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Well, I shop a lot at Abercrombie. And some of my friends aren't allowed to shop there. They'd be like 'Oh cute shirt, where'd you get it?' and then I would be like 'Abercrombie' and then they'd tell me that they weren't allowed to shop there. I don't see what's wrong with the place and shopping there. Can anyone tell me what's wrong or are my friends just being too closed minded?? Thanks and I rate. (link)
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It's most likely the fact that in a lot of Abercrombie stores there are very suggestive pictures on the wall; they did a nude cover thing awhile back; and some of their clothes show a little too much skin for some parents to handle. Other than that, I don't really see why parents would have a problem with their kids shopping there. I think it just depends on the person. xoxo*Jesuschick
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I am 14 and my boobs wont develope I mean every bodys are already you know and all the guys make phone of me saying like they can play hop scotch on my chest and all I thought about stuffing but I'm afriad what should I do (link)
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God made you the way you are for a reason. Guys can be insensitive sometimes about that stuff, and I say just ignore it. We all "develop" at our own rate. Just be patient!! Good luck... xoxo
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How old do you think a girl has to be to sleep over at their boyfriends house, say if their boyfriend was the same age or 1 year older? (link)
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You should be married. No matter what age.
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Im 15/f and i really like this boy that is 13 and he likes me too. we are very close we talk on the phone and he even had told me that he had fallen in love with me.Everyone thinks that we go out cause we always together. I dont know what do to because he ask me out, and he is waiting for an answer, whats holdin me back is his age and that peoples might be talking like am too old for him, So im really confused what should I do? (link)
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Who cares what other people think. If you like him a lot and you think it's okay then you should totally go for it!! And what if you wanted to date a guy who was 2 years older than you? That would be socially acceptable. I say if you can date up, why can't he?
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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them? (link)
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Hey I know exactly how you feel! The past few months have been like the exact same situation as yours for me. Lately I've been trying to invite all of them places in advance so they can't make other plans first together... and we all can hang out. It's been working for me, and it seems like they weren't doing that (all getting together without me) on purpose really anymore it was just kinda happening by coincidence. Ummm if that doesn't work then they might be upset with you about something, so you need to come directly out and ask them nicely and respectfully what is going on. If they don't really answer and the behavior continues, I say, this sucks, but you have to get new friends because it looks like these guys aren't that great of friends. As for their parents, oh well. Just try to be nice to them and ask them how their day is going if you happen to see them or whatever. You can't do anything more than be respectful, nice, and yourself right? Good luck hope it works! xo
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okay im sorta new at this and i really need help so anyone that can i need to know how farr is too far on a first date? (link)
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If you are not completely comfortable with whatever is happening on your date, then it is too far. Don't feel pressured to do anything, and don't do things you aren't ready for.
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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on (link)
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Tell them that you respect them way too much to see them treating their bodies this way. Ask them kindly to please stop, because it isn't enticing to you and the only guys who will like that style are not worth their time. Tell them to dress more appropriately and eventually they will find a guy who is worthy of their greatness!! Good luck =)
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My husband and I of 1.3 years of marriage got into a huge fight yesterday and he hit me several times, twice in the head. He kicked my butt real hard, threw something at my leg or my arm-can't remember which over something that was really stupid. I did say somethings I know I shouldn't have like I didn't love him, hated him and wanted a divorce. But does my saying those things warrant him hitting me? And that wasn't the first time. He normally hits me real hard on the legs when he gets real mad or he feels I've pushed his buttons.
Last night, he went to a motel with his son to get away and he would not talk to me at all. I didn't even know if we were going to be together. I was hurt and upset about the whole situation and did something real stupid. I filled out one of those eharmony personality profile things. I didn't chat with anyone or nothing like that. I just did it, don't know why. I was depressed and I did pop a lot of pills as I have tonight to try and sleep. None of it his an excuse. He found the eharmony thing today when he came back and now he won't have anything to do with me. I love him and want to work it out and I know I have to change also, not just him. All the times he's accused me of doing things I never ever did, I guess I just filled out that eharmony thing out of spite. He has called me a slut and a whore and that I'm so big now vaginally wise that no man could do me any good. I have apologized for filling out that personality profile. It was dumb of me. How can I save this marriage and convince him that I don't want anyone else, PERIOD. I love him and want to work this out more than anything in this world. Help me please. (link)
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You might love him, but hello? Does he love you? Does someone who abuse you really love you? Are they worthy of you? Of course not! If you seriously refuse to give up on this guy, then my advice is get in counseling, and get in there soon! It really does do some good. But if it doesn't help totally and he is still acting like this, dump the jerk. You apologized for filling that eharmony thing out, and if he can't just get over it he's a loser. Get out of the relationship or into counseling fast! You deserve better! I'll be praying that a solution comes to you and that you guys can work this out. Good luck!!
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i want to gain more confidence and have an attitude that gives the impression that i don't give a damn what they say! anyone have any advice that would help me obtain this attitude? (link)
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Well, if you want more confidence, you just have to think more highly of yourself. Think of all the good things about you, do things that make you feel good. But also, try some new things. Make goals that are tough but realistic, like getting on honor roll, for example. Once you reach some goals, you'll get more and more pumped!! Just have faith in yourself, but don't get too cocky. No one likes someone too stuck up! As for a new attitude about showing people you don't care about what they say, that's easy. Don't care about what they say. You want to be real, not fake. So if you want the new attitude just start thinking that way. It'll all come from there. Good luck with everything!
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omg i dont have that much of bad acne but like its get worst and incressing the party i go to tonight i am just wearing like make up and stuff but when the make ups off whats the best way t o treat it???
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Yep, I can relate. I used to have horrible acne before I tried this treatment. It really does work, but it takes about a month before your acne will totally disappear, but it is well worth it! Trust me. First, you buy a face soap that the only main ingredient in it is salycylic acid. You mix that with a little water and put it on your face in the morning and let it sit for about a minute and then wash it off. Then you use a solution that can be rubbed on your face that it's main ingredient is glycolic acid. Just follow the instructions on the product. Then put on a moisturizing OIL FREE cream. Dry skin only makes acne worse, not better. After that you can put on OIL FREE (make sure it is... if it doesn't say it, it isn't) make up to hide the spots a little. Then a t night use the salycylic acid scrub again with the same instructions. (Don't use the glycolic acid treatment or the moisturizer again, though. That's only for the morning.) After that, and this sounds stupid but it really is the key, buy a product that is at least 10% benzoyl peroxide. It has to be a cream, not a scrub or soap. Then run an ice cube over your face to get it cold (don't freeze your skin, just cool it down) I reccomend you keep the cream in the refrigerator so it will be cold too. Put the cream on your face liberally and then lay down and put ice packs on your face for TEN minutes. (The reason for the ice cube and the cold packs is that it will allow the swelling of your acne, [even if you don't think there is swelling there is], to go down and open the pores to allow the benzoyl peroxide to get in.) I highly reccomend this, but you must do all the steps because they are all interlinked. Give it some time though and don't give up!! You may see some change over night, but it may also take a month. It will work though, if you keep it up dilligently!! Hope I helped and good luck!!
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a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen. (link)
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First off, I'm really sorry about your friends. I have dealt with that before and I know how much it hurts and how deep the pain is. But anyway, back to your question.Sometimes it's hard to know why bad things happen, but they do serve purpose. It isn't always clear why God incorporates them into His plan for your life and the lives of those around you. He does promise, however, that His timing is perfect and that He will be there for you no matter what happens to ease the pain and support you. I encourage you to keep seeking answers by praying or talking to a minister, or both! I will be praying for you and I hope the Lord reveals Himself to you through this situation. That's how it happened for me. Keep strong and have faith! =)
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