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Hey everyone! My name is megan; I'm 15 and going to be 16 in a few months. I've been through alot of stuff that some people haven't. I'm really good at giving advice and i love to try and help others. If you have a question or need someone to talk to message me and I will try my best to help you. I'm here for everyone and anyone. I'll do everything i can to help you. I'm looking forward to your questions. Thank you; megan!
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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then. (link)
Yeah! if you said NO then it's rape..it doesn't matter if you did before. If you tried saying no but he wouldnt listen then it is rape. you dont owe him nothing he may be your b/f but its your bodyy..if you think he would do this again you need to get away from him ASAP..tell someone you can trust


I haven't got my period yet. Im kinda scared about getting it. What if im in school? what if im in the middle of class and i have to get up and someone sees? what are some signs when i get it differnt from just an itch. Gimmie info (link)
Don't be worried about your periodd, it's a normall thing&&if any one ever says anything about it to you.. just tell 'em it's normal. Other signs would be: Mood swings, cramps, back pains, tirednes, you may be more emotional, mayy feel wet down there and then you wil want to check. But honestly dont worry its scary your first timee but after a few times you get use to it..

Megann&Kaylaa


I was talking to one of my guy friends and he said that the taste of a guy's cum depends on his diet. Is that true? Like, he said that if the guy ate fruits and stuff that it'll be sweeter. (link)
My friendd is telling me that it is true..So heyy who knows? lol

Megan&kayla


okay i shave down there nd like 2 weeks ago i got like sum little red bumps nd finally they went away .. but i got it again im thinkin its ingrown hairs from a not so good shaver . is that wut it is ?? nd how can i get rid of it . im so afraid my bf is gunna c it nd think its STD or sumfn .. help (link)
Oo don't worry its just razor burnn, either you used a dull raizer or you shavee to hard. Don't flip out butt my friend and i both have gotten it beforee.. no need to be alarmed :)

Megan and kayla


Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!! (link)
Uhh okay. You must remeber ALWAYS use protection ..exspecially a condom. not only bcuz you could get pregnant but to protect your self from any kinda of STD. The firstt time i did, i used a condom but i was still scared..It's kinda of a normal feeling. but just make sure you keep trackk of you period and you dont get it at least a week after you must go talk to either, your parent(s) or closest friendss. becausee you can't do it alone&its not just your life anymore it's yours, your b/f, and that baby's.

Megann&kaylaa


Well Okay... first of all let me say thanks in advance for answering this.. i would really like opinions on this and sorry if this is long.. but i will rate fives for anyone who gives serious advice... (15/f)

Okay.. so first of all theres this kid who im really good friends with.. and ive known him since second grade. He is my best guy friend actually. And i like him too. I see him every day in school like he will come over to me in the morning and talk to me and once i had put my books in his locker. and he brought them to me knowing that i needed them. and he always pokes me and stuff. once he linked arms with me and just stood there for a while. and then he put his arm around my waist once too and just stood there. And well my school sells carnations for thanksgiving.. and well i sent him one.. and he sent me one.. and like im the only person he sent one too. and sometimes when im standing with him in the morning he looks at me when he thinks im not looking and this is not just like once.. so ya.. im wondering if he likes me or just likes me as a friend and what i should do about it if he does.. THANK YOU FOR HELPING ME
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Hmm.. if everything you are saying is true i would have to yeah i think he might have feelings for you or maybe you 2 are just really close. But mayb you could talk to him maybe get something a little more outta him, gett in side his head. Try and find out first if he has feelings for you soo you dont make the wrong move because you dont want to ruin your friendship if he isn't into you. If you find out that he doesn't like you then don't worry about, at leastt you have a really good friend but if he doess takee the plungee and goo forr it :)

megann&kayla


I am a 27 year female and I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me. Well for one thing I"ve only been with one guy my whole life. I dated him for a year when I was 21 and it was a horrible experience. He just used me and treated me like a sex object. I never dated all through highschool, guys just were not interested in me. SO when I met my ex even though he was a loser, I went for him because he showed me attention. Well that was 6 years ago since I've been with him. I havent been with any other guys since. I've had lots of guys ask me out but I turn them all down. I get really lonely sometimes, and it seems like all my friends are getting married and I feel left out. I'm not a lesbian, and I do like guys, so what the hell is wrong with me? (link)
Possiblyy your afraid of taking a chance because you are scared to0 get hurt. & you mayy be like i knoee, i knoww. but you have to take chances and if you get hurt you will learn from the mistakes from that relationship and will not make the same one in the next one you have. YOU have to create YOUR OWN happiness. NO ONE can do it for you.


-Megan&&kayla


Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do? (link)
me&my friend kaylla think you should usee a padd&a tampon. Doublee up :)


15/f & 16/m (both are 16)

***THIS IS LONG!!***

I was dating this one guy named *Dustin* for about 1 year and a half. We both had sex and we were each other's first.

Well that was about 2 years ago. After we broke up, we decided to stay really good friends. But now i've been dating this one guy named *Brandon* for about 8 months. Everything is perfect, but it seems like *Dustin* is jealous. But he hasn't exactly told me. You can just tell though. And he still is ever since I started dating.

*Brandon* invited me to a family trip hes taking. And we were planning on having sex there. Somehow the word got out & *Dustin* found out and was crushed. He got soo mad at me and soo jealous! He was practically calling me a slut and a whore. I was soo sad that he said that. And of course Brandon knew what Dustin said that so he came over the same day and he was just there for me saying how it was okay and how he loved me and stuff. Brandon of course knew about me and Dustin's relationship. And I can just tell that he thought we should belong together(me and Dustin). But i made sure that Brandon knew i loved being with him.
The next day Dustin CAME OVER my house IN THE RAIN riding his retarded little bike and knocked on my door. He was saying how he was soo sorry for saying that and it just made me cry seeing him so hurt! Then *Dustin* grabbed me and started kissing me. Now remember, i was still with *Brandon*. I NEVER TOLD ANYONE WHAT HAPPENED! I didn't want anyone to find out and having it eventually getting to Brandon. So we are still going on the family trip. =\. And still planning on having sex. Dustin thought it was going to change something(the kiss), but it really hasn't. I mean, i just couldn't tell Brandon what happened because i knew it would crush him! They both are really great guys. But when i was dating Dustin, he cheated on me & that really hurted me since i put soo much trust in him. Brandon NEVER did anything to question our relationship. But Dustin just made me feel really better about myself & stuff. He always did cute little things for me.

*Problem*- The family trip is tomorrow & i just need to decide. Should i stay here with Dustin & break it off with Brandon? Or should i go with Brandon to the family trip and end up having sex?...Ah its totally freaking me out! I have the choice if we want to have sex at the trip.Brandon will totally understand since hes caring/nice like that.
I have no idea what to do! Brandon's family really likes me too and it would crush them if i broke up with Brandon. Nobody really accepted Dustin, but he's just so perfect for me. But so is Brandon. What do you guys think? Please help me. I feel soo stuck and confused! =( Thank you so much. (link)
Hmm, it seems to me that these 2 guys both care alot about you..but you cant lett your familyy and the boy your dateingg now's familyy make your decisionn..You have to listenn to your heartt and askk your selff who do you really wantt to be w/ &&for what reasons. Make suree whoever you choose.. your w/ for the right reasons &¬ the wrong ones.


megan03leigh


hey
i am having a bit of a problem with this guy. he lives down the road from me and he is a great friend of my brothers.About a week ago i sent him a message about stupid little things and he always replyed then he would send me a message me and we became good ( really)good friends.the other day i went to his house to fetch a PS2 game that i lent him and he didnt say anything to me he just starred @ me. it is kinda hard to talk to him in person cos he is shy. then my friend read all my mesages and took his no. and dicided to send him a message off her phone , she ask him if he liked me and all the other question a worried friend would ask. he never replied to her and never agian to my messages i dont konw if she frightend him off or what?
pls can you help i am really confused!
p.s i am 13 he is 14 and im a female!

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You shouldd tryy and talkk to him facee to facee and lett him knoww you didn't sett any of that up. meaning telling your friend to ask him all those questions. You should be upfront with him, tell him if you like him but don't be all overr the subject. He's a guy and worstt he's only 14. so he probally isn't to smartt or maturee. Believe me i knoww guyss can be really complicated&lame sometimes..Haha but good luck and remember all thingss happen forr a reason..even if you dont want them to0


*Megan03Leigh




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