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How do you know if a guy likes you and if he/you does like him how do you get him to notcie you?? (link)
you coudl ask him if he likes you/tell him u like him and see what he says. a guy should like you for you, you shouldnt have to go out of ur way to not be urself to get attention...i dont like it when girls do that lol juss be urslef and talk to the guy a lot to get him to notice you... =D

*jesikuh


Well my boyfriend was here today and we were makeing out and he got my shirt off and then i told him to stop but i love him so much and we could of had sex but i told him to go home and he knows what makes me feel better and stuff like that well he was kissing my neck (which i like ALOT) and then he took my shirt off. I then told him to go home and but i think i am ready (well at least i think so) What do you think is wrong? (link)
your juss not ready yet, he shouldnt be pushing you and do what you like to get what he wants

*jesikuh


Ok I have my cartilage pierced and it's beel pierced since the end of May. I ran out of the cleaning stuff the store gave me and now it's infected and swollen. I was wondering what I could use to clean it. I have hydrogen peroxide and isperyl alcohol (not sure if that's what it's called). Would either of those work or should I use something else? Thanks! I rate! (link)
when i got mine pierced they said not to use anything but the stuff they give you...hmm i forgot what the stuff's called that u clean it with buttt its something having to do with contact cleaner...but juss go back and get some more or ask what u can get to clean it with...mine was infected and had a big bump for the longest time..and its still sore and ive had mine for...11 months lol its cuz i changed it too soon, but dont play around with it a lot and dont touch it or move it...either than all that i dunno what else to do...oh yeah if u have a bubble like i had, they say not to pop it but if u can, do it cuz thats the only way it'll go down...mine wouldnt pop and it was there FOREVER!!!

*jesikuh


ok well.. my boyfriend asked my if we could have mutual oral.. BUT i dont know wut it is!! some1 help me to know wut hes sayyin!! i need to kno!! (link)
prolly 69...

*jesikuh


i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o (link)
i dont think soo...im guessing u'd have to be over 18 to not let them kno about it

*jesikuh


im 13, and my best guy friend asked me how far ive been with a guy. ive never been kissed and i told him i have but now im scared he'll be like WHO idk why i lied but i felt bad so what should i do? (link)
hmm juss tell him that u havnt, its not a big deal that u havnt, dont lie to ur best friends lol that always turns out bad

*jesikuh


If a guy wanted to go down on me should I let him? I mean girls say it feels good n everything but I dunno. I mean I know im clean down there but DOWN THERE isnt the best lookin and juss yeah down there. I mean u cum and what if it starts to smell or somethin or I dunno.. Juss thinkin bout a guy doin that..Doesnt it taste BADD I mean why would a guy wanna..?? (link)
if u dont feel comfortable then dont let him do it...i kno i dont like it when guys do it lol i like dont let them juss cuz im self concious that they'll judge me or think its gross or something, kno what i mean?? but yeah if ur not comfortable, dont do it...dont do anything ur not totally 100% comfortable on!

*jesikuh


hey ya*ll i really like this guy and he really likes me 2 ...but there is a bad thing.. he dosent want any1 to kno and i cant help thinkin its cause im not that pretty...please help me and tell me what to do...SiGnEd~DaNgErOusLy In LoVe~ (link)
well if hes not gonna show off to the world that he likes you then fuck him =D sorry but its true, a guy should be proud to have a girl like you :)

*jesikuh


im 14 and going into high school, is it weird that i havent kissed a guy yet? (link)
nah i dont think so, some people juss wait, others dont! it juss matters who you are, its not that big of a deal. juss tell people ur waiting and if they think its gay tell them to fuck off =D

*jesikuh


Ok, here it goes

I have pale skin and dirty blonde hair, and some freckles. What are some good make up tips for me to use? (link)
dont use too much...and dont use too dark of make up...if u wanna be tanner, go tan, dont get tan make up, u'll look gay and orange and people WILL notice...but thats about it...earthy tones would look good on you (like clear lip gloss or light pink anddd brown eyeshadow)

*jesikuh


ook i srsly need help! im a girl and this guy im friends with has a birthday coming up soon and i have no idea what to get him! we are soo close and i really wanna get him somethin nice cuz he means a lot to me! ((and btw he`s 13))
i am so clueless!!! (link)
a shirt or a hat or a cd. for sure. =D

*jesikuh


I really wanna bf but i dn if any guys like me! I LIKE this one guy but he lives in NY and i live in Maine. I also like this guy in my school. The guy in Ny liked me back but i dont think im ready for long distance. Should I go for the guy in my school, that is like ask him out, or should i try to do long distance w/ the kid from NY? Cuz like i dn if the kid from my school likes me or what. But hes always talkin to me and smiling at me. So which one? (link)
long distance = no good... go for the guy at ur school..talk to him more and see if hes interested =D

*jesikuh


ok i have a brother and 2 sisters my brother makes fun of me and turns my sisters against me i have no idea what to do but thing is he is almost 6 feet and very strong and i have bruses from him but its not like child abuse or anything pLZzzz help :) (link)
i dunno tell on him? lol im sorry to hear about that... ignore him and try not to be in the same room as him??

*jesikuh


ok i have a BIG problem and im sure that it happens to a lot of people.. but whenever something happens that makes me mad i always want to kill myself and its scary cuz sometimes i almost do.. i dont no wut to do and i need some help before i actually do!!! does this mean im like mentally ill or something?? should i see a doctor or anything?? thanks..
xox manda (link)
ur prolly depressed...it could be ur juss plain depressed or u could have a chemical embalance in ur brain, u should see a dr. to get meds tho to make u feel better...a lot of people are like that, dont worry hun..

*jesikuh


I had sex with the same guy as my best friend's sister has. I just didn't know until after I had that she had already been with him. Well.. I talked to the girl he was with a few days later.. and she told me he had an STD. She said he had Herpes in his mouth. She said she was makin out with him.. and he had a sore on his lip and he said it was herpes and not to tell anyone.
She went to a clinic to get checked today. Can u still get herpes from someone if neither of u have open sores in your mouths? And should i get checked? or find out if she has it and then get checked.. I dont want to have to tell my mom i had sex with him, but im still scared i might have it.

Also, my BFF had sex with him the night after i did (eww) and she got checked too.. should I wait see if either of them have it.. or just go ahead and tell my mom and get an appointment at a clinic?

Please only answer if u know something about Herpes... THANKS! (link)
juss go get checked anyhow...better safe than sorry ... did he use a condom?

*jesikuh


Ok, are you supposed to shave your ahem pubic area? Ive heard you are and you aren't and it's so confusing. Or do you just do it if you're going to have sex? I'd appreciate the help. (link)
well its not bad or good...its juss for girls who like it to be clean down there...well clean cut...or maybe for their guys...personally i like it ALL GONE! haha nooo hair what-so-ever anywhere on my body cept for my head lol

*jesikuh


what is a good way to get a guy to like you? i need girls and boys advice. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
DONT BE SHY!!!! and be urself...usually guys can tell if ur not being urself and ur acting weird...juss be comfortable around them =D

*jesikuh


Okay, this is sick n I really dont talk about it wit anyone cept muh BEST FRIEND cuz we talk bout everything good bad w/e. Alright, well I juss wrote to get advice on a sex issue but now I need advice on DOWN SOUTH on a girl. Our pubic area if I must say haha. Okay it makes me laugh but yeah... I shaved like it down there like all the time but once I do it say for example on a Monday I cant until like maybe thursday b/c if I do anytime before I cut my self a bunch of times down there and it hurts and its still stubby.I mean its sick but I dunno what to do. Is there like somethin I can use besides waxing or somethin I can do to shave it or something? I mean cuz I dont like pubs down there really and I like em gone. but its kinda hard when now I have a b/f and what if like say the Weds. after Monday I shaved and he goes down there or we decide to have sex or somethin? He wont be able to cuz it will be all nasty ...I dunno what to do..its embarressing and a pain in the ass lol.. PLEASEE get me some advice lol (link)
yeah i shave DOWN THERE too but u juss have to use shaving cream and stuff and it WILL come back all gay and stubby and hurty cuz thats juss the way the hair is...it grows back fast and the hair isnt like hair on ur arms, its coarse or whatever...soo juss use shaving cream and lotion too.

*jesikuh


My x-bf dumped me,And my bf I have now thinks I still like my x-bf because I didnt dump him he dumped me. What should I say to my boyfriend to make him think I like him?

-Victoria- (link)
uhh thats kinda stupid of him to htink that...tell him that if he likes you and cares about u (like he shoudl say he does) he'll trust you and kno that u only like him =D

*jesikuh


Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:) (link)
do NOT have sex until ur 100% sure ur ready. and if ur gonna in the future, make sure its with some one u care about and are sure their not in it juss for the booty...you have to fully trust that person that their not gonna go off and leave u and tell everyone and shit...wait wait wait...and since hes almost 18 if u do do it...dont tell ANYONE cuz he could get in trouble...jailbate major... k? be safe =D

*jesikuh




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