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i give amazing advice on any topic. unless you are rude. then forget it. i'll treat you nice if you do the same for me. i love helping with relationship advice. i'm good in that department. so, ask me on the site or if its really personal or something you can email me by clicking here.
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xoxo,

sam

advice

16/F
105 lbs/5'4"

I recently came out to my family that I've lost 10 pounds in the last two weeks due to not eating and throwing up when I do eat. Now my parents want to send me to an in-patient facility for rehabilitation. I'm really really scared/angry because I think that I can beat this or figure it out myself with a little help from my family...I'm not even that underweight. I feel like this whole thing is ridiculous and I shouldn't have tol them about it. What should I do? I need to convince them otherwise very soon...

i nkow this is probably not what you want to hear, but they are deffinatly doing the right thing. they are just really scared about your health and want to make sure that you get better. an eating disorder is a big problem. you can die EASILY from these and your parents obviously care about you. just, please, im begging you, dont fight it. go to rehabilitation center and work with everything they do. it may, and probably will be, a very emotional ride. but you have to stick this through.


hope i helped.
xoxo (:


ps. thank you so much for telling your parents. that took a lot of guts and you should be proud of yourself for doing that. big move. big GOOD move. (:

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I have to wake up at 6:30 in the morning to get ready for school, so what time should I go to bed on a school night to get enough sleep?

Also, don't you get tired from getting TOO MUCH sleep?

actually at your age, you should probably be getting at least 8.5-9 hours each night. your body is growing a lot during the day and needs time to rejuvinate and reamp during the night when you are asleep. 10 at the latest.


xoxo (:
hope i helped.

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ok on the 8th i think my hymen broke
i had a little bit of blood in my underwear
and it would like stop and go
i dont think i started my period though cuz there wasnt a lot of blood and then it stopped and came back
but then yesterday the 15th i woke up and saw that i had blood in my underwear
MORE THAN THE 8TH
then i kept geting blood
and more blood
and more
and you get the point . . .
well i still have it now
but i just wanna know

did i start my period on the 8th or yesterday
i have been getting wayyyyyyy more blood now

[i have a lot of blood now still]


im 15 / f and athletic so if that could help in answering this question

thanksss

trust me, you would know if you broke your hymen. i agree with the other advice you were given.

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Ok so i got a boyfriend yesterday and 5 of my friends like him and before i said yes i talked to them the 4 were all fine but cut but they toild me to do whats right and they were so nice then my bestfriend ii asked her and i told her if you dont want me to il just so no but she was so happy and she was like YEH go for it but she told that she had gotten over him ok and she was like go for it yay then when i said yes she started crying now shes mad at me and i dont want to dump him what should i do =[=[ ??

i only have one thing to say.
chicks before dicks.
guys can come and go but do you really want t olose a bestie over a stupid boy.
if you really like him that much,
tell him WHY you cant go out with him anymore.
say soemthing like "my best friend really has a problem with us going out and i dont want to lose
her. im really sorry." im sure he'll understand.
but if he gets mad, then maybe he doesnt deserve you, you know?

hope i helped.
xoxo (:

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So i have very curly hair and i just got side bangs and she straightened them very well, i just took a ashower and tried to straighthen them but they are very stiff now and don't look as good as last time..is there any product i can put in my hair that makes straightened hair smooth, silky, and flexible? thnx.

its called Super Skinny Serum by Paul Mitchell. works so well. all you do is use one pump on damp hair and them blow dry it or air dry it and then it makes it all shiney! (:

hope i helped.
(: xoxo

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Okay...so heres the deal. I just got a CHI.. for 160 dollars. Now, it heats nice and all, and when I was trying it I tried turning it with little bit of my hair in it to see if it really could keep it like that, and it did make a little flippy-kinky thing.. However, I tried numerous times going over that section to straighten it out and it WOULD NOT straighten all the way! I thought this was one of the best straighteners ever? My hair is naturally wavy and I like it better straight, so it kind of bugs me that it couldn't even get out that small little flip. I don't want to return it though. Its not a defect because it heats up and everything.

I also have another question, the box says you can curl your hair with it? How do you do that? I heard you clip your hair in it and twist it around it, and I tried but it didn't work.

its because of the way you did it. its normal. just dont try curling it like that the only way i could figure out how to curl it with my chi is to rap it around the outside, because that part gets hot too. but if you have a ultra, it wont work because of the fabric on the outside.




hope i help i smidge.
(: xoxo

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Is there any natural ways I can get better with stuff in my house?
I'm not sick but I got this nasty feeling in my throat which I get before I'm sick so I'm trying to prevent it.
I coughed once in a while (it's only my mouth and throat, nothing else) because it feels liek something's stuck in my throat so I thought if I washed it away I would feel better so I drank different juices and water but all it did was make me pee three times more then usual.

you could a humidifier in your room and turn it on at night. that may help a little with irritated troat. and DO NOT DRINK JUICES WHEN YOU HAVE A SORE THROAT. hahha. that will irritate it more if nothing.




hope i helped a little?
(: xoxo

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hey. i have liked this guy for a while..last year i liked him and everyone thought he liked me but i wrote him a note asking him if he did and he never wrote back & my friend would bother him about me ( which i didn't really like.) we're both shy & even though he is popular he is pretty quiet and is kinda known for not showing alot of emotion. this year, we still look at eachother and make eye contact alot and one of my best friends thinks he might still like me. me & the guy never really talked so i don't know what to do. how can i tell if he likes me? last year i thought he did but then some stuff happend and i kinda gave up..but i still like him and i need some advice on what i should. thankss ♥

well if youve liked him for so long, you are probably getting impatient. hahah i understand. but i wouldnt be so concerned RIGHT NOW with if he likes you or not. just start talking to him more in the halls or in class (if you have any classes together). then once you guys start talking more, maybe invite him to go hang out at the mall or go see a movie. if you arent comfortable going to the movie/mall with JUST him, invite a big group of you/his gal friends and your/his guy friends. that way theres kind of an insurance that there will be no akward moments. haha. but if he rejects you right off the bat, dont give up hope, he may just be too nervous or honestly busy. (:

then after all that if over and done with, you will probably have some idea about if he likes you or not. but if there are no DEAD givaways, then ask him. seriously, guys dont mind. but, if you, like e, dont have the courage to do that, check out his sight for some signs that he likes you. www.links2love.com (:





xoxo
(:
hope i helped.

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Ok is it really nessesary to use facials, clensers, pore strips, etc for your face?

I'm just thinking about the ancient times back then when those things weren't even invented yet everyone had great skin and I think, "Hey if they just washed their face with water instead of wasting money on products and get great skin, maybe me too!"

All those facial stuff, doesn't work for my skin. It makes my skin dry and it might stop my oily skin for a minute but when I go outside it's even oiler!

So will it be okay to just wash your face like the days when you were little and didn't need all those stuff, no dermintoligist, and still get great skin?

Or does those stuff just don't work for me because I'm 13 and that's a little too young to use those products?

I'm trying so hard to save my money from those but you'll never know what works and what's a scam.

Like those pore strips thingies: I know they rip out the dirt and stuff but doesn't that mean it wrecks your skin too or stretches it?

the thing is, in a ancient times they didnt use all the artificial make up we use today. they had to get their products from plants and stuff, which is all very pure. just a thought.


xoxo
(:

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what are the names of some really good dance sons? like anything rock and roll or hip-hop or anything wit a good dance beat?
every saturday night we have a dance party over at my house but i need music!!
thank you so so much!!

ARTIST SONG


cassie long way to go
pink trouble
david banner run girl
fergie clumsy
busta rhymes i love my bitch(chick)
gym class heros cupids chokehold
paris hilton turn it up
paris hilton nothing in this world
crime mob work your hips
bun-b git it
dj unk walk it out
fat joe make it rain
timbaland give it to me
t.i. bring em out
huey pop lock and drop it
sean paul break it off
rick ross hustlin
lil jon snap yo fingers
ying yang twins shake
kailu candy coated sugar sex
akon dont matter
akon smack that
beyonce ring the alarm
lil wayne fireman
birdman & lil wayne stuntin like me daddy
BEP my humps (of course)
danity kane ride for you
diddy tell me
eminem ass like that
E-40 U & dat
fergie glamorous
gwen stefani wind it up
gwen stefani sweet escape
janet jackson so excited
janet jackson sho me
jim jones we fly high
lil jon & eastside boyz get crunk
ll cool j control myself
ludacris stand up
mims this is why im hot
missy elliot im really hot
rich boy throw some d's
three 6 mafia poppin my colla
dem franchise boys lean wit it rock wit it
ying yang twins badd
yung joc i know you see it
juelz santna there it go
jay-z dirt off your shoulder
ludacris shake yo money maker
jay-z show me what you got
ludacris what's your fantasy


wow. that took a while. but i hope i helped.
xoxo (:

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Alright, well i was in my frineds car, and she had this cd playing. I either want the song title/artists of either of the songs, or the album name, plls.
this is what i remember from the first two (maybe thrid) song.

1. "or a picture with a broken frame. But when push comes to shove..."
thats all I remember of that one ><

2. about playing a country song backwards "you get your dog back you get your best friend jack back, you get your big screen back you get ur dvd back" etc.

thank you guys SO much!

i think the first one is Stand by Rascal Flatts...
but idk the other.


soo sorry.
hope i helped a little.
(: xoxo

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does walmart have good bras. like ones that do both push up and are padded? like i have one bra and it says that im a 30 A and i got it from walmart but not its like a little too small and i want one that does some serous push up and is padded so my boobs look bigger. i might go later tonight..thats why.
thanksss. !

walmart has a good selection.
the best brand i can recommend
from walmart is, by far, fruit of the loom.
they have the cutesttt designs and
great push up and a little bit of
padding. you dont want too much
padding. the padding is just so you
wont be pointing at people when its
cold out, if you know what i mean.

hope i helped. xoxo
(:

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what is nair or nare or something everyoen says to use it for waxing or something over the bikini line. where is it and where can i get it


ive used it before...
soooo...


-it called nair

-it smells bad, even if you
get the scented kind

-you can only use it on your legs,
unless you get the specially formulated kind;
not all stores carry that kind, so be sure to check the label.

-after you use it, your hair doesnt grow back from at least 2 weeks, so thats a plus side. (:



hope i helped.
(: xoxo

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i think on what not to wear the girl that does the makeup uses spray foundation. does anyone know where to get it??? ive never seen it or heard of it before that show and i really want to try it. if any one has used it does it work good?

ive also seen it at mac (:

xoxo

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Ok i know this sounds really lame but my friend loves these quizes but does anyone know of any quizes she can take to find out if this guy likes her cause they have not really talk and his friends have asked her out twice but she doesnt think he actualy likes her

try myjellybean.com

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somtimes ill ask a question on here. and like they dont show up on my comp. its weird.. but yeah.
help.

same thing happened to me.... its so retarded. like i posted this really important question like an hour ago and it still hasnt shown up. but other poeples have been showing up just fine. grrrrrrr. maybe we should complain er something. cause its making me really angry.

xoxo

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i like the natural look. any ideas?

if you have a sephora or mac somewhere in the area, you can go in and tell them what you have in mind. sephora helped me a ton. people cant even tell i wear make up. but i dont look scary. haah.and even if you dont buy anything from them, they give you a free makeover so you can see if you like what they do and how to get the look. (:

you can check out

http://www.sephora.com/help/stores/index.jhtml;jsessionid=JFOANBIOL5VIHLAUCLBBXCQ

or

http://www.maccosmetics.com/templates/door/finder.tmpl

to find stores near you.

hope i helped at least a little.
(: xoxo

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a black judge on america next top model is it a guy or a girl. not to offened or anything im just not sure and im curious. http://www.catherinebarr.com/photos/westender2005/citytvtopmodel/thumbnails/PICT0018.jpg
the black person i think thats him.

dooood.
i looooove miss jay.
he's da bomb. hhaa.
but yeah he's a transvestite.
and fyi, i cant spell worth a damn. (:

xoxo

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what does the gyneologist (sry i can not spell) do?



thanx

i thought i might add that you can also go if you have a problem. whether you think you might have an std, getting tested, you think you have a disease (not just any std, but maybe a yeast infection, irregular periods, etc).


so dont think you only go if you are sexually active. it doesnt hurt to have a checkup.

xoxo

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okay so basically i'm 16, turning 17 in april and i am a 34/b but it doesn't look like that at all. my friend is the same size as me but she is bigger than me & i def don't want to get implants i just want to be bigger (like most girls).. i got my period when i was 13, do i still have time to grow any more? also my mom, grandma's & aunts all have pretty big boobs does this mean that i'm just a late grower? also i've done gymnastics all my life does that have an effect as well? let me know thanks!

we gymnastics does effect your size because all your boobs are made of is fat and milk glands. thats all. and if you work those muscles around them (which gymnasts do A LOT) they tend to lose a lot of their breast mass. ha.


but it may also be because you are a late grower. if your bereast have gotten completely round, then they are most likely done growing.

you may want to check with your mom and/or grandma to see around when they finished developing.


hope i helped. (:
xoxo

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