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hi i am 13 and i am a girl.my very best friend talked about me bhinde my back and she keeps telling everyone i am a liar and i am not i feel like i have lost everthing i think i want to die please help fast (link)
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*It's a popular thing for teens to gossip about eachother, especially close friends! Usually some people gossip about their closest friends because they are jealous or upset with them. You should ask your friend what's bothering her, and see if there's anything you can do to talk about it. After, maybe you could spend the day with her, and show her what your friendship means to her, trust me, she won't stay mad for long! Hope i helped!
x3Jen
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Hey guys! Well, I just got a dog and he's about a couple weeks old. I want to start training him now, but I can't do that without a name. Got any ideas? He's brown, black, and white. Thanks a million! =D (link)
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*Sounds cute lol! Well, I've never had a dog in my life before, but I've thought about this before! You should try something cute or something that makes you laugh. People think dogs are cute, but people also love dog names, so pick something cute, funny, or after someone you know and have fun with your new dog!
x3jen ~rache
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Dear Jen and "Rache",
I have been growing up in a bad home in the ghetto and in the beginning i had sex with many different women because i had a lot of money and the hoes were cheap. But now i have turned gay and have been thinking about becoming a Jew. I dont really want to be a homosexual Jew anytime soon. What should i do? (link)
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thats a tough situation. if you WANT to become a homosexual, then go for it. but if there is some reason that you dont want to, then turn yourself away from it. and there is nothing wrong becoming Jewish. if you know anyone thats Jewish, or if you know of any Jewish churches visit them and learn more about the religion so then you can for sure decide what you would like to do. good luck! xoxo *rache
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ive been really depressed latley all it feels like im not needed anywhere and i feel like im not being a good friend. yah i still hang out with my friends and everything but all i ever do latley is screw up with my best friend were always in fights and it just seems like were not having a good relationship im always the one hurting her. i just feel like everybody would be ok with out me i dont know what to do (link)
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*Don't let things like that get you down! Turst me, you are needed and many people care for you. I think that you should plan out a girls night with your best friend to keep her boyfriend out of her mind for at least a little while. Maybe if she has a lot of fun without the guys, then she will want to hangout with just you more often! Also, you can always talk to her and tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't listen, she has a problem, and you need to help her realize that friends should always come before b/fs! hope we helped ya!
~rache x3jen
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My hamster just died and im not sure if i should get a new one really soon or wait to heal from the pain. Im afraid that my hamster that just died will look down from heaven and see me happy with a new hamster and think my hamster that dies will hate me. Should i wait a while to get a new one or get a new one to get my mind of the newly-dead hamster? Please write back asap!! (link)
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this is also a hard one... well my advice to yoo is... you should get a new hamster but talk to your old hamster and tell him that yoo got a new one to remind yoo of your old one! im sure he will understand.. and im sure that your old one wouldn't want you to be sad... i hope we helped! jen n rache!
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well i have been looking at porn for a while and idk wut to do about it i mean when i am watching it i love it i like watching te girls make out and other stuff like that and i tend to think i am a lesbo what should i do? (link)
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thats a tuff one! well there is nothing wrong with being a lesbian, but if YOU personally think its weird then stay away from it... sometimes yoo have to force yourself to go in a different direction. if yoo dont mind being a lesbian- then go ahead and look and enjoy watching porn. but if you DO NOT want to be a lesbian then i would turn away from it. i hope i helped! xoxo *rache n jen
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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help. (link)
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*This is one of those things that you have to decide on your own sometimes. I have a friend who's father died recently-and trust me, your friend needs you! One thing you need to make sure of is to give your friend some space, let he/she come up to you, overcrowding may cause them to think about it more or cry more. I don't think you should bring a gift, maybe send a card and flowers, but being there for your friend should be enough. Remember, let them come to you.
x3Jen
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Im an american but ive been living in England for two years, and im moving back to america for my senoir year in the summer.(back to the same school)Im going to have to take my SAT's in october as they dont have them here. Any advise from people who have already taken sat's? anything i should study? please help, because there's no one i can ask here! (link)
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*yes you should definitely study alot!(brief history-when i was in 6th grade they selected a group to take them just to see how we would rank-i got about a 21:-))Since I haven't been to England, i don't know what they study there, but try asking a friend or buying one of those SAT or ACT prep books! You can also find a tutor to help you catch up if you need it! Good Luck with the SATs!
x3Jen
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i never do anything on the weekends except hang out at home... and with only one frined...i dont know what to do i want to start hanging out with more people but they always have plans (link)
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*well, you can always have fun with just one person! But if you want to meet more people and hangout with them, ask your friend if they would like to go somewhere where a lot fo people hangout and see if you can meet someone. If your other freinds always have plans, ask them ahead of time, plan ahead! I hope I helped!
x3jen!
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Okay, so I eat good, I have gym class every day so I exercise5 times a week for and hour and a half, yet i'm still pretty fat. I mean I'm not obese. I'm about 150, but I'm 5'8. Al my friends are really skinny though so in comparison to them i'm huge. I don't want to hurt myself with an eating disorder or anything and I don't have time to exercise anymore, but what can I do? (link)
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thats hard.. i mean if yoo eat good and exercise im not sure why yoo would be fat. yoo can try a diet like the south beach diet (i heard it works reely good) or the zone diet. also- running is reely good if yoo want to lose weight, like run around your block everyday and that should help. and if yoo have a flabby stomache.. yoo can do sit ups or make up something that makes yer tummy muscles soar! i hope i helped! xoxo
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So many people in my grade have a b/f or g/f but they don't take it seriuosly. In the hall all they do is say "hey" to each other, they talk to each other on-line about "who knows what?" and in their binders they write "I love----". They don't talk on the fone or anything like that.I feel so left out, but if i ask a girl out it would be weird for me to be going out w/ a girl and telling everyone, but the girl wouldn't look me in the eye or anything like that. it's so stupid. What could i do so i don't feel left out? (link)
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ok this is what ya gotta do! YOO have to be the 'trend setter' of dating lol- yoo have to be the one to say- thats so stupid when yoo just say hi! so ask this girl out- and talk to her AS MUCH AS YOO CAN! and go places with her and be flirty with her! and i agree- i think AIM is so annoying cuz its just for the people that are to scared to say things for themselves! so talk on tha fone! good luck!
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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..
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im sorry to say but this guy probly isn't for yoo. i have a friend that WILL NOT get over this one guy... and shes so pretty and a lot of guys like her, but she always falls for this one guy. theres plenty of fish in the sea! but this guy is just not for yoo!
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Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ? (link)
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i have a lot of "guy friends" that sometimes i like more than a friend. and it kinda depends on how yoo act around him... are yoo usually flirty? or are yoo like 'one of the guys' around him? im sure yoo guys will be a great couple cuz yoo no so much about eachother.. but if yoo ever think that your friendship is being ruined, then i think yoo should let it go and tell him yoo guys were better off friends!
~rache
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can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
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well.. it kinda depends on what type of skin yoo have. chocolate and greasy foods CAN make yoo break out but not every single time yoo eat a hershey lol ya no? and with makeup, if yoo use foundation, every night, yoo MUST wash yer face- not just soap and water- yoo need a deep cleansing soap. yoo can also try pro-active or acne-free! i hope my advice works!
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My cousin wants to tryout for cheerleading in highschool. She's done it before when she was younger, and can do flips and cartwheels. However, she feels that she "MUST HAVE A BACKHAND SPRING" to make the H.S. squad.
♥ Does anyone know if you definitely need a backhand spring to make an average hs squad
♥ Does anyone have any confidence or any other tips for her, she won't listen to just me..thanks alot! I'll rate well to appropriate answers! (link)
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well to make a high school squad... yoo probly want to have a flip flop (back handspring) i no for the squad me and jen are trying out for, to make freshman squad yoo dont need any tumbling, but good cheering would be good. to make junior varsity yoo need definately at LEAST a flip flop. and varsity you need probly a back. so try to get her to do her flip flop! good luck!
*jen n rache*
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