Hello ! My name is Kim. I am 29 yrs. old straight female, I have 3 kids and a boyfriend, I have been through quite a bit at my age and have alot of life experience. I love giving advice and getting it. You name it I've probably been through it. I am a very caring and understanding person. If your a teen in trouble, if your man is cheating on you, if you've been hurt emotionally, if you're a single divorced mom, I feel your pain. Nothing bad lasts forever.Always remember that.If you want a face to go with the advice look me up on myspace at kimberly7777@hotmail.com...
Gender: Female
Location: Cleveland
Occupation: Administrative
Age: 29
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for some reason there are days where i wanna sleep all day. i could have slept all threw the night and at school and when i get home i want to pass right out. i dont really do any thing thats strenious like sports, so i dont kno why im always tired.
whats rong wiht me ? (link)
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have your thyroid checked.
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Does anyone know any rap song (english) that isn't inapropreate and has no swearing? I need it by tommorrow (link)
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most anything recent by will smith summertime, gettin jiggy wit it. He has it cleaned up
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I'm in a bit of an awkward possition. My girlfriend and I have recently been doing some exploration with our bodies and have stopped using condoms all together. A few days ago I found out that she wants to have children and that she doesnt want to wait till we're out of high school. I've also heard rumors from my friends that she's planning something. I want to know if, well, its alright to have children at a young age. (link)
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Unless you have a great job and your own home in a nice neighborhood and a fat bank account do not do it. Your parents will be raising these kids, 10 years down the road you will wish you had been able to party with friends, travel, and just plain have freedom. Are you ready to wake up every 2 hours to a screaming baby? Are you ready to pay up to $500 a month for child care,can you stand the thought of your parents having to bear the burden of helping to care for this little one.It costs on average $7000 per year to raise a child and that is on the low end. You will have to work full time and go to school.Please Think. You cant give this child a good life at such a young age. And as for your girlfriend she is trying to trap you and is using another human life to do it !! Put the condoms back on!!!Smile..Do not use any condom she has given you because teenage girls poking holes in them is not uncommon. If you decide to have a baby anyway,remember if your relationship ends it gets even worse, CHILD SUPPORT. If you make $300 a week at work, half of that will go to this girl, Your life will become more miserable.You cant live on$600 a month no one can.Then you will have to quit school and get two jobs, gosh that sounds like fun!! I have been there I had 3 Kids by the time I was 22. I have never had a social life, and I wont until they are 18. Tell her this is not a good Idea. I didnt mean to give such a harsh reality check but go to college, make something of your life, get that good job, marry that great girl and give your kids that great life they deserve, be their hero.And for god sakes PUT THAT CONDOM BACK ON !!!!! Have a nice day!
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I'm in a depresssion!! Lost the will to live really. Everyday when I wake up I wish to get hurt or to die! And every night I fall asleep dissapointed because nothing happened. What is wrong with me?? I have reasons to be depressed but before whenever i was depressed I just drank, but now it's different. Now I feel like there is nothing to live for... (link)
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I went through a severe depression last year. I couldnt move or think positive in any way. My world was crashing down around me. Please dont go to drinking for the answer, it is the wrong one. You need to talk to some one. If you cant go to a counselor there is always free suicide and depression help lines in the phone book. I dont know how old you are, so I dont know if you have a school counselor you can go to. Please remember that nothing bad lasts forever. But i do know that you cant get through this alone.Tell someone, anyone that will listen. Please dont end your life, you need to sit down and write a list of everyone in your life that would be devastated if you were gone. Even if it is two people. They will live with that for the rest of their lives. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. It may take a while but youll get there. If you dont want to see a therapist or get on antidepressants, which did not help me, they made me worse.. go to a vitamin shop and ask for neuro ps. My mind is so much more stable now. St. Johns wort is great too. I know its hard to even think about getting motivated but youve got to push through it. Write me back if you need to. Ill be your friend if you need one. By the way I'm 29 and female and Ive had one hell of a life. You can talk to me about it all. Take care sweetheart
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I color my hair a lot...but next week when i get it done i would like to just do it one color. Right now it's brown with dark brown, black, and blonde streaks. I don't have a picture of it but i want like a shade of brown that's dark but not really dark. I have fair skin and baby blue eyes. So what shade of brown is right for me?? Pictures would help!!!!
THANKS. (link)
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My natural haircolor is black. I am fairskinned and blue eyes. I have had my hair dyed red for six years and everyone compliments me, ask your stylist if that would be good for you, most guys I know love a fiery redhead. If not just try a highlighted light brown. Good luck!
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Okay so i seriously believe i need to be put back on anti-depressants. i've been on them about 3 years ago. and once i got off of them i was fine...until about a week ago...i've been depressed for almost 2 weeks now and everyday suicide sounds so much better than continuing...it's like it's the answers to my prayers..dont lecture me on how suicide is bad and blah blah blah because i know...obviously i know. my real problem here is telling my mom. i'm too young to get the meds. myself and she'd know anyways. i dont want to tell my doctor especially because she'll ask alot of questions about why i'm having suicidal thoughts and all this bull and i cant give her a straight answer. I dont like talking about it. I just want the damn medicine without all the hassle. and no...i'm not addicted, i just dont like being treated like a psycho. what can i say to my mom and my doctor to let them both know i want to be put back on anti-depressants? thanks in advance! (link)
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I agree with elcee I was on antidepressants and they messed me up more. Try Neuro ps, it is for brain function and mental stability, until I tried that I was out of my mind. Things are much better now. You can find it online or at vitamin world or maybe gnc both in the mall. Hope I helped!!
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What are some really good face washes that DO NOT make your face peel? Every single one I've tried has made my face dry, and peel. PLEASE HELP! I'm desprite. THANK YOU! (link)
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oil of olay face wash is inexpensive and a great moisturizer.
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My boyfriend is getting the magazine Maxim or whatever. I've seen it but it always has pretty ladies on it. I dont want him looking at like a magazine that contains stuff that no girlfriend would want a boyfriend to look at such as naked people and what not. Cuz that just makes me self consious & fight to be even more prettier so i dont feel so ugly & compared to those girls.
Please just give me details on whats in that magazine, it'd be must helpful!! (link)
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Tell him how you feel. He wont know unless you do. If all he wants is one magazine thats just being a guy, thank your lucky stars he doesnt have thousands like mine does. My man is an addict. That is incredibly hard to live with. This is simply a guy thing. Just like we like to read cosmo and others, they have an instinct in them to be a guy. I promise you it has nothing to do with you or his disinterest in you.Tell him and Im sure he will reassure you of that. Take care hun.
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I know a girl who hasn't done drugs, had sex or drank. She's never been kissed, or even had a serious boyfriend, and she's 21. Her uncle recently died, and her family, most of whom are drunks and stoners, are fighting about what to do with her uncle's inheritance, and she's caught in the middle.
I've also got a major crush on this girl, and it's mutual. To add to this, though, we're not the same race (which matters to her family), and because of her family, she's never been spoiled (which I love doing to her) and she's really introverted and shy about herself.
How can I help her fix her family, deal with her uncle's death and get her to go out with me? (link)
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I feel for you. And her. I had an awful family life and the best thing I did was move away from them. I gained my own identity and left the alcoholic drug users behind. Spoil her rotten I know I love that, she will feel like she is worth something and will appreciate your kindness. You cant change her family situation though. It sounds like you are a great guy and exactly what this girl needs. Absolutley regardless of your race. I am A white mom of two preteen girls and I tell them it doesnt matter what race your boyfriend is as long as they are a gentleman. She is an adult and I assume you are too, so do the adult thing and decide what is best for you two and leave them out of the eqaution. Tell her how you feel. About the inheritance. She is a good person but if they are addicts there will be a battle where that is concerned for obvious reasons. good luck
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do you have sites where you can download free albums or music plz help (link)
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limewire is awesome, you can find anything on there, all free.
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whats a really good razor(not disposable) to use for your legs? and not too pricey. thanks (link)
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The Schick Intuition Razor is great and is very convenient. Shaving moisture built right in!
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how early in a pregnancy do yu start feeling nausious && your breasts feel tender?
please help
p.s i know i cant spell lol (link)
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I have had three kids. And in my pregnancies I was extremely sick. I couldnt keep anything in my stomach. This all started about three months in but everyone varies.The breast tennderness starts right about that time too. Good luck.
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What do i do with a husband who doesn't believe he is cheating on me since he insists the relationship isn't physical? We will be going to marriage counciling soon but have to wait for an appointment. He has written love letters to her that i found. i can't just dump him, i have a 9 month old daughter to think about. He still wants to hang out with the girl and won't stop, even after i said it would hurt me and our relationship if he did. he doesn't think he is wrong. What would you do? (link)
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I am in the same situation except he is looking for a relationship online. Emotional cheating can be more destructive than physical cheating. He is sharing his heart with another, while physical can be just that, phsyical. If he has written love letters to her, he is deeper into this than he is letting on. I know that a counselor will agree that this is indeed cheating. But don't end your marriage over it. Go to counseling for your daughters sake. My feeling is that if he is willing to go, he does love you, if he is hesitant, he can't respect you and does love having his cake and eating it too. Your daughter is young and if you do take hold of your self esteem and leave, she wont suffer too much at her age. Never stay in it for the children, they in time will suffer too. Because this will breed long loud arguments, and she will be sitting there listening to it all! That will damage her. If he can't respect your wishes he has got to go. Good luck hun.
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