 your mom. know this either way life will b awkward. do u want your mom unhappy? do you wanna b unhappy? talk 2 your mom NOW!!!!!!

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F/16

I've been in and out of the hospital since October and I've spent the past week and a 1/2 in the hospital, so I haven't seen my boyfriend very much. We were both invited to our friend's new years eve party and I might be home by then to go. The problem is my mom doesnt think its a good idea for me to go to someone elses house when I just got home from the hospital...

So my mom was like why can't BJ[my boyfriend] just come over to our house? so I asked him and he got all mad at me and was like "no I really want to go to this party, I didnt go last year" and he is making me feel like crap...

So should I just keep asking my mom and see how I feel on that day or just suck it up and stay home alone?

Thanks

First of all, he is ditching you for a party?! i think you need 2 dump some1 first. If he cared about you this party wouldn't be a bigger priority. I think if you want 2 stay at home then do so. Maybe if u r better, then go. if u r not well, then stay at home, eat snacks, & maybe hang out with your mom. i know y4 mom may not b the party, but she may have cool things to say.

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15/m

okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?

Okay, she kissed another guy and wanted you back? Now you want her even though she cheated and doesn't want you. i really think you should move on. from what it sounds like she isn't a really nice person. there is this girl in my school and she cheats. she uses guys. i am not implying anything, but do you want 2 take a risk of getting hurt again?

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Okay,
I absolutley LOVE LOVE LOVE singing, and acting, but my play is this friday and i have the lead role, everyone always talks about that when they perform, they feel really good. How do i get over my fear!! I already had an embarrassment on stage once, i cant do it again. How do i distract myself from the sudience. Tips would be helpful ASAP

JANE

I am an actress too. Trust me, i was mortified opening night. Everyone seems to believe in you. Sometimes, it is easier to become the character. Act like you are the person. like if you are a princess, act like you are at the castle doing your thing.

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Well, my friend, Stephanie, likes this guy, Chris. But, Stephanie is like one year younger than me. (I'm thirteen) Chris, is my age. All three of us go to the same school.
Ok, so Steph likes this guy in my grade named Chris. It seems like he kinda likes her back. For example, when he would volunteer to help the people in her class, he would always read over her shoulder, or find an excuse to talk to her. I, on the other hand also volunteer, and I kinda spy on them. lol.
Anyways, there are some real signs that he likes her back, but how would Steph make him say that he likes her? Or how can Steph tell him that she likes him, in a non-obvious way? Can you give her some tips?
Oh, and just to let you know, Chris is the kind of guy who is pretty shy, but once you get to know him, he talks a lot. Steph is really shy, and probably wouldn't be able to confess her to crush. Please help her!! Thanks!!

Well, since they're obviously not going anywhere in this "relationship" you should ask them and some other friends to go to the movies. Then, let them slowly begin to hang out. If they aren't making any moves, play matchmaker. As for Steph, just go up to him and ask him for a date. Ask him like you aren't doing anything big. I was scared at first, but I just tried.

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i finally found out why im so quiet and dont talk anymore! last year my best friend was so loud and outspoken and she helped me become like her. i wasnt afraid to talk to people and she helped me come out of my shell (and also made me popular) this year at the end of the summer we got in a fight so i didnt talk to her. i wasnt around her anymore so i stopped being loud and now im back to being a quiet nobody. we are out of our fight (yay!) but we havent hung out for 4 months and i wanna hang out with her because she was the one who made me come outta my shell and be LOUDDDDD. i wanna hang out with her, but i cant randomly go up to her since we havent hung out so long and be like HEY LETS HANG OUT TOMMOROW! i want to call her up this weekend and hang out with her but how do i do it? we havent talked in sooo long!

Well, since it has been a while, I think you should apologize. Say an i'm sorry and explain why you argued with her. Don't give excuses. If you miss her, do it for a friend.

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hi im 14 f and my bf is pressuring me into having sex but again not married ad it totally against my beliefs and i cant let him get to me wat shud i do?

Hey, I totally respect you for having morals. If you don't want to have sex, don't. It is as simple as that. I say, if you wanna wait, wait. It's better to lose a guy then have sex, give away something so precious, and regret it later.

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