im a normal, god loving, teen, im not perfect but ive been though alot so i know stuff.
Gender: Female
Location: missouri, the most boring place in the world!
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Age: 16
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Alrighty...here i go...well i was supposed to graduate this year but like a week before graduation my guidance counselor calls me and says that i don't have enough credits to graduate...so im not...she said i would have to come back next year...I ABSOLUTELY HATE MY SCHOOL...i get in fights and everything bc i have a bad temper and ppl just piss me off...i was seriously thinking about dropping out...but i dont know...i need some help.... (link)
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well it might be a little late but you could try talking to your consler about summer school or night school. it really was wrong of them to tell you a week before graduation, they need to have told you earlier so you could have done something about it! as for hating your school, who doesn'?
best of luck!
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Ok, I'll have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, tomorrow. I've heard rumors that if his g/f wont have sex with him that he dumps them after a month. And I'm 13 and I don't want to have sex. He is having a party next weekend and invited me to it. Its a pool/birthday party at his house. If my mom lets me go, I'm going. But if that rumors true...he well might wanna ya know. What should I do? (link)
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ok i think you need to find out if the rumors are true by asking him. if he says yeah that is true, dump him and get on with your life cause you don't need to be wasteing it on him. if he says no then great! but if he asks you about having sex at his party just tell him you aren't ready and if that is all he is dating you for then you're leaving him. if he doesn't work out you know there is someone out there for you!
best of luck!
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my dad is dumb... he doesn't know nothing and anytime i try to talk to him, he walks right by me and doesn't say anything. sometimes, i wish i wasn't a girl because i think he's sexist because he treats my mom's friends sons like best friends but yesterday, he didn't say ONE word to me at all... i just wish he would leave my mom because he treats her like crap and she treats him like a king and i love my mom and my sister and im sick of all of us having to go through all of this crap... im sick of not having a dad. he sits in front of the t.v all day and my best friends dad is divorced but he has a girlfriend and their all cool and stuff and why can my dad be that way... i even call her dad "daddy robertson" because i'm over there and im around her dad waaaaaay more than im around mine and im sick of mine... her dad treats me like a daughter and my dad treats me like a dirty old rag that he can just throw around anytime he wants but im sick of him! he doesn't love me. i try to get closer to him and he won't listen. i try to hug him and he tells me to go away because he's working... he's just rude! i can't say anything to my friends without him yelling @ me. Today, my best friend was telling her sister to stop being stupid and my dad yelled at ME because we sound alike!!! ugh!!! im just sick of my gay dad... he's not literally gay... or is he??? lol... well, what should i do to make him become a better dad... if my parents got divorced i would be happy because my mom would get custody
sorry this is so long...
signed,
kayla (link)
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well your dad sounds about as dumd as mine. since fathers day is coming maybe you should write your father a letter telling him how you feel. you are his child and he has got to care. even if he doesn't you still has a heavenly father that loves you and wants you with him.
best of luck!
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my x-b/f tried to make me sneek out of the house to go over to his friends (to watch porn) w/ him and his hommie . he made the commentthat anything he say or he got his hommie would see and get. i alreaddy broke up w/ this boi but im scarred that he might try to rape me. what should i do?
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ok i would cut off all relations with these two because this sounds dangerous. now this might be jumping the gun "for lack of better words" i would try taking to the police to see if they might be willing to watch these guys. also tell your parents so that they can also be on the look out, and just to be on the safe side i would make sure about stuff like locking doors, shuting windows, changing keys if one of them has a set or getting an alarm system. you might also ask your parents about getting you enrolled in a self defense class. this is pretty serious and i really don't want anyone hurt.
best of luck
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My oyfriend keeps pushing me in having sex, but i'm not sure if i should . i am not sure if im ready to have a really committed relationship. What should i do? please help! P.S. i'm 17 years old (link)
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ok if he is pushing you that is a sign right there that you should not do it!!! if this were the next step in your relationship he would not be pushing you, and if he is pulling that "if would do it if you love me" you need to dump him. its your own choice about it and if you're not 100% sure you should not even be thinking about it. i think its time you and your bf have a serious talk, if anything just let him know you aren't ready. if he loves you he will wait for you.
best of luck!
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i just found out that my best friend was having an affair with my girlfriend! he admitted that he had sex with her, and that they had it more than twice! Now my girlfriend is pregnant and we don't know who's baby it is! please help! my parents are going to freak! (link)
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wow you are really in rock and hard place. first of all since you said your parents are going to kill you ill take it you are under 18. i think the best thing is to get all parents together in this and tell them. then you can have a test done and it can tell you the father. then you need to do the right thing and raise this baby. im sorry to say this but you really screwed up.
best of luck
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Tonight, I will be attending a rock concert (my first!!) with my friend & I was wondering what kind of hair styles you would reccomend. I have longish straightened honey brown hair. Thanks in advanced =] Will rate! (link)
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well with any concert there will be alot of ppl which means its gonna be hott! and there will probley be alot of jumping and screaming so personally i would go with a high ponytail.
best of luck!
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Ok I like this guy but at school he is a jerk, but when I call him on the phone he is really sweet. How should I find out witch one he really is?? (link)
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if he really is acting diffrent, call him on it! if he likes you he will understand and will tell you why he acts that way. maybe you can help him stop acting like a jerk.
best of luck
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ok so.. last week my parents chucked me out and told me to never come back. the next day mum went ringing me saying come back or i'll call the police and say u ran away, so i came home... my dad was like sorry it was a spare of the moment thing i just went thanks. now everytime i do something wrong i go oopsy spare of the moment to like rub it in his face..
i dont normally tell my parents anything well not to do with my life.. which is pretty hard as i had a miscarrige 2 months ago.. and hid it all from my parents they didnt seem to care when i went round crying for 3 days.. then i found my best mate had taken an over dose in the holiday i didnt know what to think and just told her i would always be here.. i have taken an over dose before and slit my wrists many a times..
The day i was chucked out 2 of my closest friends had run away together but not to be together they just couldnt cope i had to do a police interview and everything.. i just feel like it's the end again i feel like i cant cope and how i feel now is exactly how i was feeling that day i took the over dose before.. BUT i'm telling you now theres no way im going to do it again but what can i do?? i have a councelor i've been seeing her on and off the last 3 years and going to see her on thursday as a family but i know for a fact my parents wil lie like they do all the time and there going to tell her i ran away.. my sister (16) has already told her friends that i ran out when i was chucked out,
my dad said he hates me he didnt care about me or where i went as long as i was out the house because he couldn't "control" me.
now i dont know what to do someone please help me! (link)
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wow your life does seem pretty hard. all i can say right now is just don't do anything that you will regrate tomorrow. i was having issues just like you about 2 years ago and i almost commited suicide. i remember that morning i was sitting on my bed crying begging god for help, saying that if he didn't help me that at the end of the day i would kill myself. so i stopped crying and went to my church and ended up getting saved. i think what you need right now is to find a church where you like what they teach and just start getting involed there. i hope things work out for you!
best of luck!
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My friends all turned on me and now im alone. It's cool sometimes but when something big happens or when Friday nite comes I'm lonely. I have a boyfriend to talk to and I still have a few friends that im not close with. What should I do? (link)
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hey i know it can't be fun having no one really there, i know how it is most of my friends are at my church and my grandmother refuses to let me go anymore. this is really time for you to get new friends and to be diffrent, maybe you should try something diffrent like getting your bf and like going out to a cafe or something like that, you can meet a lot of new and interesting ppl!
best of luck!
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I was surfing aimlessly on this icon site that I have a username on and I came across this icon: http://iconator.com/icon.php?IconID=273873 it has a picture of an AE Shirt and then it says "We don't wear your clothes so why do you listen to our music". Okay, I shop at AE, Aero and what you so called "punk kids" would concider to be "preppy". Now answer me this, why is that they feel that your clothing style needs to match your taste in music? I shop at those stores and listen to hardxcore bands and I enjoy the music. But why do all you "punk kids" feel the need your taste in clothing also has to match your taste in music? I used the quotations because I do not like to lable people. Lables are for soups, not people. (link)
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no way does your music style have to match your clothes!!!!! every person is diffrent and no one has any right to judge how you dress or what music you listen to. it all depends on your personality...
best of luck to you!
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Im going on vacation and staying with my uncle and I know ill be on my period part of the trip. Sometimes when I visit, he never has a trash can in the bathroom. Last time, i put one on there (cuz i was also on my period at the time) and his dog got into there..took out all the pads and tampons from the trash can and chewed them all up ALL over the living room. So disgusting and embarassing. I dont want it to happen this time, so what am I supposed to do with the pads and tampons? I cant just shut the bathroom door so the dog doesnt get in there because there are going to be a lot of other family also staying at his house at the time. So theres no way I cosntantly keep check on that or the stupid dog. And theres no place in the bathroom where i could put the trash can so the dog doesnt get it. Any suggestions? (link)
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i have 2 words for you grocery sack!!! just keep them in like a hidden place and then throw it out when it gets full.
best of luck!
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are there any home remedies that can get rid, or help treat pimples. I have some of that perscription stuff...but I'd like to try something new. I rate high. Thanks! (link)
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well i would try this stuff called witch hazel. i know it can be found at most health food stores and occationaly at grocery stores. i know it works for me!
best of luck!
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i have a lot of moles..and i hate it. i have a lot on my face and arms! they are soo annoying, like not trying to sound conceited but i am kind of pretty..but the moles just ruin me! i hate them so much! is there anything i can do about them! makeup? surgery? anything!!! (link)
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i really don't know about having surgery on things like that "although it can be done" i personally have been though some surgerys and i have to say i never liked it. but god made you that way, and he thinks your beautiful to him so if someone doesn't think your pretty just because you have moles they aren't worth being around because what is really important is what is on the inside not the outside.
best of luck!
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Hey, im 16/f. I have a boyfriend back in Florida but im on vocation In Dominican Republic. Every summer i come to DR, but about 2 summers ago i met this boy and we liked eachother we kissed and stuff and after i left we talk a bit on the fone. last summer i came bakk and we went out wit my cousin and their friends and he kissed and he told me he loved me n stuff but i never siad anythin back....he told my cousins that he loved me and he wanted me badly. This summer im here again and i found out that he has a girl, i have a boyfriend too. But every summer that i was here i told him that i had a b/f but that never seemed to stop him. What i want to do is have this guy completly i want to play hard to get and have him want me even more. That were i need help, i know i could do it cuz iv done it b4 but i want more ideas. whant him to just want me. I promise i rate high. Thanx (link)
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now don't take this personal but you are leading this guy on, i mean i know what it's like to be away from your bf and just wanting to be wanted but really if he is your bf then you must be really speical to him and i don't think its fair to do that to him. so next time you go down maybe you wanna ask your parents if he can come along. as for this guy that is in the DR i think you two should get to know each other first and understand that you both are with someone elas. who knows what can happenif you two talk?
best of luck!
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