Member Since: May 17, 2009 Answers: 32 Last Update: November 2, 2009 Visitors: 2078
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I have some old scars from piercings I use to have. They are old facial scars, mainly. I had a monroe (upper lip), middle lower lip, nose, and both nipples pierced. It's embarrassing because I look back now and see how stupid I was to do all of that. I mean, what was I thinking?!?!
ANYWAY, that isn't the point! The point is that I want to leave that junk behind me but I have these scars that keep reminding me of my stupidity and it makes me feel like trash. How can I get rid of these scars? I know there are scar creams available but I don't know what works and what doesn't...
Can anybody help, please? (link)
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you could try a few creams or maybe (If your game!) some make-up.
if nothing seems to work go to a doctor and ask them. They might be able to do something.
abbie : )
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Can some one please give me a good team name for westfields womens U17s (under 17s) football team ? one of them is called Westfields Matilda's any ideas for team names? (link)
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bolts, firecrackers, i dont know really.
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I wear make-up sometimes and just a little, my mom will only allow that much and says that i shouldn't wear it while baby-sitting. I have lots of stuff in my closet that my mom says is "inappropriate" for baby-sitting too. What should i wear to be a good example? The parents probaly wouldn't want there kids to see there baby-sitter as an example if that is an example that has their naval showing and tons of make-up on. (link)
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just wear somethings comfortable but still looks good.
like jeans and a nice top.
even though ur mum wont let you waer make up jut wear a little to make you look good.
hope all goes well.
abbie xx
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I have braces right ,and I had them for 4 months now. And they still hurt how do I get get used to the ain? (link)
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they might hurt for the first few weeks but now after. you might get some tenderness every now and then but they souldn't hurt constantly.
try takeing an asprin or advil (it doesnt matter what pain relief pill it is but they might help.)
if that doesn't help it might pay off to ring your dentist.
abbie xxx
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okay so im not bad looking. a lot of people think im cute and hott in ways im nice and funny and i cant get a boyfriend any tips? (link)
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well sometimes it's not looks that guys are after.
they might want someone funny and someone smart.
its one thing to look good but another to feel good. do you thinks youre nice? do you feel your funny?
if so just talk to the guy thats takes your fancy.
chat them up and even if your not, just act interested in what they say to you.!! :)
one of the worst things you can do is put yourself down over this. now this is old but one day you will meet a guy just for you!!
hope i helped you!
xxxx abbie xxxx
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i honestly dont know what to do. he's the first guy i've let myself fully trust since my ex. and i've like him for a while. i wasnt sure if he was into me or not, until a couple days ago when he kissed me. but today we started talking bout not starting anything, because it would cause too many problems when he moves 1000miles away in less than a month. i feel like my heart is breaking again. i dont want him to go. but he has to, to get things right for him, & for him to be happy. i want him to be happy. i just feel so broken knowing he's not gona be there. help! :( (link)
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that must be really upseting.
But you need to remember that if you don't let him go you will be upseting yourself even more and thats not going to help anyone.
Try and keep occupied.
and if you still miss him then get his Moblie number or MSN.
I hope i helped you.
Yours truly,
Abbie, xxx
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I'm really paranoid and it's causing me to waste a lot of my time and have many missed oppurtunities. I tend to apologzie for things a lot. Like if I'm being to loud in my cousins car I'll apologize. If I talk too much about the guy I like to my friends I apologize, (and I know that they really don't mind it, they've expressed that to me a lot). I'm always afraid that I'm bothering people. I suggest to some of my school friends that we hang out sometime and that I'll text them, and sometimes I wimp out because I'm scared that I'm bothering them. And I can't even talk to the guy I like outside of school or by text (I told him that I liked him about a month and a half ago, and it kinda freaked him out, and he never really clearly responded to it and things are still awkward but fortunately we're still friends. But the awkwardness makes me even more paranoid. Also, he's the type who won't talk much if he's not being talked to, and it can be slightly difficult to hold a conversation with hm if you have nothign to say, so that doesn't exactly help either). I'm too scared to even just say "Hey, what's up I'm so bored right now" or something like that. I'm just constantly scared that I'm a bother to people and that they're going to be like "wow she needs to leave me the hell alone" or something. I'm tired of not making plans with people and I still want to their to be some possibility that the guy I like will maybe start liking me back too, and I can't expect to accomplish that in only 3 periods a day in school, which will be over for the year soon. How do I get over this? (link)
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well really you need more self confidence. just look at some things you friends do. they talk to people and note the response they get. hope you work it out. abiee x
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I have been in a relationship with my partner for 2 years.
I love him very much, but I feel hes not paying me enough attention, which I feel has lead me into the big mistake I made 2 days ago.
I have been flirting with his best mate for quite some time, even though I don't really know him, now regardless of what anybody thinks of me, its NOT like me atall, I have never cheated on a partner before and have never even had the urge too, but for the last year, me and my boyfriends relationship has been very rocky, & I feel we have grown very distant, and its almost like I hate him being around, but miss him when hes not.
He has been neglecting me in many ways, however if I tease him or get naked, suddenly he perks up & is all ears & eyes for me...
Basically things went a little too far with his best friend two days ago.
I had a miscarriage just over a week ago, and my partner didnt want a baby, but due to the fact it happened, eventually he agreed to stick by me, but all the stress, turned a threatened miscarriage into a full on miscarriage, and since then I have been very very down.
I turned to his best mate because my partner didn't care that the baby was gone, he was almost happy! and things went from a cuddle to me playing with him.
I regret it but then again, I still feel the need to do it again! Inside I kind of know that if my partner was giving me the love and attention I deserve as his girlfriend, then I would not have any need to go elsewhere. This is a dangerous game and I am very nervous as his mate still comes over ALL the time. I don't know what to do now, I do not want to lose my partner, but I don't wanna lose his best mate as my mate...has anyone else been in this situation? I really need to know where to go next with this one. Thanks (link)
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if you feel that you aren't being treaated like you should you really need to talk to your boyfriend. If he gets the idea and starts spending more time with you thats excellent. but if he doesn't change maybe it's time to move on.
hope all goes well!
Abiee xx
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This is gonna sound like a stupid question, but do guys really care about how much a girl weighs? i'm definiely not the skinniest person but i think i am really pretty. im also a really nice person, with a great sense of humor. but im 21 years old, and ive never had a boyfriend. so do guys really only care about looks? (link)
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the only people that won't date you because of your weight are shallow, low-lifes. get over them. they won't make you feel any better; only let you down.
someday you'll find "MR Right" and it will be someone who respects you for who you are. have a look around and maybe go down to a club or Mall and have a look around. if they look avalible... go for it!
abiee xxx P.S good luck
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Okay, well long story short- i really like this kid(shocker!). Every time i think about him i feel something like in my upper chest like tingles, it's really odd to me actually, haha. We both have the same sence of humour, both really loud with friends,just alike in many ways.I get vibes that he likes me sometimes,i get vibes hes thinking about me, just random things(i'm really good with that kind of stuff).He's a gentleman, not a player type(but has a lot of girls as friends). More of a weird, funny guy haah. Thing is , he found out i like him and he was totally into someone else.(caught me off gaurd-because he always used to stare at me at lunch?) So i moved on, and we became good friends a little while after that. I don't know who he really is, and i really want to get to know him more. I like him, but i don't know if he likes me as more than a friend- it would hurt to be rejected twice,naturally. I don't wanna be a burden or make him feel like he has to like me-seeing as he found out before in the worst way (a friend told him-with out asking mee ugh askdjfa). Anyways point blank: How can i figure out whats the real deal with this guy ? And, how can i get him to open up, how do i send signals that i like him by useing body language?
And lastly, speaking of body languagee, what are some things i can look for to see if he likes me from his body language? Any other advice? i really don't think i should give up on this one*Thank you so much! (link)
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i was reading in a magazine that if you try and be really good friends with one of his best mates and as you guys hang out casually bring up the subject of who you both like. then ask who the guy likes.
Well there ya go, hope it helps.
Abiee xxx
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where does being shy around guys come from?
practically every guy i tlak to i can't seem to tlak to them. small tlak it easy. but like...everything else doesn't. i know i'm suppose to tlak to them like i talk to girls but then i get all choked up and shy (link)
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well do you have any friends that hang around with guys? i was in the same position not long ago but all my friends were mates with the guys and when i hung out with them the boys were there too.
try being friends with one boy then go and talk to another when you feel comfortable.
hope that helps,
abiee xx =]
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so there are these boys, both are andy. i liked one of them for about a year and he finally fessed up for feeling the same through a note. i really like him alot but the other andy is an awesome guy and we have so much in commen. i spent the weekend with the second andy, that i haven't liked for a long time, and i saw the real him like the boy outside of church and im starting to like him alot! i went over to his camper over the weekend and heard him say he likes me to and we were playing games outside together just hanging out and being ourselves, it was amazing. now, the second andy, the one i didnt like for a long time, that i spent the weekend with did everything in 2 days that the first andy did in a year. both are AMAZING guys and i have feelings for both i just dont know which one to go for. im really sorry this was confusing becuase they both have the same name, but i have no other idea on how to explain it that you'd understand please help me though i need it! (link)
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well you really need to think about who you can really see sharing a life with. someone who will always be there and most importantly you have to feel the same way.
if you lead on that you like them them walk off with the other guy he will be upset. so think really carefully.
abiee xx
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