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i'm megan. i like to be different. my name, ibettershakethis, comes from high school musical ;]

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All of the "cool girls" at my school do drugs. All of the guys like them b/c they are easy. This guy I like only likes easy drug girls and I don't kow what to do to make him like me! Help!

honestly girl, i was just like you a few months back. i liked this guy who smoked and did a lot of drugs and i knew he'd party and only like girls who smoked and did drugs, too. he's a really nice person and he's easy to talk to but the drugs was just too much. its a bad habit and you wouldn't want a person whom you care about getting you into something like that. as hard as it may be, i would say to move on from this guy. these types of guys just get into trouble and they're real a-holes.

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I saw this really cute handbag the other day online but i forgot the designer namebrand. I know it was 3 words and the last word i'm pretty sure was 'paris'. I think one of the other words started with an s; sepia or soemthing close to that. I have no clue.
Does anyone have any idea what it can be?

the only 3 worded name i can think of is Yves Saint Laurent. here's a site that lists designer names if it helps:

http://www.apparelsearch.com/Wholesale_Clothing/popular_brand_names_clothes.htm

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Hi i am a 16 year old girl and I really enjoy young adult romance novels like "The Boy Next Door" by Meg Cabot and "15" by Judy Blume. I'm wondering if any of you know of any other good books like that?

my favorite series is the Shopaholic series by Sophie Kinsella. its honestly the best thing i've ever read. its so funny and brilliant you'll never want to put it down. i've also read "All-American Girl" by Meg Cabot (if you haven't already read that) and it was really good. these are pretty girlie books but they're ridiculously fun and you get into them really fast.

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where can i touch a girl to turn her on??

g-spot

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=g-spot

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YEA WELL ITS TRUE BUT I DO WISH I CAN HOLD U MORE CLOSER LIKE MORE THAN A HUG OR FRIENDS U KNOW WAT I MEAN



what does this mean?

this means that this person wants to date you. i'm assuming they're already your friend but they want something more in your relationship.

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I am very overweight and I tried to go on a diet but then I started eating. I can't control myself and I need to get skinny in 3 monthes , I need to lose 30 to 40 pounds! I need it real bad and I don't know what to do in excercize , I know how to eat right though and my mom planned to jog every morning but it isn't enough! I need help! What can I do??

you should definitely still eat but just watch your portion sizes.
-try following the suggested amount for serving size on the nutrition facts. if it says 10 pretzels, put 10 pretzels in a bowl and eat only those.
- if you're still feeling hungry, fill up on water. water is the best thing for you because it will keep you hydrated and feeling full.
-and never snack in front of the tv. if you're going to watch tv do it at night or in the morning or sometime when you're not going to be eating. people tend to overeat when placed in front of a television.
-also, limit your snack foods to only 1 per day. consider that your desert, too. and if you do eat a snack food, pair it with something healthy like an apple.

for the exercise, pick up any issue of cosmogirl or seventeen magazine for helpful exercises. they always work for me and leave me panting by the end!

i hope you reach your desired goal!

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im 15/f. whenever i find out a guy i like is gonna ask me out my immediate thoughts are: how is this going to end? if we date am i going to end up breaking up with him? will he end up hurting me? will we end up hating each other? this always happens and it ruins everything. how can i stop focusing on it ending when it hasnt even begun?

have you ever seen the movie/read the book The Secret? well its all about turning your feelings around. instead of thinking about the future and how sucky it's going to be, think about the present and how good it is already and what positive things are going to happen next. instead of thinking of "how will it end" think of "how will it begin?". think about "i wonder if he's going to be really romantic about how he asks me out?" think "i wonder where we can go on our first date" "how will our first kiss be? where will it be?"

never think about "how will this end?" because that will just make it end. think of "how will it start and be successful?" because then it can start and be successful.

p.s. seriously see the movie The Secret. it changed my life.

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is it unnatractive to guys if girls dont shave "down there"? i dont normally shave it all because it comes back all scratchy and it bothers me alot. i usually just cut most of it

i think that if it bothers you you shouldn't shave down there. cutting it is perfectly fine and its not like a guy is going to be all in that area on the first date. also, guys don't shave down there either so it shouldn't be up to them if you shave or not. do whatever is at your comfort level.

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I'm 13, in 8th grade, and I was wondering if anyone knew any good 3/4 songs that I could use to waltz to. My friend Brian and I are going to choreograph a routine for our school talent show, and I was thinking of doing "Lover, you should've come over" by Jamie Cullum. They don't have to be popular, but alternitive, pop, or jazz waltzes are good. Sort of popular, but nothing like R&B or anything.

Just pretty much, not classical music, because then people will be less likely to like it (immature I know, but it's the truth). And if it helps, I will probably be wearing a long, strapless red dress and he'll be wearing a black suit.

Thanks very much! My friend & I appreciate your answers. :]

well i know that anything by Michael Buble is really great for a jazz type of dance. but they're usually 4/4 and not 3/4. personally i like the song "save the last dance for me" by him but its 4/4. i mean its a popular song but i'm not sure if its what you're looking for.

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I go to the gym 5 times a week, i get on the eliptical for 45 mins then the stairmaster for 10 mins. What other excersises can I do to tone up my tummy area?

for your stomach i would definitely suggest doing some sort of ab workout. what you're doing right now is just working on your hamstrings and calf muscles. you should definitely keep doing these exercises but i would also work on something with abs like these workouts:

http://magazines.ivillage.com/marieclaire/mind/health/articles/0,,434735_637051-2,00.html

if you're into something simpler, just try doing crunches and sit-ups. 50 of these a day should start you off fine and add more if you think you can handle it. you may not see effects immediately but they will start to work.

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Ok, today I met this kid that I thought was sooo cute. I didnt say anything more than hi to him. But he seems so nice and funny. Well the thing is he goes to a different school the next town over. I want to find out more about this boy and I know someone who goes to school with him but we dont really get along. Would it be weird for me to ask her about him and plus we barely know each other so would it be stalkerish?

P.S. I'm 15/f

if i were you, i would find his facebook if he has one (and i'm assuming you have one) or his myspace. if you find it, you should leave a cute, flirty message something like "remember me? ;)"

if you or he doesn't have a facebook/myspace, i would find out where he hangs out. if he plays basketball, go to one of his basketball games with a friend and pretend to run into him and pull it off real casually like you were there to see a friend on the opposing team but you just 'happened' to run into him.

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hey sorry this is my other account you said try to spray saltwater in your hair lol i never heard of that? what exactly does that do?

well for me, whenever i go into the ocean my hair gets really wavy and i have a spray bottle full of salt water at home to give the same effect. it may or may not work on your hair, though. if it doesn't work, there's a product called Surf Hair by Garnier Fructis that gives the same effect. you can find it at your local drugstore.

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Hi.

I'm not a big fan of dresses, but I would like to try the style out.

What are some websites that sell dresses that are comfortable and you can wear out shopping, or with friends? Nothing to fancy. I really like the punkish style too.

Thanks.

i know forever21.com has some really fun but also out-there dresses. personally, i like them because their not girlie and their not real fancy.

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Does anyone know a site that I can go to to get the piano sheet music to "Because of you"? It needs to be free and downloadable, as well as printable. Thanks in advance.

http://www.qualitysheetmusic.com/files/uploads/103105/KellyClarkson-BecauseofYou.pdf

i hope this was what you're looking for

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so ok this is my problem. theres this really nice guy in my english class. hes really funny and everything. last week he instant messaged me saying that he like me i told him that i like him to. then over the weekend we watched a movie and we did some shit that i normally never do on a first date but its just how it happened. He says were not exclusive or anything which really confuses me since weve done a lot of shit allready. i told him i dont just hook up with guys i date and have boyfriends and he said the same yet we havent gone on a actual date. last night i told him that i couldnt help but feel that he just wanted a piece of ass and he responded with i dunno. Does he just want sex or could there be something else?

this guy is just trying to get in your pants. i would ditch this loser if i were you. you're into totally different things and its not meant to be. right now, he thinks he's in control because he can control the status of your relationship. get into control girl and dump his ass.

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do guys like it when girls shave.. like down there?

i think it depends on how much experience this guy has had in that department. like if you know he's been around, he's probably been with girls who shave and who don't shave. at this point he's developed an opinion and would probably prefer girls who shave. if this guy doesn't go that far with girls a lot, he probably hasn't seen too many to compare you with so you shouldn't bother.

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okay, well i can't seem to find this anywhere, so if someone could help me interperet my dream, that would be great.

well i'm in 8th grade now & i had a dream that it was the first day of high school & i just walked into the main office to get my schedule. well i was really late & nervous... & i found a staple remover on one of the lady's desks & i pushed it into the palmside of my thumb (like the part that you push down when you get your thumb printed) & pointer finger of my righthand, & it started bleeding [ a lot ] & stinging.

can someone please explain to me what that means? i'll take ANYTHING. thanks!

i think this is just a subconscious release of your inner timidness. basically, its just your nervousness in dream form. i wouldn't worry about it too much because honestly high school is not that big and scary as it's cracked up to be. if you're really nervous about your first day, i would wear a fun, new outfit. that's what i always do. because you know SOMEONE will give you a compliment and it just brightens your mood and boosts your confidence. good luck ;]

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Alright, well- to say the least, my legs are absolutely hideous. They're white as a ghost, I have spider veins, stretch marks, scars, little black dots where my hair comes out, and HUGEEE thighs. I just hate it.

So, here's the thing. With summer coming, I don't want to be in Bermuda shorts the whole time-that's what I did last year & I felt like a total fool. But, when I did wear shorts or skirts or ANYTHING that revealed the upper thigh, I was totally embarrassed. I want to wear short skirts/shorts and look hot.

Please don't tell me to be happy with the way I am & not to feel like a fool ...

has everyone forgotten about a-line skirts?!

like this
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Skirts&product%5Fid=2035529190&Page=1

something in that shape will really hide the imperfections and size of your thighs. they're fun and flirty and have the same effects that micromini skirts do without looking like a sleaze.

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so im a sophmore girl and all be 16 soon all my friends have gone pretty far with a boy and well me, i havnt. when my friends ask me how far i have gone im kind of ashamed of the truth so i exagerate the truth a little, well.......a lot!so they all think im something im not. what should i do, i'll sound like an idiot if im just like "just kidding i havnt gone that far". so a little help please?
and i have had the chance to go further but im scared of not doing something right or if the boy thinks im dumb or if i do something tsupid so yeah

i am in the same boat, girl. i'm 15 and i'm a sophomore. the most i've done is kiss but do i care? hell no. if someone is willing to go that extra mile and judge you by your experience, they're not worth it. when someone asks me how far i've been with a guy i tell them "what does it matter to you? will you feel better about yourself if i tell you? will you be jealous if i tell you? why do you care?". okay i've only said that once, and in a bad case, but you get what i mean. just don't do anything because everyone else is doing it. seriously. my friend wanted to have a boyfriend just to have a boyfriend and i thought it was the biggest mistake of her life. this guy ended up cheating on her and i told her that it was karma. its not about how much experience you have, its about the purpose of each experience. make each experience you have meaningful and don't worry about how many experiences you have. quality not quantity, baby ;)

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I recently bought a puppy, a male teacup yorkshire terrier. What are some good names. He's dark brownish/black with alittle cream and white on his face. and he only weighs 1 pound if that helps.

wow i really really like the names ANG listed. i also think that Charles or Meatball are fun names. for dogs, you would generally want something 2 or more syllables to separate the single-syllabled NO from his name.

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