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Well me name's Michelle
I'm 13, well I'm kinda 14 my bday is in March XD
I live in Melbourne, Ausralia
I absoulutely love my friends to death
And I love giving them advice. They always say that they can come to me for help (especially friendship problems) cos they can trust me to give them good advice and keep their secrets safe.
I always seem to have an answer to questions, so you can count on me to help you out.
I also love answering music questions.
If you need some songs for a mix CD or you just wanna know not ask what's hot and what's me and I'll find some ones matching your theme or taste EASILY!

Love ya!
Michelle xx

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Okay, so I bought this thing to make my hair wavy but when i do it my hair is like puffy and when i do it at night it's all ruined in the morning, but I don't want to wake up at 4 30 in the morning on school days to do my hair. is there any sort of gel or cream that you can buy to not make it look so puffy and for it to still look nice in the morning? (link)
When you do do your hair at night, spray it with hairpray. Then while you're sleeping make sure you don't lie on your hair (try to keep it layed out above your head on you pillow). Then, in the morning, try to wake half an hour earlier than usual and use that little thing that makes your hair wavy just a little bit to tuch it up. Then, before you go out spary some more hairspray onto your hair to hold it in place.
Hope it works!


Hi I really want to go to Brazil but it is REALLY expensive. When is the best time to travel. If I wanted to go for Carnival could I buy the tickets ahead of time so it would be cheaper? Please Help (link)
If you want cheap flights, then you should book earlier and online. When you book online you get much cheaper flights and you are not downgraded when you travel. When you book early you can usually get the seat and airline you want, as many travellers leave their bookings to the last minute.


My period's late by like, a month.
Is there a way to make it come faster?
Because I'm getting really annoyed waiting around. (link)
If o have only bee getting your priod for arond 1 to 2 years now, it is quite normal for yur peiods to be irregular. However, if you are an adult, there could be cance you are pregnant, so you should definentaly get hat checked too.

If both of thesethings are imposible, then you should get it checked with yor doctor because there may be something wrong with your hormones.


Ok so im 15/f my father has became unconcearned with his family and has became very bossy. he doesnt even care when one of us kids is hurting or if his wife no longer feels loved. why is he acting this way? he used to be so loving and nice but now its like nothin matters to him. he is just so disconnected. why? like last week i was on a diet and somehow i ended up with a low blood sugar and basically passed out. I was with my friend and he took the best care of me. While my friend was taking me home, he called me mom. When I finally got home, she was standing in my driveway, and her and my friend carried me in the house. When I got inside my dad was sitting in a chair and didnt even look at me, he didnt say anything. And i almost went to the hospital that night because my body was in a state of shock. I'm also his first child. My mom had 2 other children before me.
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Ok, first thing, this as NOTHING to do with you. Your father might be have had an arguement with your mum, and thing might not be working out with them anymore. I think that you should try to talk to your mum about this first, because by the sounds of it your father will try to deny everything you tell him. If your mom tries to deny everything too, explain to her why you are so worried and ask her if there is anything you can do.
But don't jump to conclusions, this may not be the only reason your father is acting like this. If this has only be going on for a few weeks, then this behavior could be the result of his ork. He may be stressed out at the moment or trying to reach a deadline. However, if this has been continuing for a while, then you should definentaly talk to your mom.


okay so i wrote an earlier question about this and hers like another story to it. and so it was sorta like me and my friend hung out with these boys named charlie and noah and craig. they went home and i was tellin my friend how i though i might have a crush on charlie and i could see myself dating him. so she said that i should talk to him. well then she started talkin to him and now they are datingg. yes she did talk to me about it like was askin me if i was okay wit it. but like really if ur friend likes a guy and you told them to go for it. you dont go for it so like offcoarse i was like yea idc whatever cause im a nice friend. well like they have been dating fo rlike 2 almost 3 weeks. so he messaged me on myspace a few days ago and told me he liked me and that this girl like hasnt really givin him a reason to break up wit her. so i was like wow okay. like i really like hima nd like i have sorta been talkin to him. but like is this right or is it wrong? cause he might dump her for me so i dont know if its wrong. helpp haha (link)
I don't think it is wrong at all. Her so called "Friend" started this whole mess by going out with Charlie in the first place. If there is anyone to blame it's her, because she was the one who went ut with Charlie in the first place, knowing that you liked him. If your "friend" is really your friend then she will accept that you two boh love each other and want to be together. If she can't accept that then that is her problem and she truelly isn't your friend.
Sometimes it's ok to cause a drama if you are fighting for something important.


if youre good with hair or have any experience with it, can you please give me some advice. do you think this girl has a lot of hair or does it just look like it because of the way its layered. my hair is about that length and i have an average amount of hair. i was thinking of getting layers like her, but idk if it will look the same. do you need a lot of hair to have her hairstyle???

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtfsAE57qsM&feature=related

(if you fast forward to 1:33 you can see the back of her hair very well)
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!! =) (link)
You don't need thick hair for layers. I do havethick hair and everyime I goto the hairdressers to get my hair done, I also get my hair thinned as well as the extra layers. Layers look better on people with thin hair, especially when their hairis straight because the layers really show up. This hairstyle should work perfectly so just go for it!
But if you are unsure, ask your hairdresser when you get your haircut and see what she says.


I have a T-mobile phone and I lost the sim card, but I have an extra one that hasen't been activated yet. Would I have to change my number or pay any fee's to use this sim card or get a new one? (link)
If you use a new sim card then youwill have to change your number, however there shouldn't be any fees. If you're unsure then you should talk to your service provider.


How can I grow faster? (link)
I don't think there is really a way to 'grow faster', however there are other ways to appear older. Wear older looking hairstyles (If you are a girl star wearingyour hair out), wear older looking clothes (try simpler clothes or if you are a girl try things with frills or lace) and act more mature. Just because you're tall doesn't mean that you are older, because it's how you act that really shows.


Okay, well you know how some people's eyebrows have those really nice, high arches?! well no matter how hard i try, i can never seem to make one that looks completely natural and normal. Does it have to be like,just the way your eyebrow grows? Or can you make them? If so, would it be best to go to a place were they wax them? Thanks haha ;D (link)
To get high arches you ned to get them waxed by a beautician-don't even try doing them by yourself(believe me I know). They would look better in the end if you're eybrows were natually pointed, but I think they'll still look ok.


Anybody know any songs about missing a past relationship? (link)
"I hate myself for losing You" by Kelly Clarkson is a good one.



So a long time ago, I asked my friend why her father's face was all cratery, full of holes [like crater face in the movie Grease], and she told me he had said it was because he used to pop all of his pimples when he was younger. I'd never given it much thought, until I noticed recently that I was getting small, tiny little holes in my face, not a lot, maybe 2 or 3. They look like a collapsed zit, with the skin curving inward instead of out. It's really bugging me, because even though I'm not sure if they're appearing in the exact spot where the pimples once were, but I do pop a lot of them. I'm worried sick. Does this mean I'll eventually have a crater face? Will it just stop if I stop popping, or is it something else altogether? Are they irreversible? Help! (link)
Do NOT pop your pimples EVER! If you do, I'm sorry to say but you will end up looking like a 'Crater Face'. Popping does cause infecton and scarring, the holes are irreversible and there are better alterntives. When I sometimes get pimples, I put 'Tea Tree Oil' on them and they are pretty much gone the next day. It works for me, so it might work for you too, however all skin types are different.


I know these questions are annoying, but I need help :X

I'm making a mix CD of cute love songs, and I'm out of songs to use! I'm looking for songs like "I'm Yours" by Jason Mraz or "Bubbly" by Colbie Caillat. Any suggestions? :] (link)
"Love story" by Taylor Swift
"Fall for You" by Secondhand Serenade
"Gotta be Somebody" by Nickelback
"Sex on Fire" By Kings of Leon
"All Summer Long" Kid Rock
"Love Song" by Sara Bareilles
"Hot N Cold" Katy Perry
"Right Now (Na Na Na)" by Akon
"Forever" Chris Brown
"One Step at a Time" by Jordin Sparks
"This Love" by The Vernicas
"Hate That I Love You" by Rihanna
"Obsession (No es Amore)" by Frankie J
"We Belong Together" by Mariah Carey
"7 Things" by Miley Cyrus
"Won't Go Home Without You" by Maroon 5
"She Will be Loved" by Maroon 5


hey so i think i wanna do the talent show this year but i need a good song to sing...does anyone have any good ones? im 16/f..if that matters. (link)
It really depends on your voice. If you have high/slow girlish voice try "I hate this Part" by the Pussycat Dolls, "Running Back" by Jessica Mauboy, "Cry For You" by September, "Sweet About Me" by Gabriella Cilmi, "Bleeding Love" by Leona Lewis, "Bubbly" by Colby Caillat or "If I were a Boy" by Beyonce.
If you have a upbeat voice try "I Kissed a Girl" or "Hot N Cold" by Katy Perry, "Womanizer" by Britney Spears or "See you Again" by Miley Cyrus.

It really all depends on wha songs you like and what type of voice you have.


Hi I am into most varities of music ecxept hard rock and I am updating all my musik. I just wanted some opinions on the top hits of 2008. What do you think was the best song. ? (link)
I don't think there could be just one top song for 2008, so I gave yu a short list (not in order).

Estelle (featuring Kanye West): American Boy
Katy Perry: Hot N Cold
Katy Perry: I Kissed a Girl
Lady Gaga: Just Dance
Kid Rock: All Summer Long
Kings of Lon: Sex on Fire
Jason Mraz: I'm Yours
Miley Cyrus: See you Again
So What: Pink
Rihanna: Disturbia
Womanizer: Britney Spears
Sam Sparro: Black & Gold
The Pussycat Dolls: When I Grow up
Gabriella Cilmi: Sweet About Me
Colby Caillat: Bubbly


What are some classic Christmas songs by new artists?
Thanks! :) (link)
Here is list of some songs:

*Maroon 5-Happy Xmas (War Is Over)
*Colbie Callait-Misteltoe
*Damien Leith-i'll Be Home For Christmas
*Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas - Christina Aguilera
What Child Is This -Jessica Simpson
When A Child Is Born – Paulini
Santa Baby - Pussycat Dolls
Hark! The Herald Angels Sing / Gloria (In Excelsis Deo - Mariah Carey
It Just Don't Feel Like Xmas (Without You) - Rhianna
Home - Ne-Yo
I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus - Jessica Simpson



I'm 18/f, and I'm currently being pursued by my friend, let's call him Mike. I used to be head over heels for Mike, and about a year ago we hooked up once or twice. But then we drifted apart. Now he and I are hanging out a lot, and he keeps telling me how amazing and beautiful and smart he thinks i am.. and it's flattering and I really like, him.. except he's 25 years old, and that difference makes me feel uncomfortable.

When we hung out last he tried to kiss me, and I told him that I wasn't ready because I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship (that's true). I've kind of sworn off relationships, especially physical relationships. I'm not interested in sex anymore. He said he understood and he felt pretty bad, but I told him we could still be friends, and he said he was okay with that.

He still calls me every night and praises me constantly, telling me how much he likes me, asking when I'm free to hang out.. and I DO want to hang out with him, because he's a great friend, but I don't want to lead him on and make him think I want to date or get involved with him again.

What's the best way to handle this situation? I've already spoken about it to him honestly, and I don't want to start blowing him off or avoiding him.. help! Thank you!!

-YoungAndCelibate (link)
Be honest with yourself. Is age the only reason you don't want to be with him? If it is just remember this. When you're 30, he'll onlt b 37. When you're 60, he'll only be 67. When you're 90, he'll be 97. It may seem like alot now, but some couples' ages are like 20 years apart. So if you really love him and you have a great time with him, go for it. Don't worry what others might think, cos if you guys are truelly happy together then your true friends will accpet that. If you don't act now, then you might regret it later and wonder what might have been.


Well I recently just got in a relationship. Me and this guy have been best friends for a very long time ; and we started dating two weeks ago. I've been in love before ; my first love break up with me June 1st - this past summer . Jason [ my boyfriend now ] Treats me like a total PRiNCESS! He is just the dream boyfriend. & It's not just the " first starting to date feeling " He's acted this way towards all of his girlfriends . & we kinda just " clicked " from the begining . I think i'm falling for Jason , He's just so great to me ; I have'ent been this happy in the longest & Have'nt been treated will great either in a long time .. idk if i'm just thinking i'm falling for him or if I am ? (link)
I think you are falling fo him and by the sounds of it you should.


i cant stop feeling depressed. I'm not sure if i actually have depression or not but i always feel like i have no reason to live. all my friends ditched me this year,even my best friend of 6 years. i have absolutely no friends. i haven't hung out with anyone in months and i used to have tons of friends. my grades have started to drop because I'm just too depressed to really care about anything the teacher has to say. i feel happy when i am wit my cousins, but they live really far away and i dont see the often enough. i havent talked to my parents about it really because im too embarrassed and they might think im dramatic. also they are really stressed out and i dont want to add to that. evryone tells me just to be happy and make friends, but its not that easy. this situation has no silver lining. what should i do? (link)
You have to talk to your parents. Tell them what your old friends did to you, and tell them every little detail. Tell themwhy your teachers bore you and tell them evrtything that is wrong woth your current school so maybe they will send you to another one instead.
Just don't do anything dramatic that could end up hurting you or other people in the end (and you know what I'm talking about) because in the end it will all work out, maybe just not right now.


Hey everyone
I have light tanned skin, light brown eyes and dark black hair. I want to put highlights in my hair. Should i put the same light, honey brown to match my eyes, or should i put a dark brown?
I know this is a little vague, but if someone is willing to help, i could send a picture.
Thank you!
16/f (link)
I would go for the honey-brown colour to really bringour your eyes. The dark brown might be too dark and then there may be too many different shades of brown in your hair/face.


I am 24 years old and a male and my Fiance is 24 yrs old and a female. December 6 at 10:45 pm my fiance and i were laying in bed about to go to sleep when her cousins came knocking on the door. Now to help you understand. Her family has been trying to get her to leave me for some time now and they pop up every now and then. Well i begged Erica (my Fiance) not to go out there and put me through this...knowing that it was only a matter of time before she would give into them. Well i was on my knees begging and she walked up to me gave me a hug and told me that she loved me and that they were just worried about her and to give her 5 or 10 min and she would be back inside. Well that wasnt the case. She ended up leaving me. And the next day when i tried to email her. She just read the email and then blocked and deleted me. She never even told me that it was over or goodbye...what should i do and expect...please help. I havent been able to sleep, eat or stop thinking about how this is all my fault. (link)
I think you should try to either call one of close friends if you can't get in contact with you fiance, because they might be able to tell you why she left you. Your fiance's family might have told her something made up about you like you cheate on her or something so that could be why. Mabye you sould try talking to her family as well to see why they hate you so much and what they told her that made her leave you.




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