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Age: 14
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15/ female
a few months ago my friend (15/female)told me she was going to have sex with her boy friend(16 male) of like 5 months. I didnt think it was a good idea, since I thought he was kind of a jerk and a druggie. But I tried to berealy supportive and a good friend, and she promised to go to a doctor, but her mom is sorta verbally abusive, so shes worried the doctor will tell. Well I suggested she go to a teen clinic near her house, and she went but it wasnt open
well then she went ahead and had sex, but she said she wasnt going to do it again. and that shes on this new medication that says she shouldnt be sexually active
well she lied and told my friend four weeks later that they had sex again. So I brought it up, and I said that she should go see a doctor, and she said she would. Then she told me later that she didnt, and then she said that she had sex again! And I was lik, k, you should go see your doctor, just to make sure its okay while your on the medication, and she said no. So I told her that if she didnt, I would talk to her parents. Because I was really worried about her, and I know its not my job, but I was probably wrong. Well then her boyfriend harrassed me online and I freaked out. He called me a bad friend and a bully and stuff, and I didnt knwo what to, seeing as I didnt really do anything wrong, I just told her I'd tell her mom. Well then my friend and I got in a fight because I was scared of her boyfriend and I didnt really want to be around the two of them anymore, so then she asked what was going on so I was honest. And then she said she would go to a doctor if it would make me feel batter. That was about three months ago and I asked her the other day if they were still doing it, and if she had gone to the doctor and she said they were and she hadnt. Then she told me this long story about how shes worried about him and thinks he may be addicted to pot.
I was just wondering; is there anything that can hurt her from his drugs?, should I talk to her parents? Is there anything that could harm her from the medication shes on, do you think that it is important for her to go to a doctor? and is this really my place, or should I back out? I dont want to, but I guess I cant really change her. Any advice would really help. I tried looking at this from an advicenator's perspective and was confused more. Please help, I'd really appreaciate it! Thanks lots! (link)
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Okay, you are stuck in a very hard situation. you are pretty much right in the middle. I think that you should keep a close eye on her. if her boyfriend is addicted to Pot then there is a chance that she might be. go to your school consler and tell him/her the story they will know what to do but DO NOT say names unless the situation getts out of hand.
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In a recent Cadillac commercial, the background song has the lyrics "I'm a punkrocker yes I am." I tried googling it, and after a long time of searching, came up with two bands. I'm looking for the original song in the commercial, not a technoy redone one.
Thanks! (link)
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try songtapper.com or music.aol.com
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ive take dance class
this year we're going out and doing this techno
song... its pretty cool, but i forget what its called and i really want my friends to hear it. I want to find it on itunes but i dont know the name... for the first minute of the song u just hear techno music and then a big black guy voice says FREE or BE FREE..
any ideas? (link)
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one is look on music.aol.com for free or be free or try songtapper.com . it is were you tap the tune of the song as best you can and then it shows you names of songs that it could be. or simply ask your dance teacher.
~maris54321
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i have thick hair and i don't want it this thick. is there any way to thin my hair out or make it look/feel thin? thanks. (link)
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YOU DONT WANT THIN HAIR!!! maybe if yo ucut your hair so it is short or ask your gair dresser about making it look like your hair isnt so thick. but no matter what you dont want thin hair.
~Maris54321
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(14/f)Ok I'll attempt to make this brief. My best friend and I tried out for a more advanced program at another school. I got in, she didn't. Now whenever I talk to her she always manages to sneak in a "Your school sucks, can't believe you ditched us to go there" etc... And everytime I talk to her it's always because she wants something"Can you do this question for me, can you go to my meeting for me"etc.. (needless to say the answer tends to be no, I'll help a bit but I won't do it for you. Which causes her to throw tantrums. Anyways...).
So all of this makes me want to avoid her as much as possible, the thing is that she and another one of my friends get out of school earlier than I do, and go to my house and wait outside the door for me to come home, most of the time wanting food and/or entertainment. When I come home I tend to be a nervous wreck and I tend to spend at least a good 4 hours or so on homework. Except when they come over they refuse to leave. I'm serious, even if I tell them that I'm busy and that they should go home they always say something to the effect of "We're bored, we've got nothing else to do so we'll stay here"(they're currently not talking to me because last time they did that I told them to stop harrassing me, harsh I know).
So... any ideas of how I can keep my sanity and NOT strangle them next time I see them?
hmm... attempt to make a brief question failed, it's rather long... (link)
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The length doesnt matter the more information the better. you are in a tough situation. next time you see them sit them down and tell them that you still want to be there friends but moving schools was a better thing to do to support the acedemic situation that you were in. explain that they still matter to you but so doesn your work and when you finish your work or when you dont have work the nyou can hang out. your not a horrible person. next talk to you BFF nicly as you can and tell her that her meetings ect. is her bissness adn you have your own bissness. see if you can work out a time to talk with her or just hangout and catch up explain that it was beyond your control choosing who got into the school and who didnt.
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i've had sex maybe three times and once i shaved my pubes and then i got these red bumps that are too small to look like razor burns where i shaved...there aren't any of these bumps near the inside of my vagina but i have three red bumps towards the top part of where the pubic hair is...
i'm scared that they're herpes or some other untreatable infection. they don't itch and i'm scared to go to my doctor...would i have to a specialist?
any idea what it is and what i can get to treat it like creams and what not?
please help... (link)
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You may be scared to go to the doctor but YOU MUST GO. they might just be razor bum,ps but they might be something more serious. just ask you parent to make an appontment for you for a personal question that you have and ask the doctor the worst that could happen is they will do csoemthing about it. next time you have sex look before you have it. it might be gross but you have to be safe.
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i want to wax my pubic hair on my own...
are there any products that you would recomend?
any special things that you guys would do after or before waxing to make it not hurt and/or get really red..? (link)
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Before you wax... think about why you want to wax. WAXING WILL HURT ALOT. you should not wax until your much older and it is not a good idea to wax unless you are doing the bikini line so thing hard before doing it.
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i dont know what topic this would go under so i just put it under music
ok so i have verizon wireless
and i have a plan for 500 texts a month
and unlimited for verizon to verizon.
i was wondering how much do picture texting cost.?
anyone wanna tell me?! (link)
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picture texts cost between 20 cents and 50 cents per picture check wit hyour parents tor with your plan
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It's almost at the end of the quarter and I have been so depressed and overwhelmed lately that I fell behind on assignments, and now I am failing them! I feel like crying but I have been lately trying to pull the grades up. I have only a week to make the effort to pull it up to a C, so does anyone have ideas and methods I could use to pull the grades up? (link)
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Try loosing some after school activities for a while quit the school play or soccor or basket ball or whatever. if yo udo any type of instant messanging dont do it until after all of your homeowrk is done. dont talk on the phone or anything like that. try asking your teachers if you can do any extra criedit assinments to pull the grades up. see if you can make up the work. about the depression talk to a parent or teacher or someone that you are close to that is older than you. see if they can help. just because your depressed doesnt mean your school work has to drop. work in an enviornment that works for you to concentrate. if yo uhave any more problems try talking to your parents to get you a pohycologest. they are there to help and by going to one you are not dorky or stupid or in emotional problems you just need help to sort your thoughts out. dont be afraid to seek help if you need it.
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Ok, I am 14, 5'8'' and I am 180lb. I don;t look like i way alot but I know I do. I want to lose some of that weight without loosing my ass or the bit of tits I have, I want to get rid of my love handles and my fat on my stomach, adnm on my legs bellow my ass... Can I get some help on how to lose in thouse areas.. (link)
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since your tall you will weigh more then people your age and shorter than you. remember you dont need to be skinny to be pretty. ask your doctor if you need to loose weight and if you do then you could jog or walk every so often to get the pounds off. DONT be in competion with other people that are thiner than you because they are different people and everyone's body build is different. try doing squats or find some excersizes that focus on those specific areas.
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I really like this guy D. He has a bestfriend, M, which is a girl and I likes him and he told me that he has a little feelings for her, which I don't believer I think he likes her alot. Well D is a big flirt and all the time with me, also he is bery nice. I really want to get with him, I gave him a note telling him how I feel about him, and he lost it. SO what do you think I should do? Tell him straight up, or give him another note, or what? (link)
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you should either go right up to him when he is alone and talk to him casually bring up the topic about yo uliking him and see if he will g oout with you or atleast get to know you better. once yo uget to know him yo umight find out that he really isnt who you thought he was and might not even want to go out with him anymore. No matter what happens remember there will be alot more chances and alot of times that you will like people. there are alot of men in the world waiting to meet you and if this one doesnt owrk out then there will be other chances.
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I love to wear t-shirts like the baggy ones but not too baggy and also not the tight ones. Is there a good place to get cute ones? like cute colors, such as pink, green, light blue and those kinda colors? (link)
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You can go to pretty much any department store(i.e. khols marshalls macy's) and go to the junors department and you should find some there. when you find one you like try them on. dont go for your size but maybe one size above you or 2 sizes above you.
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