*NaMe: Kayla* *AgE: 13* *HeIgHt: around 5ft & 4inch* *EyEs: blue/green* *HaIr: blond with red highlights* I've always loved helping my friends out with there problems and as soon as i found out about this website i had to join. So please, if you have a problem come and ask me id be more then happy to try and help. It doesnt matter to meh what the topic is even if its personal.
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Location: Berkley
Occupation: Berkley Middle School
Age: 13
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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ive always liked older guys and older guys have always liked me, but im not talking like guys two or three years older im talkin that the oldest guy ive been with was 26 and i was 14. im 15 now and im into a guy thats 20 and hes into me, but there is no way we can date with my parents being in the way but i dont want to hide it cause i had to do that with the 26yo and it didnt work out well. but i can't wait till im 18 bc hes moveing next march, i dont' know what i should tell my parents so theyd let me be with him.. any suggestions? (link)
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What I would do is first talk about him as a friend and then as they get used to the fact that your friends with a 20 yr. old get into the fact that you like him and he likes you. Gradually do it tho so its not like a shock to them and they could kinda tell that you liked him in the a lil neways...So basically go from friend to boyfriend in a "month" or so while talkin to ur parents....month is in "" bc i dont know how long it will take for them to get used to him as a friend never mind a boyfriend. Hope I Helped
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ok well ive liked this one guy for awhile. i did tell him i liked him and he said he likes me too. but i dont know if i should go out with him, bcuz everyone says hes a player. should i or shouldnt i? thx (link)
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Even if he is you'll never know unless you try. And if you dont try then someone else will snatch him and ull b upset you dint take your chance. The thing is you have to be willing to take the chance of him cheating. I would take the chance tho cuz ull neva no and ull probly feel bad if you dont...hope i helped sweetie!!! let meh know how it goes!
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i want to wear eyeliner this year. not alot, but kind of noticeable. except when i put it on, i always manage to mess it up. does anyone have any tips?? (link)
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What I do when I apply eyeliner is put it on the little pink layer on top of your bottom eyelashes. I dont know exactly how to explain it! Anywways just pull the bottom part of ur eye down and ull probly see what i mean. Put it there and as your day goes on the color will fall under your eye and be noticible!! Hope I Helped Sweetie!!
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ok ive been getting all these achs in my neck and legs all the time, and i dont know how, i do play sports but they arent from that. can anyone tell me whats wrong? thanks
*marielle* (link)
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I get pains sometimes to in my neck...first try sleeping different ways bc maybe the way you are now isnt good for it. You could also have just gone through a growth spirt and now your muscles are trying to catch up. The best advise i can give is maybe ice it and KEEP walking and moving your neck. Staying still adn resting it will only stiffin it so when you move it will hurt even more then b4. Hope i helped...let meh now how it goes.
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Anyone have any ideas on how to throw a party when your parents arent home, and what can we do? and not get caught And have fun!? i rate!!
-Andrea (link)
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First make sure you know exactly when their coming back and that everything is exactly how it was when they left if you dont wanna get caught. As for thingz to do...play lots of music but not too loud or the cops will come and ull be busted cuz ur rents would be bound to find out...and play things like spin the bottle if its a mixed party (usually house partys are!) Hope this helped
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What is the average height for a 12 year old? (link)
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Id say the adverage height for a 12 year old is about 4ft 10 in. - 5ft. 2in....Hope that helps
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I was at a party and i started to really flirt with this kid and he responded and everything went ok...then someone told me that everyone thought i liked him so i stopped flirting right away, but he started asking me questions about who i liked and he started telling me about his g/f and what's wrong with her. He asked me if i dance and i said yes, then he started trying to do like splits and different dance steps. Everyone started to think he liked me...do you think thats true or was he just being nice? (link)
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It deff. sounds like he likes you if he tells you the bad things about his g/f and asks about ur love life....and if he wanted to dance wit u.
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How many times do you need to be rated to get 5 stars? (link)
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It doesnt matter how many times you get rated its on how they rate you each time and what the adverage of teh rating were. say you had a 4 and a 4 for ratings..youd probly have a 4.5 adverage and so youd have 4 and a half stars.
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Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog? (link)
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Petco...where teh pets go! lol
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i recently had sex with my boyfriend, now this was my first time and i bled, i have read when you streach out the skin down there it is possible u may bleed during your first time. i didnt realize it until i got home and saw my undies,i was absolutly horrified!! when he invited me over again i wanted to mention it to him and when i saw his bed there was a tiny stain possibly from me i was so imbarresed but he didnt say anyhting about it, so i figured he either feels bad or hasnt noticed or frankly doesnt care but its been really a stress to me keeping it in the back of my mind that he could think im some kind of gross person i mean hes had sex before and i doubt it happened to them
ahhh!!! what the hell do i do!!! (link)
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Ok...calm down..lol. This happens to a lot of gurls there first time. Before mentioning it to him see if he acts strange indicating if he really does think your gross. If he still metions things like having sex again maybe he honestly doesnt care. If you think he does know and you feel like you can talk to him about nething just tell him whats goin on. If he has had sex b4 im sure you werent the only one this happend to. If hes really that experianced im sure he new this could happen and really doesnt care. If he still asked to hang out with you after everything im sure he doesnt think your gross. Honestly i wouldnt let it get to you. When it comes to guys they try to ignore things they dont like so if he thought you were gross he wouldnt try to hang with you again. But he did so you got a good one! lol hope i helped
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My best friend who i spend almost every waking moment w/ has terrible mood swings. One minute she is totally happy and nice and stuff and then all of the sudden she freekz out and starts screeming at me i dont know how to tell her she can be like EVIL! shes crazy
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Your friend could be Bipolar (cant spell) its a disease that makes you have bad mood swings but there are pills to help it. She could also have anger managment problems. If its a girl mayb its that time of the month??? hope i helped
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
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Well you needa start by telling your parents. Yes its gunna be hard but what else are you gunna do wait till they question you on your belly getting big. The abortion thing should be up to you. I personally dont agree with it at all and if u dont want one tell you parents you want the child. As for your boyfriend hes gunna need to no and he needs to take responsibility for his child just like you...hope i helped..pleas rate
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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something? (link)
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No ur probly just a tom-boy. Just cuz u dress different doesnt mean ur bi.
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I have a problem. Im friends with this girl, lets call her "vohnoutka", and shes really cool and i want to hang out with her some day soon. The only problem is that the only time she ever calls me is at 4:30 a.m. when im trying to sleep. What should i do to talk some sense into her and get her to call me at a normal time (link)
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Well maybe this girl gets bored sumtimes so she prays that ur up so she calls you that late..but neways if she neva calls you y dont u just call her and then you guyz can plan to chill wit like a buncha people sumwhere. maybe go to a house and watcha rented movies or sumthin.
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I am only 13 and i just started having periods,and i hade my second one right on schedual. Is that normal?
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When you first start your period it can be abnormal...but if it came on schedule its fine to. Different people get it at different times but just remeber it wont always be on time so be ready!
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I have this friend and I really like him, but my best friend likes him too. I just met him yesterday and my best friends has known him for awhile. I really like him and she does too. I asked him if he liked her and he said no, but he told other people before he met me that he liked her. Idk what to do! I'm so lost and I want to be happy for my friend but me happy too! I think I should get over it and let her have him since she's known him longer. But what do I do?
-signed sister in distress- (link)
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you cant help who you like. It just kind of happens. So talk to him more get to know him better since you just met him and see if you eventually share the same feelings. If he does like your friend thought you need to respect that and let them be.
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i hated life for a long time and i try painless ways to kill myself like pills but it doesnt work i cut myself a few times but im so fed up wit life i dont kno what to do...im only 13 and i have to much 2 handle in my life...i see all of my friends layd back and stuff and i cry..when i talk to people they only tell me the same thing(well think of your mother and how she feels much worse-my moms got cancer-yea i knoo that there's more to the story but im not gonna talk about it but everything rests on my shoulder)..i dont kno what to do..if no1 helps me u'll be seein me one the news--"13yr old from massachussets committed suicied yesturday"
'i cry everynight and even though there r people out there who r less fortunate than me-yea i feel bad- but im npt used to it...hellllp me please (link)
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Ok first of all when life gets you down you cant turn to killing yourself. Think of how many people you'll hurt and think of the great future you could have. You could try to see a counsiler (there really not so bad and they keep everything confidential) or you could find a adult or just a friend who you really feel confortable with to just talk to about things. Not just about killing yourself but about the reasons you want to. That might get some of the stress off you chest for a while. Then try to get your mind off of everything bad. Go see a movie with friends go bowling...Nething! just please dont kill yourself. It really isnt what you want to do. Hope I Helped
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hey may name is kate ! i have a huge crush on this guy well call him "bob" and i have for a while hes just soo sweet and a super nice guy and hes hott! but i dont knoe if im in love whwen i see him my stomach like flips and i get sweaty palms and my knees get all week! and i think he feels the same way cuz hes always smiling and stuff and winking and starring but ne ways do i sound like im in love ! by the way im 15 if that helps ! please help me quick im seeing him tontie and i need to knoe wether to tell him how i feel ! plz help !
kate (link)
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I personally think that only you can truly say if your in love or not..its something you just know....but i dont think your too far off aim..and DEFFINITLY tell him how you feel 2nite. If you think he likes you back and he really does maybe suttin really good willl happen between you 2! hope i helped plez rate
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how do you make your advice column different colors..do you have to enter codes or anything..help (link)
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go to the solumn setting and type in the color you want or click on the choices given to you on the side and it'll make it nice and pretty..lol
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if my face is like flaking cuz of dry skin but i have like 8 zits on each cheek that i need gone then what do i do to get the zits gone without creating new ones from the dead skin cells clogging pores?????
also, any tips to get my skin clear by school which is in 3 weeks for me??? (link)
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I have pimples and i used to have flaking skin to. What i did was first just clean youn face everyday with something like clearasil (it works pretty good) the add face mosterisor. That should take care of the pimples and dry skin. ohh and if the dry skin doesnt stop...try using a differnet kind of face cleaner. that cold be the problem rite ther maybe its too strong or something for your face...hope i helped
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