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hey!!! i am here because i really just want to help people out with their problems. i think everyones main goal should be just to live life to its fullest! so... if you have any questions i would love to help out and give you my advice.
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i am 14 and the guy i like is 13. i am in 8th and he is in 7th. i want to date him because he is mature and everything but i am afraid people will make fun of me. please help!
it sounds like you really like this guy! you should go for it because any guy who is mature is a major plus! its only a years difference and age doesnt matter. you shouldnt listen to people anyway...it isnt about them. this relationship is just about you and him....no one else. if your happy and your following your true feeling then you should go get em'! good luck!
ok....i really like this guy and we ALWAYS talk on the internet to eachother...the only problem is that i think we are developing more into friends and not more...what should i do?!
♥ its always good to be a friend with someone before you ever go out with them. this gives you time to get to know them and for them to get to know you. just keep doing what you are doing! but on the way you should drop hints..(because you know how slow guys are at these things.) i hope i helped! if you ever need anything else just ask!
I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!
~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~
♥ i think you should tell him....he shouldnt care what his friends think and his friends can't make his decisions for him. i think its great that you want him to start hanging out with better people! by the way even though you say your not a barbie doll what girl is? dont cut yourself short, i am sure you are beautiful! i wish the best of luck!
i can talk to guys fine in person i just sound so stupid on the phone i need some pointers on how to like start in depht conversations oh im 13 female
to start of a conversation you should talk about them....lets face it all guys love themselves! so start off with their favorite subject! you could also talk about sports...most of the guys i know love sports! after you talk about his interest i am sure he will want to talk about yours! then you two will be in a real conversation. the more you talk on the phone with guys...the easy it will get! hope i helped!
I have a friend.. lets call her... loogie. Well loogie and I have been best friends for 3 years. I love her to death! (as a friend.. duh) but she is just kinda annoying!! I mean my friend and me had plans to go to the movies. Well the night before I asked loogie to spend the night. I called the person I was going to the movies with to make sure it was still happening or whatever.. MY FRIEND GOT SO MAD AT ME!! because she wasnt invited. I mean I cant spend all my time with her! Shes not my ONLY friend!! What do I do to tell her I have other friends and she doesnt have a hold on me?
this sounds very annoying! but i think that you should tell her that sometimes you need some space away from her. i mean it isnt fair to have other friends and keep them on hold. she'll understand if she is a true friend. good luck!
Ok I have a boyfriend, and I just wanted to make sure that it was normal to think that he is a better person than you. He is smart, funny, nice, and overall an AMAZING guy. I just feel like he could do so much better than me! I know it's a silly question, but I just wanted to know if others felt the same? I just feel so incredibly lucky that he likes me and is going out with me. Words can't express how I feel.
♥ its great that you found someone who is so amazing! but i think you are cutting yourself short. i bet you are just as amazing as he is..he is lucky to be going out with you! hope i helped!
I like this guy and he likes me.. I want to tell him how i truley feel but im afraid.. Should i gain up my courage and tell him? or just leave it alone?
since he likes you and you like him you should tell him! why waste time. i wish the best of luck!
I like this guy.. lets call him B.. and whenever i'm around him i get butterflies in my stomach.. then if im sad or upset..he's the only one that can cheer me up! is this Love?
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any guy that u get nervous around or have butterflies for always means something...... you obviously have major feelings for him! a think a quote that describes what you are going through is...."Talking to you makes me feel like for once in my life i dont have to try and be happy - it just happens." sorry i felt like i had to through that in there! best of luck!
ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused
if you like the guy age shouldnt matter. to some people its a turn off but if the guy is mature you should totally go for it! good luck!
ok....i like this guy ALOT and he likes another girl....my best friend is trying to hook us up...i find out that he might end up liking me but he doesnt know me well enough....now i am really embaressed to see him in person...am i being too pushy?
- confused
i think you should go somewhere with him so he can get to know you better. just show him who you really are! i dont think you are being pushy....but just make sure that you dont bring up you and him everytime you talk to him. also try not to bring up the other girl because thats none of your business. i hope it works out!
Well, I was best friends with this girl (lets call her A), and then me and A started hanging out less and now we don't hang out at all anymore. She even has another best friend now. How do I get her back to being my best friend? I rate high!
losing your best friend is really hard. i think that one day you should talk to her and see what happened to your relationship. a lot of times you will start hanging out again but you'll realize that she isnt the same person anymore. for a little while you should just give her some space and u should go out there and start meeting new people. good luck!
ok....i like this guy and he likes another girl and the girl is some slut who cheats on every guy that she dates and i dont want him to get hurt.....i know i wouldnt hurt him...do u have any advice that i could win his heart over to me?
i think you should go on a date sometime just so he can get to know you more and realize that you are meant to be. show how fun and nice you are and you are sure to win is heart. ride em' cowgirl!!!
i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?
i have been in this situation before. you realize that you never stop loving someone, you just learn to live without them. you have to move on and live life! dont stay hooked on just one guy. hes moved on and so should you. many other guys are out there...so go find you some bait.