i recently had sex with my boyfriend, now this was my first time and i bled, i have read when you streach out the skin down there it is possible u may bleed during your first time. i didnt realize it until i got home and saw my undies,i was absolutly horrified!! when he invited me over again i wanted to mention it to him and when i saw his bed there was a tiny stain possibly from me i was so imbarresed but he didnt say anyhting about it, so i figured he either feels bad or hasnt noticed or frankly doesnt care but its been really a stress to me keeping it in the back of my mind that he could think im some kind of gross person i mean hes had sex before and i doubt it happened to them
ahhh!!! what the hell do i do!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? o023babygurl230o answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:52 pm: Ok...calm down..lol. This happens to a lot of gurls there first time. Before mentioning it to him see if he acts strange indicating if he really does think your gross. If he still metions things like having sex again maybe he honestly doesnt care. If you think he does know and you feel like you can talk to him about nething just tell him whats goin on. If he has had sex b4 im sure you werent the only one this happend to. If hes really that experianced im sure he new this could happen and really doesnt care. If he still asked to hang out with you after everything im sure he doesnt think your gross. Honestly i wouldnt let it get to you. When it comes to guys they try to ignore things they dont like so if he thought you were gross he wouldnt try to hang with you again. But he did so you got a good one! lol hope i helped [ o023babygurl230o's advice column | Ask o023babygurl230o A Question ]
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