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Location: Canada
Occupation: Science of Health Student
Age: 18
Member Since: December 7, 2005
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Last Update: December 19, 2007
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okay my hair is soo curly..ringlet curly, its kind've ridiculous haha =) well idk what exactly to do with it anymore cus everyone has like perfectly straight hair now. i did try straightening my hair but it looks stupid & i juss don't like it. it still curls. i think my hair has a mind of it's own!! i've been scrunching it before school cus i thought it looks cute & plus i don't have to dry it & damage it from the heat & i have more time to do other stuff. any ideas on anything else i can do?? if you want my column to see what it looks like juss tell me if you answer back.

thanks!!

hey i have the exact same curly hair you're talking about... i was sick and tired of it too, and wanted to straighten it like the other girls in my class... but it was just too difficult because of the extra curliness... so what i do is scrunch it with mousse, (not gel).. but the product does damage the hair after a while... pantene pro-v curl cream is extremely a great product to use only if you have a diffuser! also, my friends told me about a product from fructis that works.. but thats not what you asked..lol.. anyways, you can:
*twist the front in little twisties after you shower.. part your hair in half.. and do three twisties on each side of the part, and bobby-pin them halfway.. then at the bottom, you can scrunch your hair which will look absolutely gorgeous!..
*if you want more than just curl, shower, then french braid your hair at night.. (it doesnt have to look nice, as long as there are two french braids, and put a lot of mousse, and hairspray. then in the morning, take the braids out and your hair will be crimpy!! it looks soo awesome!
i hope i helped! if you want more tips, just ask!:d

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Ok so heres some backround:

Theres this boy and hes 14 and im 13/f. Our moms are best friends. We see eachother like every 3 months or even less. I like him...but i doubt he likes me. His personality is amazing and everything...its young love

aww hun! I know how hard that is.. believe me, I bet most girls understand how it feels to have uncontrolable feelings for a guy who doesnt have them back! It hurts just thinking about it! I remember when I went away to a different country to see my family and met a guy who I totally developed a crush on.. when I came back, he was all I could think about for like half a year straight!!! So my advice is...
*Next time you see him, try not to show that you're crushing on him
*Try getting to know him a little better
*My friends have always told me the best way they could get over somebody is to tell them their feelings.. I know it sounds embarassing, but they say it works... and its not like you see him everyday... so maybe it will work for you?!...but...
*Your only 13.. I know you're not a baby or anything.. but guys take time to mature, (especially at 14).. I think that you just need to give him some time to mature, and get to know your sparkling personality! It might not work out right away, but maybe it will in the future.. or maybe you will find someone else.. just give it time!
*Next time you spark up a convo with him, try to focus on getting his SN or e-mail.. but DO NOT i repeat DO NOT talk to him on SN everytime he's on.. make him want you!!! And the first time he comes online, he should talk to you... if he doesnt, try to resist talking to him, and you can spark up a convo the next time he comes on.. :D
I hope I helped out a little!:D

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I will rate fives for all answers! In about 12 days it will be my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. I was really low on ideas so I got a fleece throwover blanket embroidered for him, it has our names and December 22nd, 2004 on it and it also says I LOVE YOU. I dont' know, is this a good idea and if it is, what also can i get him to go along with it. I bought all kinds of things to make him a card and I just think maybe a lil' something else will do. thanks! -sahara

Honestly, I believe that it really depends on your boyfriend and how romantic he is...
*If you believe he's romantic, Its a good idea
*If he doesnt fulfill ur romantic desires, then giving him the blanket might scare him a little
*It also depends on your age.. Teen males are more likely to act a little more horrified than Adult males
*On the other hand, you guys have been going out for a year, so i dont see why it should!
*I forgot about the I LOVE YOU written on it... hmmm... have you guys told eachother that already?
I hope I helped:D

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There's this girl at school that tries to stick to me like glue. We both get to school very early in the morning, and she comes every day to chat. I don't dislike her, but she's rather aggravating and I can tell she has a monster crush on me. Sometimes I can catch her staring at me in he hallway. What should I do about her? She's nice and all, but she doesn't realize how goddamn annoying she is. What would you advise?

You seem like a nice guy who obviously doesn't like the poor girl.. hey, its not your fault! It happens! You should just keep doing what ur doing.. be nice to her, but obviously dont lead her on or anything.. so eventually her crush will vanish.. it always does!!
Hopefully after it vanishes, u dont start liking her;) just kidding!!!

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ok so im 15/f and i really like this guy that i work with!! we dont go to the same school but we're in the same grade and we always work together! i can't really tell if he likes my cause i can't tell if he's flirting with me! how can i hint that i might like him or how can i get him to like me? i'll rate 5s for no stupid answers!

Next time you see him, really ask yourself:
*Does he stare at you when you're not looking?
*Does he ask you questions about yourself and does it feel like he's interested in knowing about you? Or are u the one always sparking up conversations?
*Does he joke around with you?
**If the answers are yes yes and yes.. then he obviously digs you, girl!
And just remember.. if you're shy, try not to portray it.. i'm a shy girl and when guys i liked flirted with me, i seemed like a bitch. Just be yourself and let your true personality shine!

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