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ohk, i work at Taco Bell and i admit that i work with alot of HOT guys. but the only guy i really care about is David. he is always so nice to me and is really cute. i want to be able to hang out with him outside of work but i don't know how to like ask him. any ideas on how i might do that? please help me.

Chelsea (link)
hah omg i go through the same thing so my friends always tell me to just ask if he wants to hang out with us that night and it always works!! just ask him its that simple =)


im 15 from england. i think i might be pregnant..
how much are abortions in england?!
is there any where i can get it done where my parents wont find out??

any where i can go for advice?

please dont judge me..
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ok i no you said dont judge you but abortion are really f***ed up thats just like shooting you own baby


what are some good
indie/emo/rock/alternative bands
i need a new band/song for my myspace
and i dont know of any
i had like every band on there already
help?!
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green day
korn
flyleaf
panic! at the disco
just surrender
huston calls
fallout boy
matchbook romance
mayday parade
coheed and cambria
hawthorn heights
cute is what we aim for
the early november
A.F.I
tegan and sarah
rise aganst
lustra
red hot chilli peppers
taking back sunday
the classic crime
the red jumpsuit appratus
avenges sevenfold
the bloodhound gang
evanescence


i no a lot more.. i just cant think of them lol

message me if i helped


Hey..
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol

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wow that was long lol but im sorry to say this because i can tell you really like him but, i really dont think he wants to go out with you anymore because guys are frigggin retards and they like to be manwhores but seriously think you should dump him or take a break from him because he is not showing any love for you or anything but yeaah i hope i helped


Ok, does anyone know the name of that song in the Car commercialfor I think Yaris and the have a bunny symbol. The commercial starts with a black car and a white car driving around like they're flirting and then all of a sudden there are like a bagillion black and white cars they came about like rabbits breeding ya know? Well, if you know the song please help me out.

-Andrew(the best) (link)
sorry i cant answer it but its not a yaris because i have a yaris but omg i want to no the name of that song too ...


Ok well I just started using tampons and I wanna know if you can wear a tampon in the shower? B/c i gotta take a shower but I like just put a tampon in an hour ago and I don't wanna waste it.

Thanks! (link)
of coarse you can lol thats what there made for....the water it will never get ruiend in the shower lol


ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true? (link)
sorry but no . but you will no when you are ready to have sex


uugh everytime i shave my bikini line i get really bad bumps. i used a new venus razor and shave gel, but they still show up. THEY DO NOT GO AWAYY. lol. what can make them go away? thanks (link)
wax the part where all the bumps are and then just shave all the other parts its easier that way thats what i do



Where do you get a layout like this one

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=46367441


I will rate 5's. THanks (link)
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=46249894

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=72080131



hey well i started listening to like rock, punk rock type of music and i really like it. my fav songs are i write sins not tragedies, a little less sixteen candles, saying sorry, move along, makedamnsure, and lots more

i wanna know more though so my question is what popular songs are from dashboard confessional, AFI, AC/DC, the used, underoath ... u kno like that.

i rate high!! (link)
dashboard confessionals- sailors and saints, anyone anyone, jamie

afi-miss murder, girls not grey, 99 red ballons

acdc-back in black, highway to hell, you shook me all night long, tnt

the used-all iv got, take it away


underoath- alone in december, down set go



hawthorn heights-saying sorry, nikki fm, ohio is for lovers


Can anyone direct me to a website of a store (ex. best buy circut city) that sells something that I can attach my ipod nano to so it will play on my car stereo? (link)
go to ebay they have everything

please rate



where can i get fake coach bags? because i dont want to buy the real ones cause they cost alot.. anyone know anywhere where i can get these? (link)
you can get them off teh internet for a cheap price




Okay, My name is Stephanie and my Boyfriends name is Anthony!! I really want to stay with him he is a real sweety but every one makes funn of me for going out with him!! What should i do brake up with him??

Will rate!!!

Please help!!!
Stephanie (link)
dont break up with him and dont listen to other people who cares what they think so dont let other people make decisions maje your own



Alright so i just created a new screen name for AIM. Whenever i create a screen name my buddy icon always has a black background to it. And i dont want that.. my old screen name didn't have that when i got a buddy icon. But all my new ones do. Is there any way to get rid of it? I will rate all 5s!!! (link)
no there is no way you just need to get a new screen name sorry



A little more than 25 years ago, I met a guy who became a friend. About three years after we met, he took my car out one night, got drunk and smashed it up. I had to pay to tow the car away, junk it, and for tickets. Cost me over $1,000 at the time. He never offered to pay me for the damages to my car.

He was doing bad financially at that time and I figured that later on, when he was doing well, over time he would find some way to compensate me because we were still "friends."

Fast forward 25 years. This "friend" is single and doing well, owns house, car, good job, etc. Last year I borrowed $300 from him to buy emergency plane tickets, and told him I'd pay him back when I could. About three weeks later, he began to demand repayment in full. He was nasty about it so I reminded him about his car wreck 25 years ago. Nobody made him pay then.

He was still angry; I was stunned. No, I did not ever pay him back. The crisis has passed but I want to know, who's right about this? Should he get his $300 back? And what about people who think the passage of time relieves them of their financial and moral obligations? Your help please....

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you are definatly right i dont think you should pay him back thats just rude to do somthing like that and keep reminding him about the thing 25 years ago he will soon understand


Are energy drinks bad for you? People say after the energy wears off, it all crashes and you feel SOOO tired. And how much energy does it give you? And is Red Bull or Rockstar good brands of them?

I'll rate wicked high. (link)
Individual responses to caffeine vary, and these drinks should be treated carefully because of how powerful they are. Energy drinks' stimulating properties can boost the heart rate and blood pressure (sometimes to the point of palpitations), dehydrate the body, and, like other stimulants, prevent sleep.

Energy drinks should not be used while exercising as the combination of fluid loss from sweating and the diuretic quality of the caffeine can leave the user severely dehydrated.

Know what you're drinking. Energy drinks are not necessarily bad for you, but they shouldn't be seen as "natural alternatives" either. Some of the claims they make like "improved performance and concentration" can be misleading. If you think of them as highly-caffeinated drinks, you'll have a more accurate picture of what they are and how they affect you. You wouldn't use Mountain Dew as a sports drink. And a drink like Red Bull and vodka is more like strong coffee and whisky than anything else.




hoped i helped


does anyone know a good site to get icons with quotes or just quotes.

i need good quotes to say goodbye. by friend is moving to another country this year and im making this thing for her but i need goodbye quotes for it.

thanks (link)
www.iconator.com
www.firehotquotes.com
www.mytheme.com
www.brainyquote.com
www.lovepoemsandquotes.com

hope i helped



on instant messaging, i want one of my pictures as my icon. usually this works okay, but not for some of the pictures, it says 'the image you have selected is too big. the maximum size allowed is 7168' .. even when i change the size of the picture to 64 x 64, it still says this. anyone know how to fix it!?


5s for anything that works = ] (link)
ya might wanna try resizing it 50 x 50. it should work then. lol



ok well i have a band myspace and im not a band or singer i accidentaly turned it into a band myspace but i dont like it i would really like to have a regular myspace again is that possible?

please help im dying here

i rate high

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and im not going to delet my myspace ive had it for over a year


Hey today I asked my husband to fix me 2 pop-tarts you'd think all the work involved was poppin em' in the toaster but no he puts butter on the back of them. Have yall ever heard of this? 5's for all thoughts. (link)
ive never herd of that but its pretty funny lol




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