Name is Layne, age is 17, occupation is babysitter. still answering questions on here even after 3 years is awesome, right? no, just proves i don't have a life. so. if you have a question, feel free to ask it on here or you can IM me on my screenname. i can answer most questions about the categories i have listed. i don't know much about sickness or physical health, or stuff to wear when your husband just died but the man who killed him, whom you're having an affair with, is going to be at the funeral. :) have a wonderful day.
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Location: Nashville
Occupation: Chimney sweep
Age: 17
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I am on the Yaz birth control pills and all the pills are white except for a few on the bottom row which are light pink. What do those pink pills do and also i usually get my period while im on the white pills (link)
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Those are placebo pills, and they indicate when you should be getting your period. Since you'll be on your period on those pills, the possibility of getting pregnant is very low. Just take them as you would your regular birth control and you'll be fine.
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Hi, im 15/f
I have never had a boyfriend, kissed anyone, or done anything. I'm a normal sophomore girl I just haven't wanted a boyfriend until now and it's getting crazy. I feel like it's my hormones because I get weird feelings.. But now most of the day I'm daydreaming of having a boyfriend and kissing, snuggling and all that. i also don't find blow jobs gross like I would give one to him after a while. But I do find sex terrifying and I wouldn't have that though. No guy has come into my life yet, and i just want him to already. (link)
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First of all, its getting to be winter and this is when we all start to feel awfully lonely ;) It's cold outside and a partner to snuggle with and kiss is a very warming thought. The "weird feelings" you are talking about are probably you being horny. I might get in trouble for recommending this, but try exploring your body a little bit. You might be able to relieve some of the sexual tension.
Modern society has made it unorthodox to be a virgin at your age, on top of not ever having a boyfriend. The fact of that matter is, IT IS OKAY. Every young lady is different and no one's "first time" is the same as the next person's. Everyone will find someone when the time is right; start looking now. Once in a relationship, every relationship is different. Everybody goes through the bases at their own pace. And if the guy really likes you, he WILL wait for you to be ready to give yourself to him. As far as that goes, use a condom and wait until you are truly ready. And (I've heard guys spread around this theory) you definitely can get pregnant your first time having sex. Most important, BE PATIENT! Don't let anyone pressure you into thinking you HAVE to have a boyfriend. I hope any or all of this advice helped you, and I wish you luck.
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Is it harmful to be fingered? What is the worst that could go wrong? What is the safest and most effective way of going about this? (link)
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It is not harmful, it is a form of foreplay. Make sure the person fingering the other person has clean hands and fingers (obviously). The worst thing that could happen is the person fingering could penetrate the other's hymen, or the person being fingered could get an infection from DIRTY FINGERS (refer to top).
I suppose the safest thing to do would just keep doing this instead of having sex lol. And just enjoy it. Have fun! Take care :)
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I don't know if its a ghost or what but I saw this woman appear in my house and it scared the crap out of me. She had pale skin, long curly black hair and she had stitched up lips. It looked really evil and it was like it wanted me to know its there. It looked like something out of the walking dead. Now I'm scared. I'm not making this up and I'm not hallucinating. I've also been hearing voices that sound evil. I've been googling it and this is the closest image I could find that looks like what I saw.
http://img-cache.cdn.gaiaonline.com/ca60e3b6548cd227462227694fbfe327/http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q113/Kiwikes777/Comments%20and%20Such/SewedLips.jpg
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She could be trying to tell you something. Look up local psychics and mediums next time you're on the internet and they can help you. DO NOT try a Ouija board!!! You never know what'll happen with that thing. Look up household "cleansing" ideas and stuff. Cuz if you're telling the truth, that's creepy as hell.
Good luck!!!!!
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Hi there, I am 19 and my boyfriend is 31. My boyfriend and I just recently started having sex. He took my virginity and it was not as painful as expected. When we tried again, I kept having a painful feeling as he tried to go in. This happens every time now. I also am not sure what I am suppose to feel when he's inside me. (link)
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Do you guys do anything before he penetrates you? Do you guys do any kind of foreplay? Foreplay helps a lot with making the opening of the vagina more loose and moist, and therefore, not as painful when something goes in. You could also try lube that you can buy at any general store.
And what its supposed to feel like is good and natural. Like nature and motion take over and you two are just there to enjoy it. Its different for everybody, but its just supposed to feel really nice.
I hope I've helped you. Take care :)
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I'm 14, and a girl. So last year I came on this website and I was looking at the "Recent Popular Questions" and I saw a question asking "do I have this disorder?" Me, being nosy as I am clicked on it and it said the symptoms of depersonilization disorder which I only have one( feeling like life is a dream)which is normal but I read if u think too much about it u eventually believe you have it. My grandmother and I have touched on this subject and she got me a counselor. I'm really shy so I don't want to go to a counselor but anyways, I've had this disorder on my mind for the past 10 months and I've been really worried I'm going to get it because it doesn't sound like fun to have at all. I want to live my life, not worry my life away and btw I have ocd(which really sucks) and I have gone some days without worrying about this..I'm just really scared I'm going to get it, how can I forget about tht disorder?? Help is much appreciated(: (link)
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How about don't worry about it? They just said if you worry too much, you'll get it. Which is a psychological trick, by the way. You only have one symptom. That's not enough to have it or get it. You're only 14. If you don't walk around feeling like life is a dream at this age, then there is something wrong with you. Listen, I did the same thing when I was your age and it threw me into a psychward twice before I was 20. You think OCD sucks now, wait until you lose all control of everything in a hospital. Then OCD sucks. Don't psych yourself out by thinking you'll get this disorder. The more you dwell on it, the more symptoms you think you'll have, and then before you know it, people will think you're crazy. Don't worry about it. Enjoy your life while you're young cuz things could be a lot worse for you and they aren't.
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Is rayon the same thing as cotton (link)
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(continuing on the person below me) Rayon actually wrinkles a lot easier compared to cotton, I have used an iron on rayon before and it worked just fine. No shriveling or melting.
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I fingerd my girlfriend after she gave blowjob ...i inserted my finger after couple of minutes ....im scared where she will get pregnant ...i touched my cock and sperm was in my hand but it was dried ...will she get pregnant ...?what are the steps to avoid it (link)
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Once sperm hits oxygen, it dies. The chances of her being pregnant from this encounter are slim to none. She's most likely just fine.
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My fiance is seeking employment and on Thursday he lost his job. We are getting married Oct 13th and he had requested Oct 13-16th off which was approved. Now he lost his job and if he gets an interview before this date what should he say? We do not want to blow any chances of him getting hired. Please help! (link)
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He needs to say something along these lines: "My schedule is very flexible but I need to have these three days off for my wedding." They'll understand. As long as he tells them in the interview that those are the only three days he'll need off prior to being hired.
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i just hate this life i want to die i don't understand for what am i living i am a big loser i lost everything in life nothing is left i want to die i don't know what to do (link)
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You may find it hard to believe, but someone out there needs you to stay alive for their sake. I'm suicidal, as well. The only thing keeping me here at this point is the definite possibility that someone will miss me to the point of wanting to end their life. I know life is stupid and practically pointless. It seems like sometimes the only reason we're here is to live life, attempt to be happy, get hurt, and then we die. It sucks. But you were born for a reason. Even if the reason is small or nonexistent in your head, you need to keep going because you could really help someone else. When you feel this way, I know its very difficult to give a shit about other people. So here is my advice to you: keep trying, damnit. If everyone killed themselves when they chips were down, half the world would be dead, 1/4 of the world would be in a psych-ward for attempted suicide, and the other 1/4 would be traumatized and depressed from someone they loved ending their life. Try getting a cat! Its psychologically proven that having a cat around improves your mood by 30%, plus the responsibility and feeling the need to care for something will help you feel like you can keep going. Please try. I'm a complete hypocrite and I'm sorry you feel this way, but please try. I'm sure if you think very hard, you can think of someone that will be destroyed if they hear of your suicide. Think of them.
This helps me, too. Its a little morbid and fucked up, but it actually helps me: I imagine that I actually go through with it and shoot myself. And then I imagine my soul leaving my body but not going to heaven or hell. My soul just stands there looking at my pitiful shell of a body, all mangled and bloody and torn. And I think "This shell didn't do anything wrong. The shell was just trying to live. But the soul inside the shell overtook it and now, because of the demon in my soul, this poor shell is destroyed. I did it" Does that make any sense? Its just kind of a depressing thought. But just enough to keep me from trying because I'm scared that is what'll happen.
I'm also a firm believer in modern medicine. Lithium helps me more than anything. I'm sorry this response is so long and I'm sooo sorry if it didn't help you in the least. If you still feel bad after reading this or just want to talk, message me anytime you like. Once again, please try. We can try together :) I sincerely hope I helped you!!!! Take care
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My friend Lindsay has a friend named Diana who is a year younger than us. Well anyways, this 'Diana' girl messaged me and said she would see me Monday. I'm not really sure what this means... Diana doesn't go to our school, but I don't think she's moving...
Sorry if this is kind of confusing, but what would someone I've never met mean by "See you monday"? The conversation went something like this:
Diana: Hey
Me: Hi?
Diana: What's Up
Diana: See you Monday (link)
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Its one of these:
She thought you were someone else.
Someone hacked her account.
She is, indeed, moving.
She is coming to visit Lindsay and figured she would see you, as well.
Anyways, don't worry about it too much. If anything, its a minor misunderstanding. I'm sure everything will be all right. :)
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Im a 13/m, yes 13. im on my own living in a small house with very slow wifi. i had sex with a 16 year old girl, and i felt really bad. She started "raping" me and i told her to stop but she wouldn't, so i killed her... when i returned home i was very angry, so i took my sister and mother with force( im actually pretty strong) and raped both of them(my father passed away) i got my mother pregnant and now i ran away from home and im living in a friends cabin for some time. What should i do if they catch me?? should i kill myself before they catch me? (link)
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What the hell is wrong with you? You are 13 years old and you've already fucked over your entire life. Incest is wrong and definitely not what you should do just because you're angry. And you killed this young woman who has barely begun to live life. You've impregnated your own mother? You raped your sister? Did you even read over this question before submitting it? Do you even realize what you've done? What would your father think?
I don't even care if this gets me booted off this website; you are a fucking danger to society and you should kill yourself. People like you make me sick. Especially in this young age? YOU'RE ONLY 13 FOR GOD'S SAKE. I don't want to see you grow up. Either turn yourself in right now or grab a goddamned gun and eat a bullet. You're a disgrace. So unless you wanna go to prison and be ass-raped for the rest of your life, I'd off yourself before the police find you. Because they will. You're young and stupid and probably horrible at covering your tracks. Once again, I DO NOT CARE IF YOU GUYS KICK ME OFF FOR ANSWERING A QUESTION LIKE THIS. People like you don't deserve to live. Have a nice goddamned life. Prick.
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So I haven't had my period yet (I'm 13) and I'm supposed to start in 3 years... I'm guessing this has something to do with my period? Last night, I saw brown in my underwear (Like brown discharge), but I just went to the bathroom and my urine was brown...
I researched and found that it could be from dehydration or drug abuse. I don't do drugs, so do you think it's dehydration? I haven't been drinking a lot of water lately but I am now. (link)
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It could be dehydration, but when a girl your age starts her period, its usually brownish when it first starts.
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My brother's girlfriend invited me to a birthday party for her son, he will be 1. I'm not sure what kind of things to get a 1 year old. He just started walking, and he isn't much interested in his baby toys any more, but I don't think 1 is old enough to appreciate older kid toys like action figures and such. Maybe I'm thinking too hard about it but I don't want to show up with nothing.
I don't have kids and haven't had to buy gifts for younger kids so I just need some ideas! (link)
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Children of that age love colourful movies with talking characters. My cousin (same age) loooves Cars, Toy Story, Finding Nemo, anything by pixar. I hope I helped!
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I just started cutting myself... I wanna stop but nothing helps me feel better. what should I do? (link)
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I used to do this, as well. I eventually stopped because I was tired of hiding the scars. And I realized the scars wouldn't be an issue if I didn't cut. Everyone still has inner anger, though, and here are a few things I tried to help myself feel better without mutilating my body:
Take a knife and stab the shit out of a pillow.
Play Grand Theft Auto
Take an ice cube and hold it in your hand, even when it burns.
Scratching doesn't leave any scarring, but its still hands on and still doesn't completely help.
Punch a pillow
Eat chocolate.
Get a kitten.
Sing as loud as possible
Punch a wall
Watch a happy movie
Get a journal. (cliche but it helps like you wouldn't even believe)
Speak to someone. (like a counselor)
I realize not everyone is the same and these things may not help you like they did me, but I hope I helped you. Take care.
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What is your very first memory you can remember? (link)
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My earliest memory is sitting at the dinner table with my mom and dad. I said the word "stupid" and they scolded me for it. I think I was almost 2.
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What is your best memory from life? And what is your worst? (link)
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My best memories would either be spending time with my family/friends or having sex. My worst (without going into too much boring detail) is probably winding up in a psych-ward for some very dumb and selfish reasons.
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what kind of blanket do you use to masturbate with, mine is fuzzy but it gets caught and it absorbs a lot of my juices. it is 100% cotton but i think wool or silk would work better. what do you prefer?
i rate high so give some advice (link)
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A blanket is not necessarily required for masturbation; but if you do choose to use one, its whatever you prefer. Whatever is softer, more comfortable, etc. Its completely up to you.
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does toothpaste really work on your eyebrows? How long does it have to stay on? (link)
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No one knows what you're talking about. You need to be specific when writing a question. As far as I know, toothpaste is meant FOR YOUR TEETH.
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My penis isnt as big as the the other kids in the locker room. Does size really matter? What can i do to make them stop making fun of me?
Your pal
Timmy (link)
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When the penis is soft (or flaccid) it doesn't matter how small it is; it'll grow once you're aroused. If you guys actually sat there and compared erections, you need a hobby. Women will say that size matters, but some women say "its not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean" meaning, you may not have the largest penis in the world, but if you know how to use it properly, it won't matter. To get them to stop making fun of you, try this: next time someone says something about it, say "you would be looking" or "your mom didn't seem to mind" or "I'd be worrying less about the size of my dick and more about how ugly you are"
These may be immature jokes, but if they are immature boys, it'll shut them up.
In the end, everybody is different. Have you ever seen two women with the exact same sized breasts? Some are smaller, some are larger, and they are all attractive, right? Same basic concept. Don't worry about it. :) Plus, your penis will not stop growing until you are at least 23. I'm assuming you have a few more years left.
I hope I helped!
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