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am i still a virgin, even though my cherry's poped because i fingered myself?

yes you are still virgin,
you will stay a virgin until the penis has intercourse with your vigina.

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do guys like *it* shaved or not. like do guys kno that girls should shave down there? and how do yu make it stop itching? thanks

Well,
different guys got different perfrences,

but i would say majority,
likes it shaved and smooth, ya` kno?

when its hairy,
to me. it just looks dirty & gross.

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ok im 17 and i dont rally know what to do when my boyfriend fingers me..he did it once before and we just kissed and it was fine but am i ment to do something else?
And also how do you go around giving a handjob?lke how do you start it off?do you sit next to them or lye next to them and what do you do next?do you kiss them when youre doing it?
Please help!I just dont know how to start it off!

Okay, well first of all.
when your gettin fingered, there really no specific thing to do, is just lay there, touch him, squeeze his arm, breathe- but not to hard, that it sounds fake.

mm.

when your giving him a handjob i think the best way would be for him to lay down, on a bed or somethin(on his back)
And your sitting on top of him, w. your legs strattled over him, and then yeah his dick will be right in between your legs.

It would be kinda hard to kiss him while doin it, cuz you wanna see what your doing, but if you think that your talented and skilled like that, then whateva go for it.

but other than kissin him,
when your giving him a damn job, rub his balls at the same time, or his chest- wet your finger and rub his nipples.


so yeah.
i'm pretty sure i helped.
lol.

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whats four-play?

Fourplay is what two couples do except sex,
like; fingering, oral...


What they do to get horny,

or what they will do before having sex, so the boys are hard and the girls are wet.

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how do you grind? not like when you're dancing, just like laying down.

Its kinda like if your on a bed.
w. a girl.. or boy.



and your layin on top, or they on top & you guys are movin up and down, makin out and stuff like that; humpin & grindin..

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is it impossible to make out if both people have braces?

Oh, Deff Not,
Just Be Really Careful Because If They Get Stuck Together,
Your Hella Screwed.

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when my boyfriend sucks my nipples it starts to hurt, is that normal?

Mm hes suckin on them way too hard for them to hurt.

Some girls nipples are sensitive.
And yours are.

So tell him to go a lil softer.

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Hey. Well, I'm thirteen and I've only made out with a guy [more than one guy, though]. I'm wondering if it's normal for me to not want to go any farther than that..?

Of course its' normal.
as you get more older,
your gunna be more .. curious about doing more things farther then making out.


ya know?
but only do it.
when you really ready.

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Do you have to use lubricant or lotion while giving a handjob?

No,
you don't HAVE too,
but its wayy more pleasureable for the guy to have something slick to glide on..

ya know?

you can do it dry,
but.. you should use lubricant or lotion

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every body calls me a poser but i really skateboard and i love to skate how can i prove im not a poser and i reallly need advise plz helm thanks

you don't need to prove shit.
forreal..


be your own person,
don't care bout what people think about you,
let them think, let them talk.

its what you like to do,
its you,


not them.

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my boyfriend fingered me a little harder this time. and it hurt a little at first then it was fine. but now i have bruises on the inside of my thighs. is this normal?

and also. when he rubs me "downthere" is it supposed to be borderline painful/pleasurable?

Mm,
if your boyfriend is fingering you too hard.
then you need to tell him to either stop or go a lil slower, its your body thats feeling it.

and hes the one giving you those briuses.
& not knowing that he is doin that.'

so you need to speak up girl.

hope i helped.

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14/f

I have never been fingered in my life, only rubbed.
My boyfriend tried to finger me, and when he BEARLY pushed I asked him to stop because it stung...
Is this normal..i've yet to be fingered because I am afraid..
My question is this:
How bad does it hurt to get fingered..
Or anything along those lines for someone who has never done anything sexual..
:[ help, please.

Mm,
to be honest.
it doesn't really hurt that much.


just tell him to go slow
and soft.

and wait until your really wet, since its your first time.

but the sooner he sticks it in.
it wont hurt it'll start to feel really good.

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when girls wear girl boxers or boy shorts, do you guys wear underwear underneath? i'm just wondering. i know it sounds stupid. haha. but yea. i was just wondering. anyways. yea. and is it weird to wear girl boxers and stuff?

mm,
haha you can if you wantt i guess.


i don't.
lol

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Really this is awkward for me. alot.
Like i dont even know hwo to word this, its just some thing ive wondered.
But Do you girls ever release discharge while being fingered. and doesnt the guy find that gross to the extreme. Why doesnt a guy find it gross to finger a girl just is a little... i dont know.. "gooey?". ANd how many of you girls release dischage? Is it alot? Does it effect your sexual relationships? ANd do guys ever finger a girl and think, EW MY FINGERS SMELL AWKWARD. Yes this is really embarrasing, and awkward, but i would really like anserws seriously.

Well,
when you get horny,
you get wet down there.

its natural,
so if a guy thinks its disgusting.
then he must not know that much about sexuallity.

mm and all guys gotta do is wash his hands.

& you'll only smell bad if you don't wash down there that good.

but other than that.
its all godo.

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Me and my boyfriend have just kissed, nothing else. We've been going out for a while, and I'm ready to try something more. How do I let him know that I'm ready, without really telling him straight out?

Mm,
well without telling him,

when you guys are making out and stuff,
touch his leg, make him take his hand and put it on your leg.

rub him, if you guys are on a bed,
start to make him lay down and get on top of him.

but if he starts to touch you or do something to you that your not ready for, stop kissing him nd move his hand up to where you feel comfertable, or say "i'm not ready for that yet."

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f/15
okay so last week my boyfriend and I were fooling around and we actually had sexual contact.he didn't go inside, he was like at my opening. he says that he didn't ejacualate inside, but i want to know if there was any possible chance I COULD be pregnant.
thanks

Mm,
it is possible,
but theres a thing called "pre-cum" and its before he acually starts to ejaculate.

but it is possible,
be careful wit foolin around.

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this is probably the stupidest question ever. lol but if your on birth control would it be ok for the guy to cum inside of you? and have sex without a condom?

Oh no,
thats not a stupid question at all.


Umm yes you could still get pregnant
but thats a small percentage.

mm, but you should still use a condom,
because then that protects you from diseases.

Birth control- helps with not gettin pregnant,
and Condoms- help with not gettin diseases.

So use both of them,
you should be almost perfectly safe.

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What exactly does cherry poppin mean? Where is the CHERRY?????

It means when you have sex
and the guy breaks your hymen.
And you start to bleed when you rip.

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I am freaked out here and I want some assurance. Well, yesterday a guy lay on me and was kissing my mouth and smooching and all and I was fully clothed as in I was wearing a salwar kameez and had my panty, my top of the salwar and my kurta on...and he too had his lungi on...I don't think he came or something but even if he did what are the chances that it would have travelled from his penis to his lungi from there to my bottom and then to my panty and finally to my vagina. And just for the record there was no direct penis-vagina contact at all as throughout I was fully clothed and neither his penis nor his hands touched my vagina or my genitals. Every body's telling me I have nothing to worry but then I just needed some assurance and I am sure this is the best place. Please help me! I am going crazy

Babe,
You have nothing to worry bout
Trust me. You were wearing clothes.
And also, sperm dies when it breaths n` air.

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okay so i've never been fingered before, but i probably will by my boyfriend soon. will i bleed? i use tampons and i have no problem using any size so i don't know if that stretched out the hymen already? also i know this is gross but what if they finger you when you have discharge down there? any help would be appreciated!

The tamp could have stretched out your hymen a lil..
but not that much.


mm no,
you shouldn't bleed, unless there hands are really fkn long.

mm and thats whats supposed to happen.
your supposed to have discharge,
because your obviously going to be horny and wet.

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