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I've got to pull it together!
Okay, well long story short- i really like this kid(shocker!). Every time i think about him i feel something like in my upper chest like tingles, it's really odd to me actually, haha. We both have the same sence of humour, both really loud with friends,just alike in many ways.I get vibes that he likes me sometimes,i get vibes hes thinking about me, just random things(i'm really good with that kind of stuff).He's a gentleman, not a player type(but has a lot of girls as friends). More of a weird, funny guy haah. Thing is , he found out i like him and he was totally into someone else.(caught me off gaurd-because he always used to stare at me at lunch?) So i moved on, and we became good friends a little while after that. I don't know who he really is, and i really want to get to know him more. I like him, but i don't know if he likes me as more than a friend- it would hurt to be rejected twice,naturally. I don't wanna be a burden or make him feel like he has to like me-seeing as he found out before in the worst way (a friend told him-with out asking mee ugh askdjfa). Anyways point blank: How can i figure out whats the real deal with this guy ? And, how can i get him to open up, how do i send signals that i like him by useing body language?
And lastly, speaking of body languagee, what are some things i can look for to see if he likes me from his body language? Any other advice? i really don't think i should give up on this one*Thank you so much!
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i was reading in a magazine that if you try and be really good friends with one of his best mates and as you guys hang out casually bring up the subject of who you both like. then ask who the guy likes.
Well there ya go, hope it helps.
Abiee xxx
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He found out you liked him once and responded by saying that he was really into someone else. Did you find out who the other person was? If so, have they gotten into a relationship? Do they hang out or talk often? If so, don't try to pursue this. You're only going to get rejected twice for the exact same reason.
If he doesn't seem to be making moves on anyone else, just try to get to know him better. You say you're really good friends with him, so I'm assuming you have his phone number? If you don't, ask for it. If you do have it/once you have it, text him (if you don't already). You can learn a lot about people by texting them and playing a game like 20 questions.
Remember that if a guy wants to be with you, he will. You shouldn't have to do 100% of the work, and if you are, it's a red flag that he doesn't like you like that.
As far as body language goes, there are a lot of things to do that will set of flirty vibes. Laugh at his jokes, smile when you see him and talk to him, maintain good eye contact, and playfully touch his shoulder/arm/knee/hand.
The body language you want to look for in him is the exact same body language you want to convey. If he's smiling when he sees you, laughing at your jokes, maintaining eye contact or playfully touching you, he might be into you.
I wouldn't re-tell him how you feel quite yet. As you said, you don't want to get rejected twice, especially for the same thing. Just try to hang out with him and get to know him better by texting or talking. Once he knows you better, he'll feel comfortable with opening up to you more. If you don't notice any other girls around and you two get to know each other better, then you can tell him how you feel or ask him how he feels as far as a relationship goes.
Darby(:
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