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Okay well let me start off to say im 16 years old and I haven't had a boyfriend in two years after I broke up with a guy after a year relationship. The guy he was and usually what I go after is I guess like a jock you can say, but they always end up being a asshole. However, that's the kind of guys my dad like to see me with too. One whose out going, athletic, and all of that kind of traits. I been told that I'm really pretty not trying to sound concieted, but this goes on with my story. Anyhow there's this guy I went out with a few times. His totally not what I'm use too what so ever his more like the nerdy side I guess you can say. He met my parents today and of course I can tell my dad didn't like him so much. I have fun when I'm with him though and maybe being different is a good thing, but at the same time I feel like I can do better. I don't want to lead this kid on though thinking he has a chance which I don't even know if he might. It's kind of like the movie she's out of my league and that's what I keep telling myself. Maybe I should give him a chance, or what? (link)
ok so ur entitled to like who ever you want and be into who ever you want. I would not let my father make my choices if im going to be unhappy. If youre unhappy you should not be leading him on because everyone has feelings and just like you would get hurt so will he. The fact that you said youre pretty and hes nerdy makes me feel like he might feel like hes a winner and might feel like he cant do better while youre feeling like you could. Think bout it but dont lead someone on to make months with them because when you finally decide youre brave enough to tell him he wont take it to well.


I am a 13 year old girl and my freind is 11 all of the
sudden she likes a 16 year old is that right is she to younge
another thing our moms say we are to younge to date is that true?? (link)
eleven years old is still to young to even date.. I mean we all have crushes and we all want to date but you would never know the intentions of this 16 year old . You wouldnt want her to come back with a story or feel peer pressured into anything. If you can help her in any way do so dont stay shut because yu might regret it later.


Few days ago I was at my girl's place.Its the fourth time that I went in to her place.All those days we used to kiss and talk a lot.But last time when I went in she was on her periods.So we started kissing and it felt really strong.And she really wanted to have sex with me.I wanted the same,but still she is 15.So we had some fun,naked.Even though we wanted to have sex,we didn't go there cause her age and all.But the problem is she has always been very cautious about her virginity.But yesterday she wanted it very badly.So I want to know whether those feelings come along with her periods or they are just ordinary feelings of a teenager.I need some good advises about this situation and how I should react. (link)
first of all let me congratulate the fact that you care about your gf and appreciate the fact that shes a virgin. The best thing you can do is wait even if shes on her period us females do get tempted because of the hormones and extra feelings and emotions. You guys can have fun other ways like getting naked like u said what more could be better then feeling comferatable with eachother before ever havin sex. I suggest u to dont do it especially if you still feel uncomferatable and although she might not understand that you want to wait shell thank you later and realize that anybody else could take advantage that shes a virgin. But she has you and you and your feelings are important and that should make her happy to have someone like you.


To start this off, I'm a 16, almost 17, y/o girl. For more than a year now I've been on and off with a guy who is 18 right now. We're very close but, honestly, he is not the smartest person. We argue a lot because of it. He's threatened to kill me face to face one time because at a time when we weren't dating, I had sex with someone he knew. He was on probation over the summer because he has a problem with smoking weed. Don't get me wrong, I've smoked a lot with him before. BUT he was being drug tested and he promised me that we would both stop smoking together. He broke that promise and lied to me about it. I kept it. I'm not going to keep rambling on,
so to sum it up, I do feel a lot for him. That only might be because of how much we had sex or how much we were alike though. I really don't know. I really want him and can't let go. It makes me cry.
A few nights ago I started dating another guy. A really nice, shy type of guy. I thought it was great... a way to escape the one before. But it just isn't the same. I'm tearing up right now because I feel like I don't want this relationship... I want my baby.. my love back.
But I don't even know if it was love.. I don't know. Everyone calls me stupid and all my friends hate him because they know what he does to me.

My dad doesn't even know I still talk to him. I got in trouble a year ago with him and I'm not even supposed to be talking to him. But I have been anyway. And I hate lying but I just crave him..

I don't know if anyone cares enough to read this, but I just wanted to get this out there. Please, what am I supposed to do?
I don't want to be known as stupid... Why do I want him so much? After everything. Thanks in advance. (link)
girl i been in your situation not exactly like it but i once had to fight for someone i loved and thanks to me for standing strong cause i been with him now since 2008. I was not willing to let him go if ya both have love for eachother fight for it because none of my parents wanted me with him i was 16 then and now im 19 and hes 24 and even if nobody wanted me with him and my freinds either i still went to go see him and talk to him cus is only you and him that know what ya about nobody else does. But if hes threatning you thats a no no. Nobody should ever put a hand on you and if hes willing to work on it and stand strong to then i congratulate him but if walks out on you or doesnt meet u halfway then think bout it is he worth it?




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